New Dynamic

[Joankraig]

For some time my husband and I have enjoyed MFM's - going away our favorite sexual activity. We recently were introduced to a "cuckold dom" (his description) and began a "relationship". What I have found curious and a bit unable to understand is that activities we have done for years together now take on a different, even more erotic tone. Over the years my husband has watched me have sex with a lot (a lot) of different men. Many times he has cleaned up, licking their cum out of me. Now when we are doing the same activities - this time being "forced" and we find ourselves being turned on in new ways. Now there have been some new 'activities' introduced - pushed a boundary or two - but I don't think it's these new wrinkles accounting for our new arousals. Each time we have met, when my husband and I are heading home we each have this feeling of "I don't really get it", but "wow, what a turn on". So much for old dogs and new tricks.

 

[BlondieSinner29]

Lucky lady. It sounds like your enjoying yourself. I think it's important not to push boundries though, because sometimes it can complicate things. Luck my husband wants me to watch him have sex with other women but I have years of resentment when it comes to alot of women because they have jealousy issues, and habits of wanting to hog his attention. I used to watch him by the bus stop talking to these college girls. He's 51. I'm 28. Sometimes there younger then me even.

And it upsets me, and I know my boundry becomes pushed when I start acting weird and distant towards him, and I just want to get the sex over with you know?

But with men it's totally different. They get horny, and they have the ability to set aside love, for sex sometimes a little bit easier then women, but not always.

And if your okay with pushing limits with your husband, then go for it, but if it gets to be to much. It's always important to bring that up to him. He should probably know that this is
weighing on your mind, don't you think?

 

[thelovingsadist]

But with men it's totally different. They get horny, and they have the ability to set aside love, for sex sometimes a little bit easier then women, but not always.

While I don't really get off on the cuckhold side of things and I can't speak for other men, I will say that I've never once set aside love for anything -- least of all sex. Loving someone deeply and wanting to do things for them and with them because you love them and want to experiment or experience new things with them is, I feel, something entirely different than trying to ignore or set aside romantic feelings in order to experience something you desire regardless of the person you love and how they feel about it.

If I were to ever put my feelings for someone on the shelf in order to do something, kinky or mundane, I'd immediately start to question whether or not I actually love that person.

 

[swmichcuck]

cuckold's take

It takes a certain type of man to be able to submit in this way to their wife. Submissive in nature is a given but the level of power she wields over you is what does it for me. She is an expert at humiliation and I thrive on it. "Prove how much you love me cucky" is all I need to hear and I'm willing to do almost anything for her.
I have a small package to start with so it makes it easier for me to yield to the more well hung bull, especially if he is black. . . adds to the submissiveness. Having her force me to suck the thick black cock get's me off. The only way I get to shoot is on her feet and lick them clean. Foot fetish is one of my kinks so that too is arousing to me.
She has changed from a meek and somewhat prudish wife to a powerful, sometimes evil Dominatrix who gets off on her power over me. When no bull is available we also share a well versed bdsm relationship as well. I love pain and she loves to administer it.
Definitely not the lifestyle for many, even for most folks, but it works for us and for most true cuckold couples. I initialized this so I am willing and eager to please my wife as she sees fit.
Good luck to you in your discovery path.
PM me if you'd like to discuss further.

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

You aren't using protection!