Newbie to Literotica

[Damned_1]

Hi, I'm new to Lit (OBVIOUSLY), and thought I'd throw myself out there for everyone to say hi to, or ignore, depending on your present mood. I'm a Dom, married to my Sub, with two kids, and looking for, well, whatever comes my way. FYI, my Sub is fully aware and supportive.

So, hello to you all, and have a good day.

 

[SwtSassyNrse26]

Welcome

 

[Damned_1]

Thanks

 

[Prince Albert]

As SSN said, welcome. What are looking for?? And are you male/female??

 

[Damned_1]

Sorry all, I'm male, looking for a female sub

 

[eliteonly]

Welcome. And enjoy. Lots of great people here... Even if you just sit back and people watch.

 

[Damned_1]

People watching is always a blast lol.

 

[mouthybrunette]

Hello and welcome to Lit.

What are you looking for in a sub?

 

[Damned_1]

Thank you Mouthy. What I look for in a sub is someone whom I can trust to do their best to please me, and who can trust me to take care of them, whatever the situation. Trust takes time, but I'd like to find someone with whom I click to see if we can develope that trust.

 

[DiablosWhore]

Thank you Mouthy. What I look for in a sub is someone whom I can trust to do their best to please me, and who can trust me to take care of them, whatever the situation. Trust takes time, but I'd like to find someone with whom I click to see if we can develope that trust.

How old are you?
Where are you?
Are you seeking real life or online chat?
How much experience do you have as a Dom?
How many subs have been in relationships with you?
What do you look like?
What do you do for money?
How educated are you?

Your profile is almost blank, yet you expect someone to trust you for something? How? Why?

 

[Damned_1]

Good questions, diabloswhore. I don't expect anyone to trust me out of the blue, and will start filling out my profile as soon as I have a free minute. In the mean time, would you like to have those questions answered, or were they rhetorical?

 

[DiablosWhore]

Good questions, diabloswhore. I don't expect anyone to trust me out of the blue, and will start filling out my profile as soon as I have a free minute. In the mean time, would you like to have those questions answered, or were they rhetorical?

Just trying to help you .....and to help any submissive that might have been interested ...EXCEPT... for a lack of info on your part. How can someone just begin trusting you unless you're at least willing to tell them a little something about yourself?

 

[Damned_1]

I'm perfectly willing to tell people about myself. I guess I feel that reading a profile is a lot less personal, and doesn't really tell you as much, as talking to someone and learning about them that way.

Though I have started filling out my profile.

 

[StripperSlutWife]

I'm perfectly willing to tell people about myself. I guess I feel that reading a profile is a lot less personal, and doesn't really tell you as much, as talking to someone and learning about them that way.

Though I have started filling out my profile.

Good! Just a basic few facts, and a general description of your interests (sexual and/or otherwise) may seem a bit impersonal but really it does two things: it shows that you're willing to put a little time and effort in; and it offers a glimpse into what makes you tick, inviting anyone who likes the wrapper to want a peek at the package inside. (double entendre alert!)

I think I speak for many (by no means all) women on lit, when I say that when several men clamor for our attention, the ones with no bio and no posts (or few posts that say almost nothing) get lost in the shuffle. While someone with a somewhat detailed profile and a thing or two to say in recent posts is more likely to elicit a reply - especially if our interests match up.

 

[Damned_1]

At the risk of sounding like a jackass, anyone willing to tell me what else I might put in my profile?

 

[mouthybrunette]

At the risk of sounding like a jackass, anyone willing to tell me what else I might put in my profile?

Looks good

 

[Damned_1]

Lol Thanks!

 

[dreamykitten2]

Welcome to Lit!

Hi, I'm new to Lit (OBVIOUSLY), and thought I'd throw myself out there for everyone to say hi to, or ignore, depending on your present mood. I'm a Dom, married to my Sub, with two kids, and looking for, well, whatever comes my way. FYI, my Sub is fully aware and supportive.

So, hello to you all, and have a good day.

May I say that I'm somewhat jealous of your situation! Married to your sub! What I wouldn't give to have a situation such as yours! I'm a switch but my SO has no idea. I'm actually afraid to tell him. I don't know what he would think and since I'm not prepared to leave my situation I just keep it to myself. I do have playmates in RL and no he wouldn't approve of that either. But I'm very careful and just can't stop. I really feel like I wouldn't be whole if I stopped. I know it's a strange situation but I just don't want to go back to the unfulfilling life I had previously.
Thanks for letting me share!

Kitten

 

[Damned_1]

Update: I found out this morning that my sub is NOT as supportive as she proclaimed to be, as she replied to an email sent to me in a very hostile manner. Needless to say, she'll be punished for her rudeness and lack of communication with me.

So, I will no longer be looking for another sub. I will however, keep talking to the good people of Lit, as long as they keep talking to me. Have a good day, all!