How many guys have boned your wife?

Kenny9990

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Guys,

Do you know how many guys have fucked your wife. Before you or after you have been together? Has she told you her "number" and do you believe her?

Does her past make you angry or jealous or does it turn you on to think about her with others?

Do you personally know any of the boys or men men who have penetrated her? Have you discussed their experiences with your wife with them?

Personally, I started dating my wife in 1963 when we were both about 15 or 16. We started having sex--she was a virgin--and then her family moved across the country. We agreed we could "date" others--I thought that gave me a pass but she would be faithful. Wrong!

During high school apart she had sex with a couple of other guys--I knew two of them casually from when I visited in the summers.

Then we went to college far apart and she really picked up her activity when she started drinking and became known as the girl who would spread her legs after a few beers. Lots of guys tried her out.

We got married after college--now married for 45 years--and I thought she had been pretty conservative sexually while we had been apart. She admitted to three other guys, but that number grew as more stories came out. She's now said her number is 12 but I think she probably did more than that--maybe a lot more.

When we were younger, her activity made me a bit jealous and angry but now the stories turn me on--I love to hear them. She's had almost as many guys as I've had women.

And she's fucked a few of our friends since we've been married--at least two I know of but she tries to deny it. One of them admitted their affair to me and apologized to me. Turns me on thinking about him between her legs bareback.
 
My lovely wife was right off the showroom floor before I came along. I believe her because of the "physical evidence".
 
I'd say probably 10 or so....I don't really know. Maybe I should ask her one day....and if she asks me I wouldn't have an answer. I've forgotten or never really kept track. I'm a terrible score keeper
 
I've never been married, but I know I'd keep that info to myself. When the exact number is fuzzy at best, keeping mum is probably for the best. I've been asked before by lovers, and I've always told them that it's on a need to know basis. If it's a problem, tough luck. Move on.
 
I've never been married, but I know I'd keep that info to myself. When the exact number is fuzzy at best, keeping mum is probably for the best. I've been asked before by lovers, and I've always told them that it's on a need to know basis. If it's a problem, tough luck. Move on.

Now for some men that information might actually be a turn on
Just saying
 
I've never been married, but I know I'd keep that info to myself. When the exact number is fuzzy at best, keeping mum is probably for the best. I've been asked before by lovers, and I've always told them that it's on a need to know basis. If it's a problem, tough luck. Move on.

They ask for two reasons...to be jealous or to be turned on. :D
 
I have a different take. Right before we married my now ex-wife and I had a little row about my browser history. (This was back when decent desktops first came out with, yes, only dial-up service.) Well, next time I was alone I decided to forego her browser history and looked at "recent documents" and found her "30 by 30"list. So we got married a week before her 30th b-day and I was number 30.
It didn't upset me. We all have our different paths to where and when we meet. And yes, I met and knew several of the people on the list. Having met her at work, two were from there and these two, plus two other exes were at our wedding.
 
From what I've read and what I've heard from a few women who have admitted to what I "think" is the truth, many women have had more men than guys have had women. It's a lot easier for them to get laid than guys. However, few will want to admit it. Regardless of the "sexual revolution", there is still a double standard in many people's minds about women fucking around for fun. Women are really better at keeping secrets when they want to. If it bothers you, don't ask. My old boss used to say, "never ask a question if you don't want to hear the answer."
 
From what I've read and what I've heard from a few women who have admitted to what I "think" is the truth, many women have had more men than guys have had women.

I don't know how true that is in general, but I am pretty sure that I have had more partners than any of my partners have. Maybe a few have 'passed' me in the intervening years, and if so, good for them!
 
I don't know how true that is in general, but I am pretty sure that I have had more partners than any of my partners have. Maybe a few have 'passed' me in the intervening years, and if so, good for them!

That is so funny that they have passed you! I hope you have passed me. :D
 
I've never asked and she's never offered to tell me. Don't really care what the number was. Far more concerned about since we got together, which I believe is zero other than me.

I have met her ex husband as well as the boyfriend she was with for several years. I also know a coworker that we both had who she had a sex only relationship with for a while.

Now, as far as details go, I love hearing about her past exploits. Some of them were very hot and got me very excited! I would love to hear more, but she is not all that eager to share. Her choice! I guess we'll just have to make some hot memories for me to recall at the right moment!
 
I do, too! Clerks rocks!

How many dicks have you sucked? :D Did you snowball any of them?

Never understood the reasoning behind hiding your sexual exploits with former partners. Sexuality is something that should be celebrated not shunned, even for women. So what if you've sucked 37 dicks, doesn't make you any less of a person, just means you like giving blowjobs. Not only that, but a guy should be turned on by it. If a girl sucks that much, she could probably suck start a Harley, which I'm sure any guy would appreciate.

But to answer your original question; fucked 4 guys, sucked 3 of them, snowballed 1. Also fucked 3 women.
 
I will be honest, I couldn't tell you my wife's real number. I know of a few of the guys but I am sure there are more I don't know about. Either way, I am the guy she is with now. :D
 
Never understood the reasoning behind hiding your sexual exploits with former partners. Sexuality is something that should be celebrated not shunned, even for women. So what if you've sucked 37 dicks, doesn't make you any less of a person, just means you like giving blowjobs. Not only that, but a guy should be turned on by it. If a girl sucks that much, she could probably suck start a Harley, which I'm sure any guy would appreciate.

But to answer your original question; fucked 4 guys, sucked 3 of them, snowballed 1. Also fucked 3 women.

I want my woman to be great in bed, but I don't want to know how she got so good in bed. I don't want to think about her with other guys. I know it turns some people on to think of their mate(s) with someone else, it just doesn't work for me.
 
I want my woman to be great in bed, but I don't want to know how she got so good in bed. I don't want to think about her with other guys. I know it turns some people on to think of their mate(s) with someone else, it just doesn't work for me.

What about it are you so uncomfortable with? I can understand it not turning you on but does it actually turn you off?
 
What about it are you so uncomfortable with? I can understand it not turning you on but does it actually turn you off?

I think it would a bit.
If I'm with someone I'm a one woman guy. I don't want to be with anyone else and the idea of her with someone else makes me cringe. I understand that she's had a past. I just don't want to know about it.
 
I think it would a bit.
If I'm with someone I'm a one woman guy. I don't want to be with anyone else and the idea of her with someone else makes me cringe. I understand that she's had a past. I just don't want to know about it.

To each their own. I can't fault you for your preferences. :)

Me personally though, I want to know everything about my lovers. If they enjoyed something with someone else, I want to do it better. Knowing all those little secrets only helps make you a better lover yourself. Plus the bad experiences are often times something you both can laugh at :D
 
To each their own. I can't fault you for your preferences. :)

Me personally though, I want to know everything about my lovers. If they enjoyed something with someone else, I want to do it better. Knowing all those little secrets only helps make you a better lover yourself. Plus the bad experiences are often times something you both can laugh at :D

Oh, I certainly want to know every little thing she likes. I just don't want the details on how she knows she likes it.
 
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