paying your spouse/partner for sex

[jeninflorida]

It seems that most men have realized we wives are partners and not slaves...yet some men still dont understand this concept. So imagine giving rewards if he takes the garbage out...cooks and cleans for dinner (dishes in dishwasher and counters and floor clean) they get a reward....

Or for those more adventurous ... paying for sex now this works best when hubby is a tightwad and hates to spend money. The rule is she can do whatever she wants to with that money....

Thoughts!?

 

[Carnevil9]

It seems that most men have realized we wives are partners and not slaves...yet some men still dont understand this concept. So imagine giving rewards if he takes the garbage out...cooks and cleans for dinner (dishes in dishwasher and counters and floor clean) they get a reward....

Or for those more adventurous ... paying for sex now this works best when hubby is a tightwad and hates to spend money. The rule is she can do whatever she wants to with that money....

Thoughts!?

My first thought is, these people should never have gotten married in the first place! Why the heck would you want to marry someone who doesn't share your level of sexuality? In an ideal couple, you both crave sex (and each other) about the same amount. Naturally the balance is rarely perfect, but it should at least be in the ballpark!

When sex becomes a "quid pro quo," you no longer have a real relationship, and might as well move on with your life.

Anyway, that was my first thought. A subsequent thought is that there are probably plenty of sick fucks out there who would read and enjoy a story like this. The same ones who get off on stories of humiliation and cuckoldry.

 

[jeninflorida]

Sadly there are a lot of men that...turn into slackers. They never help out around the house ...sadly there are a lot of marriages like that. Some people stay in ... some divorce
...some get Rabbit and read erotica.
..

Also you can classify them as 'sick fucks' as Pretty Woman (the movie) is a strong fantasy. Also sex and money...powerful fantasy

 

[Hypoxia]

Money is fungible, a medium of exchange. This means that, absent strict accounting, money can be spent on almost anything. Money can be paid for goods or services, including sex. But sex can also be used as payment, and is, by all sorts of beings. Even butterflies prostitute themselves for nectar.

Some lousy human partner may have to directly pay their SO for sex; or, sex can be used to pay the SO for other goods and services. "Oh honey, that's a swell gift - fuck me!" or "Hey baby, thanks for doing the cooking this week -- want some orgasms?" Sex thus also becomes fungible.

Then their's the view that all marriage (and dating) is just legalized prostitution, where one party provides cash and the other contributes sex. So a working partner pays for sex every time they hand over their paycheck. But let's no be too cynical, OK?

 

[masterandmargarita]

I think this would be a great story if handled the right way. Whether it is husband paying wife directly or wife paying husband with sex for doing chores, it is very intriguing. I'm not passing any judgement on the idea until it is realized in a story. It is obviously a bad idea for a real relationship, but no one is suggesting that.

 

[Tmmldr]

Sadly there are a lot of men that...turn into slackers. They never help out around the house ...sadly there are a lot of marriages like that. Some people stay in ... some divorce
...some get Rabbit and read erotica.
..

Also you can classify them as 'sick fucks' as Pretty Woman (the movie) is a strong fantasy. Also sex and money...powerful fantasy

I see it a bit differently. This could actually be a good plot. For starters let's assume it's a guy loaded with money, and he's somewhat generous. Let's say him and the wifey get along quite well and are genuinely friends, and love each other. But her sexual appetite is....not as high as his. He can tell that sometimes she doesn't want to do it. And really caring about her, he doesn't want her to do things just for him. Now there's the basis for the plot.

She wants more money for extravagent things, and she knows they are wasteful and feels somewhat bad about it. There's a possible deal to be made. Maybe it starts accidentally, then they joke about it, then it becomes more common, then they routinely trade sex for cash. Maybe there's something about it that excites the woman, it's so terribly bad. And slutty.

Over time, the woman gets trained pretty well. She's learned to fake it and act like she likes it. She learns what gets her the biggest tips from him. She becomes skilled at deep throat, anal, rimming hubby, everything that brought the big tips. She learns the excitement in control, and loves to act, and loves to tease.

She's became a very accomplished whore.

Although only with her husband.

And then....

 

[i_would]

My first thought is, these people should never have gotten married in the first place! Why the heck would you want to marry someone who doesn't share your level of sexuality? In an ideal couple, you both crave sex (and each other) about the same amount. Naturally the balance is rarely perfect, but it should at least be in the ballpark!

When sex becomes a "quid pro quo," you no longer have a real relationship, and might as well move on with your life.

Anyway, that was my first thought. A subsequent thought is that there are probably plenty of sick fucks out there who would read and enjoy a story like this. The same ones who get off on stories of humiliation and cuckoldry.

Something similar, done very often already of course, is where it takes form of a kind of game between the two, usually involving simple bets. Where pay-off for the loser may be something slightly humiliating and definitely erotic (e.g. have to do the dishes naked).

I'm sure it's possible to give some kind of twist to it. And taking it away from being a pure trade.

 

[subwannabe]

Interesting story idea. I think if it were me doing it I would make the guy very, very, rich and his wife would be a trophy wife. He is not the greatest looker and has complete control of the money, including a prenup. Because his looks are below average she is more into the material things than having a lot of great sex with her husband. It is a symbiotic relationship and he pays her well for sexual favors and she uses the money to buy her materialistic things.

 

[Tx Tall Tales]

I could imagine a twist, where the man is paying for the sex, he's loaded, and he's paying her well for her more extravagant desires. It wouldn't be a far reach for him to decide to pay somebody else, for the things she didn't want to do. Maybe he does it for some variety. It could easily become a habit, someone else who will do more, and to it cheaper.

He is paying for it after all, right? When sex becomes an exchange for cash, his wife isn't the only whore available.

The same thinking could twist another way. The wife finds out that there are other's who'll pay for sex with her, perhaps pay even more. Maybe she wants something special, and his pay rate isn't enough to get it for her fast enough. Adding just a couple of more customers could get her there quickly.

 

[karamorfuna]

I could imagine a twist, where the man is paying for the sex, he's loaded, and he's paying her well for her more extravagant desires. It wouldn't be a far reach for him to decide to pay somebody else, for the things she didn't want to do. Maybe he does it for some variety. It could easily become a habit, someone else who will do more, and to it cheaper.

He is paying for it after all, right? When sex becomes an exchange for cash, his wife isn't the only whore available.

The same thinking could twist another way. The wife finds out that there are other's who'll pay for sex with her, perhaps pay even more. Maybe she wants something special, and his pay rate isn't enough to get it for her fast enough. Adding just a couple of more customers could get her there quickly.

I like your take on this. He wants his wife to do things that she wont and offers huge paydays....when she doesnt agree to do them he 'hires' someone else. Also, she finds others willing to pay well for her services. Its a kinky 'win-win' for them both.

 

[Tmmldr]

I like your take on this. He wants his wife to do things that she wont and offers huge paydays....when she doesnt agree to do them he 'hires' someone else. Also, she finds others willing to pay well for her services. Its a kinky 'win-win' for them both.

How about this version.

The husband and wife have problems, she figures out he's been seeing some whores for years. No love, they are just sex objects.

She confronts him.

He breaks down and says that it was exciting, they did things that really got him off. She asks more questions. He talks about some of the games they played. She asks how much he paid them, and he tells her. She asks what sort of things they did, and he tells her. He tells her the prices. Then he says he was in fact just fixing to go out cruising, down a street where the best whores hang out, as they hadn't had sex in two weeks and he couldn't stand it.

Wifey takes one long hard look at him, then with a hint of a smile she says "Pay me."

She gets up and comes over to him, and tugs on his belt and whispers "Anything a man desires, honey." Then she goes off to the bedroom, comes back in a miniskirt and high heels and gives him a light kiss as she walks past "See you, honey!"

Hubby hears the car door open and shut and her car drive off.

He thinks "She's not really going to do this. She's going down to walk with the working girls? No Way!"

 

[RiversEdge2010]

Wife sells herself for small business idea.

I think there's so much to work with in this story.

My idea is that a young husband and wife are experiencing a little dry spell in their sex life. The husband makes 7 figures working for a big firm, while the wife is just starting up a small business, something local, a corner store or bakery of some kind. It's always been her dream and she's got a few loans and even financed the place herself. She wants to prove to her husband that she can start something from nothing, but money is still tight after the grand opening and she needs a little extra revenue. Wifey comes up with the idea of exchanging sexual favors for cash because she doesn't believe in handouts. She wants to work hard for her money. The husband agrees, but the wife has no idea what she's getting herself into.

The husband starts to offering the wife tempting amounts of money for her store, but the higher the price, the less she is sure she can earn it.

The husband starts out with little, yet slightly daunting tasks for the wife. He offers her fifty dollars to put in her drawer at the end of the night if she'll go rent them a hardcore porn at the local video store and promise to watch it with him later while she strokes his cock and makes him cum all over her hand.

He takes incredibly revealing nude pictures of her spreading her legs and her lips wide open.

The husband offers her several hundred dollars if she'll simply suck his dick and let him give her a facial, so long as she doesn't wipe it off her face and begs for it. He makes her rent a blow job video at the store for reference. The wife watches scene after scene of young nubiles begging for and receiving incredibly messy and humiliating facial cumshots. Somewhat disgusted, yet a little turned on, she follows through and falls to her knees and lets her husband mark his territory by ejaculating onto her face. He takes numerous photos of the facial and even makes her play with and swallow all of it afterwards.

For 500 dollars, the wife lets her husband stuff his cock deep into her ass, which makes her scream and he eventually fills her up from the inside with his warm seed.

On another occasion, the husband invites a co-worker (a woman) that he wants to fuck his wife in front of. She's so embarrassed, but wants the cash that she submits and accepts it and then lets her husband go wild and fuck her right in her arms while she screams out over and over.

All the while she's doing little things for extra cash like walking around the house naked, learning to talk dirty to turn her husband on, letting him eat her pussy at the drop of a hat

On one occasion the husband finds the wife in the bath tub and asks her if she'd like to make some extra cash by letting him pee all over her. Things get so out of control that she ends up eating another woman, maybe getting double-teamed, having to wear cum on her face in public while out to eat, and continue to rent dirtier and dirtier porn videos that start to slowly turn her on.

By the end of the month, the wife's business is booming but her pussy, ass, and throat are so soar she can hardly fuck another minute.

 

[sirhugs]

What about a twist where the long term marriage is in the doldrums. hubby works, hangs with his buddies, watches football. sex is a rare event. Then wife hits big in the lottery & starts paying hubby every time he pleasures her... with increasing payments as he becomes bolder & better...

 

[karamorfuna]

...sounds like his wife doesn't need a business....her husbands payments and her blossoming perversion fulfill her. Especially having to submit to other women??

 

[Hypoxia]

Hmmm, I read a story here recently about a couple who pay each other (and friends) for sex acts. I'll see if I can dig up the title. But the strategy IIRC is that each names what they want, then bids the price up until accepted. With a healthy balanced sex life, the payments should about even-out.

 

[Tx Tall Tales]

Creamer did something especially nasty with a similar concept in his series Bean Counter. He made the ex do things for him, paying her, after setting up her new boyfriend. She was desperate, and pregnant with the other man's child.

The biggest problem with the story is he left the last chapter off, and you have to buy it to read the ending.

I'm kind of surprised there aren't more of these in the LW category.

 

[hoo_hoo_boo]

It seems that most men have realized we wives are partners and not slaves...yet some men still dont understand this concept. So imagine giving rewards if he takes the garbage out...cooks and cleans for dinner (dishes in dishwasher and counters and floor clean) they get a reward....

Or for those more adventurous ... paying for sex now this works best when hubby is a tightwad and hates to spend money. The rule is she can do whatever she wants to with that money....

Thoughts!?

This is common. Trophy wives, gold diggers, marital prostitutes- it's not new. It's old. It's a part of many relationships. I know of many women who have complete control over their men. They have complete control over the house. The man goes out and he's not allowed to look at another woman. If one walks in front of him and he sees he gets shredded. He spends his life looking at his feet. His dear wife is normally rectitudinous and sanctimonious. She is accepted in spite of stealing her man's basic humanity. The rules that she applies to him don't apply to her. I have never met a man who has that control. They do exist, I'm sure, but I've yet to meet one. I laugh when I hear we live in a patriarchal society.

 

[Tmmldr]

What about a twist where the long term marriage is in the doldrums. hubby works, hangs with his buddies, watches football. sex is a rare event. Then wife hits big in the lottery & starts paying hubby every time he pleasures her... with increasing payments as he becomes bolder & better...

Quick and simple.

The husband is feeling raunchy, they've both had a couple glasses of wine, they are watching a hot romantic movie, he whispers to her what he'd like her to do to him, and she bursts out laughing...

"Honey, you'd have to pay me $500 for that!"

...and it's on....lol...

 

[DocCIS]

Figured I'd throw in my two cents...

My thoughts on this has nothing to do with their marriage. Instead, maybe the guy is a spend thrift. The wife wants them to save some money to spend on home repairs, maybe they want to add a new deck in the back or a pool or whatever...even a new car.

The trouble is, as soon as there's money in the bank the hubby goes and spends it. Maybe he got the kids a new Xbox One/PS4, maybe another time he plans a family vacation... She cannot really blame him on the expenditures (it's not like he is a gambling addict or anything), but it is annoying they cannot save money.

Then she hits upon the idea...maybe the husband bugs her for oral sex, or maybe anal. Maybe he has a voyeuristic streak and wants her to dress up in skimpy clothing around his friends...whatever...but she decides she'll "give in" if he pays her. She will open a bank account and be the sole account owner...any money he "spends" gets put towards that.

This could go in so many directions. Maybe it's just a romantic story between husband and wife who "rediscover" their feelings towards each other after things have gone stale. Maybe it's an exhibitionist/voyeur story where the hubby has her dress in sexy clothes to parties, or a football game, or just out in general. It could be a cuckold story where he actually pays her to sleep with one of his friends--or as a twist, maybe his friends find out about the husband "paying" for sex and they offer her money for the same.


Just a couple thoughts...

 

[jeninflorida]

Great idea!

This is what I love about this area. Live sharing ideas and building on them to make better fiction.

Here is a twist.....couple starts off this way and they like the agreement. Wife can get things for the home and hubby gets more sex...also he might do more at work to earn more sex! Hehe


Now for the twist...a rich friend or hubbys boss enters the picture and they toy with the idea! Wife had sex before hubby so shes okay with it and the money will really help. Hubby gets hard at the idea and wants to watch! He loves watching porn ad loves seeing hard cock!!

I could imagine a twist, where the man is paying for the sex, he's loaded, and he's paying her well for her more extravagant desires. It wouldn't be a far reach for him to decide to pay somebody else, for the things she didn't want to do. Maybe he does it for some variety. It could easily become a habit, someone else who will do more, and to it cheaper.

He is paying for it after all, right? When sex becomes an exchange for cash, his wife isn't the only whore available.

The same thinking could twist another way. The wife finds out that there are other's who'll pay for sex with her, perhaps pay even more. Maybe she wants something special, and his pay rate isn't enough to get it for her fast enough. Adding just a couple of more customers could get her there quickly.

 

[Tmmldr]

This is common. Trophy wives, gold diggers, marital prostitutes- it's not new. It's old. It's a part of many relationships. I know of many women who have complete control over their men. They have complete control over the house. The man goes out and he's not allowed to look at another woman. If one walks in front of him and he sees he gets shredded......

The man and his wife are walking down the crowded street, and a really hot chic walks in front of them. The man immediately averts his eyes, and looks at the pavement. Wifey says "I saw her. You want to look at her, don't you?"

Man says in a humble, contrite small voice. "Yes, I do."

Wifey - "That'll be fifty."

 

[hoo_hoo_boo]

The man and his wife are walking down the crowded street, and a really hot chic walks in front of them. The man immediately averts his eyes, and looks at the pavement. Wifey says "I saw her. You want to look at her, don't you?"

Man says in a humble, contrite small voice. "Yes, I do."

Wifey - "That'll be fifty."

Yes but that would destroy the rectitude and sanctimony of the wife.

The way it happens is that they go out together. She gives sex. She moves in with him. He thinks it's wonderful. It doesn't matter how clean the house is, she will clean it more. All of her cleaning gives her "rights". She then moves furniture around. Doesn't matter where it was, she'll change it. She's been so good with it she has earned the "right" to throw some out and ask him to replace some of it. Eventually most, if not all is replaced. She's earned the "right" to "ask" for an extra room or two. Doesn't matter that what she threw out was better than what she bought. She has her stamp over the whole house. He's more comfortable in the shed. In time she has the whole house and he has the shed. In summer the shed is hot. In winter the shed is cold. He'd like to line it. He says he will. But every time he does she needs some thing for the house. He never gets his shed lined. He loses confidence. He only has a few square feet of bed space in the house. He can use the bathroom when needed. He has to be careful not to make a mess though. She does the entertaining. He's in the shed. If he looks like he's enjoying himself she will yell at him. She's earned that "right" . When they go out he has to behave. She has lots of rules. He retreats to the shed. The shed is full. It has all the gear in it for painting, gardening, plumbing, wood working, plastering, tiling, metal work, fixing the car, the lawn mower and garden edger, the trailer, gutter cleaning, the ladders, electrical repairs, and of course, stuff she can't bear to have in the house among other things. He has a few spare feet of space for himself. She will often come and look and rip into him about how untidy it is.

He's had a self esteemectomy . He has no confidence. It's embarrassing and he can't tell anyone. He can't talk about it. Once it was his house. He paid for it. She has long demanded that he have eyes only for her. If a woman is in front of him she checks he isn't looking at her. If he is she will instantly shred him. He has no idea what to do. He used to trust her. Now he can't. She has the social network. He has none. The only thing he has is work. He will work all the overtime he can. If they have sex it's her time to mention she wants a new kitchen or a new car or that she needs money. He notices every time they have sex he gets more if he's agreeable. If he isn't she won't be interested. All her friends think she's wonderful. She's the life of the party when he's not there. There's some thing very odd about him though.

This is how it often happens. He loses everything. Eventually she will seek divorce. She wants more. He can be accused of anything. He has no friends. The court will look after her. I have seen this happen so many times. It's very common. There's a bit of it in every relationship I think. It's the woman who does it every time. I've never seen a man do it- not yet. Perhaps you can use it in a story. I have no idea. I know it's very sad.

 

[Tmmldr]

Yes but that would destroy the rectitude and sanctimony of the wife.

The way it happens is that they go out together. She gives sex. She moves in with him. He thinks it's wonderful. It doesn't matter how clean the house is, she will clean it more. All of her cleaning gives her "rights". She then moves furniture around. Doesn't matter where it was, she'll change it. She's been so good with it she has earned the "right" to throw some out and ask him to replace some of it. Eventually most, if not all is replaced. She's earned the "right" to "ask" for an extra room or two. Doesn't matter that what she threw out was better than what she bought. She has her stamp over the whole house. He's more comfortable in the shed. In time she has the whole house and he has the shed. In summer the shed is hot. In winter the shed is cold. He'd like to line it. He says he will. But every time he does she needs some thing for the house. He never gets his shed lined. He loses confidence. He only has a few square feet of bed space in the house. He can use the bathroom when needed. He has to be careful not to make a mess though. She does the entertaining. He's in the shed. If he looks like he's enjoying himself she will yell at him. She's earned that "right" . When they go out he has to behave. She has lots of rules. He retreats to the shed. The shed is full. It has all the gear in it for painting, gardening, plumbing, wood working, plastering, tiling, metal work, fixing the car, the lawn mower and garden edger, the trailer, gutter cleaning, the ladders, electrical repairs, and of course, stuff she can't bear to have in the house among other things. He has a few spare feet of space for himself. She will often come and look and rip into him about how untidy it is.

He's had a self esteemectomy . He has no confidence. It's embarrassing and he can't tell anyone. He can't talk about it. Once it was his house. He paid for it. She has long demanded that he have eyes only for her. If a woman is in front of him she checks he isn't looking at her. If he is she will instantly shred him. He has no idea what to do. He used to trust her. Now he can't. She has the social network. He has none. The only thing he has is work. He will work all the overtime he can. If they have sex it's her time to mention she wants a new kitchen or a new car or that she needs money. He notices every time they have sex he gets more if he's agreeable. If he isn't she won't be interested. All her friends think she's wonderful. She's the life of the party when he's not there. There's some thing very odd about him though.

This is how it often happens. He loses everything. Eventually she will seek divorce. She wants more. He can be accused of anything. He has no friends. The court will look after her. I have seen this happen so many times. It's very common. There's a bit of it in every relationship I think. It's the woman who does it every time. I've never seen a man do it- not yet. Perhaps you can use it in a story. I have no idea. I know it's very sad.

You've described something that is all too real.

I described something that was not likely but sort of humorously weird.

In both cases it's control freaks and their victims.

 

[hoo_hoo_boo]

You've described something that is all too real.

I described something that was not likely but sort of humorously weird.

In both cases it's control freaks and their victims.

Yes- it's very real. Yours is humorously weird.

I find it odd no one else has seen it, the stuff of suicide. Thank goodness! It doesn't always go all the way- often it stops at some point. Usually this is a point at which she has attained superiority. It is funny some times when she divorces her man, tries to get another and can't. It's a little bit of justice then. One man I knew who had just been through it said "women don't want equality- they just want more". I suspect they weren't his words but they've stayed with me ever since. I'm also reminded of the lines I can only paraphrase about being a good housekeeper- she kept the houses.

 

[Tmmldr]

Yes- it's very real. Yours is humorously weird.

I find it odd no one else has seen it, the stuff of suicide. Thank goodness! It doesn't always go all the way- often it stops at some point. Usually this is a point at which she has attained superiority. It is funny some times when she divorces her man, tries to get another and can't. ....

Yeah. That story I don't want to write. I've lived it...

What you've described is the real thing, of control freaks. Even the actions of BSDM whipping their partners isn't nearly that weird, and it's just a game.

I'm sure that women on this forum also have bad stories of control freak guys.

Anyway back to the subject. It occurs to me that it in the nature of hubby and wife playing a game - one paying the other for sexual acts, wild as they might dream....

It does not have to be like greenbacks. It could be Linden dollars, WOW gold, bitcoins, a tankful of gas for the car, tickets to the movies, airplane tickets ....