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[policywank]

Why do some black men have a specific preference for white women?

I think of myself as an equal opportunity slut. I never communicate a racial preference of my own. Yet I hear frequently from black men about how they prefer white women. Of course I am a white woman and they are often trying to get into my pants so my sample isn't truly objective.

What do you think?

 

[Hipshot1554]

Why do some black men have a specific preference for white women?

I think of myself as an equal opportunity slut. I never communicate a racial preference of my own. Yet I hear frequently from black men about how they prefer white women. Of course I am a white woman and they are often trying to get into my pants so my sample isn't truly objective.

What do you think?

Maybe at one time it was forbidden fruit, though that's not the case any longer. Many white women prefer black men (as has been expressed here on lit). I'm sure many white men enjoy black women also. So... maybe it's just a male/female thing after all.

 

[policywank]

So why do some black men prefer white women?

Usually when this topic comes up it is about white women's attitude towards black men which is supported by a range of favourable comparisons to white men. Those comparisons are generally not constrained by political correctness.

I am fascinated to see if the same level of openness is possible when the "group" that is on the receiving end of a negative comparison is not white males.

 

[Hipshot1554]

So why do some black men prefer white women?

Usually when this topic comes up it is about white women's attitude towards black men which is supported by a range of favourable comparisons to white men. Those comparisons are generally not constrained by political correctness.

I am fascinated to see if the same level of openness is possible when the "group" that is on the receiving end of a negative comparison is not white males.

I'm not sure political correctness is as big a factor these days. Mixed race couples hardly raise an eyebrow any more.

 

[CoaxMe]

I want to be used by a black man... and I'm white....does that count???

 

[silverwhisper]

i think it's pretty clear that some racial element is at play here--but as to which one and in what way, that's very hard to say, esp considering i'm neither a black man or white woman.

policywank, do you tend to ask the black men who express their interest in you? perhaps of those that you've taken as lover anyway?

ed

 

[Verycurious18]

I remembering talking to a black man on here awhile back, he was into white women and claimed that there were better at giving men what they want and willing to do anything. Which set me off in some ways, mainly because I hate the generalization. Not all white women will do everything you please, and not all black women won't do the things you please. So you fuck a few more dirty white women then black women doesn't mean they are all willing to do the dirty things you desire. That's like claiming every black man has a large penis, sure we know some are well hung but I have seen some smaller black ones.

Some are also like me, we like the color difference. I get a thrill Thinking about a fair skinned white male taking me. To have his creamy white cum covering my chocolate colors skin add to it as well. It's just a preference I guess.

 

[FragileUnbroken]

Some are also like me, we like the color difference. I get a thrill Thinking about a fair skinned white male taking me. To have his creamy white cum covering my chocolate colors skin add to it as well. It's just a preference I guess.

Ok, that's just hot.

I had a black man tell me once that most black women don't like to go down. That sounds like a ridiculous stereotype, but it was one black mans opinion.

Poor guy, I didn't go down in him either.

 

[Verycurious18]

Ok, that's just hot.

I had a black man tell me once that most black women don't like to go down. That sounds like a ridiculous stereotype, but it was one black mans opinion.

Poor guy, I didn't go down in him either.

It is honestly, I love everything about cock. I often just enjoy sucking on my toys for the fun of it. I'm also into most of the stuff they seem to say only white women do. Sure I won't swallow your cum but you can cover or fill me with it. Ive met more prudish white women then black women to be honest. Anyways I wasn't about to let one mans idiot and stereotypical option get to me. I wasn't looking to fuck him anyways.


I also think they get a lot of it from porn. you know more of them take it in the ass and they are shown doing the "dirtier"things as well. If they would take the time to look at more amateur videos and not the fake nails and tits vanilla barbies they see on main stream porn they would see we can suck just as good as your vanilla dream.

 

[FragileUnbroken]

It is honestly, I love everything about cock. I often just enjoy sucking on my toys for the fun of it. I'm also into most of the stuff they seem to say only white women do. Sure I won't swallow your cum but you can cover or fill me with it. Ive met more prudish white women then black women to be honest. Anyways I wasn't about to let one mans idiot and stereotypical option get to me. I wasn't looking to fuck him anyways.


I also think they get a lot of it from porn. you know more of them take it in the ass and they are shown doing the "dirtier"things as well. If they would take the time to look at more amateur videos and not the fake nails and tits vanilla barbies they see on main stream porn they would see we can suck just as good as your vanilla dream.

You might be on to something. I think a lot of us are influenced by what the porn stars do, thinking that we have to meet that standard. I think it's the other way around with men. They expect us to perform the same. I don't watch much porn, partly because of that. I prefer amateur porn or the kind that you see linked in some of these threads. Real people, real pleasure, really hot, more truth, less makeup.

I'm sorry, you will never shove two cocks in my ass and I don't whine constantly when I'm getting fucked. If I make a sound it's because it's the real deal.

I'm with ya' girl.

 

[policywank]

I'm not sure political correctness is as big a factor these days. Mixed race couples hardly raise an eyebrow any more.

The fact that they are together wouldn't raise an eyebrow. If the wife said the reason she married a black man is because all black men are sexually superior that wouldn't raise an eyebrow either even though it is silly and racist.

Now imagine what would happen if the husband said he married a white women because all black women [insert unfounded racist remark]? That would raise an eyebrow and invite a barrage of criticism.

Now imagine the white wife saying he married her because all black women [insert unfounded racist remark]? Eeks, her life would be in danger.

 

[policywank]

It is honestly, I love everything about cock. I often just enjoy sucking on my toys for the fun of it. I'm also into most of the stuff they seem to say only white women do. Sure I won't swallow your cum but you can cover or fill me with it. Ive met more prudish white women then black women to be honest. Anyways I wasn't about to let one mans idiot and stereotypical option get to me. I wasn't looking to fuck him anyways.


I also think they get a lot of it from porn. you know more of them take it in the ass and they are shown doing the "dirtier"things as well. If they would take the time to look at more amateur videos and not the fake nails and tits vanilla barbies they see on main stream porn they would see we can suck just as good as your vanilla dream.

I never quite thought of the misinformation side of things. Every time I hear a woman say all black men are physically superior and have bigger dicks it occurs to me they must not know very many black men. Is it possible that black men watch IR porn and somehow think that is representative of white women?

 

[TheLordWinter]

Ive met more prudish white women then black women to be honest.

And there's the rub. Prudish white women. They learn it from their mothers. Thank gods that generation is dying out. To those of you from that generation who didn't buy into that bullshit, I applaud you. You're a rare breed. Pass it on to your kids and grandkids and keep making this world better.

I've never been promiscuous, despite the fact that I started to realize that I was a Dom at 19, but I've dated a LOT. Every white girl I ever went out with was so materialistic it was disgusting. If I didn't shower her with gifts, it was a chore for her lips to even touch mine, much less go further. Compared to the black women that I've dated, the white women just can't hold a candle to them. They're more attentive, even on a date, flirty without being annoyingly coy, and affectionate without being slutty until it is called for. Thick, thin, tall, short, big tits, mosquito bites, physically beautiful or not, it never mattered, when I was with the black women, I was the ONLY man she noticed until that date was over. She had eyes for no one else.

The only black woman I've ever taken to the bedroom was the hottest thing it has ever been my pleasure to share my carnal side with. She had the biggest, most innocent, and most beautiful eyes I've ever seen and she nearly killed me. I've never had any complaints in the bedroom, nor have I had difficulties keeping up, but that girl left me weak in the knees for two days after and there wasn't a damn thing slutty about her. She was every bit a lady on our date, but when we went between the sheets, dear god! Now, I judge every woman I consider against her example. She renewed my faith in women and I don't care what color she was. She was a woman in every sense of the word, and the memory of those eyes and that gentle smile will go with me to my grave.

I am a white man, and I'm proud to say that I love black women because they are just about the only true WOMEN left in America.

I'm sure there's plenty more that I could say to extoll the virtues of the loving black woman, but it would just be redundancy and overkill at this point, so I rest my case.

As for the white women and black men, having seen white girls that I grew up with who went after black men, I can honestly and confidently say that it is mostly for the shock factor when it occurs in the southern states. They do it out of rebellion and in search of the "forbidden fruit".

Since I've lived in Detroit, however, I've noticed that the regional culture here barely puts up a token resistance to mixed race relationships, and that's something I find refreshing. Up here, they don't flaunt it, they don't show off and try to play on the shock factor. Up here, it's about the emotion, it's about the relationship. They just go around acting like any other couple, sneaking a smooch here and there, holding hands, minding the kids... they just act normal and they're accepted. My oldest daughter is married to a black man, and he is a GOOD man who treats her well and provides for her and my granddaughter. She and my grandchild are loved, and that is the ONLY thing I care about. He's not the most attentive father, but I can't fault him for that because his only vice is video games, one that he and I both share. He does, however, love and protect his daughter, and that's all anyone can ask.

He's definitely cut from a different cloth than the black males that I grew up around, who chased white women just because it was "taboo". Sure, he and I have had a disagreement or two, but who gets along all the time? I don't fault him for our problems because he was an idiot kid who let his dick think for him a little too much and thought he could get away with lying in bed with my daughter under my roof. Once that was out of the way, we've been friends since. What's more, he's never cheated on her. My daughter is 26 now and they've been together since her senior year of HS.

So I say let the races mix. Maybe some of us uppity white folk can be taught to remember where we came from and respect each other again. A good dose of humility never hurt anyone.

Oh, and the season may be over, but WINTER IS BACK! Good to see all you fine folk again!

Edit:
Now that I think about it, I think Verycurious18 hit on something when she mentioned the perception that white women seem more willing to please black men. I think that might be a reflection of the cultural differences. Seems to me that it takes a very open minded person to enter into a mixed-race relationship, and to me that kind of attitude would espouse a greater willingness to please their partner and be open to new experiences. I know that it seems to me that the black women that I've dated were all eager to make me happy, even if we didn't go between the sheets. They made it clear that they were MINE for that date.

 

[policywank]

i think it's pretty clear that some racial element is at play here--but as to which one and in what way, that's very hard to say, esp considering i'm neither a black man or white woman.

policywank, do you tend to ask the black men who express their interest in you? perhaps of those that you've taken as lover anyway?

ed

Not so much

To the extent that black men have expressed interest in me specifically because I am white I find that a turn off so the conversation doesn't go far. I could ask those that I have taken as lovers, but I haven't. Not sure why, but I think maybe because I don't want to be seen as digging for complements and/or I don't want to find out his interest in me is racial.

 

[policywank]

And there's the rub. Prudish white women. They learn it from their mothers. Thank gods that generation is dying out. To those of you from that generation who didn't buy into that bullshit, I applaud you. You're a rare breed. Pass it on to your kids and grandkids and keep making this world better.

I've never been promiscuous, despite the fact that I started to realize that I was a Dom at 19, but I've dated a LOT. Every white girl I ever went out with was so materialistic it was disgusting. If I didn't shower her with gifts, it was a chore for her lips to even touch mine, much less go further. Compared to the black women that I've dated, the white women just can't hold a candle to them. They're more attentive, even on a date, flirty without being annoyingly coy, and affectionate without being slutty until it is called for. Thick, thin, tall, short, big tits, mosquito bites, physically beautiful or not, it never mattered, when I was with the black women, I was the ONLY man she noticed until that date was over. She had eyes for no one else.

The only black woman I've ever taken to the bedroom was the hottest thing it has ever been my pleasure to share my carnal side with. She had the biggest, most innocent, and most beautiful eyes I've ever seen and she nearly killed me. I've never had any complaints in the bedroom, nor have I had difficulties keeping up, but that girl left me weak in the knees for two days after and there wasn't a damn thing slutty about her. She was every bit a lady on our date, but when we went between the sheets, dear god! Now, I judge every woman I consider against her example. She renewed my faith in women and I don't care what color she was. She was a woman in every sense of the word, and the memory of those eyes and that gentle smile will go with me to my grave.

I am a white man, and I'm proud to say that I love black women because they are just about the only true WOMEN left in America.

I'm sure there's plenty more that I could say to extoll the virtues of the loving black woman, but it would just be redundancy and overkill at this point, so I rest my case.

As for the white women and black men, having seen white girls that I grew up with who went after black men, I can honestly and confidently say that it is mostly for the shock factor when it occurs in the southern states. They do it out of rebellion and in search of the "forbidden fruit".

Since I've lived in Detroit, however, I've noticed that the regional culture here barely puts up a token resistance to mixed race relationships, and that's something I find refreshing. Up here, they don't flaunt it, they don't show off and try to play on the shock factor. Up here, it's about the emotion, it's about the relationship. They just go around acting like any other couple, sneaking a smooch here and there, holding hands, minding the kids... they just act normal and they're accepted. My oldest daughter is married to a black man, and he is a GOOD man who treats her well and provides for her and my granddaughter. She and my grandchild are loved, and that is the ONLY thing I care about. He's not the most attentive father, but I can't fault him for that because his only vice is video games, one that he and I both share. He does, however, love and protect his daughter, and that's all anyone can ask.

He's definitely cut from a different cloth than the black males that I grew up around, who chased white women just because it was "taboo". Sure, he and I have had a disagreement or two, but who gets along all the time? I don't fault him for our problems because he was an idiot kid who let his dick think for him a little too much and thought he could get away with lying in bed with my daughter under my roof. Once that was out of the way, we've been friends since. What's more, he's never cheated on her. My daughter is 26 now and they've been together since her senior year of HS.

So I say let the races mix. Maybe some of us uppity white folk can be taught to remember where we came from and respect each other again. A good dose of humility never hurt anyone.

Oh, and the season may be over, but WINTER IS BACK! Good to see all you fine folk again!

Edit:
Now that I think about it, I think Verycurious18 hit on something when she mentioned the perception that white women seem more willing to please black men. I think that might be a reflection of the cultural differences. Seems to me that it takes a very open minded person to enter into a mixed-race relationship, and to me that kind of attitude would espouse a greater willingness to please their partner and be open to new experiences. I know that it seems to me that the black women that I've dated were all eager to make me happy, even if we didn't go between the sheets. They made it clear that they were MINE for that date.

Well I can see your perspective on prudish white women, but I think you may be judging us all a bit to harshly and hastily

 

[TheLordWinter]

Well I can see your perspective on prudish white women, but I think you may be judging us all a bit to harshly and hastily

Nope, I acknowledge you all, and I'm proud to call you my fellows... see the following quote in the first paragraph of my post:

To those of you from that generation who didn't buy into that bullshit, I applaud you. You're a rare breed. Pass it on to your kids and grandkids and keep making this world better.

 

[big9000]

I remembering talking to a black man on here awhile back, he was into white women and claimed that there were better at giving men what they want and willing to do anything. Which set me off in some ways, mainly because I hate the generalization. Not all white women will do everything you please, and not all black women won't do the things you please. So you fuck a few more dirty white women then black women doesn't mean they are all willing to do the dirty things you desire. That's like claiming every black man has a large penis, sure we know some are well hung but I have seen some smaller black ones.

Some are also like me, we like the color difference. I get a thrill Thinking about a fair skinned white male taking me. To have his creamy white cum covering my chocolate colors skin add to it as well. It's just a preference I guess.

this is both very well said, and kinda hot at the same time in other words, a good post that i can agree with!

i dont mind "mixing colors", but what gets me more mad than the color itself is just general behaviour. a person, no matter what color should always be fair and ok, so really, idc about color of skin tbh.

 

[Hipshot1554]

The fact that they are together wouldn't raise an eyebrow. If the wife said the reason she married a black man is because all black men are sexually superior that wouldn't raise an eyebrow either even though it is silly and racist.

Now imagine what would happen if the husband said he married a white women because all black women [insert unfounded racist remark]? That would raise an eyebrow and invite a barrage of criticism.

Now imagine the white wife saying he married her because all black women [insert unfounded racist remark]? Eeks, her life would be in danger.

Maybe the reasons are as diverse as people are. Maybe it's just a fetish for some?

 

[FragileUnbroken]

Well I can see your perspective on prudish white women, but I think you may be judging us all a bit to harshly and hastily

My thoughts too.

 

[FragileUnbroken]

Give me a real man, and I don't care if he's green, I will adore him. It's the same the other way around.

Give me an asshole, and I don't care if he's white, black or red white and blue, I don't want to be near him.

The race card is overplayed these days, with the exception of where real racial oppression still does exist in our society. I know black people are often prejudged, and discriminated against unfairly, and I know that sometimes white people are victims of discrimination too, but these days I believe it is more a problem of the individual person, and less a problem of the culture.

Racism is a game of fools. If a black man had come to me when I was available and engaged me the way I enjoy, I would not have a problem with him saying he wanted to see how his dark skin contrasted with mine, nor with that being the primary reason he wanted to do me. Honestly, I think that could be a primary motive for me wanting to fuck him too.

But the myth about black cocks being bigger, I don't buy it. There are plenty of well endowed white men too, and plenty of poorly endowed black men.

Give me a man who is solid on the inside, and I might be interested in how solid he is on the outside.

 

[The_Highwayman]

It's not a "black" thing per se, but on a purely visual level I do think there is some... alluring about seeing two people with very different skin tones make love.

Watching my cock slide in and out of a dark skinned pussy or mouth does have a different... look to it I guess. Not sure if I can explain it.

 

[KinkyGAGuy]

Reading this takes me back to my college days. One of my class mates was a mid 40's black man, who only dated very attractive white women. So one day several of us including him were sitting at a restaurant discussing this topic, when he stopped us all, pointed out the window at a very large black woman who was pourly dressed, then stated 9 times10. They look or will end up looking like that. Not trying to be racist, and I know some damn hot black women.

Also was told that some Black women are highly disrespectful to their men.

Have two black female friends, that are smoking hot, that will not date black men. So go figure!

 

[Hans101]

Same reason white guys like Asian or Jewish girls:

hypergamy.

 

[HoldYouDown]

Why do some black men have a specific preference for white women?

I think of myself as an equal opportunity slut. I never communicate a racial preference of my own. Yet I hear frequently from black men about how they prefer white women. Of course I am a white woman and they are often trying to get into my pants so my sample isn't truly objective.

What do you think?

I'm a white guy who likes darker women (including black), so maybe it's just because they're different. BUT attractive is attractive and all things being equal I'll take an attractive white girl over an unattractive black girl. Preferences can't always be explained.

 

[Locknuts]

Some of my best blowjobs have been given to me by very hot black women! Thank you ladies!