Daddy fetish (New)

[sereneone4u]

I prefer the Serene smile.

*serene smile*

 

[Miasorrow]

You don't think a offline relationship can be symbiotic?
I find my good relationships always are.
Far more experienced?
I have had two online Daddies and the last one was several years ago.
Don't know about being far more experienced.

Of course an online relationship is symbiotic (a co evolution type of one). I never said the opposite and I agreed with you in the first place.
Having two similar relationships in the past makes you more experienced in my opinion.
Also I never implied Kal was your Daddy.
In fact, what I merely asked is if an online relationship is different from a real life one.
That's all.

 

[sereneone4u]

Of course an online relationship is symbiotic (a co evolution type of one). I never said the opposite and I agreed with you in the first place.
Having two similar relationships in the past makes you more experienced in my opinion.
Also I never implied Kal was your Daddy.
In fact, what I merely asked is if an online relationship is different from a real life one.
That's all.

I am sorry if I came off. . . rude?
Not my intention at all.
I think both online and offline can be symbiotic, it depends on the people involved.
I don't know your level of experience.
I did not know if you had offline and/or online Daddy relationships.
I thought you did not know that I have only had two online Daddy relationships, the last one being Rob1514 and that was about three years ago or so.
So I was attempting to share.
I think Kal was making sure no one thought he was a Daddy when he is a Sir "only"
He will have to speak on that if he wishes.
I think the difference is only physical if one is an online only and one is offline.
I have developed feelings for people that I have known only online as I would people offline.
For example I have made dear friends in both those worlds, only offline ones I get to see in person and do in person things.
Did that makes sense?

I hope you are having a good week, Miasorrow.

 

[Miasorrow]

I am sorry if I came off. . . rude?
Not my intention at all.
I think both online and offline can be symbiotic, it depends on the people involved.
I don't know your level of experience.
I did not know if you had offline and/or online Daddy relationships.
I thought you did not know that I have only had two online Daddy relationships, the last one being Rob1514 and that was about three years ago or so.
So I was attempting to share.
I think Kal was making sure no one thought he was a Daddy when he is a Sir "only"
He will have to speak on that if he wishes.
I think the difference is only physical if one is an online only and one is offline.
I have developed feelings for people that I have known only online as I would people offline.
For example I have made dear friends in both those worlds, only offline ones I get to see in person and do in person things.
Did that makes sense?

I hope you are having a good week, Miasorrow.

No need to apologise, I was just trying to make my self clear.
I do not have experience on those relationships.
I never brought Kal to that conversation.
I do not think that the difference is only physical cause that would mean that when you meet the partner in person everything would be the same. Which is not the case.
Of course you develop feelings which in the end only come down to a friendship.
Thank you for sharing.

 

[sereneone4u]

No need to apologise, I was just trying to make my self clear.
I do not have experience on those relationships.
I never brought Kal to that conversation.
I do not think that the difference is only physical cause that would mean that when you meet the partner in person everything would be the same. Which is not the case.
Of course you develop feelings which in the end only come down to a friendship.
Thank you for sharing.

No not everything the same because it would be in person and physical. But I think the feeling and connection are the same and might become deeper. Maybe not.

Too many variables really.

 

[Miasorrow]

No not everything the same because it would be in person and physical. But I think the feeling and connection are the same and might become deeper. Maybe not.

Too many variables really.

Yes, you are right. Meeting a soul mate in person might feel perfect or not feel as you expected at all. Sometimes, our mind says yes but our body and senses do not follow..Can someone fall in love without smelling and observing another with his senses? Is there a reason we have 5 senses and not only one mind..

 

[TwoShades]

Yes, you are right. Meeting a soul mate in person might feel perfect or not feel as you expected at all. Sometimes, our mind says yes but our body and senses do not follow..Can someone fall in love without smelling and observing another with his senses? Is there a reason we have 5 senses and not only one mind..

Well said.

 

[sereneone4u]

Yes, you are right. Meeting a soul mate in person might feel perfect or not feel as you expected at all. Sometimes, our mind says yes but our body and senses do not follow..Can someone fall in love without smelling and observing another with his senses? Is there a reason we have 5 senses and not only one mind..

Excellent post, Mia.

I base things on my experience as far as online/offline.

I have talked to people online and met them in person and it has been just as nice. A couple were not what they appeared at all. Some were even better.

Same thing with offline relationships in a way. Meet someone like them just as much as when I first met them. Others in time, no thank you. Then there are those that just transcend in time.

I have only had one lover I met from online and things were the same in person. We had known each other over a year and met several times for over a year.

I can only talk of my experience.

 

[EmeraldKnight007]

I had a female friend I wrote with who was into gay and lesbian sex and incest stuff. We would write together, then call each other to listen to each other get off. One time we were writing and I got her so worked up she demanded to hear my voice and the entire time I was talking to her, telling her what to do, she called me daddy.

 

[Angellica1612]

Hello everyone. Thank you for the birthday well wishes, it was a great birthday, my first spent here with my wonderful Daddy M! How could it be anything but awesome??!!

To chime in on your conversation about on and off line, in my experience you can certainly fall in love with someone online and find it to be the same when you meet off line. However, that is not always the case. It depends on the people involved. Whether you meet on or off line, it's still 2 people, and people can be very hard to predict. I think that an online relationship can be just as real and emotional as an offline one - but it does lack the physical contact. And since physical contact is a very big part of "love" between two adults, it's not the same, in my opinion. While online can be as emotionally deep as offline, it does lack the ability to share yourself in the ultimate way, by sharing your body as freely as you share you soul. If the two people involved go in knowing that that physical contact will never happen, and are ok with that, then that relationship can be just as real and fulfilling to them as another couple's offline relationship. There's nothing wrong with it and it IS a real relationship. But no matter how close you become, if you do finally meet, it may well change everything. Mutato and I got lucky - it's even better in person than it was online. I think the key here is to go into it with eyes open and considering all possibilities. Mutato and I both knew there was a chance, however tiny it seemed to us, that we wouldn't feel the same once we met. I guess what I really want to say is that everyone has to decide for themselves exactly what kind of relationship is best for them - and don't let anyone else tell you you can't do it that way, or you are wrong for choosing it!

Hope everyone has a lovely day!
Angel

 

[sereneone4u]

Hello everyone. Thank you for the birthday well wishes, it was a great birthday, my first spent here with my wonderful Daddy M! How could it be anything but awesome??!!

To chime in on your conversation about on and off line, in my experience you can certainly fall in love with someone online and find it to be the same when you meet off line. However, that is not always the case. It depends on the people involved. Whether you meet on or off line, it's still 2 people, and people can be very hard to predict. I think that an online relationship can be just as real and emotional as an offline one - but it does lack the physical contact. And since physical contact is a very big part of "love" between two adults, it's not the same, in my opinion. While online can be as emotionally deep as offline, it does lack the ability to share yourself in the ultimate way, by sharing your body as freely as you share you soul. If the two people involved go in knowing that that physical contact will never happen, and are ok with that, then that relationship can be just as real and fulfilling to them as another couple's offline relationship. There's nothing wrong with it and it IS a real relationship. But no matter how close you become, if you do finally meet, it may well change everything. Mutato and I got lucky - it's even better in person than it was online. I think the key here is to go into it with eyes open and considering all possibilities. Mutato and I both knew there was a chance, however tiny it seemed to us, that we wouldn't feel the same once we met. I guess what I really want to say is that everyone has to decide for themselves exactly what kind of relationship is best for them - and don't let anyone else tell you you can't do it that way, or you are wrong for choosing it!

Hope everyone has a lovely day!
Angel

Good to "see" you Angel.

Hoping things are looking up.

 

[Angellica1612]

Good to "see" you Angel.

Hoping things are looking up.

Hi Serene Things are still tough and stressful, but there's light at the end of the tunnel and for once, it doesn't seem to be a high-speed train, lol.

Hugs!
Angel

 

[sereneone4u]

Hi Serene Things are still tough and stressful, but there's light at the end of the tunnel and for once, it doesn't seem to be a high-speed train, lol.

Hugs!
Angel

Oh thank God!

I am glad to hear some good news coming your family's way!

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

Hello everyone. Thank you for the birthday well wishes, it was a great birthday, my first spent here with my wonderful Daddy M! How could it be anything but awesome??!!

To chime in on your conversation about on and off line, in my experience you can certainly fall in love with someone online and find it to be the same when you meet off line. However, that is not always the case. It depends on the people involved. Whether you meet on or off line, it's still 2 people, and people can be very hard to predict. I think that an online relationship can be just as real and emotional as an offline one - but it does lack the physical contact. And since physical contact is a very big part of "love" between two adults, it's not the same, in my opinion. While online can be as emotionally deep as offline, it does lack the ability to share yourself in the ultimate way, by sharing your body as freely as you share you soul. If the two people involved go in knowing that that physical contact will never happen, and are ok with that, then that relationship can be just as real and fulfilling to them as another couple's offline relationship. There's nothing wrong with it and it IS a real relationship. But no matter how close you become, if you do finally meet, it may well change everything. Mutato and I got lucky - it's even better in person than it was online. I think the key here is to go into it with eyes open and considering all possibilities. Mutato and I both knew there was a chance, however tiny it seemed to us, that we wouldn't feel the same once we met. I guess what I really want to say is that everyone has to decide for themselves exactly what kind of relationship is best for them - and don't let anyone else tell you you can't do it that way, or you are wrong for choosing it!

Hope everyone has a lovely day!
Angel

 

[INeedLove]

I love this thread and miss the people who have faded from it or left Lit altogether. We go through transformations every time someone leaves or a new person comes on board. Everyone leaves their "impression" behind, like a foot step. With luck, my foot steps have been helpful and supportive, caring and sometimes feisty. Always remember you are important.

https://24.media.tumblr.com/065258186fbbc845e66e7f310d884c89/tumblr_n1o9ucHGJq1sa07uto1_500.png

 

[tiedtits4me]

Hugs, tied!

.......................

My mother had her triple bypass on Tuesday and is recovering. She should be in a regular room tomorrow and be home in a week.

Thank you for your prayers and positive thoughts.

*huge back* Thank you

I'm so glad to hear that Serene

Hi Serene Things are still tough and stressful, but there's light at the end of the tunnel and for once, it doesn't seem to be a high-speed train, lol.

Hugs!
Angel

It's good to hear that it wont be a speeding train.

I love this thread and miss the people who have faded from it or left Lit altogether. We go through transformations every time someone leaves or a new person comes on board. Everyone leaves their "impression" behind, like a foot step. With luck, my foot steps have been helpful and supportive, caring and sometimes feisty. Always remember you are important.

https://24.media.tumblr.com/065258186fbbc845e66e7f310d884c89/tumblr_n1o9ucHGJq1sa07uto1_500.png

Beautifully said INL

 

[Lil_nat968]

It's hard finding a good Daddy who cares for his little girl and accepts her the ways he is.

 

[KalIsBack]

It's hard finding a good Daddy who cares for his little girl and accepts her the ways he is.

Difficult, but not impossible.

And made difficult, I should add, only by those laaaarge numbers of men that enjoy the thrill of power in bed, without all the loving, tender care and affection that come with being a daddy both in and out of the bedroom.

But the right Daddy is out there.

 

[KalIsBack]

Good morning/afternoon, littles and Daddies. I hope you're all enjoying this weekend. It's quite lovely here. The greenery is flourishing in the wake of this rain, and the air smells terrific. Makes one appreciate these things.

 

[sereneone4u]

Difficult, but not impossible.

And made difficult, I should add, only by those laaaarge numbers of men that enjoy the thrill of power in bed, without all the loving, tender care and affection that come with being a daddy both in and out of the bedroom.

But the right Daddy is out there.

Oh? Does that include Sirs enjoying the power in bed WITH all the loving, tender care and affection?

 

[KalIsBack]

Oh? Does that include Sirs enjoying the power in bed WITH all the loving, tender care and affection?

Indeed it does.

 

[LittleRain]

Daddy for Me

I started out reading the stories, then eventually began reading the threads. The D/g fetish really got me going from the start. Hopefully, I will find the perfect Daddy. I want to be cherished, ravished, teased & pleased.

 

[daddysgirl88]

No one is as good as a daddy

Ever since my first daddy online many years ago, I've been addicted to them. No one makes me wetter, or cum harder than a daddy!

 

[Horus_rules]

I talked to a friend the other day about this kind of relationship and she mistakenly thought that being a little involved acting like a juvenile instead of her own personality. I tried explaining the little role to her, but it hard for me to do. There was an excellent post on another thread about what a daddy Dom is like, but I need a good one for the little. Could some of you sweet little angels help me out.

What does being a little mean to you?

 

[INeedLove]

I talked to a friend the other day about this kind of relationship and she mistakenly thought that being a little involved acting like a juvenile instead of her own personality. I tried explaining the little role to her, but it hard for me to do. There was an excellent post on another thread about what a daddy Dom is like, but I need a good one for the little. Could some of you sweet little angels help me out.

What does being a little mean to you?

This came from Tumblr. I couldn't find the post to which you are referring. But this might give your friend some ideas:


Daddy Doms and their little girls

Daddy Doms and their little girls

There is a lot of controversy and misconception surrounding this particular type of D/s relationship and to be honest, i, myself, was one of those perpetrators of ignorance until a few weeks back. Most people who do not put the time and effort into researching and trying to understand the Daddy Dom / little girl relationship dynamic are convinced that it revolves around incest and/or paedophilia. While for some individuals this is true, for the majority of true Daddy Dom and little girl relationships this couldn’t be further from the truth.

The first point i’d like to make is: Daddy Doms and their little girls are NOT sick and twisted perverts driven by deep seated incestuous or paedophilic desires.

Taking it too far – when men want their littles to look and act like real little girls because they get off from the illusion of having sex with an underage child. This kind of creeps me out to be honest!

Daddy Doms are not Fathers:

Unlike age-players who both enjoy and get off on viewing their partner as a real father figure or child, Daddy Doms are not fathers to their littles nor are littles children to their Daddy Doms. Daddy Doms view their roles much as a Master or Dominant would theirs, as a position of power over their submissive.

Little girls are NOT daughters:

Little girls do not desire a father or father figure, nor do they desire to be or be seen as little children. They are simply adult women with a childlike personality and who appreciate an emotionally mature partner to protect, comfort and love them. Littles in a DD/lg relationship are not interested in incest!

If he isn’t a father and she isn’s a daughter, what are they?

Daddy Doms are Dominants who simply assume a much more nurturing and caring role than Dominants in other types of D/s relationships. Little girls are submissive women who have a naturally childlike personality that is especially dominant in them when they are around a Daddy Dom who makes them feel safe and cherished.

Getting it right – a woman’s figure, ample assets, she is a real woman with a hint of child-like little coming through

Daddy Doms vs. Masters:

Daddy Doms are just like other Dominants and Masters but with 1 or 2 key differences. They still take charge and enjoy being in control but they often enforce different kinds of rules. Daddy Doms will more likely focus on their sibmissive’s personal growth, goals and needs than on things like protocol and how certain actions are carried out. Another difference is that Daddy Doms not only accept but actually value and treasure their submissive’s inner little, encouraging their sub to enter and even live in ‘little space’, to play and to explore and enjoy their little side. Other Masters may rather prefer a submissive with an adult attitude towards life and may actually find littles annoying. Another big difference between other Dominants and Daddy Doms is that being playful, having fun and being able to laugh, A LOT, is a necessity and it is also essential to have a nurturing and affectionate relationship with your little. Not to say that other types of Masters cannot show affection but for the most part they seem to me more stoic, more rigid and far less full of warm fuzzies.

The Title of ‘Daddy’:

When a little calls her Dominant ‘Daddy’, it is only a title, a love name if you will, and not meant as a reference to a father in any way. This title alone has caused much controversy and even some lifestylers in Daddy Dom / little girl relationships have their reservations about it. The feeling a little gets from calling her Dominant ‘Daddy’ is certainly not the same feeling she will get when calling her father ‘daddy’. Just the same, one will not feel the same when you say ‘I love you’ to your parents and to your lover/partner.

The Title of little girl:

Daddy Doms may call their littles by many different love names, dependant on his own personal preference and the personality of his little. Some names for littles may include little girl, little one, sweetheart and many others. Just as Daddy is simply a title so it ‘little girl’ and it by no means refers to the submissive as a daughter or underage child.

Daddy Doms and Sadism:
Just because a Daddy Dom is nurturing and affectionate does not mean that he cannot be sadistic as well. They can enjoy and embrace their inner sadist while catering to and fulfilling their submissive’s masochistic side.
Littles and masochism:

Not all submissives are masochists and so too not all littles enjoy pain. However, there is a good deal that does enjoy having their Dominant inflict physical pain on them, predominantly through spanking. It is these littles how are most compatible with a sadistic Daddy Dom who will feed their craving for pain and take pleasure in it at the same time.

What is a Daddy-Dom’s job?
First and foremost, Daddy Doms are Dominants and as such it is his job to take charge of his little, to guide her and help her achieve her goals, to protect her and to love and nurture her. Other types of Dominants may be free to flippantly order their submissive around purely for their own pleasure but Daddy Doms dominate and enforce rules according to goals set in place in order to nurture and guide their little and based on what is in their submissive’s best interest.

That being said, Daddy Doms do get a great deal of pleasure from their littles both sexually and otherwise.

Why Daddy Doms are the way they are and why do they like ‘little’ submissives?

Being a Daddy Dom is simply a part of someone’s personality, he likes being a dominant but he likes doing to in a more affectionate and nurturing capacity than is the accepted norm for D/s lifestyle relationships. Daddy Doms often enjoy and find both the little and adult sides of their submissives attractive and can appreciate them both. littles appeal to them because they cater to their desires to nurture, protect and love as well as him enjoying and being amused by the natural, child-like little girl personality in a beautiful adult woman’s body. (NOTE: Daddy Doms are not paedophiles; they do not see their submissives as little girls but rather appreciate the naturally occurring child-like attributes of their personality.)

Adult sexy with cute pigtails in the classic school girl fantasy role play.
Why are littles the way they are and why do they need a Daddy Dom?

Littles are unique women who retain a childlike aspect of their personality. This isn’t to say that there is something wrong with them, on the contrary, although the majority of society doesn’t understand their inner little and so sees it as something undesirable. These women need Daddy Doms to make them feel safe, to embrace their inner littles and accept them for who they are in their entirety, the grown up woman and the inner little girl.

Daddy Doms, little girls and Sex

Because of the misconceptions that Daddy Doms are fathers to their littles, reconciling the Daddy/little girl relationship with 2 sexually active, consenting adults often leads to the conclusion that these couples must be sick perverts. This is not true, Daddy Dom/little girl relationships, unlike age role-players, do not see or desire to see their partners as underage children or real father figures. They see each other as consenting adults with the bodies and minds of competent adults. It is simply their personalities that define them as mature, nurturing and dominant or child-like, young at heart and submissive.

What is a Daddy Dom Like?

Daddy Doms love their littles unconditionally. They cherish the woman as well as her inner little and revel in her childlike personality, her innocence and her appreciation of the simple things like cuddles and cartoons on a weekend morning, milkshakes instead of coffee and the way she turns to him for reassurance. He protects her, guides her when she is unsure of loses her way, he helps her reach her goals and is proud of her when she does. Daddy Doms with a sadistic streak may love to cause her physical pain, the type she likes and craves, but he hates and does everything he can not to hurt her emotionally. He will punish her for transgression, whether he enjoys it or not, and will praise her for a job well done. It takes a great deal of discipline and strength from a Daddy Dom to do what he needs to do: dominate, care for, guide, punish, praise, comfort, understand and love his little. He draws on his own life experiences to guide her and keep her safe all the while accepting her as his, all parts of her – grown up and little.

What is a little like?

Littles are very complex women as they are both sexy, adult women and cute inner littles. They can very well run a company but also may sleep with a teddy bear at night for comfort. She enjoys ‘little’ behaviour which may include games, puzzles, colouring in, arts and crafts, watching cartoons and going out for ice-cream. However, she also enjoys adult interests such as sexy lingerie, girls night out with friends, shopping and much more. She feels safest in her Daddy Dom’s arms and around him she is free to be herself, a quickly mix of adult and little girl and she is free to pursue her ‘little’ interests. She may be needy and whiny at times, she may have irrational fears. She will most likely pout and sulk sometimes but she will also light up with an innocent child-like enthusiasm for things she enjoys and, of course, for her Daddy Dom. She is submissive by nature, seeing the guidance, domination and nurturing love of a Daddy Dom who will guide, protect and comfort her when the world becomes too much to handle. She respects him, submits to his will and trusts him completely to keep her save and love her.

Daddy Dom and little girl vs. Age Play:

Unlike age players, Daddy Doms and their littles are not after the experience of being a father/older man or a physically and mentally underage child, desires which stem from deeply rooted incestuous and paedophilic desires. They are 2 adults with specific personality traits who are compatible with each other and work together towards a common goal, much like any other ‘vanilla’ relationship. Little girl submissives may have teddy bears and often enjoy many of the pastimes that younger children enjoy like puzzles, games and watching cartoons. They may also enjoy wearing cutsey items like PJ’s with cute bunnies or teddies on them, cartoon character t-shirts and maybe even wearing their hair in pigtails. However, their aim is not to look prepubescent because even under all that cute they are still a whole lot of fully grown adult woman.

There is always an exception:

There is always an exception to every rule and DD/lg relationships are no different. There will always be those living under the label of Daddy Dom and little girl who derive pleasure not from the relationship as i have outlined above but rather as a more permanent type of age role play where the little is chosen for her young age and acts, dresses and is essentially made to be an underage child. Where both parties derive pleasure from fulfilling deep seated paedophilic and incestuous fantasies through age role play and label it a DD/lg relationship. Now, i’m not talking about the super common school girl fantasy that many men have, after all, a more mature woman can easily dress up as a school girl to make that fantasy a reality for her partner without crossing the line. What i am talking about is barely legal littles with nearly prepubescent bodies who can easily pass for being 13 or 14 years old in the right clothes who are adopted by ‘Daddy Doms’ for their ability to, when acting the part, seem like a real underage child and the dominants get their pleasure from the illusion that they are really being intimate with a child. That is not the Daddy Dom and little girl relationship i am referring to as defined by my personal opinions on what i think DD/lg should be.

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