polyamorous relationship, a question for the ladies...

[MrRetro]

I'm wanting to know if there are women out there that would consider have a one way polyamorous relationship...

That is, you have sex with other men inside of a loving relationship... This is not cheating, rather, honesty and open communication allow you the freedom to take a lover as you please...

The expectation is that the man in the relationship is permitted to have sex only with the woman... He takes his pleasure from hers...

Is this something that is appealing to any women...?

 

[kootenaychica]

I realize this thread is old Mr. Retro but honestly I just had to respond with:
Absolutely!... love this idea! Pick me!

 

[MrRetro]

I realize this thread is old Mr. Retro but honestly I just had to respond with:
Absolutely!... love this idea! Pick me!

Well I'm glad someone has finally posted on this thread...! It seems there aren't many women that would consider this type of relationship...

I'm very glad to hear that you would though...!

 

[nisha_in61]

This indeed is a hot topic. I guess not much women has seen this page.

 

[xjasminex]

I've thought about this before, and think I would love it - especially since my sex drive is the greater and more experimental of myself and my boyfriend's. However, fairness means a lot to me and I would be too guilty to put restrictions on him while I get to flout them and indulge.

Why do you ask? Something you'd be interested in being a part of?

 

[MrRetro]

I've thought about this before, and think I would love it - especially since my sex drive is the greater and more experimental of myself and my boyfriend's. However, fairness means a lot to me and I would be too guilty to put restrictions on him while I get to flout them and indulge.

Why do you ask? Something you'd be interested in being a part of?

Yes, absolutely, it's something I'm interested in being a part of... It has dominated my sexual mind for many years, thought he majority of women seem to either have no interest in it at all, or think that I'm very strange...

Well, for me it would be fair... Maybe I don't need to receive sexual pleasure in the stereotypical male way... I don't feel a need to have sex with different women, I just find a woman with an insatiable sexual desire incredibly erotic, I'd love to be a part of that and experience a little of her beautiful sexuality...

 

[ChaseMePleez]

Hell it sounds good to me.

 

[MrRetro]

Hell it sounds good to me.

Yep, it sounds great to me as well... It's nice to hear that there are some women out there that desire this as well...

 

[quietlylooking]

Count me as another woman who thinks this sounds pretty wonderful.

 

[MrRetro]

Count me as another woman who thinks this sounds pretty wonderful.

Really...? Wow, it's great to know there are women that find this as intriguing as I do...

Do you desire this type of relationship...? Is it something you'd look for in a relationship...?

 

[InsatiableDsire]

I would definitely consider this. Have discussed polyamory at length with a like-minded friend....

 

[xjasminex]

Polyamory was something I hadn't even thought about too much because I just kind of expected without deciding, that that was how it was going to be for me. That kind of came to a stop after getting together with my first and current partner, who I quickly discovered is very into the one on one, and nobody else thing. While I love being desperately wanted to the exclusion of others, I just.. still have this need to be with more people sexually. One girl, one guy and another handful of guys sounds perfect for me, but I don't know I'd ever be able to get him to accept it

 

[Scheherazade73]

I'm wanting to know if there are women out there that would consider have a one way polyamorous relationship...

That is, you have sex with other men inside of a loving relationship... This is not cheating, rather, honesty and open communication allow you the freedom to take a lover as you please...

The expectation is that the man in the relationship is permitted to have sex only with the woman... He takes his pleasure from hers...

Is this something that is appealing to any women...?

My sense is that many ladies, on their own, would be up for it...men, on the other hand, not so much... Past experiences with that may be a barrier for them. And I think emotions play a part in this, too...

I'm all for multiple partners (for him, too!) but know that for me it would be really difficult if I were in love. But maybe that's just old-fashioned me.

 

[ldukcpl]

this is how we play

online and on occasion in real life. ticks all our boxes and is our kink !

 

[Scrubber]

Sounds great in theory.

In practice, though, what happens about the lovers? Are they to be in the know that they are, essentially, sexual playthings, or not? Would they have any right to suppose that the woman is serially monogamous with the lovers, or does she get to do as she pleases and have as many men on the go as she wants?

I certainly like the sound of it, just doubtful that it would work terribly well for very long in practice.

 

[Shy_gurl]

Sounds good to me <3

 

[Pj2424143]

Sounds like a cuckold relationship

 

[vibes]

Sounds like a cuckold relationship

Exactly: I think a polyamorous relationship would generally be 'poly' for all and not just for the woman

 

[Pj2424143]

I've thought about this before, and think I would love it - especially since my sex drive is the greater and more experimental of myself and my boyfriend's. However, fairness means a lot to me and I would be too guilty to put restrictions on him while I get to flout them and indulge.

Why do you ask? Something you'd be interested in being a part of?

Some men enjoy the power play of a woman calling the shots

 

[xjasminex]

Some men enjoy the power play of a woman calling the shots

As long as they're not a doormat and have real substance to contribute to the relationship, that'll do it for me

 

[DallasDonna]

I'm wanting to know if there are women out there that would consider have a one way polyamorous relationship...

That is, you have sex with other men inside of a loving relationship... This is not cheating, rather, honesty and open communication allow you the freedom to take a lover as you please...

The expectation is that the man in the relationship is permitted to have sex only with the woman... He takes his pleasure from hers...

Is this something that is appealing to any women...?

Couple of questions:

What part would the lone man have? I assume 'full disclosure'- is that all? Not into watching?

 

[Pj2424143]

Couple of questions:

What part would the lone man have? I assume 'full disclosure'- is that all? Not into watching?

I would enjoy watching eventually. But at first I would like the surprise if a freshly fucked pussy coming home to be licked

 

[Mirisa]

If this was something that a man wanted then I could do it and love it. I can't imagine not being poly myself, so as long as I am free to date the people that I want to date I think it would be fine.

 

[PaulBG]

Another man chiming in here, though I realize the question is for women. Still, do know that there are men out here who love exploring this and are not interested in being doormats, wearing silly costumes, being called names, or any of the stereotypical images or practices some link with this. I love the idea of a woman, particularly a formerly reserved one, really learning to grasp her sexuality, to ask for more, to want to push boundaries in a healthy way, including taking another lover or bringing a third into our bed. I love exploring, reliving, sharing, fantasizing, discussing and more with those open, articulate females either experienced or truly curious about being watched, shared, or simply taking another man. Very, very enticing.....

 

[MrRetro]

Couple of questions:

What part would the lone man have? I assume 'full disclosure'- is that all? Not into watching?

The 'lone man' would be the emotional partner in the relationship... Full disclosure is obviously a must, as is safety... This type of relationship I feel is more than just watching or joining in, it's about a man's respect and admiration of a woman's sexuality and allowing her the freedom to explore in a loving environment... I'd be more than happy to watch, join in or allow her some privacy... It really depends on what it is the woman desires...