ElectricAge
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- Feb 18, 2014
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Greetings,
While I may be new to these forums, I am not new to the BDSM lifestyle. I've had my fair share of experiences - both online as well as off - but have never quite found "the one" who truly understands what I'm looking for. I will try to keep my rambling thoughts to a minimum, and hope there is someone on these forums who seeks the same things I do.
As it says in my profile, I am a late-thirties Dominant male who is looking to find a submissive who understands the true meaning behind that word. That it's not just about sex and, "Yes Sir, No Sir." Someone who realizes that both submission and Domination are a gift not to be given lightly, but earned through trust and friendship first. I have seen both sides of the equation many times, and have come to find that a large percentage of people who delve into this lifestyle only do so for the sexual benefits. While that is obviously a big part of such a relationship, it's not, and shouldn't be, the focal point. Anyone can have a purely sexual relationship, but that is not something that I find either emotionally or physically fulfilling and satisfying. There has to be more to it than just, "Get naked and let's fuck!"
What I'm seeking doesn't seem to be much to ask for, yet has been impossible to find. I seek a submissive woman who is willing to put the time and effort into building a truly satisfying Dom/sub relationship. Someone who wants a firm, yet caring man to guide them, teach them, and care for them as more than just an object for my sexual gratification. I don't want a woman who just talks once, wants to cyber, see pictures, then disappear the next day. I want someone who is willing to take things slowly. Start at friendship, get to know one another, build up trust, and then hopefully move to the next level. A woman who feels she can come to me when she has a problem, needs a friend, just wants to talk because she knows I'm there, and is genuinely interested in what I have to offer. Someone who can come to me and say everything from, "I've had a bad day," to, "I need you now." A woman who will be there through the good, the bad, and when I wake up in the morning and go to sleep at night.
Hopefully I've put my point across clearly. There are a million others things I could say here, but I don't want this to become a novel. If any of what I've written sounds like what you're looking for, or interests you in any way, don't hesitate to contact me. I look forward to hearing from you, and to hopefully finding that one needle in the haystack.
While I may be new to these forums, I am not new to the BDSM lifestyle. I've had my fair share of experiences - both online as well as off - but have never quite found "the one" who truly understands what I'm looking for. I will try to keep my rambling thoughts to a minimum, and hope there is someone on these forums who seeks the same things I do.
As it says in my profile, I am a late-thirties Dominant male who is looking to find a submissive who understands the true meaning behind that word. That it's not just about sex and, "Yes Sir, No Sir." Someone who realizes that both submission and Domination are a gift not to be given lightly, but earned through trust and friendship first. I have seen both sides of the equation many times, and have come to find that a large percentage of people who delve into this lifestyle only do so for the sexual benefits. While that is obviously a big part of such a relationship, it's not, and shouldn't be, the focal point. Anyone can have a purely sexual relationship, but that is not something that I find either emotionally or physically fulfilling and satisfying. There has to be more to it than just, "Get naked and let's fuck!"
What I'm seeking doesn't seem to be much to ask for, yet has been impossible to find. I seek a submissive woman who is willing to put the time and effort into building a truly satisfying Dom/sub relationship. Someone who wants a firm, yet caring man to guide them, teach them, and care for them as more than just an object for my sexual gratification. I don't want a woman who just talks once, wants to cyber, see pictures, then disappear the next day. I want someone who is willing to take things slowly. Start at friendship, get to know one another, build up trust, and then hopefully move to the next level. A woman who feels she can come to me when she has a problem, needs a friend, just wants to talk because she knows I'm there, and is genuinely interested in what I have to offer. Someone who can come to me and say everything from, "I've had a bad day," to, "I need you now." A woman who will be there through the good, the bad, and when I wake up in the morning and go to sleep at night.
Hopefully I've put my point across clearly. There are a million others things I could say here, but I don't want this to become a novel. If any of what I've written sounds like what you're looking for, or interests you in any way, don't hesitate to contact me. I look forward to hearing from you, and to hopefully finding that one needle in the haystack.
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