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When it comes to attraction, what personal charateristics in a male or female makes you want to be with them.....

I like men with a cocky and lustful attitude, rough, unshaven; a man that will look me up and down assess me, and make a bold statement of intent......
 
When it comes to attraction, what personal charateristics in a male or female makes you want to be with them.....

I like men with a cocky and lustful attitude, rough, unshaven; a man that will look me up and down assess me, and make a bold statement of intent......

I'm male, my sex drive is in overdrive, I like full contact sport, I have a pet beard, I checked your profile.... let's write about fucking.

No seriously. The girl I'm attracted to is fun, has a great smile, likes to laugh (at my jokes), she knows what she wants and is confident when it comes to sex, at the same time she likes to be pleasured. Physical attraction is a funny thing, it's like you get programmed in your youth what you find visually attractive, but if she doesn't fulfil the inner beauty criteria then the attraction is short lived.
 
I wouldn't say looks wise I have a type in general, I've had girls of all shapes and sizes plus ethnicity. One thing I do like my women to have is a pretty face but slutty looking too, I like a woman who isn't afraid what people think of them, will wear whatever she feels and has her appearance to what she wants, I think personality is crucial, if it's just fucking I honestly couldn't care less about her inner self but if I want to get close I prefer them to be quiet even shy if you will, I like them to have a certain grace and elegance but also behind closed doors have an extremely high sexy drive and not be afraid to make the first move. I also love a woman too enjoy films and also be quite a relaxed person.
 
I, too, am attracted to just about any size and ethnicity. But what really gets my motor going is a pair of gorgeous eyes and long dark hair. Attitude is everything, and I like being able to look at a girl in the eye and see that spark of interest/wildness.
 
I find it very attractive if a man has an air of being ever so slightly disreputable. Think Vinnie Jones in "Lock, Stock and two Smoking Barrels." Or Jack Nicholson in pretty much anything.
 
it is weird. in real life I am actually a really shy person until you get to know me and then I brake out of my shell. once I get out of the shell well then it is more fun

I always liked guys who know what they want and go after it. they have to have a fun personality. i dont really care about looks.
 
What this girl wants...

I like em' Dark. I love dark skinned men with dark or black hair. It doesn't matter if they are short or tall. (Well it WOULD matter if he was shorter than me...cause I'm only 4'8"...so he's HAVE to be at least taller than me.) I also don't care if he's athletic or chunky...as long as he's not super skinny I'm good. I prefer Asian men...but will also take a man that's got that dark look that I love. I also love love LOVE that arrogant bad boy possessive attitude in the bedroom, and while we are out somewhere. I love to feel protected. Like "This is MY woman and If I don't like the way your looking at her...I'll fuck you up." Ugh I'm such a sucker for that attitude. As long as he treats me like a queen, and fucks me like a whore I'm happy.
 
I like them to have a certain grace and elegance but also behind closed doors have an extremely high sexy drive and not be afraid to make the first move.

The best thing that has happened in my life is that as a very young man I found that woman. The grace and elegance has been constant. The extremely high sex drive has changed ... in an upward direction ... hence the smile

Si ;)
 
The best thing that has happened in my life is that as a very young man I found that woman. The grace and elegance has been constant. The extremely high sex drive has changed ... in an upward direction ... hence the smile

Si ;)

Well your a lucky bastard Si :D
 
When it comes to attraction, what personal charateristics in a male or female makes you want to be with them.....

I like men with a cocky and lustful attitude, rough, unshaven; a man that will look me up and down assess me, and make a bold statement of intent......

Of course you do... Women wanting assholes is in their DNA. That why whenever some giant male vagina on here asks a question about finding women, I tell them to find their inner asshole.
 
I like em' Dark. I love dark skinned men with dark or black hair. It doesn't matter if they are short or tall. (Well it WOULD matter if he was shorter than me...cause I'm only 4'8"...so he's HAVE to be at least taller than me.) I also don't care if he's athletic or chunky...as long as he's not super skinny I'm good. I prefer Asian men...but will also take a man that's got that dark look that I love. I also love love LOVE that arrogant bad boy possessive attitude in the bedroom, and while we are out somewhere. I love to feel protected. Like "This is MY woman and If I don't like the way your looking at her...I'll fuck you up." Ugh I'm such a sucker for that attitude. As long as he treats me like a queen, and fucks me like a whore I'm happy.

Take notice guys
 
Confidence, a knowing smile, and a sense of how their body works and looks. Meaning, no matter her body type, she moves in a sensual manner. Some of this is genetic, but some women know (or have learned) how to move and behave with an alluring appeal.

Regardless of body type, there are women that know what to wear, and how to wear it, in an attractive way. Be it jeans and a tee, or an LBD, they just look good...
 
Physically dark hair and intense eyes do it for me. Well dressed. Hint of arrogance and power. The man who makes me beg to yield to his will. Yup that kicks it for me :)
 
A nice smile, sense of humor, dark stormy eyes.
A sweet, dolcet lilting Scottish accent always makes my heart melt.
Self confidence yet no arrogance.
 
His mind, personality, attitude, and sense of humor.. :) I like most sizes and shapes..
 
A man with long hair and a clean shaven face is pretty much the only type I'm attracted to. Ideally the hair would be some color other than brown. I respond more strongly to slender guys with pale skin, high cheekbones, a narrow nose, and a non-square jaw, but I'm more flexible about those kind of traits. I don't actually care about height, muscularity, or breadth of shoulders, which many women seem to consider important. As far as personality I look for someone creative, intelligent, playful, someone non-religious who isn't interested in sports or business (my two least favorite topics).
 
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Physical attraction alone? I like classy women. The ones who won't fuck you on that first date, but hell, anything goes on date #2. She's got to dress classy to. Not always like stockings and seductive lipstick, but cute and well represented. Stylish. As for boobs, C or B-cups do me well, and a fit, firm ass is always welcome. I like long hair, and a smiley personality.
 
Physically, I like broad shoulders and a solid build (muscular or husky, a little bit of extra flesh), tall, strong hands, mischievous eyes, and facial hair.

As for personality, which to me can make or break physical attraction, I like confidence, intelligence, and wit. I'm a bit of a smartass, and when a man can come back at me with his own brand of wit I find it very sexy. A man who can handle himself intelligently in a debate with me, or anyone, is very attractive to me. I like a guy with a fighting spirit. Someone who maintains dominance in public..*****bably stemming from me being so shy, hahaha. I need that dominant male.

Also, I love a man who can appreciate the whore I am in bed and still respect me the next day.
 
Life is too short to sleep with Republicans.

Other than that, tall, slim, athletic. Leotards and faded jeans trip my trigger, and high maintenance is out.

Old, hippie chicks, in other words.;)
 
kind, considerate, silly, make me laugh, twinkle in the eye, open minded, flexible, not stuck in definitions, smells right, accepts me, an equal, able to make well reasoned arguments, interesting, reads.
 
As for personality, which to me can make or break physical attraction, I like confidence, intelligence, and wit. I'm a bit of a smartass, and when a man can come back at me with his own brand of wit I find it very sexy. A man who can handle himself intelligently in a debate with me, or anyone, is very attractive to me. I like a guy with a fighting spirit. Someone who maintains dominance in public..*****bably stemming from me being so shy, hahaha. I need that dominant male.

Also, I love a man who can appreciate the whore I am in bed and still respect me the next day.[/QUOTE]

AMEN girl! I love the ongoing banter! It keeps things fresh and lively!!
 
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