I stumbled on my parents texts...

[ohmyali]

They have quite a sex life and they fantasize about me. I would consider joining in but I also feel taken aback and squeamish. Note: I'm in my early 20s

 

[bobbyinhouston]

Parents

Wow! How hot is this? Good luck and hope all goes well. When true love among all is involved things just seem better. I know been there and done that. Good Luck and please let us know if anything happens.

 

[Kwaj]

careful

As a medical professional who has a hand in psychology your response depends on a lot of things. You'd be surprised at the amount of parents who are very interested in their kids sex lives and not in a 'don't do it way'. They want to know who what when and where types of things.

Incest is almost universally frowned upon though some societies don't necessarily look down on it. So I with little to go on you have a few options. If its a huge turnoff, be careful what you wear around them, keep anything flirtatious off the table and be glad they have a healthy sex life between the two of themselves (I'm assuming). If its a turn on for you, then go ahead and be yourself, a healthy young woman interested in sex and don't hesitate to run around in skimpy clothes if that's what your comfortable in.

Very few incestuous relationships turn out well though in my practice I have a few that actually have done well. So be careful and do what feels most natural to you.

 

[ohmyali]

Yeah we shall see.

 

[FGB]

Often in life we find contradiction in people via their behaviors,thoughts and philosophy.
Few thing surprise me any more...sometimes I am disappointed.

I am guessing after reading the post that even after you get over being freaked out about it, you are still not going to be into such things.

That is OK.

No matter what you might hear here ( remember the people here are neither average or normal in the sexual department... yes, perverts!) incest is not for everyone.

Nothing may come of this fetish of mom and dad's but still, I for one could understand if you moved out!

I am assuming you are at least eighteen...right ?

 

[ohmyali]

Yeah I'm in college, early 20s

Often in life we find contradiction in people via their behaviors,thoughts and philosophy.
Few thing surprise me any more...sometimes I am disappointed.

I am guessing after reading the post that even after you get over being freaked out about it, you are still not going to be into such things.

That is OK.

No matter what you might hear here ( remember the people here are neither average or normal in the sexual department... yes, perverts!) incest is not for everyone.

Nothing may come of this fetish of mom and dad's but still, I for one could understand if you moved out!

I am assuming you are at least eighteen...right ?

 

[FGB]

Yeah I'm in college, early 20s

Living at home?

And remember not all fantasies are acted on...I would have been freaked out if I was you.

Might be time to find a roommate and part time job,

 

[ohmyali]

I'm partially freaked out but partially turned on. It's a weird mix of feelings. And yeah I commute to school. I dunno, perhaps it is time to get a place of my own.

Living at home?

And remember not all fantasies are acted on...I would have been freaked out if I was you.

Might be time to find a roommate and part time job,

 

[may_I_please]

, perhaps it is time to get a place of my own.

^^^^

This

 

[ohmyali]

I mean, I like living at home. If I decide I don't want anything to happen between us maybe I can just get over it. They've never been weird toward me, they're good parents, I just happened to discover some, shall we say, "interesting" texts.

^^^^

This

 

[MILFenthusiast]

.....

 

[J05h]

Personally I find this ridiculously hot. Would you care to tell us what the texts said?

 

[R_Hughes1905]

Can you spare us any specifics?

 

[Pnwdad]

You will get a wide variety of comments and advice here but it comes down to a couple of questions before you take any action. What do you want ? And with how they have been around you before you saw the text will they will likely do nothing but share between themselves

 

[TJReilly]

They have quite a sex life and they fantasize about me. I would consider joining in but I also feel taken aback and squeamish. Note: I'm in my early 20s

Parents are people, and people have sexual fantasies. This includes *your* parents. You're an adult now, and being an adult, you have to start recognizing your parents as adults who have adult fantasies just like everyone else. However, (with this said), just because they have fantasies about incest doesn't mean they are ready, or even willing to act on those fantasies. Sometimes a fantasy is just a fantasy. Also, if it bothers you to know things like this about your parents, don't read their private texts. Just because you stumble onto someone's private email or text, doesn't automatically mean you have to read it.

 

[FGB]

Parents are people, and people have sexual fantasies. This includes *your* parents. You're an adult now, and being an adult, you have to start recognizing your parents as adults who have adult fantasies just like everyone else. However, (with this said), just because they have fantasies about incest doesn't mean they are ready, or even willing to act on those fantasies. Sometimes a fantasy is just a fantasy. Also, if it bothers you to know things like this about your parents, don't read their private texts. Just because you stumble onto someone's private email or text, doesn't automatically mean you have to read it.

I believe she saw something about her dad texting her mom about how cute ohmyali's butt looked.

So you are saying YOU would not have been nosy?

I don't like to invade people privacy myself, however if my name is involved...

 

[TJReilly]

I believe she saw something about her dad texting her mom about how cute ohmyali's butt looked.

So you are saying YOU would not have been nosy?

I don't like to invade people privacy myself, however if my name is involved...

All I am saying is that if you don't want to know something about someone, don't read their private communication. And no, I don't read over other people's shoulder. Relationships work a lot better when you don't know everything about the other person. You can't judge what you don't know.

 

[TJReilly]

Very few incestuous relationships turn out well though in my practice I have a few that actually have done well. So be careful and do what feels most natural to you.

I don't mean this as any kind of jab, but I think you would have to agree that being a medical/psychology professional, you are more likely to hear about the bad incestuous relationships than the one's that could be considered healthy or well-adjusted. There are families out there whom incest has been part of their family for generations, and happy with it being so. However, with incest being so taboo, (and in most cases illegal), people who enjoy it as part of their normal life will rarely open up to anyone about it. Incest is more common than most people think, it is just kept private.

 

[twister947]

"Stumbled on.......texts"???

My phone is password protected for this very reason. My mail is my business.

 

[silverwhisper]

TJreilly quoth:
incest is more common than most people think, it is just kept private.

and this tidbit would be based upon...what precisely?

ed

 

[twister947]

and this tidbit would be based upon...what precisely?

ed

Wishful thinking?

 

[danitza]

Texts

You will get a wide variety of comments and advice here but it comes down to a couple of questions before you take any action. What do you want ? And with how they have been around you before you saw the text will they will likely do nothing but share between themselves

That was only one question.....

 

[norfolklad]

Parents are people, and people have sexual fantasies. This includes *your* parents. You're an adult now, and being an adult, you have to start recognizing your parents as adults who have adult fantasies just like everyone else. However, (with this said), just because they have fantasies about incest doesn't mean they are ready, or even willing to act on those fantasies. Sometimes a fantasy is just a fantasy.

I agree with this much of this post. Sometimes fantasies are exciting simply because they are fantasies. The reality might not be half so thrilling, so they might not actually want you to participate. Of course, if you want to be really nice to them, you could always help to feed their fantasies in little, innocent ways.

Also, if it bothers you to know things like this about your parents, don't read their private texts. Just because you stumble onto someone's private email or text, doesn't automatically mean you have to read it.

Sometimes it happens, and if your eye happens to alight on your name...

 

[silverwhisper]

twister947 queried:
wishful thinking?

i was thinking more of an inability to distinguish between what was read on lit vs the real world. not unlike an old episode of friends...

ed

 

[TJReilly]

The problem with text messages is they lose context. For example: If the OP's parents were discussing how great their daughter's body is, and how good she would be in bed, they may have been discussing how great she would be in her boyfriend's bed and not necessarily their own. The OP's post really doesn't give enough information to know what her parents were talking about, and being the case, it is possible the OP jumped to the wrong conclusion based on a small part of a conversation taken out of context. If the OP is really looking for advice, (and not jerking our chain), perhaps she should fill in some of blanks. It is also noteworthy that she joined just this month and has made only 5 posts, all related to this thread. Considering this, I have to wonder who's fantasy we are discussing? Her parent's or her's? What she is posting may be completely true, but it's not like no one ever made up a story here is it?