22/f... needing help, in a way

shyPAgirl

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I've browsed Literotica in my spare time before, but I've never been an active member until today. The reason for this being that I just got a boyfriend a few weeks ago.

He's a bit more experienced than I am, sexually, and I'm afraid I may not be "in touch" with my dirty side enough for him. He's been with about 13 or so girls (which I'm okay with), whereas I've only been with two guys. I was hoping the forums on here could help me out in this regard.

For the record, I am rather shy... not like some of the other people on here, so please don't expect that. I'm not interested in getting on a webcam for you or talking on the phone. I wouldn't mind taking a picture or two for you if we got familiar enough with each other.

With all of that out of the way, I want someone who can help me get in touch with my more sexual side... ask me questions, explore ideas, fantasize with me. To reiterate, I do not want to meet. This will be simply be an online friendship, so please do not expect more.

As a show of good faith, Here is a picture of me. Please, don't be too harsh. :eek:

- Annice
 
I've browsed Literotica in my spare time before, but I've never been an active member until today. The reason for this being that I just got a boyfriend a few weeks ago.

He's a bit more experienced than I am, sexually, and I'm afraid I may not be "in touch" with my dirty side enough for him. He's been with about 13 or so girls (which I'm okay with), whereas I've only been with two guys. I was hoping the forums on here could help me out in this regard.

For the record, I am rather shy... not like some of the other people on here, so please don't expect that. I'm not interested in getting on a webcam for you or talking on the phone. I wouldn't mind taking a picture or two for you if we got familiar enough with each other.

With all of that out of the way, I want someone who can help me get in touch with my more sexual side... ask me questions, explore ideas, fantasize with me. To reiterate, I do not want to meet. This will be simply be an online friendship, so please do not expect more.

As a show of good faith, Here is a picture of me. Please, don't be too harsh. :eek:

- Annice

Hi Annice :) PM will be sent shortly :)
 
Also, I'm not quite sure what the usual protocol is on this website, but I would prefer if you messaged me on here before adding me on Yahoo. I tend to ignore people who just randomly pop up.

Thank you. :)
 
Advice

Hi shy, the best advice anyone can give you, only do what you are comfortable doing.
 
Hoping to hear from you soon! In agreement with the whole yahoo situation. Gotta love the porn spam bots. Lovely!
 
we all have fantasies

slowly incorperate your fantasies into you personality and you will open up.
 
Annise, the best advice wold be to talk with your BF, before doing anything. Good commnication, is the key.
 
I've browsed Literotica in my spare time before, but I've never been an active member until today. The reason for this being that I just got a boyfriend a few weeks ago.

He's a bit more experienced than I am, sexually, and I'm afraid I may not be "in touch" with my dirty side enough for him. He's been with about 13 or so girls (which I'm okay with), whereas I've only been with two guys. I was hoping the forums on here could help me out in this regard.

For the record, I am rather shy... not like some of the other people on here, so please don't expect that. I'm not interested in getting on a webcam for you or talking on the phone. I wouldn't mind taking a picture or two for you if we got familiar enough with each other.

With all of that out of the way, I want someone who can help me get in touch with my more sexual side... ask me questions, explore ideas, fantasize with me. To reiterate, I do not want to meet. This will be simply be an online friendship, so please do not expect more.

As a show of good faith, Here is a picture of me. Please, don't be too harsh. :eek:

- Annice
Hi Annice,

I think you are taking a brave step just coming on the site and asking for help. Being shy is not a severe handicap when it comes to making love, but it can cause problems if you don't handle it properly. Usually what happens is the two of you end up frustrated with each other because you can't effectively communicate what you're feeling or what you want.
I'm also fairly new to the site so don't know exactly how all the technical stuff works but I'd be willing to ask questions of you, and be a sounding board if you have questions.

I guess the first question is where are you looking for your relationship to go with your new bo?

We are in the same time zone, I'm several hours south of you, so it should make communicating here on literotica a little easier....talking with people that are 8 - 9 hours different from you is often more difficult because of work and sleeping hours being off by so much.

Dave
 
Beautiful picture.

As a general suggestion, I just strongly recommend is have an open mind. "Being dirty" is more a state of mind than what you are actually doing. What really turns a man on is a woman's passion for sex - eagerness and desire. Regular ol' fucking can be downright filthy if both people are swept up in the feeling, letting themselves enjoy the feelings.
 
I just want to thank everyone for all of the messages I have received. I wasn't expecting such a response, and I'm still sorting through the messages.
 
Welcome

I've browsed Literotica in my spare time before, but I've never been an active member until today. The reason for this being that I just got a boyfriend a few weeks ago.

He's a bit more experienced than I am, sexually, and I'm afraid I may not be "in touch" with my dirty side enough for him. He's been with about 13 or so girls (which I'm okay with), whereas I've only been with two guys. I was hoping the forums on here could help me out in this regard.

For the record, I am rather shy... not like some of the other people on here, so please don't expect that. I'm not interested in getting on a webcam for you or talking on the phone. I wouldn't mind taking a picture or two for you if we got familiar enough with each other.

With all of that out of the way, I want someone who can help me get in touch with my more sexual side... ask me questions, explore ideas, fantasize with me. To reiterate, I do not want to meet. This will be simply be an online friendship, so please do not expect more.

As a show of good faith, Here is a picture of me. Please, don't be too harsh. :eek:

- Annice

Welcome to Lit. I am positive you'll be able to find the information you need. You may want to check the "How To" section that is available.

BTW, nice pic.

Later,
 
Annise, the best advice wold be to talk with your BF, before doing anything. Good commnication, is the key.

Yeah, I'm with this guy. Bring this up with your boyfriend, and tell him you want to explore your sexual side. Show him you're up for (just about) anything, give it all a shot and find out what excites you most. You'll both be a lot happier in the end.
=tt
 
good luck

Annice,

you have come to the right place, you will find some really nice genuine people (and the occasional creep.) you will learn a lot about yourself and your fantasies. you will also learn what you dont like or do not want to do, but keep an open mind and make sure to only do something you are comfortable with. i have learnt a lot about myself being here and that has got me outta my shell sexually

keep in mind that even though your bf has been with more partners...that does not make him more sexually adventurous. quantity does not mean quality

i wont message you since you already seem overwhelmed with the amount you have but feel free to message me if you feel the need...either here..but on yahoo is easier
 
A few members have suggested I reveal a bit about myself openly on the forums, thinking that maybe this will help me open up a bit online and become more comfortable sharing things about myself. Seemed like a good enough idea.

  • Name: Annice
  • Age: 22
  • Occupation: Waitress
  • Location: Near Pittsburgh
  • Sexual Experience: 2 guys, 0 girls

Is there anything else I should add?
 
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