MetroNYGal
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- May 23, 2014
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- 52
Although this may not be the site for it, I've discovered I need more than role play or sex talk. I'm looking for real life and a real connection. I want someone to have fun with, and that's not just a euphemism for sex. 
I'm an attractive woman who gets more than enough offers to be bedded, but I need more. Yes, I am married and planning to stay that way for now, so its that much more difficult to find quality. Take your judgment elsewhere, please; if you don't agree with my choices that's fine, but I don't need your input.
I'm looking for a long-term friendship, starting with conversations with those who can live with the idea that there might not be a physical relationship if there isn't a spark. I long to flirt and banter with someone; not start with sex but instead by getting to know each other. If the spark is there and the connection made, sex will definitely be part of the equation. You'll be someone I like and want, to fill the emotional and physical void, and I should be that to you. I'm realistic about what such a relationship can be and what it cannot.
While looks are FAR from everything, they are something. Attraction is a part of this. My tastes run to the tall and lean, but there are no hard and fast rules. I've had sparks with men of 5'10" with a little extra padding too. So I don't have a checklist, but at some point I'm going to want to see your eyes, your smile, your hands.
If you contact me remember that I'm looking for a relationship, not just a one-night stand. I'm not changing my life, I'm changing how I live it.
(Although I know the caution and suspicion with which new profiles are approached, I am choosing to post this under a new pseudonym although I do have another presence on these boards. Should we begin a conversation, I will happily tell you that profile name. I think I just would prefer to keep my real life search separate from my online anonymity for the moment. )
EDITED TO ADD: I am 46, generally looking in the 38-55-ish range. I am also looking for someone close enough to actually "date," as I need more than just virtual anything. I have already received some great replies and need to find some alone time to reply back.
I'm an attractive woman who gets more than enough offers to be bedded, but I need more. Yes, I am married and planning to stay that way for now, so its that much more difficult to find quality. Take your judgment elsewhere, please; if you don't agree with my choices that's fine, but I don't need your input.I'm looking for a long-term friendship, starting with conversations with those who can live with the idea that there might not be a physical relationship if there isn't a spark. I long to flirt and banter with someone; not start with sex but instead by getting to know each other. If the spark is there and the connection made, sex will definitely be part of the equation. You'll be someone I like and want, to fill the emotional and physical void, and I should be that to you. I'm realistic about what such a relationship can be and what it cannot.
While looks are FAR from everything, they are something. Attraction is a part of this. My tastes run to the tall and lean, but there are no hard and fast rules. I've had sparks with men of 5'10" with a little extra padding too. So I don't have a checklist, but at some point I'm going to want to see your eyes, your smile, your hands.
If you contact me remember that I'm looking for a relationship, not just a one-night stand. I'm not changing my life, I'm changing how I live it.
(Although I know the caution and suspicion with which new profiles are approached, I am choosing to post this under a new pseudonym although I do have another presence on these boards. Should we begin a conversation, I will happily tell you that profile name. I think I just would prefer to keep my real life search separate from my online anonymity for the moment. )
EDITED TO ADD: I am 46, generally looking in the 38-55-ish range. I am also looking for someone close enough to actually "date," as I need more than just virtual anything. I have already received some great replies and need to find some alone time to reply back.
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