For those who have NEVER cheated...

[Disabledbutsexy]

The age old question many of us guys asked when in our 20's we were newly married.....

"If you could have sex with your perfect woman and you knew she would not tell your wife and you could get away with it, WOULD YOU?"


I mean if your perfect neighbor came over to borrow some sugar and your wife was out of town for a week and she opened your zipper and told you she wanted to suck your cock, would you let her?

I would guess on this site the YES answers would greatly beat the NO answers.

 

[Beck31]

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[49greg]

I definitely wouldn't. I know it's easy to say I would be faithful, but I can't keep a secret - the perfect woman wouldn't tell, but my wife would take one look at my face and know.

So, no, I wouldn't.

 

[Felix_Jones]

If you've never cheated, then it's likely that you've been cheated on.
It's a sad state of affairs of modern relationships, so I've heard, that everybody cheats.

 

[albertaboy]

I am the most married guy in the world, I love my wife of 28 years and have never cheated on her.

As long as the next door neighbor of Diane Lane she is Ok with it and I would proceed as planned.

 

[BongoGal]

If I were married, I would never break my vows. Sex isn't that important.

 

[drinkz]

Query Wins. When you win the internetz, all it says is that you're a sad, pathetic, man in real life.

 

[MikeyRam]

I would never cheat on my wife, especially since she'd be willing to introduce others into the bedroom. Why would I want to ruin such a perfect thing.

 

[lovecraft68]

Never, its not about the sex its about the breaking of trust.

If I thought I still wanted to "make the rounds" I would have never got married.

However....

My wife and I enjoy role playing. We create characters, a scenario and go out to dinner as those characters and come back home and fuck as them.

Its like cheating on your spouse with your spouse and like the first time every time.

A lot of fun and a healthy way to explore fantasies together

 

[Hans101]

If I were married, I would never break my vows. Sex isn't that important.

Right on....

 

[MrFoxwood]

No, I wouldn't. I have only ever slept with one person and that's my wife. I also happen to be the only person she's slept with. Sex is something between my wife and I, doing it with someone else would be weird and awkward and the guilt would probably kill me.

 

[norfolklad]

The age old question many of us guys asked when in our 20's we were newly married.....

"If you could have sex with your perfect woman and you knew she would not tell your wife and you could get away with it, WOULD YOU?"


I mean if your perfect neighbor came over to borrow some sugar and your wife was out of town for a week and she opened your zipper and told you she wanted to suck your cock, would you let her?

I would guess on this site the YES answers would greatly beat the NO answers.

Given the heading at the top of your post, I am not really qualified to contribute but, unless that wording has deterred all those who are likely to cheat, your assumption about Lit members appears to have been ill-founded.

 

[Verycurious18]

If they were really perfect they wouldn't be offering knowing I was taken. So no I wouldn't.

 

[Felix_Jones]

Nope. I'd feel guilty and that's worse than being caught.


Care to back that up with facts instead of rambling about it?

Only if you care to go fuck yourself.

 

[suckonsimon]

I have had opportunities. Married men who are good company and who have obviously well satisfied wives will likely face that from time to time. But I haven't and wouldn't. And the idea stated above that somehow that would suggest that my wife has cheated - I don't get that at all and I know she hasn't either.

She talks to me about the men she gets the hots for. She talks to me about the guys she is emotionally close to, as I do about the women with whom I am close.

Having found Lit during a time when our sex life was on hold for several months, I found it hard to tell her about this 'outlet' which was helping me. Even that felt like cheating. The relief for me when I did tell her, and give her some examples of the flirting exchanges I have had - that has been such an un-burdening for me!

Am I a saint? No. Have we found in each other something so valuable that no way would I or could I wreck it? Yes!

Simon

 

[drinkz]

Query Wins. When you win the internetz, all it says is that you're a sad, pathetic, man in real life.

 

[mngramps]

Right on....

If I were married, I would never break my vows. Sex isn't that important.

I don't know if I can ever get a handle on sex isn't that important thing. I find sex to be a very important aspect of a good healthy marriage.

Whatever melts your butter...

 

[cascadian]

never cheated

I am a married straight male and have been married for over 10 years and have never actually physically cheated.But I do not consider sometimes being online with another female camming as cheating.And I have had phone sex.But I don't consider that cheating either.

 

[Carnevil9]

I am a married straight male and have been married for over 10 years and have never actually physically cheated.But I do not consider sometimes being online with another female camming as cheating.And I have had phone sex.But I don't consider that cheating either.

If we all get to define what's cheating and what's not, then it isn't a very high bar to live up to, isn't it? Just look at Bill Clinton.

 

[Felix_Jones]

Troll on brutha, troll on. It's hard to take such a childish response seriously.

More childish than using the word 'brutha'?

 

[drinkz]

Query Wins. When you win the internetz, all it says is that you're a sad, pathetic, man in real life.

 

[mind_the_gap]

I've never cheated on any of my girlfriends and I'm certain I never will!

Unless I change my mind.

 

[jomcb57]

I was with the same woman for over 26 years. And though, had a couple of opportunities, I never cheated.

 

[jtlovestits]

No I would not, but I would have my wife meet her sometime and hope that they like each other and see where that would go.......to the bedroom hopefully.

 

[DeetheCD]

I could never cheat on my wife. Like others have said the guilt alone would kill me, and the look on my face when I saw her would probably give it away that I had done something wrong.

Dee