it sounds so easy while reading these forums butt then reality creeps back in with all the nerves and uncertianties
I think this is a large part of it. While I can sit here and think about how great it would be, when reality starts to creep in it starts to seem more daunting. I think that the insecurities start to play in...........you start to worry about your weight, your cock size, your looks. Guys are just as insecure as women sometimes. Another part of it is the fear. We can sit here and say disease free, but there's no way to truly tell. Timing and location are always problematic. (add in the safety issue of meeting with someone unknown) I've cammed with a few guys, a few years back. I love the idea, but actually making it happen...............that's a different story. I would love to stroke someone else off, and feel him come all over and then have him do the same to me. There is a part of me that would like to move to the next step of sucking him off, and suck him dry but again, the disease issue rears its ugly head. I'm actually surprised that more connections don't happen here. I know I feel more confident about long-term posters here than I ever would from Craigslist.
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