Old male friend, bad. Young male friend, good.

[Christopher2012]

Yeah, rude.

Yeah, I'm not going to dwell on this one too much. If that's how you took it, oh well. I admitted that it was bad timing but if it really offended you that much, it's really not worth me worrying about. So sorry.

 

[Christopher2012]

I thought it to be quite funny timing!

I mean, I know I've treated people pretty shitty before but this one is not even something I'm going to stress about.

 

[Lord Pmann]

How about a compromise? Why not suck the young, handsome guy's dick? Hehe. I'm kidding.

I'm really curious to how this will play out. How often do you see him?

 

[Miles Long]

How about a compromise? Why not suck the young, handsome guy's dick? Hehe. I'm kidding.

I'm really curious to how this will play out. How often do you see him?

Wouldn't that be a cum-promise? #Fridayafternoonpuns

 

[Christopher2012]

That's kind of hot. Wait.. I need to see your face first Christopher, and his.

You've never seen my face? I thought you had! Hmm.... I'll send you a pic when I get home. That must be weird not knowing what I look like. I'm not trying to hide. I'll show anybody what I look like. If you're interested, PM me.

 

[Christopher2012]

So here's the update about the stalker. All of the staff up front told me that he has been coming in on my days off looking for me. So I expected another visit.

Welp, my prediction was correct. He brought me a gift. It was a charm with my name on it. So I responded to him, telling him that I could not accept his gift. He got VERY defensive and insisted that I explain why not. I just repeated that I couldn't. So it got to the point where I told him that he made me feel very uncomfortable and that I really didn't know what to do. So he said that he never meant for that, then he got angry and stormed out.

So... Not sure if I handled it correctly but that's the best I could do. I mean, I wasn't rude. But I needed for him to know how uncomfortable I felt.

I dunno...

 

[NightL]

One way or another he was set to get your attention - in a way you gave him that - may not have been the attention he initially wanted, but if one way was not going to work he still got attention out of you, right down to the anger and storming out.

Beyond the initial polite decline you allowed him to still invade your space by not shutting it down firmly after that.

Life is too short to be burdened by energy vampires - you continued to be too polite - right to the end. My bet is that he will now want to come back and apologise.

 

[Christopher2012]

One way or another he was set to get your attention - in a way you gave him that - may not have been the attention he initially wanted, but if one way was not going to work he still got attention out of you, right down to the anger and storming out.

Beyond the initial polite decline you allowed him to still invade your space by not shutting it down firmly after that.

Life is too short to be burdened by energy vampires - you continued to be too polite - right to the end. My bet is that he will now want to come back and apologise.

I don't think I was too nice. I straight up refused his gift, told him that he made me uncomfortable, and said that this was not a situation that I wanted to be apart of. I mean, I can't go ballistic on the dude. What I said was on point, blunt, and was not inappropriate.

 

[NightL]

Be careful Chris - I hear that Rainshine puts her collected faces on cushions, rearranging them on her couch every day. This is how she gets pmann and Em together. Now it is going to be you and Miles. A little fantasy of hers I believe.

http://mewanty.net/assets/face-pillow.jpg
▲▲▲ Girls watch the boys - my oh my ▲▲▲

actually that all sounds a little creepy - NightL now running for cover

 

[Christopher2012]

Woah holy crap, I just ran into guys from high school who used to be varsity football players. They approached me and said they have been wanting to hang out. Hmm... Maybe my opportunities are growing. We all BS'ed out in front of my house and I got their number. They apparently found out I had a PS4 and wanted to play Call of Duty.

 

[Christopher2012]

So the man came in tonight. The difference? Well, he came in at closing, and he waited for me to close. So my store manager and my tech said it was best for us to lock up and take the long way out. We were right at the exit... Almost in the clear. But he caught us on the way out and we all stopped and had a really brief confrontation. None of us said anything but he looks and said "I'm not trying anything..." and he rushes out.

In that instance, my manager said that I needed to go upstairs into the office. After sitting in the office for a while, the phone rings. I don't usually come up here but something told me to answer the phone. My tecb is on the line and said "Chris, do NOT leave. He parked in the parking lot next door and he is watching both of us." So I called HR, the Ethics Line, and the corporate office. Statements were taken from me and the store manager on duty.

So now I'm still sitting here in this office an hour later

This just went from "uncomfortable" to "Fucking Scary." I never thought that I'd have a stalker...

 

[Cathleen]

So the man came in tonight. The difference? Well, he came in at closing, and he waited for me to close. So my store manager and my tech said it was best for us to lock up and take the long way out. We were right at the exit... Almost in the clear. But he caught us on the way out and we all stopped and had a really brief confrontation. None of us said anything but he looks and said "I'm not trying anything..." and he rushes out.

In that instance, my manager said that I needed to go upstairs into the office. After sitting in the office for a while, the phone rings. I don't usually come up here but something told me to answer the phone. My tecb is on the line and said "Chris, do NOT leave. He parked in the parking lot next door and he is watching both of us." So I called HR, the Ethics Line, and the corporate office. Statements were taken from me and the store manager on duty.

So now I'm still sitting here in this office an hour later

This just went from "uncomfortable" to "Fucking Scary." I never thought that I'd have a stalker...

Good to call corporate but call the damn police -- use your head, they can put an end to this crap

 

[NightL]

This just went from "uncomfortable" to "Fucking Scary." I never thought that I'd have a stalker...

I kind of agree with Cathleen here, well at least for next time. I still think it in the annoying and pathetic of him category rather than "Fucking Scary."

The store manager did the right thing. Obviously your company has his details, perhaps an official letter should be sent for him recommending he take his business elsewhere.

 

[twister947]

Your patience is commendable...I'd of broken him in half, by now. Of course, I would be unemployed and out on bail, too.

 

[Miles Long]

I agree with everyone else. Probably not a bad idea to call the police and let them help.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

None of this makes any sense. IRL the store manager would trespass the man and be done with his BS.

 

[Que]

None of this makes any sense. IRL the store manager would trespass the man and be done with his BS.

He's gotten so much worthy advice, and the only advice he doesn't pout through is the advice given in tough-love, man-up style. Which you pointed out in a previous dramatic vignette is the only way to ACTUALLY help someone with his demeanor. Lost, apparently, is the fact that you have the training, and real-world, clinical experience dealing with a wide variety of pathologies and have no doubt encountered "christophers" before.

Speaking of making sense: IRL, flip the genders and orientation...imagine a female professional like a Pharmacist. It very well COULD start as this little flight of fancy did... stalkerish male, socially awkward, misreads professional courtesy as approachability...makes approach...

Can you imagine a woman in that position bothering to READ some love-lorn note from said stalker? No. It goes in the trash un-read. She DOESN'T go on a porn board breathlessly giving details about how desired she is by the stalker

Unless there are latent stirrings brought up by the stalker.

This whole poster has erped me for quite a while. I can't imagine how he has garnered such a fan club with his insipid little problems.

'I love to drink, I wish there were establishments with drunk chicks that cater to drunks like me....I have a hot guy friend that wants to cruise chicks with me.....I make good money in a white collar job..have a nice car, one presumes can buy decent clothes, is tall if memory serves, reputedly self described as non-hideous looking. I have no idea at all how I can use ANY of the above to get laid..."

'Oh and did I mention, I am a pharmacist?"... as in sketchy chicks at least WONDER if he might have access to ah I dunno party supplies? Doesn't even have to HINT that might be the case, much less DO anything...

Clearly the OP likes to get people rev-ved up fawning over his "problems" but some of this is such a stretch I'm beginning to wonder if the whole thing is performance art.

Just sayin.

Edit: Oh WAIT!!! What if poor dear Christopher never, posts again? We will all have to assume that the stalker got him in final episode!

Does anyone know his favorite charity, or should we just send white roses?

 

[TeaforMe]

He's gotten so much worthy advice, and the only advice he doesn't pout through is the advice given in tough-love, man-up style. Which you pointed out in a previous dramatic vignette is the only way to ACTUALLY help someone with his demeanor. Lost, apparently, is the fact that you have the training, and real-world, clinical experience dealing with a wide variety of pathologies and have no doubt encountered "christophers" before.

Speaking of making sense: IRL, flip the genders and orientation...imagine a female professional like a Pharmacist. It very well COULD start as this little flight of fancy did... stalkerish male, socially awkward, misreads professional courtesy as approachability...makes approach...

Can you imagine a woman in that position bothering to READ some love-lorn note from said stalker? No. It goes in the trash un-read. She DOESN'T go on a porn board breathlessly giving details about how desired she is by the stalker

Unless there are latent stirrings brought up by the stalker.

This whole poster has erped me for quite a while. I can't imagine how he has garnered such a fan club with his insipid little problems.

'I love to drink, I wish there were establishments with drunk chicks that cater to drunks like me....I have a hot guy friend that wants to cruise chicks with me.....I make good money in a white collar job..have a nice car, one presumes can buy decent clothes, is tall if memory serves, reputedly self described as non-hideous looking. I have no idea at all how I can use ANY of the above to get laid..."

'Oh and did I mention, I am a pharmacist?"... as in sketchy chicks at least WONDER if he might have access to ah I dunno party supplies? Doesn't even have to HINT that might be the case, much less DO anything...

Clearly the OP likes to get people rev-ved up fawning over his "problems" but some of this is such a stretch I'm beginning to wonder if the whole thing is performance art.

Just sayin.

Edit: Oh WAIT!!! What if poor dear Christopher never, posts again? We will all have to assume that the stalker got him in final episode!

Does anyone know his favorite charity, or should we just send white roses?

If you don't like Christopher or want to contribute to his threads without bashing him, why not find somewhere else to post? There are all kinds of personalities in this world, you don't have to like his. Some of us have had very pleasant interactions with him in private and care about what happens to him, even if it can be a frustrating process. What a boring life it would be if we were all the same.

 

[Cathleen]

None of this makes any sense. IRL the store manager would trespass the man and be done with his BS.

He's gotten so much worthy advice, and the only advice he doesn't pout through is the advice given in tough-love, man-up style. Which you pointed out in a previous dramatic vignette is the only way to ACTUALLY help someone with his demeanor. Lost, apparently, is the fact that you have the training, and real-world, clinical experience dealing with a wide variety of pathologies and have no doubt encountered "christophers" before.

Speaking of making sense: IRL, flip the genders and orientation...imagine a female professional like a Pharmacist. It very well COULD start as this little flight of fancy did... stalkerish male, socially awkward, misreads professional courtesy as approachability...makes approach...

Can you imagine a woman in that position bothering to READ some love-lorn note from said stalker? No. It goes in the trash un-read. She DOESN'T go on a porn board breathlessly giving details about how desired she is by the stalker

Unless there are latent stirrings brought up by the stalker.

This whole poster has erped me for quite a while. I can't imagine how he has garnered such a fan club with his insipid little problems.

'I love to drink, I wish there were establishments with drunk chicks that cater to drunks like me....I have a hot guy friend that wants to cruise chicks with me.....I make good money in a white collar job..have a nice car, one presumes can buy decent clothes, is tall if memory serves, reputedly self described as non-hideous looking. I have no idea at all how I can use ANY of the above to get laid..."

'Oh and did I mention, I am a pharmacist?"... as in sketchy chicks at least WONDER if he might have access to ah I dunno party supplies? Doesn't even have to HINT that might be the case, much less DO anything...

Clearly the OP likes to get people rev-ved up fawning over his "problems" but some of this is such a stretch I'm beginning to wonder if the whole thing is performance art.

Just sayin.

Edit: Oh WAIT!!! What if poor dear Christopher never, posts again? We will all have to assume that the stalker got him in final episode!

Does anyone know his favorite charity, or should we just send white roses?

I've been hoping there are comfortable furnishings in that office. I looked at a few of his posts and when I saw his thread about cymbalta and learned he was a pharmacist, I think I got it.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

He's gotten so much worthy advice, and the only advice he doesn't pout through is the advice given in tough-love, man-up style. Which you pointed out in a previous dramatic vignette is the only way to ACTUALLY help someone with his demeanor. Lost, apparently, is the fact that you have the training, and real-world, clinical experience dealing with a wide variety of pathologies and have no doubt encountered "christophers" before.

Speaking of making sense: IRL, flip the genders and orientation...imagine a female professional like a Pharmacist. It very well COULD start as this little flight of fancy did... stalkerish male, socially awkward, misreads professional courtesy as approachability...makes approach...

Can you imagine a woman in that position bothering to READ some love-lorn note from said stalker? No. It goes in the trash un-read. She DOESN'T go on a porn board breathlessly giving details about how desired she is by the stalker

Unless there are latent stirrings brought up by the stalker.

This whole poster has erped me for quite a while. I can't imagine how he has garnered such a fan club with his insipid little problems.

'I love to drink, I wish there were establishments with drunk chicks that cater to drunks like me....I have a hot guy friend that wants to cruise chicks with me.....I make good money in a white collar job..have a nice car, one presumes can buy decent clothes, is tall if memory serves, reputedly self described as non-hideous looking. I have no idea at all how I can use ANY of the above to get laid..."

'Oh and did I mention, I am a pharmacist?"... as in sketchy chicks at least WONDER if he might have access to ah I dunno party supplies? Doesn't even have to HINT that might be the case, much less DO anything...

Clearly the OP likes to get people rev-ved up fawning over his "problems" but some of this is such a stretch I'm beginning to wonder if the whole thing is performance art.

Just sayin.

Edit: Oh WAIT!!! What if poor dear Christopher never, posts again? We will all have to assume that the stalker got him in final episode!

Does anyone know his favorite charity, or should we just send white roses?

Chris is a strange lad.

 

[Christopher2012]

Police report filed. The officer was a little irked that i didn't call during the incident, but he said that if it happened again that they would present him with some nice bracelets.

 

[Cathleen]

Good. They need to see the infraction in order to do something. Eyes open.

I have no idea why your supervisor would leave you like that -- very poor performance of his/her duty.

 

[Christopher2012]

So old dude still comes around but hasn't spoken to me. He just checks his blood pressure and then leaves. I'm getting more annoyed than scared at this point. I think I'm seeing his as less of a threat and more of a nuisance.

Segway to my hormones...

Man, I need a woman. Like, I need sex badly. I'm getting pretty desperate. I even tried to talk to a therapist about it. She said "Nooo, get your depression and anxiety fixed first before you worry about women..." BITCH, I'M 25-GODDAMN-YEARS-OLD! DON'T TELL ME TO SUPPRESS MY HORMONES!

Yeah so anybody got any great tips on how I can get laid ASAP? I need pussy stat. I'm at the point where I don't even care about meaningful relationships or quality companionship. I don't want a hooker... I don't like illegal stuff. But damn, a guy needs what he needs. Annd Craigslist is scary. So no to that.

 

[SweetErika]

Man, I need a woman. Like, I need sex badly. I'm getting pretty desperate. I even tried to talk to a therapist about it. She said "Nooo, get your depression and anxiety fixed first before you worry about women..." BITCH, I'M 25-GODDAMN-YEARS-OLD! DON'T TELL ME TO SUPPRESS MY HORMONES!

Yeah so anybody got any great tips on how I can get laid ASAP? I need pussy stat. I'm at the point where I don't even care about meaningful relationships or quality companionship. I don't want a hooker... I don't like illegal stuff. But damn, a guy needs what he needs. Annd Craigslist is scary. So no to that.

The therapist is right, you know. Stick with therapy, get your shit in order and buy yourself a Fleshlight and/or other toys to spice up masturbation while you do that. Otherwise, the only non-pro pussy you're likely to find is going to be attached to a woman who's as unstable as you are right now; why would you want to create more drama and angst in your life, or that of a woman?

If you refuse to heed that advice, hire a good escort and use protection for everything if you two decide to engage in sexual activity after you've paid her for the non-sexual time she spends with you. I'm not a huge fan of this option, but it's certainly preferable to getting involved with an unsuspecting or batshit crazy woman.

 

[NippleMuncher]

it's certainly preferable to getting involved with an unsuspecting or batshit crazy woman.

But what if he likes batshit crazy?