What is so hot about men cooperating?

[sunandshadow]

Specifically I'm talking about men who are clearly happy/having fun working closely as a team. Or men who have brothers that are also best friends, or best friends they love like brothers, and the two (or three) of them have some kind of hobby they do together, or they are in a band together, or they have a sport where they play together on the same team. It's extremely appealing for me to watch two or three men interact in a really friendly loyal-team-members-having-fun-together kind of way. I don't really know why though.

 

[chimike]

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[sunandshadow]

I would probably also get turned on by seeing a man be happy and playful with a puppy, or some children that were his nieces and nephews. But I think the men cooperating scenario is a bit more intense because there's more than one man involved for me to potentially consider attractive, and no cutesy-instead-of-erotic elements involved (puppy, kids). Glad you enjoyed hearing about it though; I was kind of surprised no one posted to agree.

 

[ShyJake]

I don't really know why though.

If they're cooperating to achieve a goal it could indicate drive, focus, confidence. Things I hear ladies find attractive.

 

[sunandshadow]

If they're cooperating to achieve a goal it could indicate drive, focus, confidence. Things I hear ladies find attractive.

That's true. Though, it wouldn't be attractive to me if they were angry or grumpy, it's only attractive if they are having fun.

 

[consar]

Try this

A man cooperating could unquestionably be 'hot' if -he was cooperating with the man holding his wife captive ,he knew the consequences if he was uncooperative with the blackmailer . When he refused to hand over the money they demanded for his wifes release yesterday, a 3 minute long video was sent to his phone. Anna,his wife, was tied spreadeagle to a bed complete with a ball gag . A masked man appeared and stood next to the bed,he dropped his jeans exposing a large cock. The piss that came from it hit his wife in the face forcing her eyes shut. The piss he could deal with but when her clothes were stripped off and the masked man moved between her tied legs and raped her, he sang the bank straight away .

 

[StrongMaster7]

The reverse is true for me. I love to see women together (platonically).

I remember an old gf and her close friends. I wondered what she had told them about me. She had told me a few fleeting intimate things about a few of them. Knowing that they shared such things was a turn-on.

I guess I was always hoping that their sharing of info might lead to some sort of extra contact for me!

 

[GrrlFriday]

Specifically I'm talking about men who are clearly happy/having fun working closely as a team. Or men who have brothers that are also best friends, or best friends they love like brothers, and the two (or three) of them have some kind of hobby they do together, or they are in a band together, or they have a sport where they play together on the same team. It's extremely appealing for me to watch two or three men interact in a really friendly loyal-team-members-having-fun-together kind of way. I don't really know why though.

I agree - the camaraderie can be a bit of a turn-on, in that it shows a loyalty which is the foundation for a great relationship. (Could be a hint of attraction, too. )

 

[Que]

Hmm..consar...don't really think that's where this thread was aimed....but then again we are probing the mysteries of female attraction...no man is an expert there.

My oldest boy and his friends were discussing lesbian porn with his mom. (She strove hard to be the "cool mom")

...anyway- she asked them what is about lesbian porn that guys like so much.

My boy just looked at her like "Duh" and said "...'cause its two of everything we like!"

I hadn't ever considered it that succinctly.

I suspect women are more complicated about this like a lot of things.

My ex liked gay porn at times. She knew I wasn't probably horrified, but never highlighted that interest too hard- lest I develop a squeamish tic I suspect.

I think just as men like to voyeur into the forbidden world of girl-girl attraction, women like to consider that too.

Just as men consider pairings of girls who may have no attraction to each other or even zero attraction to girls at all... I wonder if women consider that about their guys.

When a guy is really comfortable with another guy and working in partnership, I wonder if that triggers some slight of fancy even in a subliminal way?

On the other hand, maybe it's simple:

Men and women are awkward about cooperating with each-other. Whole books and counseling industries do well on the subject.

So maybe seeing him interact with a human well, gives one the tingles.