Anybody been to a bathhouse?

fljim0121

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Well, has anybody ever been to a bathhouse?

What was it like? Would you go again? And were the guys cute or creepy?

I'm thinking of going just to see what the experience is like - that and it's been a while for me too. :eek:
 
fljim0121 said:
Well, has anybody ever been to a bathhouse?

What was it like? Would you go again? And were the guys cute or creepy?

I'm thinking of going just to see what the experience is like - that and it's been a while for me too. :eek:
I visited several in the San Francisco area and love one of them very much. If I still lived in the area I would go back often

What was it like? - more stories than I could tell at one time. And each place has its own style. The guys were all real - all sorts, some I would never touch, some I would french kiss, suck and fuck over and over... safe sex always

It was in that place that I truely came to understand just how wonderful men are as lovers, not just a thing with a hard cock.

What was it like?
walking around naked
other men walking around with a towel - or naked
men having sex in open rooms - and in dark corners
rows of gloryholes with men sucking cock
a man walks up to the gloryhole - a hand reaches out to guide the cock into a mouth
a man walks up and reaches for your cock, if you are not ready you shake your head - he understands and walks away
you are getting you cock sucked but are not ready to cum, so you just walk away - someone else gives that mouth a new cock
you set on a bench and stroke your cock to keep it hard - someone offers to help
as you get ready to cum into a mouth in a hole in a wall other men feel your heat building - withour a word they gather around and start lightly pinching your nipples, reaching between your legs to hold your balls as you get ready to fill a mouth with your cum, others hold your ass, someone is there to kiss you if you want, you hear the owner of the mouth gag as he deepthroats you, after you cum you can just walk away, or kiss your cum from his mouth, feel your fresh cum on his naked chest, you may see him stroking his cock with a handfull of your cum, you may see him take the next cock into the mouth you just left - or you may be the guy with the mouth.

you go shower, set in the hot tub, nap, get a second hard-on and walk back into that room - what next? hand job? ass fuck? gangbang? or....

more-or-less **sigh**
 
re: Anybody been to a bathhouse

Wow, thanks for the insight. I may just try it after a description like that. I guess with anything else in life, I'm a little nervous about it seeing as how I've only been in one-on-one situations thus far.
 
fljim0121 said:
Wow, thanks for the insight. I may just try it after a description like that. I guess with anything else in life, I'm a little nervous about it seeing as how I've only been in one-on-one situations thus far.

The first two times I went I left without doing a thing - not even jacking off. I was too nervous. sucking my first cock with a room full of guys watching got me over that...
 
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There is one openly, public bath here in Milwaukee, WI. I went and checked it out a few times before playing. The old place in town used to get raided after sending in undercover cops. That was over 20 years ago though. Now there are to many gays and bi's with money and political clout to be messed with.

Sauna, tanning bed, steam room, outdoor patio with hot tub. Upstairs rooms and public play areas. One has a big screen tv with porn and benches at two levels along the wall. Another is set up with hooks in the ceiling for a swing. There are baskets of condoms everywhere.

I've played there sinse. Sitting on the top bench watching guys fucking while getting sucked and then motioning another guy stroking his cock over to suck him....with other guys standing and watching. It was intoxicating. The smell of man sex everywhere. The place was clean, but that smell. Having the guy sucking you walk over to the swing room and climb in, putting his feet in the stirrups. Lubing him and yourself, wrapping the rubber on and slowly sinking in balls deep.

I want to meet someone and develop a friendship and go together. I think it would be so hot to have a slutty night out together with someone you really know. It's to bad there aren't places like that for Bi's. That would be the ultimate for me and a special wench.
 
I can't count the number of times I had been to bathhouses. Most of the times were in Kansas City since I'm close to there. I've also been in bathhouses in Chicago, Denver, Dallas, London, Paris, and Amsterdam. The last three being the most recent -- almost 4 years ago. (There may have been a few other cities, but I can't think of them right now.)

The bathhouse experience IS very intoxicating, but even if I were single again I personally would try to avoid them. Though I enjoyed them at the moments I was there, afterwards it wasn't that great. To make an analogy, imagine the most wonderful buffet with all different kinds of food you can imagine that run the gamut: delicious, good, ok, and not so good. Then imagine, you stay there and eat, and eat, and eat. Hours later you finally leave, but by then the last thing you want is more food. You can't even raise your fork anymore.

Nevertheless, if YOUR goal is a kind of all-you-can eat buffet of sex, a bathhouse experience is the closest you'll ever get. Just know that it is very addictive for some people to the point that their life revolves waiting for the next visit.

Finally, know that though most of them even give you condoms when you check-in. However, a good amount of unsafe sex still goes on in bathhouses and as the number of partners goes up so goes your risks for catching something. I've only had an STD twice in my life (both in 1981), and both times were after a bathhouse trip. (You can also get crabs there, but most bathhouses are good about keeping the rooms disinfected after someone checks out.)

I've been an exclusive top since 1985, but even before that I seldom did anything but top as that is about the only thing I enjoyed with another guy. I assume that it was that along with luck that kept me from getting HIV. It sure wasn't from lack of partners as they were in the hundreds and wearing condoms was always sporatic. So if you go, make sure you are completely in control of yourself ( meaning sober, and not high on something), establish your boundries for safe sex, and stick to them.

Best of luck whatever you decide.
 
none2_none2 said:
I can't count the number of times I had been to bathhouses. Most of the times were in Kansas City since I'm close to there. I've also been in bathhouses in Chicago, Denver, Dallas, London, Paris, and Amsterdam. The last three being the most recent -- almost 4 years ago. (There may have been a few other cities, but I can't think of them right now.)

The bathhouse experience IS very intoxicating, but even if I were single again I personally would try to avoid them. Though I enjoyed them at the moments I was there, afterwards it wasn't that great. To make an analogy, imagine the most wonderful buffet with all different kinds of food you can imagine that run the gamut: delicious, good, ok, and not so good. Then imagine, you stay there and eat, and eat, and eat. Hours later you finally leave, but by then the last thing you want is more food. You can't even raise your fork anymore.

Nevertheless, if YOUR goal is a kind of all-you-can eat buffet of sex, a bathhouse experience is the closest you'll ever get. Just know that it is very addictive for some people to the point that their life revolves waiting for the next visit.

Finally, know that though most of them even give you condoms when you check-in. However, a good amount of unsafe sex still goes on in bathhouses and as the number of partners goes up so goes your risks for catching something. I've only had an STD twice in my life (both in 1981), and both times were after a bathhouse trip. (You can also get crabs there, but most bathhouses are good about keeping the rooms disinfected after someone checks out.)

I've been an exclusive top since 1985, but even before that I seldom did anything but top as that is about the only thing I enjoyed with another guy. I assume that it was that along with luck that kept me from getting HIV. It sure wasn't from lack of partners as they were in the hundreds and wearing condoms was always sporatic. So if you go, make sure you are completely in control of yourself ( meaning sober, and not high on something), establish your boundries for safe sex, and stick to them.

Best of luck whatever you decide.

Worth repeating. I agree. Although a switch between top and bottom, I practiced safe sex after finding out about HIV. Lucky enough to get out of that.

The whole nameless sex thing is old for me now. The buffet you talk of. Heh, men and women. I'm getting older and need more.

Use a condom....practice safe sex. there's not shot in the ass for HIV.
 
fljim0121 said:
Well, has anybody ever been to a bathhouse?

What was it like? Would you go again? And were the guys cute or creepy?

I'm thinking of going just to see what the experience is like - that and it's been a while for me too. :eek:

I have been to a couple a few times. It is ok, but not really my thing. It is kind of like some swing parties I have been to with a former partner of mine, too much going on and some people that I thought were just down right creepy. In adddition, if you are approached by someone who is pretty aggressive, it takes forever for them to get the hint and when they finally get it, all of a sudden you are stuck up. But if you like lots of non-stop action, you will like it.
 
Once in Montreal for the experience. It was as others have said, towels only with a variety of men and a variety of kinky pleasures going on. It was clean and a relaxed atmosphere. If you go, bring extra condoms with you!
 
bathhouse

The first bathhouse I visited was in Germany while in the service. It was truly a nice clean place, private rooms, orgy rooms with porn, dark rooms, gloryholes, it was so intoxicating! Being only 19 iwas always ahard and ready, and those german knew what they wanted, and boy could they fuck!!

Loved it all, love watching others in the orgy room, really hot all those men enjoying one another and getting to watch it all! I was the center of attention as I was 1 of 3 Americans in the place, red hair, blue eyes, hot tight body, I had hands, mouths, cocks all over me! It was truly amazing!
 
Visiting A Bathhouse

I use to visit one in the Denver area when I lived there. Probably went to the place every other month. It was always a very lively and exciting place to go. Loved walking around seeing all the other men of all ages and builds. I always enjoyed seeing guys together enjoying each others bodies. I especially enjoyed sitting in the TV room watching porm and lightly stroking my cock for an hour or so and then hooking up for some fun sex.
 
bath house

When I lived in Phoenix, I would visit a bath house at leasr once a week. I loved walking around naked and seeing othwr men maked. I also liked being able to ask a man if he wanted a bj. If he said no, I just moved om to the next guy. If he said yes, I would drop to my knees right there and suck him off. Many times doing that led to my sucking multiple cocks. As you might know by now, I am a cum slut.
 
I have and continue to go. I'm addicted to it Great to be in a place where everyone expects SEX! Have received great bjs in the steam room. Received the best bj in the TV room; WOW! Best place to fuck or be fucked. Whatever you want; it is there. The Dark Room is a HOT adventure......
 
Aci

Anyone wanna meetup at ACI bathhouse in San Antonio this Friday or Saturday? Let me know.
 
Intrigue

So, I'm intrigued. I really want to try a bathhouse on my next business trip. As a curious guy keen to explore it sounds like the right thing. But can anyone give me an indication whtether it'd be ok to just do something like handjobs or watch on a first visit?
 
So, I'm intrigued. I really want to try a bathhouse on my next business trip. As a curious guy keen to explore it sounds like the right thing. But can anyone give me an indication whtether it'd be ok to just do something like handjobs or watch on a first visit?

You can do whatever fits your level of comfort. No one forces anyone to do otherwise. Give it a try; you will get addicted to bathhouses as I have become. :)
 
Been to baths around the world. Stateside include Dallas, St. Louis, Chicago, among others. Most often visited have been Milwaukee and Kenosha here in Wisconsin. I really preferred Kenosha as there was much more MM action then.
 
Bath house

Yes, been to TMC in Tampa a few times. It can be hit or miss depending on the day, time, etc. went once on a Saturday evening, lot of action. However, it's weird...I find sucking a cock very sexy and quite the turn on, but I don't find men all that attractive or sexy. I suppose many feel the same way, maybe that's why it so dark in there. The gloryhole maze was pretty cool...my first and only multiple cock experience. I sucked 3 different cocks that night, they all came on my face or chest and it was pretty amazing the attention that attracts from the other guys hanging around watching. Nobody was in the sling room, and I'll have to admit the thought of being fucked in a sling turns me on immensely.
 
I would really like to hear about any bathhouses (or similar) in the Philadelphia area. I know of one in the city but have never met anyone who has been. Feel free to pm with any info you might be able to share.
 
I want to go

I would love to visit a bath house some day, it's been an ultimate fantasy for a long time
 
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