How many women are really into cuckolding
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littlecordelera
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You might want to define "cuckolding." Everyone has their own definition. My husband and I enjoy the lifestyle, as we define it, but that does not include any humiliation.
At least not to him. Some people, understandably, are humiliated by the fact that their spouse is having sex with another person. So even the humiliation thing needs some defined boundaries for a general discussion.
And for the record, swinging is not cuckolding.
At least not to him. Some people, understandably, are humiliated by the fact that their spouse is having sex with another person. So even the humiliation thing needs some defined boundaries for a general discussion.
And for the record, swinging is not cuckolding.
Cuckolding as in knowing that your wife has a boyfriend. The hubby isn't allowed to have sex with her but her bf is. The hubby may sometimes get to watch....
Also the wife goes on dates......
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The husband is not allowed to have sex with his wife? Really? Never heard that one before and it's definitely not us, but all the more reason to define the term.
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Cuckolding as in knowing that your wife has a boyfriend. The hubby isn't allowed to have sex with her but her bf is. The hubby may sometimes get to watch....
Also the wife goes on dates......
If this is the definition, what does a husband get from this?
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Our is a wife led relationship. He has sex but I control with whom and when, whereas I have total freedom to fuck who I want.
It is largely a dom/sub dynamic. Ceding control to me has allowed him to enjoy every aspect of our sexual adventures without questioning his own motivation or getting hung up with jealousies or competitiveness.
Also he would never be able to attract as much action as I can. This way any feelings of inadequacy are replaced with the desire to please and be rewarded. My sex with other men is as much a test of his obedience as it is my need for something else.
He knows I am not seeking something better. It is a simple matter of no one man being adequate for me.
Our is a wife led relationship. He has sex but I control with whom and when, whereas I have total freedom to fuck who I want.
It is largely a dom/sub dynamic. Ceding control to me has allowed him to enjoy every aspect of our sexual adventures without questioning his own motivation or getting hung up with jealousies or competitiveness.
Also he would never be able to attract as much action as I can. This way any feelings of inadequacy are replaced with the desire to please and be rewarded. My sex with other men is as much a test of his obedience as it is my need for something else.
He knows I am not seeking something better. It is a simple matter of no one man being adequate for me.
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I suppose cuckolding can mean a lot of things. I've not heard the aspect that the husband is not allowed to have sex with the wife. I've had the joy of being the "bull" in a couple of cuckolding experience. Their husbands knew about me but it wasn't blatantly discussed in their households. In one case hubby knew about me but still had sex with his wife. Frankly, I thought it was quite hot to know he was doing her after me. In the other case, the hubby was unable to have sex anymore but recognized that his wife was getting it elsewhere. In his case, I basically felt sorry for him but his wife said it was ok. He understood.
In neither case was there overt "humiliation" involved. However, in the former case, since he was able to have sex but just "shared" his wife with me, I always thought it would be hot to have him watch or listen on the phone while wifey and I did it. However, she did not want that. She was ok with him knowing, but didn't want to go as far as having him watch or listen on the phone.
The world of sexual dynamics is quite open and varied. Many people arrive at whatever it is that they need to make them happy and satisified. Some never do.
In neither case was there overt "humiliation" involved. However, in the former case, since he was able to have sex but just "shared" his wife with me, I always thought it would be hot to have him watch or listen on the phone while wifey and I did it. However, she did not want that. She was ok with him knowing, but didn't want to go as far as having him watch or listen on the phone.
The world of sexual dynamics is quite open and varied. Many people arrive at whatever it is that they need to make them happy and satisified. Some never do.
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