My Fetish is for CDs Not Shemales

[johnnysdirtysecret]

After a while of getting off on pornos of dick girls I've come to realise that my real fetish isn't for shemales, it's for crossdressers.

What I mean to say is that I'm not really interested in those women who are transitioning from men into women because they always wanted to be women for real, I'm interested in the guys that love the idea of dressing and acting like a slutty girl.

Because it's a fetish to me I get off on those where it's a fetish for them, not the real psychological facts of transitioning to womanhood.

Even though I'm mostly straight and married, I get off on crossdresser porn because they know how to dress and act just like the women guys want, their in lingerie and you can tell just how horny they are because their dicks are so hard. That's what attracts me.

Are there other dickgirl fans that agree? The kind of dick girl you want is a cd not a shemale?

Here's the sorts of crossdressed hotties I'm talking about:

http://crossdresserspassion.tumblr.com/post/79369116807
http://crossdresserspassion.tumblr.com/post/79368786274
http://crossdresserspassion.tumblr.com/post/79371841646
http://crossdresserspassion.tumblr.com/post/79373047319
http://crossdresserspassion.tumblr.com/post/79373380974

 

[bicuriouscd]

Hi Johnny ,
There are a lot more crossdressers than shemales in real life so it would probably be pretty easy to find one in your area if you ever wanted to live out and of your fantasies or desires in real life .

 

[johnnysdirtysecret]

Hi Johnny ,
There are a lot more crossdressers than shemales in real life so it would probably be pretty easy to find one in your area if you ever wanted to live out and of your fantasies or desires in real life .

I couldn't ever live out the fantasy, I'm a married man. I just like to use sites like this to explore it and have discovered more and more that crossdressers really turn me on over shemales and was wondering if anyone else had this particular preference.

 

[stickygirl]

Pleased to hear someone make that distinction. I've no no problem with CDs but I don't like being lumped with them when we are SO different

 

[bicuriouscd]

I agree stickygirl ,
There are so many people who don't know the differences and don't seem to care enough to do a little research before making the assumption that we are all the same .

 

[johnnysdirtysecret]

Pleased to hear someone make that distinction. I've no no problem with CDs but I don't like being lumped with them when we are SO different

I used to think that my fetish was for any girl with a cock, so it's only recently that I have seen there's a distinction. Now I do though and I know better what turns me on because of it.

 

[stude_cruiser19]

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I agree with johnny that a lot of CD's will go all out to act the part, makeup, hair, clothes, I really enjoy that, doing everything that they can to be ultra fem, smooth skin, no hair,
I don't have any real attraction to a hairy guy that puts on panties, for me it ruins the fantasy, the attraction.
I had a hard time seeing past the five oclock shadow on one person that I met.

 

[johnnysdirtysecret]

I agree with johnny that a lot of CD's will go all out to act the part, makeup, hair, clothes, I really enjoy that, doing everything that they can to be ultra fem, smooth skin, no hair,
I don't have any real attraction to a hairy guy that puts on panties, for me it ruins the fantasy, the attraction.
I had a hard time seeing past the five oclock shadow on one person that I met.

Yes, this is not about masculine men in panties. This is about how crossdressers are that much more feminine than those born female or transitioning to female, because they are genuinely keen to dress and act sexy.

I mean this kind of thing.

http://crossdresserspassion.tumblr.com/post/79468515312

 

[stickygirl]

I'm sorry if my comments are turning your thread into a chatroom not pics but I have to say I could bloody hug you!! I've never felt especially femme - no more than any cis-gender woman. My tits will never be very big, but not every woman has or wants big boobs, but I do take some pride in my ass and most of the time it's in jeans. I'll wear a blouse or a sweat top with a puffa jacket - hardly the stuff of femme.
I respect the need for CDs to explore that side of their personailty and besides, who wants to have hairy legs or genitals that scrunch like a crisp-packet?!

Anyway, I'll try to resist posting on your thread again and hope you get some other folks to post up some pics.

 

[Jessica32120]

What I mean to say is that I'm not really interested in those women who are transitioning from men into women because they always wanted to be women for real, I'm interested in the guys that love the idea of dressing and acting like a slutty girl.

Because it's a fetish to me I get off on those where it's a fetish for them, not the real psychological facts of transitioning to womanhood.

This

I'm the type of CD you're thinking about. It took me a long time to realise it was more of a fetish than gender dysphoria or simliar for me, and since realising that it's been a lot easier to just enjoy it and explore it. I'm actually quite happy being a guy normally, but when I dress I want nothing more than to be as feminine as possible and to fulfill that sexually (even if as a fantasy).

And what you said about the fetish applies totally for me too -- the idea that I can turn guys on while dressed is an incredible turn on for me too, and knowing that I've turned them on makes me feel even more feminine, fueling the fantasies of being taken by a guy who's turned on by me looking as girly as possible

Oh my... is it getting hot in here? *adjusts stockings, flicks blonde hair behind ear*

 

[Jessica32120]

Anyway, I'll try to resist posting on your thread again and hope you get some other folks to post up some pics.

No don't stickygirl! I've read some of your posts in other threads and you are amazing and anything you want to share I (and I'm sure others too) would very much enjoy reading

 

[Lazy_lay]

This

I'm the type of CD you're thinking about. It took me a long time to realise it was more of a fetish than gender dysphoria or simliar for me, and since realising that it's been a lot easier to just enjoy it and explore it. I'm actually quite happy being a guy normally, but when I dress I want nothing more than to be as feminine as possible and to fulfill that sexually (even if as a fantasy).

And what you said about the fetish applies totally for me too -- the idea that I can turn guys on while dressed is an incredible turn on for me too, and knowing that I've turned them on makes me feel even more feminine, fueling the fantasies of being taken by a guy who's turned on by me looking as girly as possible

Oh my... is it getting hot in here? *adjusts stockings, flicks blonde hair behind ear*

I think CD can be incredibly erotic and sexy. There's something of an attitude I've got that someone who acts fully the part of a girl is a girl and has to be treated that way, this makes sex completely different than guy-guy sex. I know that's nonsense but that's the feeling. Plus CD gets fully hard unlike transitional guys taking hormones.

I'm talking CD that can act and walk the part, not an obvious guy shoved into women's things.

 

[stickygirl]

I think CD can be incredibly erotic and sexy. There's something of an attitude I've got that someone who acts fully the part of a girl is a girl and has to be treated that way, this makes sex completely different than guy-guy sex. I know that's nonsense but that's the feeling.

meh~ yea language: pronouns, sex/gender and so on, is something that continues to change. People are apt to police language with buckets of invective and anger, but I'm learning to stay a lot more chilled these days and basically, I kinda know what you mean

Just picking up a couple of points - it isn't nonsense at all and feelings are central to it. Feelings are what makes the sex extra special and how we are perceived by our partner is crucial. I'd take a guess and assume most CDs want to be submissive or bottomed during sex - is that true? Maybe your feelings in bed are less complicated than mine - lucky things!

Plus CD gets fully hard unlike transitional guys taking hormones.

"guys taking hormones" ummm… not sure if you mean CDs taking hormones as opposed to trans women? If trans women, then please avoid thinking of us as guys - we're not As for the erections - Viagra works pretty well for most trans women, if they want it.

 

[haurni]

This is about how crossdressers are that much more feminine than those born female or transitioning to female, because they are genuinely keen to dress and act sexy.

There's something of an attitude I've got that someone who acts fully the part of a girl is a girl and has to be treated that way

I applaud you, Johnny, for understanding the subtleties of your fantasy.

It seems to me that when you say that CDs are 'more feminine' than women what you're really saying is that CDs embody a sort of idealized femininity that you don't think (many or most) women actually possess. This suggests that what interests you is what you think 'feminine' should be - a male vision of it, a 'hyperfemininity' if you will. I'm not quite sure what that entails, but I'm curious to know if you would be more aroused by a woman who acted the same way as the CDs you are attracted to or does the cock have something to do with it? What do you think of bimbofication?

I'm just wondering

 

[johnnysdirtysecret]

I'm sorry if my comments are turning your thread into a chatroom not pics but I have to say I could bloody hug you!! I've never felt especially femme - no more than any cis-gender woman. My tits will never be very big, but not every woman has or wants big boobs, but I do take some pride in my ass and most of the time it's in jeans. I'll wear a blouse or a sweat top with a puffa jacket - hardly the stuff of femme.
I respect the need for CDs to explore that side of their personailty and besides, who wants to have hairy legs or genitals that scrunch like a crisp-packet?!

Anyway, I'll try to resist posting on your thread again and hope you get some other folks to post up some pics.

I'm just including pictures so people know the sort of thing I'm referring to when I talk about what turns me on about CDs as opposed to guys, girls, or shemales. It's not a thread for pics specifically, I really like hearing what other people think on the subject, so comment away. It's good that people understand what I'm getting at. I know this is a porno site and we write porno fantasy stories for it, but it's good if people get why we're into what we're into.

 

[johnnysdirtysecret]

This

I'm the type of CD you're thinking about. It took me a long time to realise it was more of a fetish than gender dysphoria or simliar for me, and since realising that it's been a lot easier to just enjoy it and explore it. I'm actually quite happy being a guy normally, but when I dress I want nothing more than to be as feminine as possible and to fulfill that sexually (even if as a fantasy).

And what you said about the fetish applies totally for me too -- the idea that I can turn guys on while dressed is an incredible turn on for me too, and knowing that I've turned them on makes me feel even more feminine, fueling the fantasies of being taken by a guy who's turned on by me looking as girly as possible

Oh my... is it getting hot in here? *adjusts stockings, flicks blonde hair behind ear*

Yes, Jessica, that's exactly what I'm talking about. Some guys start dressing as girls because they really are girls inside and these are the ones that transition into being girls for real. Some guys start dressing as girls because they like the sexy feeling of dressing and acting feminine, it gets them off when they want it but they are not about being girls forever. While the first I respect and many such people can definitely be sexy, it's crossdresser girls like you with your stockings and flicking your blonde hair that really excite my personal fetish.

 

[johnnysdirtysecret]

I applaud you, Johnny, for understanding the subtleties of your fantasy.

It seems to me that when you say that CDs are 'more feminine' than women what you're really saying is that CDs embody a sort of idealized femininity that you don't think (many or most) women actually possess. This suggests that what interests you is what you think 'feminine' should be - a male vision of it, a 'hyperfemininity' if you will. I'm not quite sure what that entails, but I'm curious to know if you would be more aroused by a woman who acted the same way as the CDs you are attracted to or does the cock have something to do with it? What do you think of bimbofication?

I'm just wondering

Yes, you're right. What's hot about crossdressed girls is that their femininity is exactly the kind of sexual fantasy fetish fuel femininity that guys want and that is what the CDs themselves want out of it. It's about being what guys fantasise about in a girl rather than being a normal girl's idea of feminine, if that makes sense.

While I'm not interested in wanting to suck cock or bottom for a crossdresser, I think the cock does have something to do with it. Definitely guys like me find CDs more attractive for having their cocks then women dressed the same. I like how you can see that visual sign of arousal as their cock gets hard and how they and you both know how their cock's gonna work cause you've both got one.

I'm not really sure what bimbofication is?

 

[haurni]

From http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=989695:

I once had a boyfriend who really got off on me wearing pink, dolling up a lot. It got him incredibly hard when I wore pink lipgloss with lingerie for example. Now I've always been a bit of a girly girl, I like dressing up and making myself pretty.. Now recently I came upon this fetish, with girls dressing up all pink, fake and slutty. It's about being a very slutty, very femininie girly girl, and being submissive.. Does anyone else like that?

I'm not exactly sure if 'bimbofication' was the right term to use - as I understand it, that's encouraging a normally intelligent woman (or, in this context, a CD) to deliberately 'dumb down' or act in a stupid/airhead manner. Submissive, blonde and big-breasted may also figure into it, along with a strong interest in what is perceived as 'feminine' behaviour such as shopping and makeup. Whenever I hear the term I think of Barbie meets Valley Girl.

I guess I'm asking if having 'bimbo' qualities in the first place is at all an important part of your fantasy (i.e. not necessarily with the '-fication' part, or actively changing how the person acts).

 

[johnnysdirtysecret]

From http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=989695:


I'm not exactly sure if 'bimbofication' was the right term to use - as I understand it, that's encouraging a normally intelligent woman (or, in this context, a CD) to deliberately 'dumb down' or act in a stupid/airhead manner. Submissive, blonde and big-breasted may also figure into it, along with a strong interest in what is perceived as 'feminine' behaviour such as shopping and makeup. Whenever I hear the term I think of Barbie meets Valley Girl.

I guess I'm asking if having 'bimbo' qualities in the first place is at all an important part of your fantasy (i.e. not necessarily with the '-fication' part, or actively changing how the person acts).

I like femininity and a little bit of submissiveness in a CD hottie, but not a busty air headed Barbie type and "feminine" activities like shopping aren't really relevant to this as a sexual fetish.

The types of girls I'm attracted to in these pictures are all sexily feminine but some have that look

http://crossdresserspassion.tumblr.com/post/79371313783
http://crossdresserspassion.tumblr.com/post/79371475926
http://crossdresserspassion.tumblr.com/post/79546110634

But many others don't

http://crossdresserspassion.tumblr.com/post/79545794044
http://crossdresserspassion.tumblr.com/post/79543445097
http://crossdresserspassion.tumblr.com/post/79385491460

 

[Jessica32120]

I'd take a guess and assume most CDs want to be submissive or bottomed during sex - is that true?

That's certainly me

I think, in the end, that's the ultimate expression of femininity, or a means to get closer to it, for a CD.

Yes, Jessica, that's exactly what I'm talking about. Some guys start dressing as girls because they really are girls inside and these are the ones that transition into being girls for real. Some guys start dressing as girls because they like the sexy feeling of dressing and acting feminine, it gets them off when they want it but they are not about being girls forever. While the first I respect and many such people can definitely be sexy, it's crossdresser girls like you with your stockings and flicking your blonde hair that really excite my personal fetish.

*blush*

*bites lip, runs a red fingernail around the rim of an empty wine glass*

What's a girl got to do to get a drink around here?

 

[stickygirl]

Haurni & JDS - please don't end up making judgements based on personal dress sense or it edges toward a purely personal choice of style and dress sense. Just as with cis-gender women, you can have (strong) girly-girls and more butch girls and they're both equals. I think we need to leave some room for choice or else you could end up arguing why blue is better than mauve.
All the same, I'm really grateful to have a chance to hear from CDs and their lovers. I'm finding it fascinating, so I hope others ( lurking? ) will speak up and add their own thoughts. Getting our stories out here is a way of preventing misunderstanding and false assumptions, because that road so often ends in tears.

 

[johnnysdirtysecret]

Haurni & JDS - please don't end up making judgements based on personal dress sense or it edges toward a purely personal choice of style and dress sense. Just as with cis-gender women, you can have (strong) girly-girls and more butch girls and they're both equals. I think we need to leave some room for choice or else you could end up arguing why blue is better than mauve.
All the same, I'm really grateful to have a chance to hear from CDs and their lovers. I'm finding it fascinating, so I hope others ( lurking? ) will speak up and add their own thoughts. Getting our stories out here is a way of preventing misunderstanding and false assumptions, because that road so often ends in tears.

No doubting all girls should be equal in their opportunities and possibilities in the world. But when it comes to the bedroom everyone has their particular interests and preferences and these are mine and, hopefully, some others as well, and that does come down to things like dress and style.

 

[johnnysdirtysecret]

*blush*

*bites lip, runs a red fingernail around the rim of an empty wine glass*

What's a girl got to do to get a drink around here?

Jessica, you sound like my kind of girl, I'd definitely be happy to be getting your drinks if I had the chance.

 

[haurni]

Haurni & JDS - please don't end up making judgements based on personal dress sense or it edges toward a purely personal choice of style and dress sense. Just as with cis-gender women, you can have (strong) girly-girls and more butch girls and they're both equals.

No doubting all girls should be equal in their opportunities and possibilities in the world. But when it comes to the bedroom everyone has their particular interests and preferences and these are mine and, hopefully, some others as well, and that does come down to things like dress and style.

I never intended to imply otherwise, SG (and JDS). My thinking is generally of the "whatever turns you on" variety and I try not to make judgements about people's kinks/fantasies - I have my own, after all. A few of the responders in the 'bimbo' thread are CDs and I was curious about the degree of overlap between the two interests.

 

[brent1814]

Agree with you Johnny, I find CD very sexy