Threesome/group sex archives

[Cruel2BKind]

I wanted to wait a few days before posting this. I wanted to see if my opinion changed over time, or if I regretted it, or anything.

On last Monday evening, I had a threesome with my friend and her boyfriend. I agreed to do it almost right away, kind of detached-like when it was still earlier in the day and we were just hanging out. It odds me out that I was so detached and unemotional about it, but I wont lie that it doesn't make it easier.

Also, her boyfriend was one of those champs who can go for a few rounds, so he was able to keep us both satisfied. Now I really want to have an MMF threesome, but that kind of thing seems like it wont ever happen.

Here's hoping.

How many people in AH have had threesomes or group sex in real life? How early? Did it confuse things between relationships, cause resentment? FFF, FFM, MMF, or MMM?

 

[Handley_Page]

Please forgive me, but I thought this sort of excitement only happened in fiction.

 

[Bramblethorn]

A few times, yeah. I've been in some long-term poly relationships that started out with group fun in threes and occasionally fours, but that wasn't a regular party of things. Even when we had a triad relationship, it usually ended up with two in bed at a time. Partly just scheduling issues (God that sounds unsexy!) but also because with three, it's easy to end up with two concentrating on one another and the third feeling left out. Easier to alternate.

Jealousy: one of the people involved had convinced themselves intellectually that they were fine with poly stuff, but had major jealousy issues that they were in denial about. That led to some awful fireworks several years down the road. Mostly people were okay; it does take work and communication to keep things like that running, and we had hiccups along the way, but the physical side of things wasn't the issue.

 

[Bramblethorn]

Please forgive me, but I thought this sort of excitement only happened in fiction.

It happens, but it's a lot less SUDDEN UNEXPECTED ORGY and a lot more "how about next weekend?" "That's no good for me, can't get a babysitter" than Literotica stories tend to suggest. At least, in my experience.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

My mind is filled with a scene of hogs wallowing and grunting with contentment and a few squeals of excitement. Is that close?

Treat your skin for ring-worms.

 

[lovecraft68]

I've had a few ffm and one mfm. I'm not bi so no MMF. I think I have those abbreviations right.

My first I was 17 and it was the girl I was dating and her best friend which seems the most typical set up.

The best was one I had when I was in my early twenties. It was with a woman in her late thirties I had been fucking(could not say dating and it was more like she was fucking me) and one of her friends who was visiting from out of town and I think married, so me between two cougars. It went all weekend and I had to call out of work Monday.


As for detached? I think I know the feeling, but I saw it more as a feeling of the surreal than being detached. I spent a lot of it with "Is this really happening?"

 

[StrangeLife]

MFM and FMF.

First time when I was 19 and a few times since. Last it was a birthday gift.

No serious problems, except for one guy who turned a bit "stalkerish" afterwards and thus had to be cut from our social circles. I prefer FMF with bi-sexual girls, since I'm not into guys. Consequently MFM usually turns into tag-teaming...

 

[Hypoxia]

I was in an FFM for several months till we all went off to different schools, and an FMM off-and-on for several years till one became terminally ill. We had the usual dynamics of diverse personalities not always in sync, but no great jealousies nor antagonisms. I miss the closeness.

 

[Cruel2BKind]

Please forgive me, but I thought this sort of excitement only happened in fiction.

That's why I thought this thread would be kind of cool. Real threesome experiences, rather than the 'letters to penthouse' variety.

On my friend It felt a lot more like duty than like fun. I count myself as bisexual only if we mean that I can appreciate the female form, I will bite the belt and reciprocate if I need to, and I'm apparently really good at cunnilingis.

My friend was the first person I had a sexual experience with. I never really thought of it that way because I bought into the whole 'lesbian stuff doesn't count' bullshit. She ate me out a long time ago. (too long ago to be explicitly described) And I think that half of the reason I agreed to her gentle teasing about it. The other half was that I had just gotten out of a long and mostly sexless relationship.

That's why I wish more guys would be into MMF. You don't have to be having the time of your lives. I know a surprising number of people who have been in MFF threesomes (mostly with this one friend as one of the Fs, she practically DEVOURED most of her female friends in high school) and most of the ladies weren't into other ladies. They did it to try something new, to help out my friend, to pay her back, etc.

It really seems that when push comes to shove, an F will go to greater sexier lengths to please her M, or her friend's M.

 

[Cruel2BKind]

As for detached? I think I know the feeling, but I saw it more as a feeling of the surreal than being detached. I spent a lot of it with "Is this really happening?"

Her boyfriend (the filling for this manwich) thought that I was joking, right up until the moment I wobbled, slightly drunk, into their bedroom with my top off.

Maybe I was detached because I wasn't looking forward to it as much as you probably did. I wasn't sitting down to two hot cougars splitting me like dessert. I was signing up for half of a dude, and a responsibility to bury my face in my least-favorite set of genitals.

I can only imagine how composed I would be if two sexy older gentlemen offered to share me.

 

[patientlee]

Nope. I'm super boring.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

That's why I thought this thread would be kind of cool. Real threesome experiences, rather than the 'letters to penthouse' variety.

On my friend It felt a lot more like duty than like fun. I count myself as bisexual only if we mean that I can appreciate the female form, I will bite the belt and reciprocate if I need to, and I'm apparently really good at cunnilingis.

My friend was the first person I had a sexual experience with. I never really thought of it that way because I bought into the whole 'lesbian stuff doesn't count' bullshit. She ate me out a long time ago. (too long ago to be explicitly described) And I think that half of the reason I agreed to her gentle teasing about it. The other half was that I had just gotten out of a long and mostly sexless relationship.

That's why I wish more guys would be into MMF. You don't have to be having the time of your lives. I know a surprising number of people who have been in MFF threesomes (mostly with this one friend as one of the Fs, she practically DEVOURED most of her female friends in high school) and most of the ladies weren't into other ladies. They did it to try something new, to help out my friend, to pay her back, etc.

It really seems that when push comes to shove, an F will go to greater sexier lengths to please her M, or her friend's M.

Any idea how boring this is? Put it on the Personals board. I mean, if your thrill was something new under the sun, but it isn't. You got laid. Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

 

[Cruel2BKind]

Any idea how boring this is? Put it on the Personals board. I mean, if your thrill was something new under the sun, but it isn't. You got laid. Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

Dear? The grown-ups are talking now. Go back to the general boards for a juice box and some racism.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Dear? The grown-ups are talking now. Go back to the general boards for a juice box and some racism.

We're thrilled you finally got laid but does it warrant a thread? Was it Barack and Hillary?

 

[Cruel2BKind]

We're thrilled you finally got laid but does it warrant a thread? Was it Barack and Hillary?

I was curious about other people's experiences. Like Hadley, I also assumed that threesomes didn't happen much in real life (or at least not to someone boring like me). I wanted to know about people's real threesomes. That's why I called the thread an archive. I'm sorry if that wasn't clear.

Have you ever had a threesome?

 

[Cruel2BKind]

Nope. I'm super boring.

That's what I thought, until last monday.

Maybe your threesome has yet to pass.

 

[StrangeLife]

Nope. I'm super boring.

Or maybe you are so entertaining in your own right that there is no need for more people...

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

I was curious about other people's experiences. Like Hadley, I also assumed that threesomes didn't happen much in real life (or at least not to someone boring like me). I wanted to know about people's real threesomes. That's why I called the thread an archive. I'm sorry if that wasn't clear.

Have you ever had a threesome?

I fucked three gals at a German club, but not together. Yuh see, what it was, was a place with girls from every where, every color, size, etc. Three was all I could do in a row. I wasn't impressed with the Swede. Generally speaking, fucking 2 girls together is like playing two pianos simultaneously. Its a novelty with no appeal.

 

[patientlee]

Or maybe you are so entertaining in your own right that there is no need for more people...

Yeah. We'll go with that!

 

[patientlee]

That's what I thought, until last monday.

Maybe your threesome has yet to pass.

I'm gonna go with what SL said.

 

[MSTarot]

As for detached? I think I know the feeling, but I saw it more as a feeling of the surreal than being detached. I spent a lot of it with "Is this really happening?"

Yeah, been in a few of those "okay am I dreaming this?" kind of moments.

A couple even happened when I was sober.

And yes I've been in a couple of three and four person 'sleepovers' shall we say. A couple of friends we know and now know very well.

MST

 

[soflabbwlvr]

I've been in two FFM threesomes. The first one occurred as the result of an exhaustive two year search through every hook up website and service on the internet after my wife indicated a willingness to try it. The second was a random drunken encounter on new year's eve. The sex was far more memorable the first time, but the second is a much more interesting story.

We have done countless MFFM encounters over the years. Mostly just two couples, but several times three and even five on one occasion.

My earliest group experience happened when I was about 25 or 26. It wasn't so much a group participation event, but more of two couples going at it in the same room with the lights on. There was a lot of looking at the other bed, but no touching.

I have also participated in several situations with 1 woman and 4-5 guys.

 

[Cruel2BKind]

I fucked three gals at a German club, but not together. Yuh see, what it was, was a place with girls from every where, every color, size, etc. Three was all I could do in a row. I wasn't impressed with the Swede. Generally speaking, fucking 2 girls together is like playing two pianos simultaneously. Its a novelty with no appeal.

I thought the novelty was two of them going at you at once so your hands are always busy and you always have someone nibbling at your junk.

That's how mine went. Taking turns being the one spoiled.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

I thought the novelty was two of them going at you at once so your hands are always busy and you always have someone nibbling at your junk.

That's how mine went. Taking turns being the one spoiled.

HOW I WOULD EXPERIENCE A 3SOME
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AnQdP03iYIo
Cognitive torture
I could be autistic.

 

[Acktion]

Mmm. For me, it was more of a feeling of waiting for the "gotcha" moment that would reveal it was all a prank. But, yeah, I can empathize with that feeling of sort of floating up and behind your head somewhere looking at what was happening.

I think for me personally, the weirdest were the two sets of sisters. (Separate events.) Quite literally, I kept waiting for the one I was supposedly involved with who caught me with the other to come unhinged. Even when we were all three naked and rutting away I couldn't quite believe that there wasn't some malice hidden in there somewhere. Because, as you say, that sort of thing just doesn't happen in reality. Not without some money changing hands or something anyway and I'm neither that rich, that famous, nor that good looking.

I've generally always been pretty clueless about just what it is that gets some people together en flagrante and not others. That may be why each of my experiences were not a planned thing but spur of the moment with me not quite sure what was happening until I was in the middle of a pile of nude bodies. Just how much planning they might or might not have done, I don't know. Just that I wasn't aware of any such plan until it was happening.

(Although, that usually described my one on one events also. )

In general, it's been my experiences that the women are a little more okay with group scenarios than men. I don't pretend to be smart enough to know why that is, just that it's what I've seen.

And that most Ms are more okay with more than one F than they are with another or several other Ms. I'm not saying than any can or can't work out afterwards as well as during or prior, but in my experiences it was usually a Male that had some issues and none of three multiple male experiences ended favorably the next day (or next week).

Probably the worst was the one that evolved from two twosomes in the dark and then my girlfriend left leaving me the odd man out. My buddy's girl invited me over to their bed and he said he didn't mind. Then, one week later, he broke up with her "because she had a fat ass". But, her ass hadn't changed at all from the day he had met her. At first she wouldn't see me and then when she finally did, she told me that she didn't want to remember that night because of how he treated her after and so didn't want to go out with me either even though I'd broken up with my girlfriend and didn't hang out with him anymore after he showed his ass over it.

For me, I tend to take the view that I don't regret anything I've done but a few times that I didn't take a chance when something might've happened. And even though I don't see those people anymore, or keep in touch with them, I still have memories that are beautiful golden happy times to me.