The Men who Crave Cock but aren't attracted to Men Club!

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My wife recently revealed to me that her hottest fantasy is taking me from behind with a strapon. I like the idea but I'm not sure what makes it so arousing for her? She gets extremely turned on when we talk about it....I think she's obsessed with my ass, ha. What?!?! Am I just a piece of meat? Lol :)

I wouldn't think too much about what makes it attractive to her. Men and women are never really going to understand what makes the other tick, so don't agonize over why and enjoy the fact that she wants to do it. There are plenty of guys out there who wish they had a woman who wanted to play in such a manner.

Consider yourself lucky and go with it. Who knows, maybe she's got other fantasies in there she hasn't told you about yet...
 
I have to stop coming to lit before the gym. After my workout i was in the shower got a little lost in thought and started to get hard. My cock was really nice and meaty when i came out.

Why can't you work out at MY gym? Damn...
 
I have to stop coming to lit before the gym. After my workout i was in the shower got a little lost in thought and started to get hard. My cock was really nice and meaty when i came out.

Shit! What a mental image (and the avatar helps too)! Sounds like the beginning of a good story to me. So wish I could have been there to help finish it. ;)
 
You know, I can sort of understand this "men who crave cock but aren't attracted to men" thing because I am attracted to women, but think vaginas smell weird/aren't that interesting. So I kinda get the genetalia/everything else attraction mismatch.

But damn, it's frustrating.

This is the second time I've had a boyfriend who's had a fascination with cocks and is curious about playing with a real one... but never does anything about it. I mean, when I met this guy, he was looking for another guy to hook up with, but some offhand comment from me led to a conversation and a date and next thing you know we were an item and he never did find a guy to experiment with.

I suspect it'd be rude/annoying to be pushy about it, and I certainly enjoy playing with the strap-on, but I wish he'd give the real thing a try. It'd be hot. He knows I think so. I've even helped him chat up guys on plenty of fish. But it never goes anywhere, so I kinda dropped it after a while.

If it never ever happens, it's not the end of the world and I'll still love him and we'll have a great sex life. But I don't understand spending so much time thinking about something so simple (it's not like he wants to orchestrate a 20-person gang bang at the top of the Empire State building... that I know of), having a partner who loves the idea, and never doing it.

And hey, I know he's the one who best understands what makes him tick, so it's silly to ask strangers on the internet instead of asking him. So I won't, I guess. So I guess that's it. Sharing time over for now.

Can't say that I'd mind suggestions anyone might have, though.
 
Hey there, I was the same as you, married and too cock hungry for words, I had been in a sex relationship with my Dad since being young, a secret one of course, got married in my late teens but fought with myself on a daily basis, the straight sex was just about ok, but it wasn't anywhere near good enough. I needed cock to get face and arse fucked with. didn't step outside of the relationship until we parted company, so I'd slip away and get some hot and pervy time with Dad and then was also able to get out and get cock more or less wherever, however and with whomever I want. its fantastic, must say that one of the things I missed most was feeling that beautiful cock sliding in my mouth and nuzzling into the hairy pubes and balls - lovely. Guys do it better for me anyway!
 
You know, I can sort of understand this "men who crave cock but aren't attracted to men" thing because I am attracted to women, but think vaginas smell weird/aren't that interesting. So I kinda get the genetalia/everything else attraction mismatch.

But damn, it's frustrating.

This is the second time I've had a boyfriend who's had a fascination with cocks and is curious about playing with a real one... but never does anything about it. I mean, when I met this guy, he was looking for another guy to hook up with, but some offhand comment from me led to a conversation and a date and next thing you know we were an item and he never did find a guy to experiment with.

I suspect it'd be rude/annoying to be pushy about it, and I certainly enjoy playing with the strap-on, but I wish he'd give the real thing a try. It'd be hot. He knows I think so. I've even helped him chat up guys on plenty of fish. But it never goes anywhere, so I kinda dropped it after a while.

If it never ever happens, it's not the end of the world and I'll still love him and we'll have a great sex life. But I don't understand spending so much time thinking about something so simple (it's not like he wants to orchestrate a 20-person gang bang at the top of the Empire State building... that I know of), having a partner who loves the idea, and never doing it.

And hey, I know he's the one who best understands what makes him tick, so it's silly to ask strangers on the internet instead of asking him. So I won't, I guess. So I guess that's it. Sharing time over for now.

Can't say that I'd mind suggestions anyone might have, though.


Now, see, women like you keep popping up in this thread. I think I can speak for the majority of the guys here when I say: We wish our women were more like you, at least in your attitude.

Even if the curiosity never gets fulfilled, I think most of us here would love it if our women were interested in the idea enough even to talk about it... even if that's all that happened.

And although your man was looking for a male hookup when the two of you met, now that he's in a relationship, it may be that he's satisfied just leaving the bi thing a fantasy.

You never mentioned whether he enjoyed it when you brought the subject up. I don't know that I'd get too worked up over the fact that he doesn't seem that interested in actually exploring that side of himself for real anymore. You mentioned the strap-on (again, lucky guy). Does he suck it, or does he just let you in his ass? Does he eat his cum when he ejaculates, either in you or outside you?

No great advice, I'm afraid, on how to get him to indulge himself now that he's in a relationship with you. He may have been looking for a woman in the first place, and now that he's found one, that's all he really wants.

Just keep bringing it up once in a while. Use it to fuel some hot sex, if it works that way. If only he realized how many men wish we had women like you...
 
I'm more or less in this camp but when I get turned on my thoughts turn to more than just cock... like a nice big, hairy bear pressing into me as he fucks me hard. At times like that kissing would be fine. Anything would be fine. But I've gotta be turned on.

I'd like to find someone to play with but I doubt anyone would put up with that.


Wrong! Most of us would be happy to play!;) I'd love to be on the end of a good stiff cock getting a good hard fucking
 
Now, see, women like you keep popping up in this thread. I think I can speak for the majority of the guys here when I say: We wish our women were more like you, at least in your attitude.

Even if the curiosity never gets fulfilled, I think most of us here would love it if our women were interested in the idea enough even to talk about it... even if that's all that happened.

And although your man was looking for a male hookup when the two of you met, now that he's in a relationship, it may be that he's satisfied just leaving the bi thing a fantasy.

You never mentioned whether he enjoyed it when you brought the subject up. I don't know that I'd get too worked up over the fact that he doesn't seem that interested in actually exploring that side of himself for real anymore. You mentioned the strap-on (again, lucky guy). Does he suck it, or does he just let you in his ass? Does he eat his cum when he ejaculates, either in you or outside you?

No great advice, I'm afraid, on how to get him to indulge himself now that he's in a relationship with you. He may have been looking for a woman in the first place, and now that he's found one, that's all he really wants.

Just keep bringing it up once in a while. Use it to fuel some hot sex, if it works that way. If only he realized how many men wish we had women like you...

Yep, he's said it's great to be in a relationship with someone who's enthusiastic about doing the things he likes for a change, and I feel the same way. Nobody likes to have to beg and bargain to occasionally get what they like in bed, right?

He's just so enthusiastic about sucking my silicone dick, and he can deep-throat like a porn star. And then there's his rather impressive ability to cross his ankles behind his head. ;) It seems so...right.

Maybe I'm just projecting my own preference for real cocks over silicone ones onto him. Maybe he really wouldn't enjoy a real boy half as much. But it's hard to wrap my head around that with the way he acts.
 
Yep, he's said it's great to be in a relationship with someone who's enthusiastic about doing the things he likes for a change, and I feel the same way. Nobody likes to have to beg and bargain to occasionally get what they like in bed, right?

He's just so enthusiastic about sucking my silicone dick, and he can deep-throat like a porn star. And then there's his rather impressive ability to cross his ankles behind his head. ;) It seems so...right.

Maybe I'm just projecting my own preference for real cocks over silicone ones onto him. Maybe he really wouldn't enjoy a real boy half as much. But it's hard to wrap my head around that with the way he acts.

Yeah, wow. I need to find a girl like you. They seem few and far between.
 
Yep, he's said it's great to be in a relationship with someone who's enthusiastic about doing the things he likes for a change, and I feel the same way. Nobody likes to have to beg and bargain to occasionally get what they like in bed, right?

He's just so enthusiastic about sucking my silicone dick, and he can deep-throat like a porn star. And then there's his rather impressive ability to cross his ankles behind his head. ;) It seems so...right.

Maybe I'm just projecting my own preference for real cocks over silicone ones onto him. Maybe he really wouldn't enjoy a real boy half as much. But it's hard to wrap my head around that with the way he acts.

He might be a bit insecure about bringing another guy into the picture. Maybe all he needs is some reassurance from you that letting him explore his bisexual side won't ruin your relationship.

Of course finding the right guy could be a challenge since you'd want someone that you were both cool with... but I'm sure there are plenty of cool (and safe) guys out there (and here on lit) who would be more than willing to help you out.

btw - I'm in total agreement with a few of the comments that were already made... a bunch of us bisexual guys would love to find a supportive partner such as yourself.
 
I think I can speak for the majority of the guys here when I say: We wish our women were more like you, at least in your attitude.

Even if the curiosity never gets fulfilled, I think most of us here would love it if our women were interested in the idea enough even to talk about it... even if that's all that happened.

Got that right, brother! I got a butt plug and showed it my wife and it took me a long while to convince her that I'm not turning totally gay and that she's not losing me to men. Geez! So I could never bring up the fact that I'd like a cock in my mouth or arse. Her guy is in my heaven!
 
Not in the camp I guess. But live seeing pics of cocks. Especially of them cumming. Would live to play with one in mmf threesome. Maybe even just mm becoming more and more curious as I get older.
 
Thank God

I love men like this its one of my biggest fantasies!! to watch two men, nongay go at it ohhhh yes! I love to watch!
 
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