taking too long?

[langdangsilver]

Wanted to poll folks. I am taking a really long time to cum. Most women are getting annoyed, wanting me to ejaculate as a demonstration of them doing a good job. I do cum and a high volume, but I don't want partners to be mad. When I do evacuate, I am usually having a great orgasm. But my partners are weary.

 

[silverwhisper]

how long are we talking here? and what methods of stimulation are being used? oral, intercourse, handjobs, something else?

for some guys it takes a while, while other guys, they've been flying solo for some time so it takes a particular kind of pressure to get there.

ed

 

[langdangsilver]

It depends. Great oral works well, vaginal and hand jobs take time. Again in the end my partners get a huge load and are happy, but they complain about the time

 

[ScarlettSpanks]

Tell them to suck it up, or find more considerate lovers.

Sometimes these things take time.

 

[silverwhisper]

again: how long are we talking about here? i'm trying to figure out if there's something legitimately unusual or if your partners are simply not very experienced.

ed

 

[langdangsilver]

again: how long are we talking about here? i'm trying to figure out if there's something legitimately unusual or if your partners are simply not very experienced.

ed

It really varies, but quickest aren't quick and lunch blowies are 45min getting us in trouble. That girl really likes my semen and is agitated.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Get a new girlfriend, its the easiest solution.

Modern girls think what theyre doing is mutual masturbation NOT love making. Dump the bitch and find one who likes your cum and cumpany.

 

[tonguedancer]

I always thought women hated the other extreme and wanted the "10 second wonders" to take a hike. I could always go a pretty long time and never heard any complaints but I'd try to strike a happy balance, especially if she had already cum. If she wants to get you off quicker, tell her to try some really dirty talk. That always got me going. A little "come on Honey, give momma a nice mouth full of come or soak her face with some thick sticky man goo" or something to that effect can spur a guy on to glory.

 

[COCK_STAR]

You are thinking like a broad. Thats what women that have a hard time cumming do. they think to themselves, am i taking to long? do i look fat? is he enjoying himself? next time you fuck, do just that. clear your mind and fuck. If that doesnt work, dump the bitch and find a broad that likes a good long fucking.

 

[NightL]

Wanted to poll folks. I am taking a really long time to cum. Most women are getting annoyed, wanting me to ejaculate as a demonstration of them doing a good job. I do cum and a high volume, but I don't want partners to be mad. When I do evacuate, I am usually having a great orgasm. But my partners are weary.

Been watching a little too much porn lately?
"I do cum and a high volume,"
"That girl really likes my semen "
"partners get a huge load and are happy"

Just a hint - the amount of your ejaculate has zero to do with a woman's pleasure unless perhaps you are both seeking pregnancy as a result. Even then quantity is not the issue it is the quality.

"But my partners are weary." perhaps a bit like a boring book.

"lunch blowies are 45min getting us in trouble"
Stop masturbating at lunch time - get yourself and your hand out to the kitchen when your mother calls you.

 

[sunandshadow]

Adding a finger to the prostate could speed up a blow job, unless you're doing that already.

 

[hidden_shadow]

If you're a man who has a has a hard time cumming, take this from me:

1. GET HER SATISFIED FIRST. If you have trouble climaxing, make sure she cums enough times she won't CARE. Leave her in a quivering pile on the matresses if you have to...or even if not
2. Let her know your spots. The underside of the skin right below the penis head is a great spot for guys. Have her lick and finger it until you beg to STOP. Except when she sees your cock pulsing, she won't stop until she takes your load.

(This is purely from experience. If you really can't cum from her hand, make yourself cum and let her see your fountain firsthand.)

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Fuck what she wants unless, of course, you want her getting the idea youre a dildo.

 

[innerpsychonaut]

Been watching a little too much porn lately?
"I do cum and a high volume,"
"That girl really likes my semen "
"partners get a huge load and are happy"

Just a hint - the amount of your ejaculate has zero to do with a woman's pleasure unless perhaps you are both seeking pregnancy as a result. Even then quantity is not the issue it is the quality.

"But my partners are weary." perhaps a bit like a boring book.

"lunch blowies are 45min getting us in trouble"
Stop masturbating at lunch time - get yourself and your hand out to the kitchen when your mother calls you.

I agree with this person here lol.

 

[lauren26f]

Been watching a little too much porn lately?
"I do cum and a high volume,"
"That girl really likes my semen "
"partners get a huge load and are happy"

Just a hint - the amount of your ejaculate has zero to do with a woman's pleasure unless perhaps you are both seeking pregnancy as a result. Even then quantity is not the issue it is the quality.

"But my partners are weary." perhaps a bit like a boring book.

"lunch blowies are 45min getting us in trouble"
Stop masturbating at lunch time - get yourself and your hand out to the kitchen when your mother calls you.

I agree. Your lady is bored. You need to learn to please them while getting pleased and always please them first. If you want a long, sloppy BJ from me, you better eat me to several orgasms first, otherwise, I'm gonna suck for 5 minutes and want to move right to fucking. If you don't get me off then, last you see of me.

 

[silverwhisper]

cock star quoth:
you are thinking like a broad.

hey cock star, the 40s called: they want their lingo back.

ed

 

[emap]

Let's try putting this in perspective, average length of sex, I'm talking cock in pussy, is 10-15 minutes. At 20 minutes most women end up a little bowlegged and tired. Half an hour and we are talking sore pussy and not up to more sex anytime soon.

Long blowjobs are not that uncommon because well not all gals will or want to look up at him while sucking away. Sex being mostly mental on enjoyment factor that means the guy getting the suck has nothing to look at but her head.

Course this is assuming it is say an in car blowjob. Those are not easy to manage to look up unless the guy is not the driver, stupid steering wheel.

So now, how does one speed up? Well as was said earlier, don't worry about her. No seriously, treat the gal like a sex toy, blow up doll whatever and just shove away until you blow your top. Seriously if you take forty five minutes to get off during sex she will be going 'oh my fucking god fill me up already' for fifteen minutes.

Not really any way to help you get off faster for the blowjob except well, stroke it before she gets down there. If you are long enough have her stroke what is not in her mouth. Seriously it does help. Alternately let her put a finger up your ass, it's not gay or anything like that, it's just a finger up your ass.

 

[COCK_STAR]

hey cock star, the 40s called: they want their lingo back.

ed

Should I make a 1980's reference to your "the 40's called". You sir, are a witty man.

 

[silverwhisper]

using the word "broad" in that way, even in the latter part of the 20th century, merits a bit of mockery. doing so in the 21st? i want to believe you are being ironic but you make that very, very difficult.

ed

 

[VladHarkonnen]

Wanted to poll folks. I am taking a really long time to cum. Most women are getting annoyed, wanting me to ejaculate as a demonstration of them doing a good job. I do cum and a high volume, but I don't want partners to be mad. When I do evacuate, I am usually having a great orgasm. But my partners are weary.

I used to have this problem. I guess I grew out of it...if that's what you want to call it...

Anyway, for me, it just took some extra stimulation...usually talking dirty would trigger it. On the other hand, there were some instances where I just wasn't going to cum no matter what. And yes, sometimes women did take it badly...like they were some how less of a woman because "they" couldn't make me cum. I'd try to explain that I was just like that, that it wasn't their fault, that it had nothing to do with them, that sometimes just having some penetration was nice. For some reason, this was more often than not met with eye rolls and scoffs. *shrug* I don't what they were so worried about...I mean...they got theirs didn't they? Why couldn't they just enjoy their orgasms and let me hold them afterwards? Noooo. They had to overthink everything. Sometimes I actually had to fake it.

 

[NightL]

?????

You are thinking like a broad.

hey cock star, the 40s called: they want their lingo back.

ed

using the word "broad" in that way, even in the latter part of the 20th century, merits a bit of mockery. doing so in the 21st? i want to believe you are being ironic but you make that very, very difficult.

ed

Mr Peni_Freckle are you Uncle Jimblydribblesjohnson's love child?

 

[NightL]

I used to have this problem. I guess I grew out of it...if that's what you want to call it...

all fine - and I can understand, but did you also suffer from the following as well?

"I do cum and a high volume,"
"That girl really likes my semen "
"partners get a huge load and are happy"
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edit: the last part of your post is not what I was referring to when I wrote "and I can understand".

 

[VladHarkonnen]

all fine - and I can understand, but did you also suffer from the following as well?

"I do cum and a high volume,"
"That girl really likes my semen "
"partners get a huge load and are happy"

Well...in all honestly...no. I've never had a girl tell me that my semen was "good". I'm not sure that my loads are any more high volume than anyone else...in fact sometimes the volume fluctuates. I will say that sometimes, when I've cum on a woman instead of in her that she might sometimes say "that's a lot of cum" but it was more out of concern for getting it on her sheets than it was about her being pleased at the amount of ejaculate and if she was pleased I'm sure she was just silently patting herself on the back and looking forward to telling her buddies how much she "made me cum". Pffft...women. Pigs.

 

[Emerson40]

You are thinking like a broad.

using the word "broad" in that way, even in the latter part of the 20th century, merits a bit of mockery. doing so in the 21st? i want to believe you are being ironic but you make that very, very difficult.

ed

Ed,

I think the boy is just looking for a little ROI for the Sopranos DVD box set he purchased with his allowance couple years ago.

 

[Emerson40]

all fine - and I can understand, but did you also suffer from the following as well?

"I do cum and a high volume,"
"That girl really likes my semen "
"partners get a huge load and are happy"
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I've never understood some men's obsession with semen and load volume. It's always dudes who are talking about it, or looking for ways to increase it, make it whiter / thicker / shoot farther / whatever.

It's not like all those bukkake flicks are being purchased and downloaded by the ladies.

You think any woman ever thought, or conversed with a friend, "I found the man of my dreams. He cumz buckets!" Or "Mr. Right is the one who can pump jizz into my mouth until it blowing out my nose."?