20 questions

[Erostaticus]

Good evening Mirage !

What is your favourite dinner on a ROMANTIC night out with your hubby ?

I get a feeling that you prefer red wine.

 

[justherhusband]

My choice for solo... Hubby hates dark gothic music.
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=yWDD1YEEHlg


OK, just watched the video. It's pretty dark, but still sexy. I remember coming away from that movie being a little excited and disturbed that it turned me on the way it did. I think my wife was reading the Anne Rice vampire series around that time.

Anyway, do you have a particular "go to" fantasy while listening to that as you enjoy your alone time?

 

[Mirageme65]

Good evening Mirage !

What is your favourite dinner on a ROMANTIC night out with your hubby ?

I get a feeling that you prefer red wine.

Good evening, Erostaticus

For dinner on a date... I would say a medium rare steak, loaded baked potato, and my favorite veggie, broccoli! Yummy!

If I may ask, what makes you say Red wine?

Mirage xx

 

[Erostaticus]

Good evening, Erostaticus

For dinner on a date... I would say a medium rare steak, loaded baked potato, and my favorite veggie, broccoli! Yummy!

If I may ask, what makes you say Red wine?

Mirage xx

For the clue:

... then you must read a particular line on your last PM.

Now, for the next question. Do you sleep nude ?

Erostaticus XXX

 

[Mirageme65]

My choice for solo... Hubby hates dark gothic music.
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=yWDD1YEEHlg


OK, just watched the video. It's pretty dark, but still sexy. I remember coming away from that movie being a little excited and disturbed that it turned me on the way it did. I think my wife was reading the Anne Rice vampire series around that time.

Anyway, do you have a particular "go to" fantasy while listening to that as you enjoy your alone time?

Type o negative's lead was a guy named Pete Steele. He was quite a dark scary looking fella, with long black hair. Very goth...
I sometimes fantasize I'm in a goth club with only a long black robe or cape on to cover my body. My make up is dark, black lipstick as per the lyrics. I'm dancing in the center of a large crowd. All of those dark eyes are on me.... Desiring me.... I get to choose one to join me on the dance floor.....

mirage

 

[Mirageme65]

For the clue:

... then you must read a particular line on your last PM.

Now, for the next question. Do you sleep nude ?

Erostaticus XXX

Ahhhh yes! I did make my choice doubly clear, eh? That made me giggle!!

Yes, generally I sleep naked. I'm not very fond of clothing, but circumstances require the daily chore of getting dressed lol.
Another snip-it.... I like my bedroom cold! Cold and naked

 

[Erostaticus]

Ahhhh yes! I did make my choice doubly clear, eh? That made me giggle!!

Yes, generally I sleep naked. I'm not very fond of clothing, but circumstances require the daily chore of getting dressed lol.
Another snip-it.... I like my bedroom cold! Cold and naked

So it means that you most likely rely on your hubby to keep warm. Do you like to be spooned from behind or are you the one who cuddles behind him ?

 

[Mirageme65]

So it means that you most likely rely on your hubby to keep warm. Do you like to be spooned from behind or are you the one who cuddles behind him ?

I am not naturally a cuddle initiator, so I would have to say spooned from behind at hubby's initiation

 

[justherhusband]

Forgive me if this has been asked already, but have you ever been to a strip club? With or without hubby?

Have you ever thought about it or even brought it up in conversation?


J

 

[Mirageme65]

Forgive me if this has been asked already, but have you ever been to a strip club? With or without hubby?

Have you ever thought about it or even brought it up in conversation?


J

Good afternoon J,

I went to see male strippers with some girlfriends years ago
Other than that no never not with or without hubby.

Once, we stopped at an adult store, while on a road trip. I'm sad to say I chickened out and stayed in the car. I should have gone in because the toy he bought wasn't much fun

 

[justherhusband]

Good afternoon J,

I went to see male strippers with some girlfriends years ago
Other than that no never not with or without hubby.

Once, we stopped at an adult store, while on a road trip. I'm sad to say I chickened out and stayed in the car. I should have gone in because the toy he bought wasn't much fun

Something tells me if that were to happen now, you probably wouldn't be as likely to "chicken out" (that's a compliment btw)

Does the idea of taking hubby to a strip club appeal to you?
Would it turn you on to have him watch you receive a lap dance from another sexy woman?
Would it turn him on to see that or would it bother him? And are you sure of your answer to that question?

I'm wondering if that could be a way to get some real dialogue going between the two of you to help him support and participate in your "awakening". Who knows, it might also help you explore your fantasy of being with another woman. I don't mean actually doing it there, but just being around some sexy, scantily clad women paying you lots of attention. And trust me, the ladies who work there usually love to entertain couples.

 

[Mirageme65]

Something tells me if that were to happen now, you probably wouldn't be as likely to "chicken out" (that's a compliment btw)

Does the idea of taking hubby to a strip club appeal to you?
Would it turn you on to have him watch you receive a lap dance from another sexy woman?
Would it turn him on to see that or would it bother him? And are you sure of your answer to that question?

I'm wondering if that could be a way to get some real dialogue going between the two of you to help him support and participate in your "awakening". Who knows, it might also help you explore your fantasy of being with another woman. I don't mean actually doing it there, but just being around some sexy, scantily clad women paying you lots of attention. And trust me, the ladies who work there usually love to entertain couples.

Nice analysis, J.
We have very open communication... Years ago he would have loved the scenario you mentioned.
Now, however, it would bother his conscience. I am free to, and he enjoys, talk of sharing me with another female, however that's as far as it will go. He respects my desire and in turn I respect his conscience
BTW I personally think that would be a fabulous experience!
You are correct about the adult store. I would, however, be red as a beet, as I blush easily

 

[Erostaticus]

Nice analysis, J.
We have very open communication... Years ago he would have loved the scenario you mentioned.
Now, however, it would bother his conscience. I am free to, and he enjoys, talk of sharing me with another female, however that's as far as it will go. He respects my desire and in turn I respect his conscience
BTW I personally think that would be a fabulous experience!
You are correct about the adult store. I would, however, be red as a beet, as I blush easily

Good evening Mirage,

"You are correct about the adult store. I would, however, be red as a beet, as I blush easily." You must realize that you don't need to blush in a sex shop. They are there to sell these toys/gizmos ... and my opinion is, they most likely have some of their own at home.
I remember going in a sex shop a few years ago and bought an 8" dildo to try with my wife. It had the colour and shape of a penis. I brought it to the cash register to pay for and there was this woman who wouldn't care less about what I bought. So, there you go Mirage. Don't be ashamed about anything. Just walk in as if you were in a corner store. They are happy to see customers.

 

[michael2956]

I'd love for you to describe what you look like at the moment of orgasm.

 

[Mirageme65]

I'd love for you to describe what you look like at the moment of orgasm.

Good afternoon Michael,
Hmmmm good question!
If I have to put a label on what I look like at that moment I would say "pained."
My skin flushes, sometimes to a deep pink, from my tummy to my face.
As that flush travels over my tummy and up to my breasts, my nipples harden as my tits begin to feel full and warm, similar to the feeling I used to get when nursing a child.
I like to keep my eyes open which is quite a challenge... My lips are parted my eyes are just slits and my forehead crinkles. I suppose that forehead crinkle is why I say I look "pained"
As for the rest of my body, it tenses and I begin to twitch. I often think I get super human strength at that moment as well.......

Mirage xx

 

[RuReal]

Good afternoon Michael,
Hmmmm good question!
If I have to put a label on what I look like at that moment I would say "pained."
My skin flushes, sometimes to a deep pink, from my tummy to my face.
As that flush travels over my tummy and up to my breasts, my nipples harden as my tits begin to feel full and warm, similar to the feeling I used to get when nursing a child.
I like to keep my eyes open which is quite a challenge... My lips are parted my eyes are just slits and my forehead crinkles. I suppose that forehead crinkle is why I say I look "pained"
As for the rest of my body, it tenses and I begin to twitch. I often think I get super human strength at that moment as well.......

Mirage xx

You know I always have found that to be one of the sexy things about women. The almost abandonment when they cum.

Do you squirt I am not sure if this was asked before?

 

[Mirageme65]

You know I always have found that to be one of the sexy things about women. The almost abandonment when they cum.

Do you squirt I am not sure if this was asked before?

Hello RuReal! Nice to see you again

I'm not sure if this was asked either as this thread has been around for quite some time
The Squirting thing, hmmmm, it's a funny story.
My husband became, for lack of a better word, OBSESSED, with trying to make me squirt.
He watched a video and decided "HIS" life just wouldn't be complete until "I" had that experience lol.
After much work and practice, I'm happy to report HIS life is complete!
As for me, well lets just say, I was glad I was able. It was nice, however, I don't see it as necessary to satisfy me
I'm a very spontaneous sex kinda gal. The lack of said spontaneity, in those "practice sessions" I can honestly say, were not much of a turn on.
Needless to say, every now and again he gets a, "bee in his bonnet," and..... well, who am I to deprive my guy?! LOL

Mirage xx

 

[michael2956]

Good afternoon Michael,
Hmmmm good question!
If I have to put a label on what I look like at that moment I would say "pained."
My skin flushes, sometimes to a deep pink, from my tummy to my face.
As that flush travels over my tummy and up to my breasts, my nipples harden as my tits begin to feel full and warm, similar to the feeling I used to get when nursing a child.
I like to keep my eyes open which is quite a challenge... My lips are parted my eyes are just slits and my forehead crinkles. I suppose that forehead crinkle is why I say I look "pained"
As for the rest of my body, it tenses and I begin to twitch. I often think I get super human strength at that moment as well.......

Mirage xx

Thanks for that amazing word picture. I'm not sure why, but it's the forehead crinkle that's causing an instant reaction down below, if you know what I mean.

 

[Erostaticus]

Good afternoon Mirage ! I see you are an avid reader of erotica.

1) Do you think that women are better writers than men when it comes to describe romantic and sexually explicit scenes ?

2) If yes, can you explain why ? (You are in a good position to explain since you are a woman.)

3) You seem to be very well versed. Have you any desire to start writing your own stories ?

4) Would your stories reflect your intimite fantasies ?

Erostaticus

 

[Mirageme65]

Good afternoon Mirage ! I see you are an avid reader of erotica.

1) Do you think that women are better writers than men when it comes to describe romantic and sexually explicit scenes ?

2) If yes, can you explain why ? (You are in a good position to explain since you are a woman.)

3) You seem to be very well versed. Have you any desire to start writing your own stories ?

4) Would your stories reflect your intimite fantasies ?

Erostaticus

Good afternoon E, you are correct I love reading, savoring, a good erotic story! I also, often find myself popping my earbuds in at bedtime to listen to an erotic tale

1. I cannot say women are better than men when it comes to weaving an erotic tale. However, I can say, men and women have very different focal points. I have found that women tend to be, "wordier," in that they are detail oriented. Often, in stories penned by females, I see attention to details of her surroundings, "the birds chirping," the curtains swaying," "the cool sheets," etc... She tends to use all of her senses.
Whereas, a male would tend to focus, primarily, on his woman's body. No less descriptive, you understand, just a different focus. Personally I find both styles very erotic depending on my mood

2. Lol see above ^!

3. Write my own stories? I'd love too! However, I feel VERY inferior... Perhaps someday I'll shed that fear, eh? Thank you, E! That you find me "well versed" is quite a compliment!

4. If/when I begin to pen erotic stories , yes, they will absolutely reflect my fantasies and desires. I can't imagine writing anything that is not close to my heart. <3
I have written out a fantasy of mine, however, I don't remember if I shared it here on "20 questions."
It's titled "My Lady"

Yours to interrogate,

Mirage xx

 

[RuReal]

What do you enjoy the most about sex? What type of sex do you like we know you prefer it spontaneity and I have to admit I agree with that.

When was the last time you surprised your husband?

 

[Erostaticus]

Hi again Mirage !

May I ask you what the number 65 (in your Avatar) represents for you, or is it something too personal to mention in this thread ?

 

[Mirageme65]

What do you enjoy the most about sex? What type of sex do you like we know you prefer it spontaneity and I have to admit I agree with that.

When was the last time you surprised your husband?

The type of sex I prefer depends on my mood. Sometimes I like a nice tender purely vanilla encounter. Other times I prefer rough and demanding...
I especially enjoy giving my guy an explosive orgasm with my mouth

Funny story:
I love music as you may have gathered from this thread. When I shower I hook my iPhone up to my Bose speakers and BLAST it. Today, I was naked just getting ready for a hot shower, Norah Jones was serenading me with, Turn Me On..... Hubby was relaxing in bed. I opened the door and serenaded him.... Got him to giggling wildly! Unhappily, it didn't lead to sex, as we were preparing for company. It was fun though, and I do believe he was quite surprised

As for surprise him with something sexy..... That was last Friday. A surprise because I was extra "frisky." We made love and then I brought him to a second orgasm with my mouth.... He loves the extra unadulterated attention.....

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=jBD-VcjFqMM

 

[Mirageme65]

Hi again Mirage !

May I ask you what the number 65 (in your Avatar) represents for you, or is it something too personal to mention in this thread ?

You may ask anything your sweet curious heart desires, Erostaticus!

The 65 is my birth year... I'm never shy about my age

Mirage xx

 

[Erostaticus]

The type of sex I prefer depends on my mood. Sometimes I like a nice tender purely vanilla encounter. Other times I prefer rough and demanding...
I especially enjoy giving my guy an explosive orgasm with my mouth

Funny story:
I love music as you may have gathered from this thread. When I shower I hook my iPhone up to my Bose speakers and BLAST it. Today, I was naked just getting ready for a hot shower, Norah Jones was serenading me with, Turn Me On..... Hubby was relaxing in bed. I opened the door and serenaded him.... Got him to giggling wildly! Unhappily, it didn't lead to sex, as we were preparing for company. It was fun though, and I do believe he was quite surprised

As for surprise him with something sexy..... That was last Friday. A surprise because I was extra "frisky." We made love and then I brought him to a second orgasm with my mouth.... He loves the extra unadulterated attention.....

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=jBD-VcjFqMM

I love extra unadulterated attention too.

E