The Orgasm Gap

[Safe_Bet]

Oh my god I just can't help myself.

James the only way every women would become a dyke is if every man was like you.

Admittedly James we do need a man's sperm, not yours of course.

We just need a few small herds of them. They can be all sequestered in isolated areas where they can't hurt anyone or each other. With daily "milking" they can provide enough to take care of all of our needs.

We DO need to be selective though and cull the herds of any weaklings like Pilot.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

We just need a few small herds of them. They can be all sequestered in isolated areas where they can't hurt anyone or each other. With daily "milking" they can provide enough to take care of all of our needs.

We DO need to be selective though and cull the herds of any weaklings like Pilot.

heehee

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

They only want your collards, jimmy.

what about my iceberg lettuce and broccoli? I grow it all!

 

[Dyslexicea]

I think more likely that I have more common sense than to try to have a discussion with a screamer like you.

As I noted, your rejoinder didn't have a damn thing to do with anything I posted. This is fairly typical of the angry-with-life self-possessed. You're obviously not having a very good life. I think there's a reason for that. I see no reason to contribute to its spread. At least we've found the matching bookend for Safe-bet Usurper (if, in fact, you aren't the same person). So, you now go to the same place I sent her.

Isn't it strange, you surely must be a psychic to be able to tell from a few post how horrible my life is. As far as safe_bet goes I think she is very capable of taking care of herself. Funny how when a man has nothing substantial to say he resorts to name calling or degrading someone's, one who he doesn't even know, life.

Oh by the way we do have something in common. You being an X hot shot Air Force Pilot(I'm assuming Air Force). I used to date, I say date rather lightly as I was madly in love, an Air Force Fighter Pilot, she flew an F-15 and she was sooooooooooo hot. You would have just loved her, she was so very butch and so very feminist.

 

[sterculius]

I concluded long ago that as a guy, being a cocksucker has made me a much better lover with women. Whenever,as a young teen, I would give my best friend a blowjob, he would invariably take command and hold my head and "have his way" with my mouth and throat. Out of necessity but also as a point of pride, I cultivated the ability to accept and even enjoy allowing myself to become the focus of his sexual frenzy. I learned to identify with and "plug into" his escalating level of arousal to the extent that I would sometimes orgasm before he did. In contrast to the attitudes of my contemporaries who would brag of their"conquests" in the locker room having concerned themselves only with their enjoyment, I derived my satisfaction from seeing how excited I could make my partner and , in the process, bring my own self to climax. It gave me an intoxicating feeling of power to have the ability to play my partner like a musical instrument and give her such pleasure while simultaneously pleasing myself.

 

[NaokoSmith]

It seems Pilot has more bark than fight. I so adore a man who's willing to fight.

If you're offering Naoko, no pancakes or coffee but some tasty cream would be nice.

Edited to add: I like your blog, you seem to be a very interesting person.

Oh darling, thank you. I'm a lover not a fighter, though .

 

[NaokoSmith]

They only want your collards, jimmy.

Well, you know, Stella, they are beautiful looking collards. And he has a delicious recipe for them too.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

I concluded long ago that as a guy, being a cocksucker has made me a much better lover with women. Whenever,as a young teen, I would give my best friend a blowjob, he would invariably take command and hold my head and "have his way" with my mouth and throat. Out of necessity but also as a point of pride, I cultivated the ability to accept and even enjoy allowing myself to become the focus of his sexual frenzy. I learned to identify with and "plug into" his escalating level of arousal to the extent that I would sometimes orgasm before he did. In contrast to the attitudes of my contemporaries who would brag of their"conquests" in the locker room having concerned themselves only with their enjoyment, I derived my satisfaction from seeing how excited I could make my partner and , in the process, bring my own self to climax. It gave me an intoxicating feeling of power to have the ability to play my partner like a musical instrument and give her such pleasure while simultaneously pleasing myself.

Youre right about one thing, sex is mostly about head.

When clients usta accuse me of making them mad I replied, if I had the power to make you do anything I'd make you gimme lotsa money and pussy.

What are you, 19?

 

[NaokoSmith]

what about my iceberg lettuce and broccoli? I grow it all!

I saw those. They were beautiful too. Do you have a salad recipe?

Oh guys - Pilot, JBJ and Stella - I will do breakfast again if we get any more SPAM tomorrow morning. You are all welcome. Put your orders in on the thread if one appears.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I concluded long ago that as a guy, being a cocksucker has made me a much better lover with women. Whenever,as a young teen, I would give my best friend a blowjob, he would invariably take command and hold my head and "have his way" with my mouth and throat. Out of necessity but also as a point of pride, I cultivated the ability to accept and even enjoy allowing myself to become the focus of his sexual frenzy. I learned to identify with and "plug into" his escalating level of arousal to the extent that I would sometimes orgasm before he did. In contrast to the attitudes of my contemporaries who would brag of their"conquests" in the locker room having concerned themselves only with their enjoyment, I derived my satisfaction from seeing how excited I could make my partner and , in the process, bring my own self to climax. It gave me an intoxicating feeling of power to have the ability to play my partner like a musical instrument and give her such pleasure while simultaneously pleasing myself.

In the BDSM world, many of us say that the best way to become a good top is by learning to be a good bottom, and you've provided a good example of that.

Actually, I think it works both ways; When she finds herself on top, and responsible for her partner's enjoyment, she just might learn how hard it is to read minds. The people who tell me "Damn, you're good" are the people who provide me with the most feedback, to let me know which way I should go.

Guys and ladies, would this be a thing to try once in a while? Have him be totally passive. Have her rely entirely on what he says and does and ... moans.

 

[NaokoSmith]

In the BDSM world, many of us say that the best way to become a good top is by learning to be a good bottom, and you've provided a good example of that.

Actually, I think it works both ways; When she finds herself on top, and responsible for her partner's enjoyment, she just might learn how hard it is to read minds. The people who tell me "Damn, you're good" are the people who provide me with the most feedback, to let me know which way I should go.

Guys and ladies, would this be a thing to try once in a while? Have him be totally passive. Have her rely entirely on what he says and does and ... moans.

You mean ... there's another way of doing it ...?

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

In the BDSM world, many of us say that the best way to become a good top is by learning to be a good bottom, and you've provided a good example of that.

Actually, I think it works both ways; When she finds herself on top, and responsible for her partner's enjoyment, she just might learn how hard it is to read minds. The people who tell me "Damn, you're good" are the people who provide me with the most feedback, to let me know which way I should go.

Guys and ladies, would this be a thing to try once in a while? Have him be totally passive. Have her rely entirely on what he says and does and ... moans.

I still say princes are born not schooled. A prince knows how to be a top from conception.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

In Vietnam I recall how something in me came out during attacks, scared the crap outta me, it was like being possessed. Like being the siamese twin of a kamikaze pilot. It was the breeding.

 

[Dyslexicea]

At least we've found the matching bookend for Safe-bet Usurper (if, in fact, you aren't the same person). So, you now go to the same place I sent her.

Amy I like his matching bookend analogy but I just don't get the same person idea some seem to have gotten into their heads.

Maybe we just ought to get together and have one of those nights where the next morning both of us are going to want to melt right into each other.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Amy I like his matching bookend analogy but I just don't get the same person idea some seem to have gotten into their heads.

Maybe we just ought to get together and have one of those nights where the next morning both of us are going to want to melt right into each other.

All them lesbians just look the same, yanno. How can they even tell each other apart?

Amy doesn't need to create an alt, she can be as mean as she likes with the handle she already uses.

 

[Dyslexicea]

You mean ... there's another way of doing it ...?

For us, Jessie and I, No but I want to change our sex life just a little, mind you not all the time, I want to be completely submissive. I want her to use me for her pleasure with absolutely no regard for my pleasure. Funny, I think I would derive so much pleasure from doing so.

Then again, what do I know, I also have this fantasy where I'm really sassy, so sassy Jessie pulls me into her lap and spanks me until I cry. It's makes me wet just thinking of it. *shrugs*

I think I've wandered off topic. What was the topic anyway?

 

[Dyslexicea]

Amy doesn't need to create an alt, she can be as mean as she likes with the handle she already uses.

I wonder if she bites too. Like hard!

Amy do you bite?

 

[Stella_Omega]

For us, Jessie and I, No but I want to change our sex life just a little, mind you not all the time, I want to be completely submissive. I want her to use me for her pleasure with absolutely no regard for my pleasure. Funny, I think I would derive so much pleasure from doing so.

Then again, what do I know, I also have this fantasy where I'm really sassy, so sassy Jessie pulls me into her lap and spanks me until I cry. It's makes me wet just thinking of it. *shrugs*

I think I've wandered off topic. What was the topic anyway?

The topic is officially your newfound desire to service top. And your hot pink fanny-of-the-future.

And also, since part of the topic was about communication, do you think you will have an easy time of it, telling her?

 

[Safe_Bet]

All them lesbians just look the same, yanno. How can they even tell each other apart?

Amy doesn't need to create an alt, she can be as mean as she likes with the handle she already uses.

Nah. No alts. What I think is funny as hell is that it's always Pilot who's TRYING to give me shit about using this account. Too bad he always steps in it and smears it on his high heels.

I'm also not mean. I just do stupid, misogynistic or "man'splain" very well. I additionally have a sense of sarcastic humor that takes a LOT of getting use to.

I wonder if she bites too. Like hard!

Amy do you bite?

Nibble! I nibble dammit!

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Nah. No alts. What I think is funny as hell is that it's always Pilot who's TRYING to give me shit about using this account. Too bad he always steps in it and smears it on his high heels.

I'm also not mean. I just do stupid, misogynistic or "man'splain" very well. I additionally have a sense of sarcastic humor that takes a LOT of getting use to.






Nibble! I nibble dammit!

Youre the only soul who believes it.

 

[Dyslexicea]

The topic is officially your newfound desire to service top. And your hot pink fanny-of-the-future.

And also, since part of the topic was about communication, do you think you will have an easy time of it, telling her?

I don't think it's going to be easy but that's me, not so much fear of how she'll react. Now isn't a really good time to tell her my desires, just to much going on in her life right now.

Edited to add:I do think she'll be receptive, Jessie can at time be really rough during sex and she loves to leave bite marks and hickeys.

 

[Handley_Page]

Contrary to your statement, men do find me attractive and if I chose to do so I would have no trouble having as many men as I wanted. It's really quite simple, flutter my eye lashes, give him a demure smile, act the fool to his self assumed wisdom and soon he'll be grovelling at my feet, willing to be led anywhere by his little dick. [1]

[2] So in other words a woman should always carry a vibrator in her purse, that way when her needs aren't met she can humiliate the hell out of him. Regardless of my low opinion of men and contrary to your also rather low opinion of other men,
I think most men want to be truly good lovers and do want to please their partners. [3]
Why so many men don't take the time to figure it out nor the time to give her satisfaction, it's not really that hard, is beyond me.

[2]

Just my humble, or not, lesbian opinion!

Well Jolly good for you.
[1] So I take it that a naturally attractive man (define your own) would NOT have you drooling and eager to get him in close proximity? (given the right circumstances). But you expect any man to wilt in the face your your fluttering eye?
How arrogant: What utter, and complete twaddle.

[2] You would not do it twice to most men (I believe there are those who actually enjoy humiliation. But I never understood why; all they need to do is get on the bus, Gus).


[3] I believe you're right.
Many men would dearly love to be even competent lovers.

In other words..................oh just fuck it. I'm so very, very happy I'm a lesbian. [4]


[5] If, my dear boy, you're speaking about intercourse most women aren't going to come at all but even I know positions where a man can stimulate her clit during intercourse so she can come. Of course I didn't learn those from being with a man, let's just say strap it on!

[4] well good for you. I ain't goin' to criticise or complain; whatever floats your boat and all that.

[5] if only for the benefit of those men for whom this seems gymnastically impossible, please point in the right source for this useful data.
Given your preferred orientation, I'd not expect you to learn it from a chap. The question is - can chaps do it just as well?

I think more likely that I have more common sense than to try to have a discussion with a screamer like you.

As I noted, your rejoiner didn't have a damn thing to do with anything I posted. This is fairly typical of the angry-with-life self-possessed.

The thought crossed my mind if you and Amy were one and the same

Maybe we just ought to get together and have one of those nights where the next morning both of us are going to want to melt right into each other.

And, if I may say so, expressed in what might fairly be regarded as a very feminine manner.
Do you assume that such feelings are limited to the lesbian couple?
I assure you it ain't.

 

[ms.read]

Men: your orgasm area, happens to be on the tip of your dick, or right on the underside beneath the cap called the frenulum. When you stick your dick inside the womans vagina, You get a free ride to a place called ORGASM. She is helping YOU have an orgasm by letting you stick your dick in her orifice. THE least you could do is help her too, by manually stimulatiing her during intercourse, or orally stimulating her before or after your own orgasm.

Other wise you are just using her as a masturbation toy, which is completely selfish.


I completely agree with the person who said that sex is about showing the person how much you care about them by doing whatever you can to get the other person off, as long as its a mutual understanding, which needs Communication, before and/or during the act of sex.

if you're having the conversation afterward, then you might end up finding a new partner, cuz one of you's doing it wrong.

 

[RodenAddison]

I can bring myself to orgasm in under a minute...

Are you a speed dater?

 

[RodenAddison]

I'm with Stella and Roden here. When I used to enjoy 'eating at the Y', or shall we say, playing with xx chromosonal pleasures, I appreciated a bit of verbal guidance such as "Yes, just there, oh yes, yes, YES!" and even, "unh, unh, UNNNNNHHHH!" can be helpful.

Sorry you got a bit of a slapping, Roden. I think you are a gennelman and a scholar (of sorts!), please do continue to ask for feminine guidance. It's always nice to meet a man who gives a woman head, I mean her head, I mean respects her opinions and high intellect. (Although I just wanna add a health warning: you are a bit too sexy for me to be PMing about it with you! So take your mouse off that link, unless you want a smacked nose and a considerably lighter wallet. These days, chocolate brownies are not quite enough for the lazy MILF, I rarely get into bed for less than a pair of diamond earrings and a bottle of Perrier Jouet Belle Epoque .)

Chaste little kiss for you
And big kiss for Stella, (I made you gluten-free muffins in the Spam thread)

I'm dying here. One of the funniest things I've read in a long time... but I'm not that sexy. PM please