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Well, here I go. As you can see this is a rather long post, but with more detail and a more sincere description of what I’m seeking. Thanks for reading…
I’m 26, male, Greek-Canadian, born and raised just outside of Toronto but currently living in Toronto near Yonge and Sheppard.
I am seeking a woman of any age or background who feels she understands who I am and what I’m seeking as I describe below. Hopefully, you’re within travelling distance of me.
To start, and perhaps this is the wrong thing to do but I want to be honest, I do have a girlfriend. I understand that some may feel this is dishonest of me, or worse, by posting here. But I’m looking for something that my relationship with her can’t provide right now.
My girlfriend is quite religious (Christian) and I respect that. I’m not, but she respects me for that as well. As a result of that, she doesn’t want to have sex before marriage. I’m fine with that, I would never pressure anyone to do something they didn’t want, but I’m missing that physical intimacy.
That’s what I’m seeking. Physical intimacy.
I had a conversation with someone on here where she said “so basically you’re just looking for someone to fuck”?
No, surprisingly, I’m not. I’m looking for physical intimacy. I think there’s a difference.
I want to find someone that I can be close to, mentally and in time, physically, if we’re the right match. I’m not looking to break up with my girlfriend. Instead I’m seeking someone who is willing to be completely discreet. If you are also in a relationship, married or otherwise, then we would both understand the importance of being discreet.
But aside from physical intimacy, as I said above I’m also looking for mental intimacy. Now that I type that it seems a bit strange, but let me explain.
I want someone whom I can text and phone and chat (where discretion allows) when I feel the need for intimacy, and I want the other person to feel the same. I want to be able to have someone who I can reveal my deepest, darkest, fantasies, desires, needs, wants, etc.
This could be as simple as sexually teasing each other at work through texts and emails, to me going into my office stairwell to masturbate at the photos you took in your office stall for me.
Or, if we were comfortable enough to meet, we could meet in a local bookstore (Chapters) and pretend we don’t know each other as we walk past each other in the aisle…but I would walk closely to you, brushing up behind you as we both reach for the same book…perhaps stealing desperate kisses before someone interrupts us.
In time, if we grew more comfortable with each other, we could arrange to meet privately, to be completely intimate. But that’s something that we would determine after we got to know each other.
Another confession. I am a virgin. Yes, even at 26. That being said I have done everything else, including oral (which I love). So I’m not a complete novice.
As I said above, I’m in a relationship already. I’m not looking to break up anyone else’s, so I would expect discretion from you and respect whichever level of discretion you require.
Now the more depressing and perhaps deserved (to me) section. I’ve been posting on and off on Lit for a couple years, and although I think I’m getting better at articulating what I’m seeking in my posts, I’ve never met anyone from here. I’ve chatted with some sure, but they always seem to drift off, or never respond after agreeing to meet up (that happened once), or are too far (way too far) away.
But there is a part of me, whether right or wrong, that continually seeks that person who understands who I am and what I’m looking for. If you believe you do, or would like to talk further with me, then feel free to PM me or email me at michael.kerian87@gmail.com.
Hope to hear from you,
Michael
I’m 26, male, Greek-Canadian, born and raised just outside of Toronto but currently living in Toronto near Yonge and Sheppard.
I am seeking a woman of any age or background who feels she understands who I am and what I’m seeking as I describe below. Hopefully, you’re within travelling distance of me.
To start, and perhaps this is the wrong thing to do but I want to be honest, I do have a girlfriend. I understand that some may feel this is dishonest of me, or worse, by posting here. But I’m looking for something that my relationship with her can’t provide right now.
My girlfriend is quite religious (Christian) and I respect that. I’m not, but she respects me for that as well. As a result of that, she doesn’t want to have sex before marriage. I’m fine with that, I would never pressure anyone to do something they didn’t want, but I’m missing that physical intimacy.
That’s what I’m seeking. Physical intimacy.
I had a conversation with someone on here where she said “so basically you’re just looking for someone to fuck”?
No, surprisingly, I’m not. I’m looking for physical intimacy. I think there’s a difference.
I want to find someone that I can be close to, mentally and in time, physically, if we’re the right match. I’m not looking to break up with my girlfriend. Instead I’m seeking someone who is willing to be completely discreet. If you are also in a relationship, married or otherwise, then we would both understand the importance of being discreet.
But aside from physical intimacy, as I said above I’m also looking for mental intimacy. Now that I type that it seems a bit strange, but let me explain.
I want someone whom I can text and phone and chat (where discretion allows) when I feel the need for intimacy, and I want the other person to feel the same. I want to be able to have someone who I can reveal my deepest, darkest, fantasies, desires, needs, wants, etc.
This could be as simple as sexually teasing each other at work through texts and emails, to me going into my office stairwell to masturbate at the photos you took in your office stall for me.
Or, if we were comfortable enough to meet, we could meet in a local bookstore (Chapters) and pretend we don’t know each other as we walk past each other in the aisle…but I would walk closely to you, brushing up behind you as we both reach for the same book…perhaps stealing desperate kisses before someone interrupts us.
In time, if we grew more comfortable with each other, we could arrange to meet privately, to be completely intimate. But that’s something that we would determine after we got to know each other.
Another confession. I am a virgin. Yes, even at 26. That being said I have done everything else, including oral (which I love). So I’m not a complete novice.
As I said above, I’m in a relationship already. I’m not looking to break up anyone else’s, so I would expect discretion from you and respect whichever level of discretion you require.
Now the more depressing and perhaps deserved (to me) section. I’ve been posting on and off on Lit for a couple years, and although I think I’m getting better at articulating what I’m seeking in my posts, I’ve never met anyone from here. I’ve chatted with some sure, but they always seem to drift off, or never respond after agreeing to meet up (that happened once), or are too far (way too far) away.
But there is a part of me, whether right or wrong, that continually seeks that person who understands who I am and what I’m looking for. If you believe you do, or would like to talk further with me, then feel free to PM me or email me at michael.kerian87@gmail.com.
Hope to hear from you,
Michael