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Okay, so I had a guy today ask when my cycle was, start and end. Then he asked for pictures of it.
I am pretty open minded when it comes to kinks, but I don't understand the appeal?
During this time I'm cranky, crampy, bloated, and the last thing I feel comfortable with is sex. I feel horrid and disgusting during this time of the month... how could anyone be attracted to me then?

Someone please explain to me the appeal of being covered in blood and tell more if I'm over thinking this or not...
(It's not that I think it's wrong or gross. I just feel so self conscious I can't understand the arousal in that type of situation.)
Enlighten me?
:heart:
 
Okay, so I had a guy today ask when my cycle was, start and end. Then he asked for pictures of it.
I am pretty open minded when it comes to kinks, but I don't understand the appeal?
During this time I'm cranky, crampy, bloated, and the last thing I feel comfortable with is sex. I feel horrid and disgusting during this time of the month... how could anyone be attracted to me then?

Someone please explain to me the appeal of being covered in blood and tell more if I'm over thinking this or not...
(It's not that I think it's wrong or gross. I just feel so self conscious I can't understand the arousal in that type of situation.)
Enlighten me?
:heart:

I am with you on this one! I don't understand the appeal either! When a woman doesn't feel sexy and is cranky along with everything else involved it shows. I think its just best to not go there. Although I am sure, some feel differently!
 
Maybe it's how some men try to comfort their menstruating ladies... orgasms relieve pain..
 
I think we're talking two different things here.

One is sex during a period. Many women are far to uncomfortable(physically and mentally) for it and many guys are not enthused about seeing blood on their cock.

MY wife has no interest her fist couple of heavy days, but nearer the end she says she has some pretty strong orgasms and I don;t mind a little mess.

But that is sex during.

What you're saying with this guy is he wants details and pics. This is someone with a period fetish. In fact not to be disgusting, but I would not be surprised if scat would be an option with him so someone with a "cycle" fetish is a little different than what you may do-or not do-with an existing partner.
 
It is two separate things, but I am asking about both I suppose. I guess what I want to know is, if it is a fetish why do the find it so arousing, and if a guy is okay with it what makes it okay? Is it the getting off, getting her off?
What is so horribly wrong with it from a man's point of view, and am I overreacting to this? Should I be more open minded.

I know while masturbating using only clitoral stimulation Ive reached some of my most powerful orgasms while menstruating.
 
I think many fetishes are for things that are considered off limits or whatever. It isn't the fetish as much as the idea that it's taboo.
 
that time

Guys are just horn dogs with an ass as cute as your I couldn't see anytime of the month being off limits
 
I guess so...
And that's not me silly boy
It's close though. So very close. I'm a tad heavier around the shoulder area.
 
just send him a copy of a calender and mark a start and end on it and let him cream all over it like a boy looking a porn for the first time
 
He wanted you to send him a picture of it? :confused: As in, what, shots of your used maxi pads and tampons? How the hell do you send a picture of your menstrual cycle?

I knew someone once who rented a room in a house from this guy. He was a little odd to begin with, but seemed polite and respectful. Until, one day, he asked her if she would save him her freshly removed tampons...just put them in a sandwich bag and slide them under his bedroom door.

Yeah, she moved out, pronto.
 
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Can't speak for anyone but myself--, but I liked to have sex on her menstruation periods because her body heat is very much raised. It is almost like that of a woman who is pregnant.
The extra heat and the extra slipperiness--, to, too intense!
 
My first wife got very horny on her period. I obliged her. I don't think I ever said no.
 
In my experiences, the women I have been with have all been much hornier during their periods, I was comfortable with it. It washes off, so why not.
 
He wanted you to send him a picture of it? :confused: As in, what, shots of your used maxi pads and tampons? How the hell do you send a picture of your menstrual cycle?

I knew someone once who rented a room in a house from this guy. He was a little odd to begin with, but seemed polite and respectful. Until, one day, he asked her if she would save him her freshly removed tampons...just put them in a sandwich bag and slide them under his bedroom door.

Yeah, she moved out, pronto.

I know someone that when he was an older teen worked at a gas station back in the 70s. His coworker would always volunteer to clean the women's bathroom because he could pull out the used tampons in the little trash and sniff them.
 
Not exactly a fetish for me, but that time of month does not turn me off. I've proudly earned my red wings ;)

She is warmer and more lubricated and it is terribly naughty. What isn't to like? It washes off in the shower.
 
Okay, so I had a guy today ask when my cycle was, start and end. Then he asked for pictures of it.
I am pretty open minded when it comes to kinks, but I don't understand the appeal?
During this time I'm cranky, crampy, bloated, and the last thing I feel comfortable with is sex. I feel horrid and disgusting during this time of the month... how could anyone be attracted to me then?

Someone please explain to me the appeal of being covered in blood and tell more if I'm over thinking this or not...
(It's not that I think it's wrong or gross. I just feel so self conscious I can't understand the arousal in that type of situation.)
Enlighten me?
:heart:

EVERYONE, has fetish, some more off the charts than others.... Everyone has a comfort zone...leaving it; is at your own risk.....

being covered blood....refer to my first comment. Yes, it is gross, and no you shouldn't fee self-conscious. You should turn and walk away from them, quickly. next they'll want a stool sample:eek::eek:

you've been enlightened
 
I haven't heard that one before. I have known men (and women) who like sex during their period but not the pics.

However, as a few people have pointed out it is just a fetish. Aside from being foreign to you, did the request come across as being a harbinger of something unpleasant in his personality? If you don't enjoy doing it don't do it but if it is a matter of making you uncomfortable, ask yourself why.

I don't think we need to embrace all of our partners' funky desires but if you want open and honest relationships......well you can't expect people to be open with you if you go "eeewwwww" and run away when something comes up that doesn't do it for you.
 
Good time to go bareback without the prego worries. Of course there is the disease aspect if the situation warrants that concern. Still, I did know a few who were very horny after the first couple of days. For me, it never bothered me nor did it excite me. The menstruation was simply a monthly event, good or unpleasant.
 
I will have sex with a lady when her Aunt Flo is in town. I dont need pictures, and I wont go down on her.
 
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