A Shot in The Dark

xxerikamariexx

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Hey Guys,

I've posted here a handful times and honestly, it's usually a mixed bag. Sometimes I get some good guys who can actually hold a conversation that doesn't revolve around sex and then others are questionable, we'll leave it at that.

I'm not looking for a love connection, it's Lit after all. :)

But if you can hold a conversation that doesn't revolve completely around sex, I'd love to chat sometime.

-E
 
I am more than quietly confident that there are some great guys out there who can make utterances greater than a grunt and who won't make sex the beginning, middle and end of a conversation. That being said it's little wonder you are experiencing such a mixed bag and sex obsessed men. I mean men obsess about sex anyway :p but couple that with a community solely focused on it and it's absolutely zero wonder you are getting messages about it.

I chat to a couple of very nice ladies on this site but even they will happily and enthusiastically grip the conversation with both hands and drag it into the proverbial gutter. Would I like to have friendly, interesting and intellectual conversations with the opposite sex? Absolutely. Are there women here interested in that? Probably, but on a site like this I don't necessarily expect it ;)
 
I promise... there are guys and girls who can hold a conversation from here that doesnt have to do with sex.
 
Hey Guys,

I've posted here a handful times and honestly, it's usually a mixed bag. Sometimes I get some good guys who can actually hold a conversation that doesn't revolve around sex and then others are questionable, we'll leave it at that.

I'm not looking for a love connection, it's Lit after all. :)

But if you can hold a conversation that doesn't revolve completely around sex, I'd love to chat sometime.

-E

Hello there! I'd love to talk with you about life in general. How's the weekend going so far?
 
Hey Guys,

I've posted here a handful times and honestly, it's usually a mixed bag. Sometimes I get some good guys who can actually hold a conversation that doesn't revolve around sex and then others are questionable, we'll leave it at that.

I'm not looking for a love connection, it's Lit after all. :)

But if you can hold a conversation that doesn't revolve completely around sex, I'd love to chat sometime.

-E

Love to chat with you about life sometime. Had quite a few life experiences that I could share, including a great time in Boston on a visit. PM if you want.
 
Thought I'd bump this one. I'm an insomniac so sleep...what is that?

Anyway, I know Lit is probably not the place but I'm always up for good conversation.
 
What percentage of the conversatiin do you prefer revolve around sex. What non-sexual areas of interest do you wish to include?

It just seems to me that it would be more productive to start a thread on some topic that indicates an area of interest of yours. All that one can gather from this ad and your profile is that you are a cynical non-(or minimal)sexual romantic whatever that is.

Not meaning to pick on you in particular ...it was just typical of ads that protest a little too loudly about how they don't want sexual content.

Part of the trial of being a woman on literotica is you're going to have wade through a lot of socially inept pm's. I'm very well know the sort of approaches that you are not interested in..the same sort of approaches that any woman would not be interested in a non online settings one doesn't start conversations like that in a bar after all

The good news is you are a woman which means you're going to have lots of PM's to choose from regardless. Having some sort of choice is kind of a plus.

Reminds me of Jack Nicholson in the US good as it gets. "I'm sorry, it's late...we dont open for the non-sexos till 9."
 
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chat?

good morning erikamarie. 62 m here likes to chat but i gotta warn you i am a bit of a flirt. i can chat about stuff other than sex if you're interested in a guy my age. let me know.
 
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