Women, do you want to see your husband/boyfriend with another woman?

[VladHarkonnen]

No...I'm not trying to spoof the other thread. I really think cuckqueaning is hot...especially if the "other woman" is really, really dominant.

 

[millieteases]

interesting concept...I don't mind seeing him with other women, but don't know that I particularly want to get into a cuck situation either way. Humiliation just isn't one of our things.

 

[southern_gal]

No, not at all. I do not share my husbands desire to see me with another man. Never really understood why men want to see their wives / gf's with someone else. Perhaps it is my own insecurity showing itself but that's just how I feel.

 

[vortex_]

No, not at all. I do not share my husbands desire to see me with another man. Never really understood why men want to see their wives / gf's with someone else. Perhaps it is my own insecurity showing itself but that's just how I feel.

Well, technically it would seem very much like your insecurity, if you're fine with another guy but opposed to having another girl around.

My gf and I have only played with other guys so far, although it's mainly because it's so much easier to find a guy for this stuff. I don't think she would get jealous either way.

 

[Sprinkles22]

Not in this lifetime or the next. I openly admit my insecurity and jealousy. As for it being a dominant woman, there's no woman on earth more dominant than he is. Book characters have been modeled after my real life, Alpha Male.

 

[VladHarkonnen]

Not in this lifetime or the next. I openly admit my insecurity and jealousy. As for it being a dominant woman, there's no woman on earth more dominant than he is. Book characters have been modeled after my real life, Alpha Male.

Please stop beating around the bush. If there's anything that really grates on my nerves it's when someone can't make themselves clear.

 

[Sundayschild]

No, not at all. I do not share my husbands desire to see me with another man. Never really understood why men want to see their wives / gf's with someone else. Perhaps it is my own insecurity showing itself but that's just how I feel.

My little theory (probably bollocks but here goes) is guys suppress their emotions a bit more, and any strong emotion like jealousy is potentially attractive. Dunno, haven't really thought it through that far.

 

[VladHarkonnen]

My little theory (probably bollocks but here goes) is guys suppress their emotions a bit more, and any strong emotion like jealousy is potentially attractive. Dunno, haven't really thought it through that far.

I always thought it was a need to be humiliated. There isn't much that's more humiliating than standing by while some dude fucks your wife...at least this seemed to be the case with each of the couples I've bulled for. A couple of them liked being "sissified"...wore panties and jacked off into them while I was fucking their wives, wanted the wife and I to say and do things that further humiliated them. One couple wanted me to do that with both of them. I'm sure that isnt' what motivates all of it though. Everyone's different.

It's funny. I'm a sub but I so often end up being the dom.

But that said, I did have a very fun time with one couple where the wife was totally dom and both her husband I were submissive to her...DAMN that was awesome.

 

[Sprinkles22]

Please stop beating around the bush. If there's anything that really grates on my nerves it's when someone can't make themselves clear.

LOL. I have a bad habit of being direct. Occasionally my brain to mouth filter stops working.

 

[HussarVanburen]

I always thought it was a need to be humiliated. There isn't much that's more humiliating than standing by while some dude fucks your wife...at least this seemed to be the case with each of the couples I've bulled for. A couple of them liked being "sissified"...wore panties and jacked off into them while I was fucking their wives, wanted the wife and I to say and do things that further humiliated them. One couple wanted me to do that with both of them. I'm sure that isnt' what motivates all of it though. Everyone's different.

It's funny. I'm a sub but I so often end up being the dom.

But that said, I did have a very fun time with one couple where the wife was totally dom and both her husband I were submissive to her...DAMN that was awesome.

It's also pretty obviously a homosexual experience for the man. You see this in the obsession with eating another man's cream pie and other things that the "cuckolds" are obsessed with.

I'd say 75 percent of cuckolds are bisexuals.

As for the women: It isn't admitted as much, but history shows that women have an extreme toleration for a man who beds other women provided that he remains providing for them. I'd say many women find it sexually appealing, too.

 

[davenjenn]

I've seen him with other girls. It's sort of cute, but not a turn on.

 

[quietlylooking]

I don't have any desire to see my lover with another woman... the thought of it triggers a sharp jealous reaction. Once in a while I can come up with a scenario with another woman that might, in fantasy only, elicit a small amount of very edgy arousal, but the line between that and the discomfort of jealousy is very, very fine, and I'm not sure I'm ready to explore that yet. However, I have become aroused when he's told me, in detail, about sexual encounters from his distant past.

He, on the other hand, is very interested in witnessing me playing with another man (which we have explored only in fantasy). I don't think the cuckold or the bisexual explanations fit him. He is very dominant (which I crave) and plays a somewhat distant role in these scenarios. He's not at all interested in having specific contact with the other man or his bodily fluids. In the end of the fantasy scenarios, I return to him, alone, and that is a very important part of the fantasy for us both. I actually think Sundayschild theory regarding jealousy is a better explanation: that these types of scenarios trigger sharp emotional responses that bring about intense arousal for him.

(I find the idea of arousing him by being with another man incredibly arousing as well, especially knowing he is observing it all, very alertly... I think it brings out a latent exhibitionist and rebellious side of my normally rather submissive self. And I love the part of the fantasy where I return to him... not knowing initially if I have perhaps gone too far, but then experiencing his reclamation of me).

 

[VladHarkonnen]

It's also pretty obviously a homosexual experience for the man. You see this in the obsession with eating another man's cream pie and other things that the "cuckolds" are obsessed with.

I'd say 75 percent of cuckolds are bisexuals.

As for the women: It isn't admitted as much, but history shows that women have an extreme toleration for a man who beds other women provided that he remains providing for them. I'd say many women find it sexually appealing, too.

That's not an illogical conclusion to come to and I'm sure that's how it is for some of them. But for others, I don't think they're actually bi/gay. It goes back to the need for humiliation. It's humiliating to suck another man's cock in front of your wife, especially the one that's just been inside her. Are they really enjoying sucking that cock for the feeling of having a big cock in their mouth or is it what that act represents, the complete submission to the man that's fucking his wife that's getting him off?

I've always viewed the whole cuckold/cuckquean thing as just another form of s&m as it almost always has to do with a power exchange. The bull/or bullette? (lol) is, to my mind, just another prop in the same way handcuffs, spreader bars, and riding crops are.

I don't have any desire to see my lover with another woman... the thought of it triggers a sharp jealous reaction. Once in a while I can come up with a scenario with another woman that might, in fantasy only, elicit a small amount of very edgy arousal, but the line between that and the discomfort of jealousy is very, very fine, and I'm not sure I'm ready to explore that yet. However, I have become aroused when he's told me, in detail, about sexual encounters from his distant past.

This is a pretty much spot on description of how I feel about my woman being with other men.

 

[Sprinkles22]

I actually think Sundayschild theory regarding jealousy is a better explanation: that these types of scenarios trigger sharp emotional responses that bring about intense arousal for him.

I see a lot of validity to this point as well. Perhaps the wife's jealousy is the desired result and more desirable than the other woman herself. Doesn't that jealousy reaffirm for him that he is still wanted, needed and desired? Men have insecurities too, but are less likely to bring it up for frank discussion. An emotional manipulation of sorts, by adding or speaking of another woman, gives him comfort by his wife's emotional response of jealousy. It strokes his male ego. It puffs his chest and makes him feel masculine once again.

Let's admit, nothing stings quite as badly as an indifferent emotional response from your mate. Jealousy is strong and conveys a strong response.

Just my thoughts as a jealous mate.

 

[VladHarkonnen]

I see a lot of validity to this point as well. Perhaps the wife's jealousy is the desired result and more desirable than the other woman herself. Doesn't that jealousy reaffirm for him that he is still wanted, needed and desired? Men have insecurities too, but are less likely to bring it up for frank discussion. An emotional manipulation of sorts, by adding or speaking of another woman, gives him comfort by his wife's emotional response of jealousy. It strokes his male ego. It puffs his chest and makes him feel masculine once again.

Let's admit, nothing stings quite as badly as an indifferent emotional response from your mate. Jealousy is strong and conveys a strong response.

Just my thoughts as a jealous mate.

They say the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. I say it's through his ego. We want to feel that women and especially our mate find us attractive too.

Me, I have different reasons for being into this fantasy. It all ties into my wish to submit to a woman yet still satisfy my dom side. This fantasy pops into my head more often when I've dated a submissive woman...or even just a vanilla woman for a while...the idea of submitting to an interloping, strong woman that takes what she wants while still allowing me to unleash my dominance on my SO is very hot to me.

Of course, a fortunate by-product is a slight ego boost...there's still two women involved, both "sharing" me...in a sense. Not much more of an ego boost for a guy than that. Although the domme has much more say so in just how I'm shared than either of us do.

 

[HussarVanburen]

That's not an illogical conclusion to come to and I'm sure that's how it is for some of them. But for others, I don't think they're actually bi/gay. It goes back to the need for humiliation. It's humiliating to suck another man's cock in front of your wife, especially the one that's just been inside her. Are they really enjoying sucking that cock for the feeling of having a big cock in their mouth or is it what that act represents, the complete submission to the man that's fucking his wife that's getting him off?

I've always viewed the whole cuckold/cuckquean thing as just another form of s&m as it almost always has to do with a power exchange. The bull/or bullette? (lol) is, to my mind, just another prop in the same way handcuffs, spreader bars, and riding crops are.

I cannot see how one can divorce the act of oral sex on a man from a man in homosexuality. I agree that the humiliation aspect is strong and predominant, but the humiliation goes hand in hand with the homosexuality which is so inherent in that act, and indeed, it is humiliating because it is homosexual. Moreover, submission from a man is already a feminine trait, such that it is already expressive of a homosexual inclination, even without the interaction with the man.

That is to say: I count all cuckolds as homosexually inclined even if they never touch a dick. They already have abrogated their role as a man by pawning off his woman to another, and in delighting in it he has expressed his actual desire for submission that is so feminine as to be homosexual.

Are there "dominant homosexuals"? Yes. But in the sense of retaining dominance, the act remains quite less homosexual.

 

[candeecain]

yes its hot watching my husband get sucked off by another female and watching him do as he wants with her, but without the humiliation we never do that it just wouldnt do it for me. but im rewarded by how horny it gets him and me too!

 

[Ahi_Viking]

Women, Do You Want to See Your Man w. Another Woman

Just a variation on another thread. My girl has told me she'd like to see me eat a couple of her friends. The best is when she answers the question,"Which friend?" We've had a few threesomes and she's encouraging when I get the other girl off. So, would any ladies here enjoy seeing their man with another woman. It seems that if a couple is honest with each other and trusts each other this is exciting fun.

 

[Cookie123]

Just a variation on another thread. My girl has told me she'd like to see me eat a couple of her friends. The best is when she answers the question,"Which friend?" We've had a few threesomes and she's encouraging when I get the other girl off. So, would any ladies here enjoy seeing their man with another woman. It seems that if a couple is honest with each other and trusts each other this is exciting fun.

One of my ex husbands and I were swingers, so it was the norm for us. However, although he enjoyed watching me, I couldn't care less what he was doing. It didn't bother, nor excite me.

So, my reply would be no. Lucky you, though!

 

[Jessicasc1970]

I'm not sure what I would think of it. I'm sure it will happen at some point if we are able to find a couple to swing with, or a single woman, but I'm not sure if I'll be turned on, ambivalent, or pissed.

 

[KarsynCurious]

Doesn't really do it for me. Honestly, I'd rather he be out of the picture if there were another girl there. That aspect is something I'm curious about; though only for myself. Selfish, I know, but that's the way it is.