Is it a fetish to ..

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.. love watching your wife enjoy herself sexually. Whether it be with another man or men, letting herself go completely like she never could with you.
 
Anything is if you fetishize it.

But I think you may be talking about cuckolding.
No .. I consider cuckolding when the wife is degrading the husband really. Like the stories you read where she makes fun of his little dick, and tells him look this is how a real man fucks.

My experiences has been very different, at first and for a long time my wife (now ex-wife) didn't even know I watched her. Then it made our sex better. In fact I remember one time quite vividly, this was before she knew I watched her, where she got pissed at a guy when he asked where I was and why I couldn't handle her. She was with two guys then just ignored him, she wouldn't touch him until he apologized. She then told him if he wanted her pussy to watch what he said and have respect. I thought it was hysterical.

My whole life is a series of right place .. right time .. right attitude, as far as sexual encounters and experiences go.
 
I'm no expert as it isn't my thing, however, cuckolding doesn't always involve small cocks and the extreme humiliation you read or see in cuckold porn.
Although watching your wife be with others is a kind of humiliation itself. Cuckolding was explained to me as a having a primal testosterone release feeling, like a competition. Some guys even get excited just seeing other guys flirting with their woman, so much that they encourage flirtatious behavior and sexy dress.
Just another way to look at cuckolding.
 
My husband and I have the same theory, WifeWatcher. He loves watching me with other guys, or even the idea of knowing that I've been out fucking someone else then coming home to him for round two. Neither of us are okay with the humiliation part of the "cuckold" genre so we think of it more as a "HotWife" thing, or swinging when we involve another couple or a bi girl.
 
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In answer to the orginal question it could be a fetish if it is needed for sexual arousal. Most likely it is just a kinky sexual desire that many men and women have.

As for cuckholding I just did a quick word search and it seems its orginal meaning was an adulterous wife. Modern usage still involves a women fucking men other than her husband, where the husband may or maynot know, be consenting or not, be made fun of by wife or not. In other words like so many English words its meaning has been confused.
 
My husband and I have the same theory, WifeWatcher. He loves watching me with other guys, or even the idea of knowing that I've been out fucking someone else then coming home to him for round two. Neither of us are okay with the humiliation part of the "cuckold" genre so we think of it more as a "HotWife" thing, or swinging when we involve another couple or a bi girl.


Right .. that's exactly my feelings. Cuckolding is used way too much as a description. The term "Hot Wife" used to be used more years ago.

I made many a friend from my time at the Hot Wife Forum back in the days of bianca.com

 
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