need to get my wife in to 3some

[nilang]

hi i m new to this. i like to getting my wife into 3some (mmf) we both are straight. my wife not interesting about this. how can i make her to do this. need some good advice.

 

[Bramblethorn]

hi i m new to this. i like to getting my wife into 3some (mmf) we both are straight. my wife not interesting about this. how can i make her to do this. need some good advice.

Some good advice? Respect her boundaries. You have the right to ask her if she wants a threesome. She has the right to say no, and it sounds like she's said no. You don't have the right to pressure her into sex that she doesn't want to have.

Think of it this way: imagine if your wife had a fantasy about seeing you getting tied up and fucked in the arse by a guy. She asks, you say no... and she starts looking for ways to make it happen even though you've already told her 'no'. How would that feel for you?

 

[twister947]

Some good advice? Respect her boundaries. You have the right to ask her if she wants a threesome. She has the right to say no, and it sounds like she's said no. You don't have the right to pressure her into sex that she doesn't want to have.

Think of it this way: imagine if your wife had a fantasy about seeing you getting tied up and fucked in the arse by a guy. She asks, you say no... and she starts looking for ways to make it happen even though you've already told her 'no'. How would that feel for you?

Pitch perfect.

 

[lovecraft68]

hi i m new to this. i like to getting my wife into 3some (mmf) we both are straight. my wife not interesting about this. how can i make her to do this. need some good advice.

You cannot make someone try this

If they are into it great, if they are not its off the table.

If you try to push she is going to get upset and I know a couple where the wife was reluctant and the husband pushed and pushed and she finally agreed and tired it.

They were divorced six months later.

Be grateful for what you have

 

[NightL]

how can i make her to do this.

just love a 1st time poster

She does not like your dick - how does she make you cut it off?

 

[bibethhotwet]

I am inclined to tell you to drop the subject with her. "Making" your spouse do something sexually is a fast track to divorce.

Husband and I as "seasoned swingers" have worked with numerous newbie couples and quite often we discouraged rather than encourage the lifestyle. Not unusual for one or the other in the relationship to want to bring fantasy into reality with the partner having no desire for actual intercourse with someone other than their spouse.

Pornography on screen is one thing. Bringing the actual act into bed is quite another. If you truly love her, her feelings will come first.

 

[silverwhisper]

nilang, you asked for some good advice. you've gotten the best advice there is.

your move.

ed

 

[Eilan]

What Bramblethorn said, times a brazillion.

 

[amofiga]

Bramlethorn has a perfect way of putting it. It's always amazing how one person will just naturally assume that his or her spouse or SO will always want the same thing they do and wonder why they don't. "Oh Honey, I want to see 5 guys whip you and fuck you up the ass. Don't you think that would be fun?" Maybe it would be for her, but SHE has to decide what she wants to do with her body or have done to it.

 

[sueDaniels54]

3some

I was pressured into it and am now seperated be careful its not for eveyone

 

[TJReilly]

You need to turn on your PMs.