Ladies, let me ask you this........

[Kellydude666]

If you knew that your cousin, brother inlaw, cousin inlaw, husbands friend etc were jerking off to you, meaning by a picture or mental image would you be offended or would you find it flattering if you knew about it?

 

[quietlylooking]

It would depend entirely on whether I found him secretly desirable or not.

 

[Edensgarden]

If you knew that your cousin, brother inlaw, cousin inlaw, husbands friend etc were jerking off to you, meaning by a picture or mental image would you be offended or would you find it flattering if you knew about it?

I think your question is a little vague. There's a big difference between your cousin, a family member, jerking off to you and your husband's friend.

Maybe you could be a little more specific in your question.

 

[DarkPleasures]

I think your question is a little vague. There's a big difference between your cousin, a family member, jerking off to you and your husband's friend.

Maybe you could be a little more specific in your question.

But, of course, a brother-in-law and "cousin-in-law" aren't your family. They're your husband's family. (Or a sister's husband's family.)

 

[JudasIscariot]

If you knew that your cousin, brother inlaw, cousin inlaw, husbands friend etc were jerking off to you, meaning by a picture or mental image would you be offended or would you find it flattering if you knew about it?

Id be disturbed by it

 

[Edensgarden]

But, of course, a brother-in-law and "cousin-in-law" aren't your family. They're your husband's family. (Or a sister's husband's family.)

I know, right?! It's like the husband's friend comment was thrown in to make the question a little more justifiable in the OP's eyes. Why not add neighbor and co-worker in there as well?

 

[DarkPleasures]

He probably is such a guy (previously mentioned) and has a boner for a woman he shouldn't.

 

[Kellydude666]

He probably is such a guy (previously mentioned) and has a boner for a woman he shouldn't.

You nailed it right on the head. And yes could be a co-worker or neighbor also. I always have the fantasy of admitting this to my wife's cousin, her best friend, and her two step sisters and see their reaction to it.
It would be such a turn-on if they were flattered by it.

 

[LadyVer]

It would creep me out. just sayin.

 

[Asian_Flower]

It would creep me out. just sayin.

This!

 

[ejredlady]

depends on which relative it is I suppose. I have discovered fairly recently my ex step son did and the results of that conversation have been fairly incredible.

ex step son - not a fetish of its own is it. he is only 8 years younger than me.

 

[SquidProQuo]

I would be really creeped out if anyone blood-related masturbated to me. Otherwise, depending on the person, I'd generally be flattered.

 

[GorgeousGeekGirl]

My relative, CREEPY with a capital EWWWWW!

An in-law, depends on which one and hotness factor.

 

[Noor]

I would be creeped out and I get offended if former lovers tell me they do it to my photo.

 

[SquidProQuo]

I would be creeped out and I get offended if former lovers tell me they do it to my photo.

That's good, bringing up a former lover context, like an ex or something. If it was an ex, I'd probably get uncomfortable.

 

[Edensgarden]

You nailed it right on the head. And yes could be a co-worker or neighbor also. I always have the fantasy of admitting this to my wife's cousin, her best friend, and her two step sisters and see their reaction to it.
It would be such a turn-on if they were flattered by it.

So basically you just want to tell a female that you are jerking off to a pic of her and have her be flattered by it? Because of course if she is turned on by it, that is going to make your jerking much more enjoyable.

Your best bet is to probably stay away from a family member. Personally, I'm flattered to know certain people get off on looking at pic of me. As far as family members, it would be a little creepy, although I do have a hot second cousin who I might just let get away with it.

 

[BongoGal]

I wouldn't be offended or creeped out at all to somehow learn of such a thing. The way of finding out might get creepy, though. Having someone make it a point of telling me to my face that he was jerking off to me would be TMI, IMHO. I have had exes tell me in not so many words that something we did together was a go-to masturbatory memory. (It probably was for me, too, so I'd be flattered.) I have learned about such a thing from the wife of a pair of two college friends who got married. She confided in me after a few cocktails that her husband once admitted to her that on at least two occasions he jerked off in his dorm room while gazing out his window at me while I was sunbathing on a blanket in the grass below. It surprised me and we laughed hard about it, and it was flattering in a way. I did insist that she never tell him that she told me because I was sure he'd be very embarrassed. (It took some thinking, but I was eventually able to recall where exactly I was and what I was wearing. It was a skimpy red two-piece bathing suit that I'll admit probably seemed quite enticing to a horny college guy. I had no idea that I had an appreciative audience.)

 

[lil_abbygirl]

I suppose it would all depend on the specific person. If it were my cousin, I'd be creeped out but incest does nothing at all for me. If it were any of the non-family options, it would depend entirely on what I already thought of them. If I already thought the guy was kind of creepy, it would reinforce my opinion. If I liked the guy I would be a little flattered.

Growing up I had such a crush on my older cousin's husband. The idea that he was thinking of me would turn into masturbatory material for me.

And if anyone came out and told me directly, including aforementioned cousin's hubby (without both of us being very very drunk) it would be creepy.

 

[John_Whittaker0826]

If a post is too vague for your taste, why not just move on? Damn, maybe it's creepy, maybe the OP is in fact trying to heighten something he's already involved in, but who freaking cares?

Lighten up Francis!

 

[Edensgarden]

If a post is too vague for your taste, why not just move on? Damn, maybe it's creepy, maybe the OP is in fact trying to heighten something he's already involved in, but who freaking cares?

Lighten up Francis!

Umm....because the OP is asking specifically if others would find it flattering or not. There is a HUGE difference between finding out a family member is jerking off to you versus a non-family member.

A less vague original post could help OP in getting more responses. He came back and clarified perfectly.

 

[millieteases]

Well, not really into incest, but in a weird way it is kind of flattering. Of course, just about any recognition of me as a sexually arousing being is much appreciated. Probably don't want to know too much, though. But since I do like to be watched, is it hypocritical to say be whom? Again, if I do turn someone on, wonderful. If you're related to me, well, keep it to yourself for both our sanity.