The Men who Crave Cock but aren't attracted to Men Club!
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I don't want to be with a man one-on-one, but I have ABSOLUTELY NO PROBLEM with being with another man and a woman and having no-holds-barred sex. I love the idea of sucking the guy's cock after it's been buried inside her pussy.
Yes that thought makes me wild for sure
What hesaid exactly...Happily married to an beautiful, amazing and sexually open woman! haven't ever had a cock (other than fake ones we've used) in my mouth but it interests me greatly...but could never fathom any other contact with a guy.
It's just a curiousity, but IMO by no means makes me gay or even bi
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I concur... just the animal urge...
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I love sucking a hard cock
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I haven't heard of this study, but it rings true with me. I'm 57 and probably about 7 years ago, I began to entertain the idea of cock. BUT...I've watched gay porn and it just doesn't do anything for me. Show me a video of an MMF threesome though, and I go into an uncontrolled frenzy. The thought of two guys and a girl together, everyone sucking a fucking everyone else....the guys doing each other...the guys DP-ing the woman, the woman sucking a guy while he gets fucked by the other one...Let's just say that I don't know if I've ever got all the way through one of these videos without making one hell of a mess.
I've shared this fantasy with my wife during foreplay and it usually gets her off, but when I've brought up actually doing it she goes nuts and won't even consider the idea in real life. But God....I think I'd actually do it if the situation ever presented itself. In fact, I'm at the point where I'd even experiment with a guy one-on-one. I've sent some subtle signals to my best friend (pressing my legs against his while crammed into a booth with some other guys on beer night, steadying myself when I get up by resting my hand on his thigh. He's never moved his leg and a few months ago, he pressed his foot against mine for quite awhile). I've glanced at his cock when we've stood next to each other at a urinal and it looks like it could get pretty thick. I know his wife is as prudish and schrewish as mine. I don't want to ruin our friendship, but I'm almost curious and horny enough to risk it. Any thoughts?
I can't agree with the study...I'm under 40 (barely) and my test levels are abnormally high and I have these thoughts and fantisies we share at times too that work for us as fantasy...as far as reality, I would say be careful with friendships..if you don't get a strong signal that it's a go then I wouldn't push it..not worth a pod friendship or relationship just for a chance encounter, esp if your wife isn't involved or on board with the idea...
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Thanks. I'm sure you're right...
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To a certain extent, it's the notion of going against society's repression against certain taboos, and one of the biggest in our society is the idea of men doing things that go against the homophobic definition of what's manly. And that definition doesn't necessarily have anything to do with sexuality, however sexuality is one of the primary functions of the homophobic fear.
Now, a penis has no ego, no agenda, aside from getting pleasured - in a sexual context. When you separate the man from the genitalia, you don't have to contend with all the bullshit that comes with being a man, and in particular the bullshit that comes with that homophobic attitude.
I think I've said this before, but many men spend a large part of their waking days broadcasting to the world their manliness, making sure the rest of us don't forget it. I often wonder who they're really trying to remind?
Anyhow, this whole cock vs. man thing is definitely a dichotomy, and there isn't really a good explanation for it. It's just that, I consider myself a man, and while I'm interested in cock, I don't really care what's attached to it, because there's too much crap to contend with. I don't consider myself gay, since I'm still dearly in love with women and pussy. I certainly don't see what women see in men as a whole, and the day I do will be the day I turn in my pussy-lover card. Am I interested in what lays just below a guy's belt? Sure, primarily because it rubs right against what our horrifically repressive society says is correct for a man's interests.
Now, the true dichotomy, as well as inequality - and a male driven one at that - is that women are able to be truly, fully bisexual, and no one gives a damn. If a man says he's bisexual, you get from both the straight, as well as the gay communities that there's no such thing. For men, you have to be one or the other, you can't be both.
Now, I've never actually encountered cock in real life - aside from my own - and it's unlikely I ever will. I'm not even sure I'd be able to bring myself to it, given the opportunity. However, it's a fascinating organ, that and the balls that hang below it, and that, I sort of do understand what women see in it.
So, like many guys here: cock - yes, men - no. I'm not sure I fully understand it myself. It just is, and that's okay with me.
Now, a penis has no ego, no agenda, aside from getting pleasured - in a sexual context. When you separate the man from the genitalia, you don't have to contend with all the bullshit that comes with being a man, and in particular the bullshit that comes with that homophobic attitude.
I think I've said this before, but many men spend a large part of their waking days broadcasting to the world their manliness, making sure the rest of us don't forget it. I often wonder who they're really trying to remind?
Anyhow, this whole cock vs. man thing is definitely a dichotomy, and there isn't really a good explanation for it. It's just that, I consider myself a man, and while I'm interested in cock, I don't really care what's attached to it, because there's too much crap to contend with. I don't consider myself gay, since I'm still dearly in love with women and pussy. I certainly don't see what women see in men as a whole, and the day I do will be the day I turn in my pussy-lover card. Am I interested in what lays just below a guy's belt? Sure, primarily because it rubs right against what our horrifically repressive society says is correct for a man's interests.
Now, the true dichotomy, as well as inequality - and a male driven one at that - is that women are able to be truly, fully bisexual, and no one gives a damn. If a man says he's bisexual, you get from both the straight, as well as the gay communities that there's no such thing. For men, you have to be one or the other, you can't be both.
Now, I've never actually encountered cock in real life - aside from my own - and it's unlikely I ever will. I'm not even sure I'd be able to bring myself to it, given the opportunity. However, it's a fascinating organ, that and the balls that hang below it, and that, I sort of do understand what women see in it.
So, like many guys here: cock - yes, men - no. I'm not sure I fully understand it myself. It just is, and that's okay with me.
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Great observation
So the question is, what do we call men like us? It's amazing how predominate the desire it. Thought I was the only one till I came to Lit.
I've been coming to LIT for a while. I always enjoy reading threads and stories that hit my desires and fantasies dead on. It feels good to know I'm not alone. Seeing that I thought I'd start this thread to get all the guys together that are in the same boat as me.
From what I've seen lately there are alot of guys that belong to the following group
- They love the sight of a nice big cock
- They desire stroking, sucking and taking cock deep in their ass
- They have no attraction to guys beyond cock.
- They have no desire to kiss another guy
- It is 100% about cock desire and nothing else.
If you are part of this group let's discuss our thoughts, desires and fantasies here.
NOTEIf you are too shy to post by all means send me a pm (private message) I'd love to hear from you
So the question is, what do we call men like us? It's amazing how predominate the desire it. Thought I was the only one till I came to Lit.
It's all in the big head
I have to go with those who refute the study cited, for a number of reasons.
Let's start out with the logic of the thing itself. If your T levels are plummeting, won't you lose interest in sex of any kind, and not just hetero sex? (By the way, there are a number of ways to correct that too, the simplest being diet and lots of exercise, and your doc can put you on a regimen of supplemental meds as well.)
However, I believe the curiosity about playing with another male is born not of a hormonal deficiency, but often, in the case of married men where the wife has become frigid or indifferent, perhaps a deficiency of the availability of hetero sex. He is then considering options, and for those who don't want the danger and drama of taking a lover, well, here's the alternative.
Why haven't these guys had these thoughts or acted upon them before? Again, I believe it's not the T level that has anything to do with it, but since we see so many men expressing curiosity at around 50 or so, I believe it has far less to do with hormonal levels, and much more to do with intellectual levels.
A man by then has matured to the point that he reallizes that he has nothing to prove to anyone, and certainly any other man who wishes to question our guy's manhood for his curiosity or actions simply hasn't read any history at all. Some of the greatest warriors the world has ever known were either bi or gay, and we're seeing more and more professional athletes coming out as well.
But I'm not talking about homosexuality, per se, but rather sticking with the topic of bi-sexual behaviors in various aspects, in men, and especially middle-aged men. I believe they just come to realize that there's really no intellectual argument to be made for exclusively hetero sex. As the man said earlier, the dick has no agenda; it simply wants its pleasure and couldn't care any less where it comes from. Suppose you were at a party and in a puppy pile in a dark room, and received the best hummer you've ever experienced in your life. Then you later discovered that it was in fact a guy who had blown your mind - and body. How might you react? Wouldn't you have to start asking yourself some serious and interesting questions?
Isn't it, in the end, all those notions put into our (larger) heads by the various religions that cause all the confusion and the myriad problems that result? Liberal or conservative, how do you justify telling anyone else how they may - or may not - get their ya-yas? In short, what's it to ya? If you have an imaginary friend whom you believe frowns upon the practice, and you are therefore intimidated to the point of repression of your own desires, does that give you, a citizen of a democracy, the right to force your own fears upon anyone else? And let's take it a setp further. Should you, as a moral and thinking individual, be allowing yourself to think less of those who don't share your particular beliefs and practices, especially when they have no ill effect upon your own life and liberty?
So then. I believe it's in the brain and not the blood. All we need now is enough blood to run the big head and the little one at the same time.
I have to go with those who refute the study cited, for a number of reasons.
Let's start out with the logic of the thing itself. If your T levels are plummeting, won't you lose interest in sex of any kind, and not just hetero sex? (By the way, there are a number of ways to correct that too, the simplest being diet and lots of exercise, and your doc can put you on a regimen of supplemental meds as well.)
However, I believe the curiosity about playing with another male is born not of a hormonal deficiency, but often, in the case of married men where the wife has become frigid or indifferent, perhaps a deficiency of the availability of hetero sex. He is then considering options, and for those who don't want the danger and drama of taking a lover, well, here's the alternative.
Why haven't these guys had these thoughts or acted upon them before? Again, I believe it's not the T level that has anything to do with it, but since we see so many men expressing curiosity at around 50 or so, I believe it has far less to do with hormonal levels, and much more to do with intellectual levels.
A man by then has matured to the point that he reallizes that he has nothing to prove to anyone, and certainly any other man who wishes to question our guy's manhood for his curiosity or actions simply hasn't read any history at all. Some of the greatest warriors the world has ever known were either bi or gay, and we're seeing more and more professional athletes coming out as well.
But I'm not talking about homosexuality, per se, but rather sticking with the topic of bi-sexual behaviors in various aspects, in men, and especially middle-aged men. I believe they just come to realize that there's really no intellectual argument to be made for exclusively hetero sex. As the man said earlier, the dick has no agenda; it simply wants its pleasure and couldn't care any less where it comes from. Suppose you were at a party and in a puppy pile in a dark room, and received the best hummer you've ever experienced in your life. Then you later discovered that it was in fact a guy who had blown your mind - and body. How might you react? Wouldn't you have to start asking yourself some serious and interesting questions?
Isn't it, in the end, all those notions put into our (larger) heads by the various religions that cause all the confusion and the myriad problems that result? Liberal or conservative, how do you justify telling anyone else how they may - or may not - get their ya-yas? In short, what's it to ya? If you have an imaginary friend whom you believe frowns upon the practice, and you are therefore intimidated to the point of repression of your own desires, does that give you, a citizen of a democracy, the right to force your own fears upon anyone else? And let's take it a setp further. Should you, as a moral and thinking individual, be allowing yourself to think less of those who don't share your particular beliefs and practices, especially when they have no ill effect upon your own life and liberty?
So then. I believe it's in the brain and not the blood. All we need now is enough blood to run the big head and the little one at the same time.
It's all in the big head
I have to go with those who refute the study cited, for a number of reasons.
Let's start out with the logic of the thing itself. If your T levels are plummeting, won't you lose interest in sex of any kind, and not just hetero sex? (By the way, there are a number of ways to correct that too, the simplest being diet and lots of exercise, and your doc can put you on a regimen of supplemental meds as well.)
However, I believe the curiosity about playing with another male is born not of a hormonal deficiency, but often, in the case of married men where the wife has become frigid or indifferent, perhaps a deficiency of the availability of hetero sex. He is then considering options, and for those who don't want the danger and drama of taking a lover, well, here's the alternative.
Why haven't these guys had these thoughts or acted upon them before? Again, I believe it's not the T level that has anything to do with it, but since we see so many men expressing curiosity at around 50 or so, I believe it has far less to do with hormonal levels, and much more to do with intellectual levels.
A man by then has matured to the point that he reallizes that he has nothing to prove to anyone, and certainly any other man who wishes to question our guy's manhood for his curiosity or actions simply hasn't read any history at all. Some of the greatest warriors the world has ever known were either bi or gay, and we're seeing more and more professional athletes coming out as well.
But I'm not talking about homosexuality, per se, but rather sticking with the topic of bi-sexual behaviors in various aspects, in men, and especially middle-aged men. I believe they just come to realize that there's really no intellectual argument to be made for exclusively hetero sex. As the man said earlier, the dick has no agenda; it simply wants its pleasure and couldn't care any less where it comes from. Suppose you were at a party and in a puppy pile in a dark room, and received the best hummer you've ever experienced in your life. Then you later discovered that it was in fact a guy who had blown your mind - and body. How might you react? Wouldn't you have to start asking yourself some serious and interesting questions?
Isn't it, in the end, all those notions put into our (larger) heads by the various religions that cause all the confusion and the myriad problems that result? Liberal or conservative, how do you justify telling anyone else how they may - or may not - get their ya-yas? In short, what's it to ya? If you have an imaginary friend whom you believe frowns upon the practice, and you are therefore intimidated to the point of repression of your own desires, does that give you, a citizen of a democracy, the right to force your own fears upon anyone else? And let's take it a setp further. Should you, as a moral and thinking individual, be allowing yourself to think less of those who don't share your particular beliefs and practices, especially when they have no ill effect upon your own life and liberty?
So then. I believe it's in the brain and not the blood. All we need now is enough blood to run the big head and the little one at the same time.
I have to go with those who refute the study cited, for a number of reasons.
Let's start out with the logic of the thing itself. If your T levels are plummeting, won't you lose interest in sex of any kind, and not just hetero sex? (By the way, there are a number of ways to correct that too, the simplest being diet and lots of exercise, and your doc can put you on a regimen of supplemental meds as well.)
However, I believe the curiosity about playing with another male is born not of a hormonal deficiency, but often, in the case of married men where the wife has become frigid or indifferent, perhaps a deficiency of the availability of hetero sex. He is then considering options, and for those who don't want the danger and drama of taking a lover, well, here's the alternative.
Why haven't these guys had these thoughts or acted upon them before? Again, I believe it's not the T level that has anything to do with it, but since we see so many men expressing curiosity at around 50 or so, I believe it has far less to do with hormonal levels, and much more to do with intellectual levels.
A man by then has matured to the point that he reallizes that he has nothing to prove to anyone, and certainly any other man who wishes to question our guy's manhood for his curiosity or actions simply hasn't read any history at all. Some of the greatest warriors the world has ever known were either bi or gay, and we're seeing more and more professional athletes coming out as well.
But I'm not talking about homosexuality, per se, but rather sticking with the topic of bi-sexual behaviors in various aspects, in men, and especially middle-aged men. I believe they just come to realize that there's really no intellectual argument to be made for exclusively hetero sex. As the man said earlier, the dick has no agenda; it simply wants its pleasure and couldn't care any less where it comes from. Suppose you were at a party and in a puppy pile in a dark room, and received the best hummer you've ever experienced in your life. Then you later discovered that it was in fact a guy who had blown your mind - and body. How might you react? Wouldn't you have to start asking yourself some serious and interesting questions?
Isn't it, in the end, all those notions put into our (larger) heads by the various religions that cause all the confusion and the myriad problems that result? Liberal or conservative, how do you justify telling anyone else how they may - or may not - get their ya-yas? In short, what's it to ya? If you have an imaginary friend whom you believe frowns upon the practice, and you are therefore intimidated to the point of repression of your own desires, does that give you, a citizen of a democracy, the right to force your own fears upon anyone else? And let's take it a setp further. Should you, as a moral and thinking individual, be allowing yourself to think less of those who don't share your particular beliefs and practices, especially when they have no ill effect upon your own life and liberty?
So then. I believe it's in the brain and not the blood. All we need now is enough blood to run the big head and the little one at the same time.
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Rider,
Very nicely said.
I didn't comment on the testosterone levels and the contention that that can be a causal factor in men's interest in seeking different avenues of pleasure at some point, but like you, I don't necessarily believe it, because I'm not quite 50 yet, and I developed my curiosity in my 30s. I like to think I still have a fairly active libido, and am still highly interested in women. I think that can be said for most of the men on this thread.
I like your point that some men reach a place in their life where they no longer care to conform to all our repressive society's norms.
Also, it's a very good point that historically, males have had contact together with no ill effects within their societies. If I recall, the ancient Greeks, in particular, considered it a part of mentoring. Y'wanna tell me Alexander the Great was a closet fag?
Anyhow, great post, Ezeerider. I like this intellectual discussion as much as I enjoy the sexual ones...
Very nicely said.
I didn't comment on the testosterone levels and the contention that that can be a causal factor in men's interest in seeking different avenues of pleasure at some point, but like you, I don't necessarily believe it, because I'm not quite 50 yet, and I developed my curiosity in my 30s. I like to think I still have a fairly active libido, and am still highly interested in women. I think that can be said for most of the men on this thread.
I like your point that some men reach a place in their life where they no longer care to conform to all our repressive society's norms.
Also, it's a very good point that historically, males have had contact together with no ill effects within their societies. If I recall, the ancient Greeks, in particular, considered it a part of mentoring. Y'wanna tell me Alexander the Great was a closet fag?
Anyhow, great post, Ezeerider. I like this intellectual discussion as much as I enjoy the sexual ones...
I would like to see the actual study details that led to that conclusion, sample group, free and available T levels tested, how long the Saturday was done for, etc...
Your point about society is well taken though. I tend to believe sexuality is a sliding scale rather than one extreme or the other as we are tonight are the Norms growing up. I think at some point some of us realize that and some don't...some act on it and others don't...
Your point about society is well taken though. I tend to believe sexuality is a sliding scale rather than one extreme or the other as we are tonight are the Norms growing up. I think at some point some of us realize that and some don't...some act on it and others don't...
I've heard that study referenced before, with low testosterone not necessarily being a trigger for homosexual behavior, but rather a desire to be penetrated. So I'd call it more a potential causal factor in the exploration of toys like a strap on used with a female partner and maybe in a bisexual/gay man whether he leans towards being a top or bottom. But not linked directly to homosexual attraction.
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Words of warning. If you are married but like to or want to suck cock, beware that your wife/girlfriend may not support or accept this. My wife doesn't but it did not stop me and like an idiot I pushed it until she finally caught me with a mouth full of cock.
Now I think I can mend the marriage, but I have to give up my addiction and right now that is going to be rough.
Now I think I can mend the marriage, but I have to give up my addiction and right now that is going to be rough.
Haven't had that experience, fortunately my bride is open to discussing things with me and although I may have some interests like that she hasn't been repulsed, etc...having said that we also agreed that we wouldn't try or do anything without the other person there and she knows I'll stick to that...but the important thing is that people talk to their SO's about it and can be open and accepted...otherwise yes, it could be disastrous
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It has been my most exhilarating fantasy for so long Edward R. Murrow was still on national TV. Just the thought of lying in bed in my silken lavender panties is enough to move me from flaccid to turgid. It is then that I imagine a big black man straddling my chest and two others on either side of my head jacking off. It's then that the first monster cock is at my lips and someone is holding my nose. In one quick motion a huge mushroom head is forcing its way into my unobliging mouth. I'm told to suck cock or be beaten. I suck. Then I'm forced to hold my mouth open as three black cocks begin to empty their hot loads onto my tongue,
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I posted the following in the personals section, but thought it might be appropriate here, too. Reading the various posts in this thread makes me realize that while I certainly find role-playing fun I am also quite interested in discussing any aspects of our shared interest.
I am a divorced bi-curious man interested in PM role-playing. I am mostly hetero, that is my romantic and greatest sexual attraction is to women, but I am undeniably turned on by thoughts of cock play, cocksucking, mmf, mmmmf, etc. I have had a bit of experience with various combinations and forms of contact, but only one instance of sucking a cock. It was a long time ago, but I liked it enough to want to explore further. Looking to PM with like-minded intelligent, imaginative and literate people, male or female. PM me to tell me a little about yourself and what you'd like to explore and let's take an erotic journey together.
I am a divorced bi-curious man interested in PM role-playing. I am mostly hetero, that is my romantic and greatest sexual attraction is to women, but I am undeniably turned on by thoughts of cock play, cocksucking, mmf, mmmmf, etc. I have had a bit of experience with various combinations and forms of contact, but only one instance of sucking a cock. It was a long time ago, but I liked it enough to want to explore further. Looking to PM with like-minded intelligent, imaginative and literate people, male or female. PM me to tell me a little about yourself and what you'd like to explore and let's take an erotic journey together.
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Hmmm...
Just checking in here to see what has been added to this very righteous thread...the fact that I just took wifey to the airport to visit her folks for three weeks is another reason. I'm feeling those hidden urges again and I cannot stop thinking about getting naked and working over a nice big cock & balls. Maybe I read my own writings too much...anyway. What's up? anyone interested in a bull session?
http://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=43430331&postcount=2953
Just checking in here to see what has been added to this very righteous thread...the fact that I just took wifey to the airport to visit her folks for three weeks is another reason. I'm feeling those hidden urges again and I cannot stop thinking about getting naked and working over a nice big cock & balls. Maybe I read my own writings too much...anyway. What's up? anyone interested in a bull session?
http://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=43430331&postcount=2953
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