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Dannyluvsu13

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Hello everyone. My name is Daniella. This may come as a surprise, but I have recently turned 18.The idea of BDSM, forced sex, being ordered around, spanked, choked, used roughly...it all appeals to me. I am inexperienced, and also a very shy person and have trouble expressing myself. Despite my shortcomings, I would like to be more educated on just what I'm actually getting myself into, or being indulged with some of my fantasies. I understand that the BDSM lifestyle isn't just all about sex, although some people only enjoy the sexual aspects. Being the bookworm that I am, it was inevitable for me to discover books of erotic nature as well, which has only fueled my fantasies. I find myself looking for those dominant traits in a man and all of this to be exciting to talk about. Outright asking me sexual questions probably won't get you very far because, like I said, I am shy. I also have come to realize, through a little reading, in order to please you, you also have to tell me what you are looking for and what you want from a submissive. I am more than happy to let you lead the conversation too. If anyone is still even bothering to read this, I hope that I can make a few new friends and possibly more. PM, yahoo, or kik me.
P.s: sorry for jumping around from thought to thought.
 
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Hello everyone. My name is Daniella. This may come as a surprise, but I have recently turned 18.The idea of BDSM, forced sex, being ordered around, spanked, choked, used roughly...it all appeals to me. I am inexperienced, and also a very shy person and have trouble expressing myself. Despite my shortcomings I would like to be more educated on just what I'm actually getting myself into, or being indulged with some of my fantasies. Being the bookworm that I am, it was inevitable for me to discover books of erotic nature as well, which has only fueled my fantasies. I find myself looking for those dominant traits in a man and all of this to be exciting to talk about. If anyone is still even bothering to read this I hope that I can make a few new friends and possibly more? Perhaps that was a naïve comment though.
God Danny, you are only 18, you have years to go and adventures to enjoy, don't be worried about it right now, enjoy your young life right now. Get an education and find companions to enjoy this time of your life!
 
I know! But I'm, embarrassingly enough, sexually frustrated! I'm just not interested in "normal things" and i guess, like most youth, ambitious. And I'm eager to have those "mind blowing" experiences that I've read and heard so much about, and I'm not patient.
 
God Danny, you are only 18, you have years to go and adventures to enjoy, don't be worried about it right now, enjoy your young life right now. Get an education and find companions to enjoy this time of your life!
But thank you anyways :)
 
I know! But I'm, embarrassingly enough, sexually frustrated! I'm just not interested in "normal things" and i guess, like most youth, ambitious. And I'm eager to have those "mind blowing" experiences that I've read and heard so much about, and I'm not patient.
Again, you are only 18, why don't you ask why you don't own a home yet, or why don't I have thousand in my banking account, or why I don't own a Bentley, you must take your time to achieve these goals and you will, but in time!
 
Enjoy exploring the world of Ds but move slowly

There are a lot of exciting things you're going to discover, but it's easy to stray into dangerous places. Find a mentor to help you a long. He/she can keep you safe. Let's talk.
 
Hi, I'm a male of a similar age at approximately the same stage in development/exploration, albeit from the other side of the table. Do let me know if you'd like to chat about it.
 
There are a lot of exciting things you're going to discover, but it's easy to stray into dangerous places. Find a mentor to help you a long. He/she can keep you safe. Let's talk.

Thank you. It was embarrassing to basically lay everything on the table. And I'm probably not as aware of the dangers as I should be. I really appreciate your help and honesty.
 
Let me know

I'm sorry if I missed some PMs. If I never responded to some of you don't be afraid to let me know. I promise I didn't do it on purpose :)
 
There are a lot of exciting things you're going to discover, but it's easy to stray into dangerous places. Find a mentor to help you a long. He/she can keep you safe. Let's talk.

These are wise words. Why not reach out for some guidance from those who have travelled this road?
 
Guys (and gals),
I can't keep up with the messages overflowing my inbox. One or two messages? That's fine. But other than that we have to establish contact through some other source.

~XO Dani
 
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