Daddy fetish (New)

[INeedLove]

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Happy Saturday daddies and girls!

 

[Miasorrow]

Good to see you out, sweet Mia.


Hello, dear little ones and Sirs

Good to see you Horus, I think I owe you a proper reply
Hello to all !!

 

[heatsink]

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Happy Saturday daddies and girls!

Yes INL, cross those t's and dot those i's and the result could raise a storm.
Good morning to all the family here, have a great weekend, I'm of to the races, with my eye on a couple:


Balthazar King and Across the bay, but who knows in the Long Run?

 

[cbendis]

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Happy Saturday daddies and girls!

Very Sweet.

 

[AKS]

Good info being shared for those of us "new" To this life. I struggle with the titles ,myself. I remind myself. And my "whatever his title is" ,this is like baskin robins, 31 flavors.

 

[sunniegrl12]

Happy weekend all. Hope its long enough for all the fun you each deserve!

 

[DappleDoxie]

Morning lovelies and Gents
Oh my ... I do love three day weekends!!
Friday was lovely to be quiet
Yesterday was a work day - built stalls, worked on the barn aisle, went to town for breakfast, and the tack store, policed the yard, and made supper
Today is all about the house ... and perhaps an evening out tonight
Company tomorrow. for a week.
Hopefully everyone is having a grand weekend

 

[INeedLove]

Yes INL, cross those t's and dot those i's and the result could raise a storm.
Good morning to all the family here, have a great weekend, I'm of to the races, with my eye on a couple:

Hello daddy HS. Not quite sure what you meant about crossing the t's and dotting the i's.

Very Sweet.

Hi there. Welcome!

Hello Everyone here's to a great weekend for all.

It's good to see you back! I hope your weekend is great!

Happy weekend all. Hope its long enough for all the fun you each deserve!

And you too! Have fun!

Morning lovelies and Gents
Oh my ... I do love three day weekends!!
Friday was lovely to be quiet
Yesterday was a work day - built stalls, worked on the barn aisle, went to town for breakfast, and the tack store, policed the yard, and made supper
Today is all about the house ... and perhaps an evening out tonight
Company tomorrow. for a week.
Hopefully everyone is having a grand weekend

Hi DD. A three day weekend is awesome. I'm jealous. But not having to get ready for company. LOL.


Today is a warmer day in Michigan. It was a great day for a walk. It's awesome to get back outside for walks. Woo hoo!!

Have a great Sunday everyone!!

 

[DappleDoxie]

Question for the Gents of the Room ... how/when did you decide/discover you were a Dominant ... a Daddy?? I see claims of Dominants that have 'trained' - needed or not? And what does it consist of?
My experience is limited, and I may know someone perhaps of further interest that is also 'green'. In horses, a green rider and a green horse are a recipe for disaster. We met with him knowing my preference in Gentlemen, I've directed him to our usual reading recommendations, and he has not fled screaming into the mist. I take that as a good sign.
So now I am curious ...

 

[INeedLove]

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Best wishes for a wonderful day! Hugs to all the daddies and girls.


Watching for an answer to our sweet DD's questions.

 

[heatsink]

Hello daddy HS. Not quite sure what you meant about crossing the t's and dotting the i's.

INL,
My apologies for the late reply:
'Twas an innocent observation, that if the potential of the intimacy in the picture referred to was realised, then a great big wonderful boom would result. Chance would be a fine thing

Have a wonderful evening all and a wonderful week as well.: rose:

 

[sereneone4u]

INL,
My apologies for the late reply:
'Twas an innocent observation, that if the potential of the intimacy in the picture referred to was realised, then a great big wonderful boom would result. Chance would be a fine thing

Have a wonderful evening all and a wonderful week as well.: rose:

Hello heat!

Hope you are well!

hugs

 

[mutato]

Good evening to all, I hope your Monday was a good one. My day was fine, Mondays always go fast for me.

Question for the Gents of the Room ... how/when did you decide/discover you were a Dominant ... a Daddy?? I see claims of Dominants that have 'trained' - needed or not? And what does it consist of?
My experience is limited, and I may know someone perhaps of further interest that is also 'green'. In horses, a green rider and a green horse are a recipe for disaster. We met with him knowing my preference in Gentlemen, I've directed him to our usual reading recommendations, and he has not fled screaming into the mist. I take that as a good sign.
So now I am curious ...

I shall answer this as best as I can. In my point of view, there is no one right way to be a Daddy or a Dominant, so all I can offer is my opinion.

I've had Dominant thoughts and fantasies since I was a teen, but I was socially awkward geek so I wasn't able to pursue and act on it. I've only been able to act on these desires in the past 3 years or so. Being a Daddy took a bit of hindsight. Looking back, I've always had the nature and desire, but my ex wasn't receptive to it. Only now have I been able to embrace that side of me and let it out. It feels good.

My experience is limited. Do I need training? I don't know. I think there can be a benefit from learning from someone more experienced than I. For me it's taken the form of observation, reading, and asking questions rather than "being taken under the wing" so to speak. A fair portion has been trial and error. Before I met Angel, I did have a few online-only D/s interactions - I don't think I can call them relationships. I made a lot of stupid and classical "Domly Dom" mistakes. I acted like an ass at times. Yet I was lucky because I learned quickly.

I'm not sure how much of this can actually be taught and how much is innate within the personality. I think I lean more towards the personality. Angel and I work well because out personality styles match. We're both very new to this aspect of the lifestyle and we're both learning. The most important thing of all is that we communicate. By talking we learn what works and what doesn't.

DD, I understand your analogy with horses and I agree that a green horse and rider are very rarely a good combination. However, a green Dom and a green sub is not necessarily a recipe for disaster as long as both are willing to communicate and also listen to one another and then learn from each other. Mistakes will likely be made. As in life, what you take from those mistakes and how you learn from them is key. Since he hasn't fled after reading what you've shown him, I think it's a good sign. I wish both of you the best of luck in your new journey together.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

for Daddy Mutato

 

[RjThoughts]

Question for the Gents of the Room ... how/when did you decide/discover you were a Dominant ... a Daddy?? I see claims of Dominants that have 'trained' - needed or not? And what does it consist of?
My experience is limited, and I may know someone perhaps of further interest that is also 'green'. In horses, a green rider and a green horse are a recipe for disaster. We met with him knowing my preference in Gentlemen, I've directed him to our usual reading recommendations, and he has not fled screaming into the mist. I take that as a good sign.
So now I am curious ...

I've always felt that I've been dominant and nurturing. It was when I was in college when someone suggested I read a few books she brought to me Once I "discovered" who I was, there was nothing to hold me back

 

[INeedLove]

Good evening to all, I hope your Monday was a good one. My day was fine, Mondays always go fast for me.



I shall answer this as best as I can. In my point of view, there is no one right way to be a Daddy or a Dominant, so all I can offer is my opinion.

I've had Dominant thoughts and fantasies since I was a teen, but I was socially awkward geek so I wasn't able to pursue and act on it. I've only been able to act on these desires in the past 3 years or so. Being a Daddy took a bit of hindsight. Looking back, I've always had the nature and desire, but my ex wasn't receptive to it. Only now have I been able to embrace that side of me and let it out. It feels good.

My experience is limited. Do I need training? I don't know. I think there can be a benefit from learning from someone more experienced than I. For me it's taken the form of observation, reading, and asking questions rather than "being taken under the wing" so to speak. A fair portion has been trial and error. Before I met Angel, I did have a few online-only D/s interactions - I don't think I can call them relationships. I made a lot of stupid and classical "Domly Dom" mistakes. I acted like an ass at times. Yet I was lucky because I learned quickly.

I'm not sure how much of this can actually be taught and how much is innate within the personality. I think I lean more towards the personality. Angel and I work well because out personality styles match. We're both very new to this aspect of the lifestyle and we're both learning. The most important thing of all is that we communicate. By talking we learn what works and what doesn't.

DD, I understand your analogy with horses and I agree that a green horse and rider are very rarely a good combination. However, a green Dom and a green sub is not necessarily a recipe for disaster as long as both are willing to communicate and also listen to one another and then learn from each other. Mistakes will likely be made. As in life, what you take from those mistakes and how you learn from them is key. Since he hasn't fled after reading what you've shown him, I think it's a good sign. I wish both of you the best of luck in your new journey together.

Well said

I've always felt that I've been dominant and nurturing. It was when I was in college when someone suggested I read a few books she brought to me Once I "discovered" who I was, there was nothing to hold me back

Thank heavens for "innocent" recommendations?

 

[eric60red]

Monday was hectic and tiring, I must learn to pace myself more, it will give me more time to please my little one

 

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!!

Hello heat!

Hope you are well!

hugs

Hi Serene,
Doing great here thank you, how is your daughter getting on? How are you surviving that need to run and gallop around, well I hope?

 

[firefighterscott]

Good Morning to all the beautiful girls.

 

[DappleDoxie]

Morning to all Have company in from out of state for a few days and enjoying extended/adopted family :-D

Mutato and RJ, you are echoing the perceptions I have. Thank you. It is, afterall, a relationship like any other - just a few bonus parameters LOL Communication and personality are the bedrock.

Have a grand day, everyone!!

 

[Pnwdad]

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[mutato]

Good afternoon to everyone! Just popping in quickly during lunch break. I hope everyone is having a good day.

Morning to all Have company in from out of state for a few days and enjoying extended/adopted family :-D

Mutato and RJ, you are echoing the perceptions I have. Thank you. It is, afterall, a relationship like any other - just a few bonus parameters LOL Communication and personality are the bedrock.

Have a grand day, everyone!!

You're quite welcome, DD! I'm happy to help. Enjoy your time with family.

For the longest time I've had a fantasy about my 26 year old daughter, I'm 48. She is stunning and quite the head turner. We have a special connection that is sometimes hard to read. I've always wondered if she has had thoughts or desires for more.

I think you're misinterpreting the point of this thread. There are incest threads that may be more appropriate for your subject.

 

[RjThoughts]

Well said



Thank heavens for "innocent" recommendations?

Innocent, yeah, that's what it was

 

[RjThoughts]

Morning to all Have company in from out of state for a few days and enjoying extended/adopted family :-D

Mutato and RJ, you are echoing the perceptions I have. Thank you. It is, afterall, a relationship like any other - just a few bonus parameters LOL Communication and personality are the bedrock.

Have a grand day, everyone!!

Trust is needed as well, sometimes more than personality.

 

[DappleDoxie]

Trust is needed as well, sometimes more than personality.

Oh, without a doubt!! It practically goes without saying for me ... but I am glad you did