Just Outed my kinky ass

Lemmy963

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Ok I recently moved back to my home town (think smallish town in W Texas) and am trying to do what I can to make new friends (and ignore the old fair-weather friends.)

Anyway, was talking last night and overheard a few people talking about how someone had found a flogger at a new boyfriends place. They were going on how stuff like that is just perverted and how could anyone think stuff like that was acceptable.

Bad thing is I kinda joined the talk and corrected them on a few points (such as the fact that a soft deer-hide flogger couldn't cause more then a red mark even when swung by someone my size.) Guess I was just sick of listening to their half-thought out bullshit.

So I outed myself. I just shrugged it off and went on with the night but I did notice a few disapproving looks I got (and not even going to talk about the whispers I ignored). Made for an interesting night to say the least.

I'm not really involved with the scene anymore and was never really hardcore when I was but, it's not like a lot of people accept someone who's at all kinky when you've known them a while.

Guess I need to learn to keep my mouth shut huh? :D
 
Very true, always think it's funny how the ones who yell the most/loudest about these things are usually the ones who have something to hide...

Personally, never trusted people who are "normal," in my experience they are usually the ones who are really messed up.
 
Interesting... my friends have always known about my involvement in the lifestyle. It's never been a secret. A lot of my friends are vanilla, at that, but accept who I am and even ask me questions about it from time to time.
 
Ok I recently moved back to my home town (think smallish town in W Texas) and am trying to do what I can to make new friends (and ignore the old fair-weather friends.)

Anyway, was talking last night and overheard a few people talking about how someone had found a flogger at a new boyfriends place. They were going on how stuff like that is just perverted and how could anyone think stuff like that was acceptable.

Bad thing is I kinda joined the talk and corrected them on a few points (such as the fact that a soft deer-hide flogger couldn't cause more then a red mark even when swung by someone my size.) Guess I was just sick of listening to their half-thought out bullshit.

So I outed myself. I just shrugged it off and went on with the night but I did notice a few disapproving looks I got (and not even going to talk about the whispers I ignored). Made for an interesting night to say the least.

I'm not really involved with the scene anymore and was never really hardcore when I was but, it's not like a lot of people accept someone who's at all kinky when you've known them a while.

Guess I need to learn to keep my mouth shut huh? :D

I'm willing to bet that at least one woman in the crowd was secretly intrigued and is trying to figure out how to bring up the subject with you again, or even get you alone.
 
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