Do other women do this?

[FirstTalkingRiddle]

First off, I'm a virgin for personal reasons but that doesn't mean I can't have a little fun with myself. I just recently bought a dildo and it took a while for me getting used to it but i got the hang of it after a few weeks. Normally, I would just squirt a little and go to bed after I was done. Never really made myself have a huge orgasm just one that was satisfying to me enough. Three weeks ago I got really horny for some reason so I turned on a video on my laptop and started using my dildo and then it hit me like lightning! I my orgasm was so intense I began to cry and I squirted so much I found some on my screen as well as my desk. I'm so surprised I was able to keep it together to not scream. After that I figured it to be a one time thing but now it just won't stop. Now I don't know if I should be proud to have such an intense orgasm or frightened. I'm now afraid if I every end up finding a guy I like he's going to see me cry and flip out on me or something. Can any other women relate to this? I like the crying. I feels good somehow but now I'm afraid guys are either going to be weird out by it or take advantage of it because my mind almost shuts off each time it happens. That's a really scary thought to me.

 

[Hornywetcanuck]

I have actually come so hard I have cried before as well, if you are close enough to someone that you are having sex they should be cool with especially if you are cumming like that fir them!

 

[GrrlFriday]

You might like to check out the Try this and Report Back thread here: http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892

While you can bring yourself to this kind of orgasm, your partner may not be able to at first.

You might like to tell them 'I sometimes cry when I come - not sure why, but it feels good'.

 

[Braschi]

Orgasms cause hormonal changes in your body and -most importantly- brain, so it's normal for you to have emotional episodes following orgasm. Crying after an orgasm is pretty common, and shouldn't mean that there is anything wrong with you (not that I'm a doctor, mind you). Basically, the more intense the orgasm you have, the more emotional you're going to feel -and it's perfectly normal to cry when you are feeling intense emotions, good and bad.

So that shouldn't be something you need to worry about. As for your potential partner, I guess that will depend on his maturity and your relationship. Despite what you might have heard (or observed) online, most guys aren't douchebags, and maintaining good communication will help both of you overcome any potential obstacles. You just have to make sure to choose a guy who you can trust to have that experience with, knowing he won't "take advantage" of you or freak out.

Realistically speaking, most guys would probably be thrilled you could have such an intense orgasm with them, and trust them enough to experience it with them. So, as long as you can communicate with your guy, you shouldn't have to worry about that.

Of course, from a practical aspect, a lot of guys are, well, kinda clueless when it comes to girls. That includes sex; don't be surprised that the first time, or even many times, or even at all, you won't have such an intense orgasm as you do by yourself. There are a lot of girls who enjoy sex with themselves a lot more intensely (stronger orgasms or even orgasming at all), and then enjoy sex with their partners for the intimacy and bonding.

Hope that helps!

 

[peelover8686]

Orgasms cause hormonal changes in your body and -most importantly- brain, so it's normal for you to have emotional episodes following orgasm. Crying after an orgasm is pretty common, and shouldn't mean that there is anything wrong with you (not that I'm a doctor, mind you). Basically, the more intense the orgasm you have, the more emotional you're going to feel -and it's perfectly normal to cry when you are feeling intense emotions, good and bad.

So that shouldn't be something you need to worry about. As for your potential partner, I guess that will depend on his maturity and your relationship. Despite what you might have heard (or observed) online, most guys aren't douchebags, and maintaining good communication will help both of you overcome any potential obstacles. You just have to make sure to choose a guy who you can trust to have that experience with, knowing he won't "take advantage" of you or freak out.

Realistically speaking, most guys would probably be thrilled you could have such an intense orgasm with them, and trust them enough to experience it with them. So, as long as you can communicate with your guy, you shouldn't have to worry about that.

Of course, from a practical aspect, a lot of guys are, well, kinda clueless when it comes to girls. That includes sex; don't be surprised that the first time, or even many times, or even at all, you won't have such an intense orgasm as you do by yourself. There are a lot of girls who enjoy sex with themselves a lot more intensely (stronger orgasms or even orgasming at all), and then enjoy sex with their partners for the intimacy and bonding.

Hope that helps!

Very well said man...kudos to you

 

[policywank]

Sexual satisfaction and fulfillment is tough to find. Don't even consider shying away from it if you find it. Go ahead and cry your eyes out. If a man has a hard time with it then he is, in a manner of speaking, asking you to forgo your own pleasure. Get another man.

Having said that, it is somewhat out of the ordinary so it will be helpful to communicate with him. And I would do it before you have sex so he knows what to expect. If you do it after the fact he is going to think he did something wrong and you are just giving him an excuse to make him feel better.

 

[_Hawkmoon_]

Sexual satisfaction and fulfillment is tough to find. Don't even consider shying away from it if you find it. Go ahead and cry your eyes out. If a man has a hard time with it then he is, in a manner of speaking, asking you to forgo your own pleasure. Get another man.

This.

 

[twister947]

My lover simply loses it when she cums. Sometimes she hurts me, sometimes she wakes people 2 zipcodes away. She is in another place, and I am in awe, privileged to witness such a thing. Any man that doesn't share that viewpoint needs his pulse checked.

 

[HTerrenceN08]

No!!! It's quite beautiful seeing that. I think it's a great thing to br shared. As long as he isn't asn asshole he should appreciate what a beautiful thing that is. That's awesome you had a really intense orgasm. I hope u have more!

 

[HTerrenceN08]

i agree great post

Orgasms cause hormonal changes in your body and -most importantly- brain, so it's normal for you to have emotional episodes following orgasm. Crying after an orgasm is pretty common, and shouldn't mean that there is anything wrong with you (not that I'm a doctor, mind you). Basically, the more intense the orgasm you have, the more emotional you're going to feel -and it's perfectly normal to cry when you are feeling intense emotions, good and bad.

So that shouldn't be something you need to worry about. As for your potential partner, I guess that will depend on his maturity and your relationship. Despite what you might have heard (or observed) online, most guys aren't douchebags, and maintaining good communication will help both of you overcome any potential obstacles. You just have to make sure to choose a guy who you can trust to have that experience with, knowing he won't "take advantage" of you or freak out.

Realistically speaking, most guys would probably be thrilled you could have such an intense orgasm with them, and trust them enough to experience it with them. So, as long as you can communicate with your guy, you shouldn't have to worry about that.

Of course, from a practical aspect, a lot of guys are, well, kinda clueless when it comes to girls. That includes sex; don't be surprised that the first time, or even many times, or even at all, you won't have such an intense orgasm as you do by yourself. There are a lot of girls who enjoy sex with themselves a lot more intensely (stronger orgasms or even orgasming at all), and then enjoy sex with their partners for the intimacy and bonding.

Hope that helps!

I was ecstatic to see a girl come like that! It's great holding on to her while she "recovers" real awesome bonding moment.

 

[joe_cox]

interesting thread..

 

[klippert]

First off, I'm a virgin for personal reasons but that doesn't mean I can't have a little fun with myself. I just recently bought a dildo and it took a while for me getting used to it but i got the hang of it after a few weeks. Normally, I would just squirt a little and go to bed after I was done. Never really made myself have a huge orgasm just one that was satisfying to me enough. Three weeks ago I got really horny for some reason so I turned on a video on my laptop and started using my dildo and then it hit me like lightning! I my orgasm was so intense I began to cry and I squirted so much I found some on my screen as well as my desk. I'm so surprised I was able to keep it together to not scream. After that I figured it to be a one time thing but now it just won't stop. Now I don't know if I should be proud to have such an intense orgasm or frightened. I'm now afraid if I every end up finding a guy I like he's going to see me cry and flip out on me or something. Can any other women relate to this? I like the crying. I feels good somehow but now I'm afraid guys are either going to be weird out by it or take advantage of it because my mind almost shuts off each time it happens. That's a really scary thought to me.

Be proud of yourself for every reason..not JUST your intense orgasm. I'll only guess, that when you find a gent, and depending on his maturity level. you'll have sex talk...where you can tell him..."at times you have ""To The Moon"" intense orgasms. To which, you *fill in the blank*.
You may find that he will suffer more from performance Anxieties...Where you know your body, and when body and mind come together in sexual pleasure...you squirt a 100 yr flood (very very HOT by the way) draw tears and blank out...We're in a Hyper-sex era. 24/7. More adult content the www than any other sites; 20/1. So he'll be in stud mode and if he doesn't bring you too this mind blowing "O", He'll be knocked off his stud pedestal

I closing...It may very well be his psychi you'll have too worry about