A question for women with implants

[dolf]

america - land of the 'my wallet's bigger than your wallet so i get first dibs on the wimmens'

i do recall one time, a guy i struck up conversation with online. he asked if i'd like too see a pic, i said ok, and he sent me a pic of... his car
he responded to my 'wtf ' by telling me he was proving he wasn't some loser, because his car was super expensive. he couldn't understand why i found this so offencive.

 

[butters]

No, I mean you are quick to raise the umbrella of umbrage over a little harmless joshing around...

only if we suspect the joshing is being used as a veneer to conceal what you really think


points, though, for 'umbrella of umbrage'. where'd you nick that from?

 

[butters]

i do recall one time, a guy i struck up conversation with online. he asked if i'd like too see a pic, i said ok, and he sent me a pic of... his car
he responded to my 'wtf ' by telling me he was proving he wasn't some loser, because his car was super expensive. he couldn't understand why i found this so offencive.

did he get all hurt and puppy-eyed on you? you have to feel a little sorry for them at times when they're so out of their comfort-zone. this is why i like the aussies - flat-out funny fuckers, most the time.

 

[dolf]

a valid point. the dollar IS their class-structure. and then there's madonna. but is she to blame or is she merely reflecting their culture?

who was it... candycame maybe?
he suggested that football players, being monumentally rich, were upper class. rooney? ahahahaha!

 

[4est_4est_Gump]

only if we suspect the joshing is being used as a veneer to conceal what you really think


points, though, for 'umbrella of umbrage'. where'd you nick that from?

I really don't think guys stare at tits.

Unless, of course, they are super bodacious and displayed out on the half-shell at which point one can only assume that they are to be admired lest the hostess get her feelings hurt...


It ain't Shakespeare...

 

[dolf]

did he get all hurt and puppy-eyed on you? you have to feel a little sorry for them at times when they're so out of their comfort-zone. this is why i like the aussies - flat-out funny fuckers, most the time.

i asked him if he wanted to attract shallow, materialistic women who cared more about his wallet than attraction. he said 'no'

it becomes a self fulfilling prophesy. if you assume all women are attracted by bling then you'll only attract women attracted by bling then you'll feel justified in believing all women are attracted by bling.

 

[butters]

who was it... candycame maybe?
he suggested that football players, being monumentally rich, were upper class. rooney? ahahahaha!

lols - and beckham can look the part till he opens his mouth. not paying taxes helps, i suppose...

it's not about the money, money...

 

[butters]

i asked him if he wanted to attract shallow, materialistic women who cared more about his wallet than attraction. he said 'no'

it becomes a self fulfilling prophesy. if you assume all women are attracted by bling then you'll only attract women attracted by bling then you'll feel justified in believing all women are attracted by bling.

he probably suspected you protested too much.

oy. men. well, american men. ok, a lot of american men, not all american men.

 

[4est_4est_Gump]

American Woman!
Mama let me be-ee!


Wish they all could be on the Jersey Shore girls...

Go, got to getta way, got to getta away now go go go ...

 

[butters]

jersey shore? jeez, as bad as our stupid 'the only way is essex'. not enough brain cells between them to be in any danger of creating a fire-hazard.

 

[4est_4est_Gump]

Trust me, Snookie wants her boobs stared at...

She likes her boobs to start bar fights!

She likes boobs with big wallets.

 

[CandiCame]

funny how american men always say this...

i have two theories:
1, american women are different
2, american men are arseholes

Stupid American men say this. Most American men are stupid. Having said that, those men often have the type of women that don't actually care about them. The people who actually stay together come together via mutual interests and stay together via mutual respect and love.

It's not that the women are judging you by how much money you have, it's that they're judging your ability to provide, especially if you're planning on settling down and having children. We're in a recession, and if your man can't keep his rent paid with disposable income to take you out to do nice things, then there's no way in hell he's going to be able to feed and cloth a child, let alone get it toys, take it on outings, buy school supplies, etc. You generally don't have to be a millionaire, but you have to have the ability to manage money.

if by 'going' you mean 'backing away from you shaking our heads' then ... yeah


a valid point. the dollar IS their class-structure. and then there's madonna. but is she to blame or is she merely reflecting their culture?

Ok... I have a couple questions...

1: WTF have you got against Madonna?

2: Of course SES is how class structure is organized. How the fuck else would you organize it? When you read international sociology studies, class is still divided by SES, it's not like that's an American thing. It's a worldwide thing.

But here's where you get to what I was talking about before. There being rich, and then there's wealth. A wealthy person is more likely to get their desired mate then a rich person, because a wealthy person manages their money. Rich people wind up poor again because they can blow through their entire fortune with a free weekend and a drug habit. So it's not the money that attracts a mate, it's the ability to manage that money.

If you're going for a coke whore, yeah, blow your entire fortune on a coke-fueled weekend. If you're looking for a life partner, put that shit in investment portfolios for your future offspring.

 

[CandiCame]

who was it... candycame maybe?
he suggested that football players, being monumentally rich, were upper class. rooney? ahahahaha!

Yeah, that was me. Because yes, they have a high SES, and all the social prestige that goes along with it. I don't understand why you think that's funny.

 

[CandiCame]

jersey shore? jeez, as bad as our stupid 'the only way is essex'. not enough brain cells between them to be in any danger of creating a fire-hazard.

I've never seen either of those shows...

 

[dolf]

It's not that the women are judging you by how much money you have, it's that they're judging your ability to provide, especially if you're planning on settling down and having children.

do you think american women worry more than english women because here there is more of a social safety net and considerably less stigma for those who have to rely upon it?

Yeah, that was me. Because yes, they have a high SES, and all the social prestige that goes along with it. I don't understand why you think that's funny.

you don't understand because you're american. it's a completely different culture over here.

 

[dolf]

he probably suspected you protested too much.

oy. men. well, american men. ok, a lot of american men, not all american men.

he was a bit embarrassed & sad. once i'd pointed all this out he decided i was right.

 

[BiTodd]

funny how american men always say this...

i have two theories:
1, american women are different
2, american men are arseholes

Not all of either. I am an american man who refuses to buy into this type of bull.

 

[CandiCame]

do you think american women worry more than english women because here there is more of a social safety net and considerably less stigma for those who have to rely upon it?

you don't understand because you're american. it's a completely different culture over here.

Fuck if I know. All I know about English chicks is that they seem to dig time lords. No car's ever gonna beat a tardis.

 

[richard_daily]

No, I mean you are quick to raise the umbrella of umbrage over a little harmless joshing around...

http://ts1.mm.bing.net/images/thumbnail.aspx?q=4997268152713332&id=2f69f99756c4c6ca0a039aed295f6d93

 

[piccicatopolka]

I have plenty of natural but my sister had so much that she had reduction surgery when she was 19. There were weird lumpy bumps in there that weren't any kind of disease. She continues to lighten her hair so she has that Barbie doll look. Men and women stare at her all the time... because she looks like Pamela-Sue or potentially someone famous. Her reduction did have implants which need to be maintained. So once you get the surgery you're bound to have it again like ten years later. When she had her second surgery she went ahead and made them a little bigger. Now she looks like she had a boob job. She works as a fitness trainer and doesn't mind the attention but what she hates is being treated like a dumb blonde. Now she's 50 and is still often talked to carefully or like a child when she's actually very sharp. Then people are surprised when she impresses them with intellect.

 

[CandiCame]

i do recall one time, a guy i struck up conversation with online. he asked if i'd like too see a pic, i said ok, and he sent me a pic of... his car
he responded to my 'wtf ' by telling me he was proving he wasn't some loser, because his car was super expensive. he couldn't understand why i found this so offencive.

Did you ever think that maybe he's a transformer?

 

[RoryN]

Isn't the reason you got them was to get attention?

You're dumb.

Would you like every woman you see to stare at your crotch?

Yes.

The two scenarios don't equate. (Men vs. women.)

 

[hummermania]

Here let's put it in terms you would understand. Would you like every woman you see to stare at your crotch? To talk directly to your crotch?

Before you answer think about it, every woman. We are not all 20 year old blondes with huge racks that you want to fuck hard. Old ladies will stare at your crotch and talk to it. Fat gals, ugly gals, gals that look like guys. I mean think of every single woman you have seen in your life and they always stare at your crotch and talk to your crotch.

That is what women have to deal with. Most men stare and talk to our breasts.

Not me, I stare at their crotch. Fair is fair, and equality and all that.
And the yogo pants are lovely.

 

[dolf]

Did you ever think that maybe he's a transformer?

now i just feel stupid.

 

[RobDownSouth]

http://ts1.mm.bing.net/images/thumbnail.aspx?q=4997268152713332&id=2f69f99756c4c6ca0a039aed295f6d93

LESTRA!

(and the above comment will have absolutely no significance to those who did not grow up in Atlanta in the Ted Turner years).