LMAO!! Can't ignore the sparklies, can you?
LMAO!! Can't ignore the sparklies, can you?
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I think I figured out what it is I like about the "Daddy" thing!
It's always been kind of a turn on for me when a man is possessive over me. Not in an intense way or a scary way, but just in the protective "You're mine and no one else's and I want everyone to know that." way. Do you know what I mean? Like it's kind of a thing where I like the feeling of being someone's (especially and older man's) "good little girl" in a sexual and emotional way?
Am I missing the point here to the Daddy/Little thing?
Lol, I think I like the being controlled aspect too, and I've always felt safer and more comfortable with an older man.
Eh I don't know. I promise I knew where I was going with this when I started typing!xxx
lol. Glad I could make the words for you.
That 'possessive' aspect is actually the most curious thing for me. I'm not strictly possessive, I should say (this is a conversation I was having just this morning, in significantly greater detail...). I don't mind if you have a life and social interactions, and even if you flirt and play around outside of me. I don't mind, so long as you and other people understand that you're mine. And conversely, as long as you don't mind me doing it, I'll still carry on social interactions with other women, as long as you and I both know that I'm yours. And as long as we come back to each other, remaining intimate with only each other, then I'm perfectly comfortable with whomever you might choose to interact with.
So I think as long as the possessiveness and attention is a positive, healthy thing, and as long as you're being honest with each other, then you and your Daddy are free to develop a loving, caring, committed relationship with each other, and there's this delicious thrill of being able to say 'I'm his,' and 'she's mine,' and visa versa. That's what I enjoy most about that kind of relationship (still don't consider myself a Daddy
"That is just about the BEST explanation of that aspect of my relationship with the SO....EVER! Thanks you two for putting it much better than I ever could. I've had men in my life who have been 'possessive' in the ugly - 'I want to know where you are and what you're doing every minute of the day' - sort of way... But this is so much different than that - very protective and nurturing and I just simply adore the man..."
"That is just about the BEST explanation of that aspect of my relationship with the SO....EVER! Thanks you two for putting it much better than I ever could. I've had men in my life who have been 'possessive' in the ugly - 'I want to know where you are and what you're doing every minute of the day' - sort of way... But this is so much different than that - very protective and nurturing and I just simply adore the man..."
You are headed back home next week?was going to hang out...But got to go in to work tomorrow.... gonna turn in.
at least the young'Un plans on coming in to.....help...
A girl can dream can't she? Lol
"That is just about the BEST explanation of that aspect of my relationship with the SO....EVER! Thanks you two for putting it much better than I ever could. I've had men in my life who have been 'possessive' in the ugly - 'I want to know where you are and what you're doing every minute of the day' - sort of way... But this is so much different than that - very protective and nurturing and I just simply adore the man..."
Great!!!
Now if he was around when there was shoveling to be done
LOL
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I've had men in my life who have been 'possessive' in the ugly - 'I want to know where you are and what you're doing every minute of the day' - sort of way... But this is so much different than that - very protective and nurturing and I just simply adore the man..."
I think I figured out what it is I like about the "Daddy" thing!
It's always been kind of a turn on for me when a man is possessive over me. Not in an intense way or a scary way, but just in the protective "You're mine and no one else's and I want everyone to know that." way. Do you know what I mean? Like it's kind of a thing where I like the feeling of being someone's (especially and older man's) "good little girl" in a sexual and emotional way?
Am I missing the point here to the Daddy/Little thing?
Lol, I think I like the being controlled aspect too, and I've always felt safer and more comfortable with an older man.
Eh I don't know. I promise I knew where I was going with this when I started typing!
Looks like it will be a lovely day on the Plains after the wind dies down. Until then, a bit of coffee, some toast, and some reading and catching up. Been a busy, busy week here.
Wow, what a brazen cop out! Your attitude typifies the double standards of many of those dredging the sewer of this so called fetish.
One minute you are weeping great crocodile tears about your awful treatment at the hands of one of your recent ''Daddies'' Simpletimes? Then in the next lauding your SO for his unique place in your life-yea right!
How did this SO feel while you were publicly shagging the pastry chef? Perhaps some of those earlier men in your life ''The possessive in an ugly way'', types cared deeply enough about and for you to be wounded and hurt by your promiscuity?
Anyway, thanks for the wake up. I blundered in here just less than a year ago. Bored and at a loose end and with not a clue what this D/BGirl thing was about. Now, having wasted more time than it has been worth, I can see it for what it is, nothing more than another example of a hippie type INTERNET commune.
Stable membership depends on the acceptance that all have the right to infinitely variable morals, little interest in any kind of faithful monogamous relationships and an almost laughable belief in group and individual superiority.
I have to add that I have met a few truly delightful folks here and they know who they are. Thank you for everything, our exchanges will be missed.
Right now I'm off back into the real world, where the majority of normal and happy adult men and women can still live, love and honor each other, without the need for retreat into introverted fantasy.
At the risk of sounding very Biblical. ..
"Let he who has not sinned cast the first stone. ."
I'm not saying I approve of extramarital affairs whether physically consummated or not, but if ALL parties are aware of and accepting, then it is not my place to judge either way.
I don't want our thread to to become a warfield over circumstances we know nothing about, so I, for one, would rather personal attacks be omitted unless both sides wish to elaborate all the facts. It is impossible to defend or attack based on half-truths and white lies.
*raps gavel and Leaves with a flourish of her really cool cape and curly wig*
Well said, RA.At the risk of sounding very Biblical. ..
"Let he who has not sinned cast the first stone. ."
I'm not saying I approve of extramarital affairs whether physically consummated or not, but if ALL parties are aware of and accepting, then it is not my place to judge either way.
I don't want our thread to to become a warfield over circumstances we know nothing about, so I, for one, would rather personal attacks be omitted unless both sides wish to elaborate all the facts. It is impossible to defend or attack based on half-truths and white lies.
*raps gavel and Leaves with a flourish of her really cool cape and curly wig*
At the risk of sounding very Biblical. ..
"Let he who has not sinned cast the first stone. ."
I'm not saying I approve of extramarital affairs whether physically consummated or not, but if ALL parties are aware of and accepting, then it is not my place to judge either way.
I don't want our thread to to become a warfield over circumstances we know nothing about, so I, for one, would rather personal attacks be omitted unless both sides wish to elaborate all the facts. It is impossible to defend or attack based on half-truths and white lies.
*raps gavel and Leaves with a flourish of her really cool cape and curly wig*
"True...but he IS still working three different jobs across the state. When he's home....here...he shovels. Unfortunately I just received a new winter weather advisory for today with up to 5 or more inches expected....and he won't be home again until Tuesday....
