Who's plearsure is it ?

[u22u2]

Girls.and guys too I guess, when your sucking a dick aren't you getting more pleasure than your giving ? I know I get more out of eating a hot pussy than I'm giving. I love to be in a wet snatch and don't care if she cums or not. I know they almost always do but that's not my drive. My drive is my mouth full of cunt.
Anytime babe

 

[Desiremakesmeweak]

It's actually a really good question.

I think you're absolutely right - mostly, the person sucking/licking/eating, gets the main pleasure.

But then, if the other person acknowledges that pleasure then you get a different dynamic going on - something where there is real mutual support for the other person's pleasure.

Oral sex is just plain NOT a technical thing entirely. You see so many 'sex manuals' talking extensively about technique: 'make the letters of the alphabet with your tongue/lick it like it was an ice cream cone...'

Sure that's all great but behind it all there is either SO MUCH MORE going on - or so little else...

It's the 'so much more' part that interests me these days. And I think that as soon as you hit a person who acts as if their 'technique' will say it all, then you will experience the 'so little else' part!

And the trouble with pop sex ideas, and tv-land ideas about sex, and all those sex manuals, is that people jump to a conclusion about technique that is entirely over-balanced to the wrong end of things.

 

[CBM514]

Many people get more out of giving than receiving...but technique without enthusiasm doesn't matter...I would far rather her enjoy it and me know she likes it then anything else...

 

[drinkz]

Query Wins. When you win the internetz, all it says is that you're a sad, pathetic, man in real life.

 

[southern_gal]

I could answer this both ways I think. On one hand I like to think that I satisfy him because that is more important to me than my own enjoyment but on the other hand, there are times that I know he wants me to use more pressure or increase the speed because he wants to cum but I take my time because I enjoy it so much.

 

[lk2011]

I know when my gf blows me... I get the enjoyment, and she just gets a sore jaw. She doesn't do it often, and seems to enjoy it even less. lol

 

[rainsol]

I could answer this both ways I think. On one hand I like to think that I satisfy him because that is more important to me than my own enjoyment but on the other hand, there are times that I know he wants me to use more pressure or increase the speed because he wants to cum but I take my time because I enjoy it so much.

My kind of girl.

 

[Yachtsman69]

I really get off on giving oral pleasure. I have met many women who are the same way. Put the two together with 69 and both are in for some serious fun. I love it when the excitement of the partners in 69 keeps building on itself and gives both even more energy - incentive - motivation to up the ante so to speak. Such sexy fun...

 

[amofiga]

Girls.and guys too I guess, when your sucking a dick aren't you getting more pleasure than your giving ? I know I get more out of eating a hot pussy than I'm giving. I love to be in a wet snatch and don't care if she cums or not. I know they almost always do but that's not my drive. My drive is my mouth full of cunt.
Anytime babe

My friend, you and I must have been cast from the same pussy eaters mold. I am forever confused and wonder about men who hate eating pussy and hearing from women who say their husbands or boyfriends don't give them any or grudgingly insufficient oral. I've known the same range of women. Some wouldn't put a cock in their mouth unless they had a gun to their head and some delighted in the feel of a throbbing cock in their mouth and the taste of cum. Everyone is different. Don't try to rationalize it or you'll go insane.

I think we need to start some sort of website to match devout pussy eaters with women who love cumming on guys' faces and women who are devout cock sucking cum eaters with the men who adore feeding it to them. We need to forever prevent the mismatches.

 

[Jesella22]

Whats the Point?

Girls.and guys too I guess, when your sucking a dick aren't you getting more pleasure than your giving ? I know I get more out of eating a hot pussy than I'm giving. I love to be in a wet snatch and don't care if she cums or not. I know they almost always do but that's not my drive. My drive is my mouth full of cunt.
Anytime babe

K whats the point of eating pussy...if the other person doesn't get off on it too? Guess I prefer to receive oral than give oral.

 

[knottygirl]

Girls.and guys too I guess, when your sucking a dick aren't you getting more pleasure than your giving ? I know I get more out of eating a hot pussy than I'm giving. I love to be in a wet snatch and don't care if she cums or not. I know they almost always do but that's not my drive. My drive is my mouth full of cunt.
Anytime babe

I can't relate to this at all. My pleasure is derived from their pleasure. Making them cum is the best part!

 

[emma_the_librarian]

It seems to me that we feed off each other...I get more enjoyment when I hear him moan and start panting...he gets enjoyment when I suck, moan, show how much I like it, etc.
...we both escalate to his orgasm and we're both happy at the end.

 

[UhlBWett]

Bring it on over here baby girl

K whats the point of eating pussy...if the other person doesn't get off on it too? Guess I prefer to receive oral than give oral.

I'll lick you in ways that haven't been invented yet.

 

[EndlessNameless]

I can't relate to this at all. My pleasure is derived from their pleasure. Making them cum is the best part!

That's me exactly. I like giving more than receiving (plus it's fun being a tease anyway) but I certainly don't complain about receiving. I just like knowing I can please and get another person off. That's the best part, imo.

 

[Jesella22]

Lick

I'll lick you in ways that haven't been invented yet.

If only you could be that lucky sweetie....

 

[curiousdreamer51]

Interesting

The giving vs. receiving discussions are interesting observations of the differences in all of us.

When it comes to 69 it presents a real conundrum for me. It seems that we are both giving and receiving but....with my personal desires I tend to not get a lot from the receiving end of the 69 proposition. I always focus on her pleasure to the exclusion, not complete exclusion, of my pleasure. She readily admits that she is turned on by the feel of my cock and my oral administrations send her over the top...I love my role in her complete pleasure. I have rarely cum during a 69 sessions and she always does!

That said, for me, I prefer to layback and experience the pleasure of a blow job with no other thoughts or physical distractions other than the pleasure she is giving me. The pleasure becomes even greater when I see her hand disappear between her legs and she times her orgasm to mine.....she is receiving as well as giving.

As one comment above noted - many times we give and receive as much or more in return. Not because that is the expectation....it is just how pleasing a partner works

 

[Rose101]

I have to say that I get the greater pleasure from receiving. My gf has an extremely talented and agile tongue and she knows just how to play me. That said, when I can taste that she's enjoying my attentions it gives me an extra buzz. I give it to her more and she reciprocates and so begins an intense cycle of pleasure. She always wins, though. I have never been able to make her cum first in a 69. I'm not complaining, though!

 

[sexnovella]

Oral sex

Love to give and get.

 

[hottalyssa]

i peersonally derive a great deal more pleasure from giving than receiving. i adore eating a woman. a more vocal lover really gets me off. after teasing and toying with my lover, i like to hear the shortness of breath, the dirty language, and that deep guttaral moan. i know htat after i please my lover, she will be doing the same for me. as for men, i love the fill of hott cumm on my face.but guys, please dont message me and abuse my honesty.......

 

[Rose101]

i peersonally derive a great deal more pleasure from giving than receiving. i adore eating a woman. a more vocal lover really gets me off. after teasing and toying with my lover, i like to hear the shortness of breath, the dirty language, and that deep guttaral moan. i know htat after i please my lover, she will be doing the same for me. as for men, i love the fill of hott cumm on my face.but guys, please dont message me and abuse my honesty.......

You and I would get on famously!!

I prefer to be on the bottom.....sit on my face and wiggle!!

 

[TwoShades]

I fucking LOVE licking pussy. Everything about it. Feeling her body react to me. Her pleasure. Her orgasms. Her sensitivity in between them. And then how they come out of nowhere. My wet face. Hand in my hair. Her hard nipples. Head thrown back. But... also for me... all 5 senses on overload... i can't get enough... i just love it.