Face it..( picture thread)

[SiaKlynn]

Pretty eyes

 

[Nina327]

Lovely view.


Your eyes seem violet. Fitting for an elf.

 

[fr33ks33k]

Such an intense stare. I hope one day I'll be lucky enough to see more.

 

[LiFeNdEaTh]

I insist

nice siggy

 

[Annisthyrienne]

Whatever makes you more comfortable, Milady.

Let me work up a bit more courage.....and figure out how to pixelate in Photoshop.

Ooooh, a sneaky peek of a sexy Thryi....lovely sight to see first thing in the morning...

Thank you, Beautiful.

Pretty eyes

Thank you, Sia.

Lovely view.


Your eyes seem violet. Fitting for an elf.

*Smiles* I wish I could say they were. Unfortunately, I think it's more due to an old borrowed digicam and flourescent lighting, thanks to the government regulations these days.

Such an intense stare. I hope one day I'll be lucky enough to see more.

I was afraid that the sadness from this depression would show. Probably what you see as intensity. My sister says it shows in my face; that's how she can always tell.

As for seeing more, you, Sir, already have. Granted those images were much less current than this. Well, as I replied to Cait above, let me work up a bit more courage. Being depressed has one advantage: You get to feel more like you just don't care about consequences. So maybe soon, before I get back to my senses and talk myself out of it.

 

[Niriate]

*notices the pretty elfling's eyes and hugs her*

You look great, my dear. No question.

 

[DarkWarrioress]

Let me work up a bit more courage.....and figure out how to pixelate in Photoshop......


As for seeing more, you, Sir, already have. Granted those images were much less current than this. Well, as I replied to Cait above, let me work up a bit more courage. Being depressed has one advantage: You get to feel more like you just don't care about consequences. So maybe soon, before I get back to my senses and talk myself out of it.

Now, Milady. Not to be nagging on the subject. You must do what you are comfortable with but consequences? What kind of consequences? You are amongst friends here. We pretty much all know what happened to you and the fallout of that accident. We care about you because you're you. Nothing is going to change that, pretty elf.

 

[yeishia]

Let me work up a bit more courage.....and figure out how to pixelate in Photoshop.

I was afraid that the sadness from this depression would show. Probably what you see as intensity. My sister says it shows in my face; that's how she can always tell.

I saw the sadness reflected in your beautiful eyes my friend but refrained from commenting upon it.

It adds to your beauty because it is an integral part of whom you are...

I adore you just the way you are

Now, Milady. Not to be nagging on the subject. You must do what you are comfortable with but consequences? What kind of consequences? You are amongst friends here. We pretty much all know what happened to you and the fallout of that accident. We care about you because you're you. Nothing is going to change that, pretty elf.

One has to worry a little in case real world people recognize our photos, which is why I left mine up only for a short time.

I do not think it should matter that I write on Lit but some are very intolerant especially because for example I am a teacher. I lost a child because one of my staff members swore on her facebook acount ...*shakes her head in disbelief.*

Yes Thyri is amongst friends here and I hope that is always the case.

However, I know first hand what happens when such perceived friendships are no more....

One day you are popular then next day everything changes sometimes on the whim of a single person.

The sheep of course follow....

It can be hard. On the bright side it made me so much stronger.

 

[DarkWarrioress]

I saw the sadness reflected in your beautiful eyes my friend but refrained from commenting upon it.

It adds to your beauty because it is an integral part of whom you are...

I adore you just the way you are


One has to worry a little in case real world people recognize our photos, which is why I left mine up only for a short time.

I do not think it should matter that I write on Lit but some are very intolerant especially because for example I am a teacher. I lost a child because one of my staff members swore on her facebook acount ...*shakes her head in disbelief.*

Yes Thyri is amongst friends here and I hope that is always the case.

However, I know first hand what happens when such perceived friendships are no more....

One day you are popular then next day everything changes sometimes on the whim of a single person.

The sheep of course follow....

It can be hard. On the bright side it made me so much stronger.

*smiles softly and hugs yeishia*

Milady, if one considers popularity as a factor here, then I feel for them. Anyone who has participated on these boards for awhile can easily see how human nature flows. Attention spreads itself amongst many. It's determining factor is how active one is in speaking and if their words catch and hold attention, which is an obvious trait with us mere mortals. I'd hardly say sheep and perhaps more like compassion, need, desire or even loyalty drives any given moment. I, personally, simply do not care about who is the flavor of the hour.

These days, we are held more by the people we work for. At first, I didn't understand that concept but I do now. I don't always care for it, but there it is. When I worked for a well known non-profit organization, in a place of leadership, I couldn't be off partying and having fun because of that job. People relate the job to the behavior. It's human nature. Instilled moreso in some people than others. But in Thyri's case, and this is my guess, it has more to do with old injuries than anything else.

Then again, I simply do not feel the need to share what I look like with the masses. Especially here. This place is a fantasy land. That's how I choose to let it remain, with the exception of a very few I have gotten to know much better.

 

[yeishia]

*smiles softly and hugs yeishia*

Milady, if one considers popularity as a factor here, then I feel for them. Anyone who has participated on these boards for awhile can easily see how human nature flows. Attention spreads itself amongst many. It's determining factor is how active one is in speaking and if their words catch and hold attention, which is an obvious trait with us mere mortals. I'd hardly say sheep and perhaps more like compassion, need, desire or even loyalty drives any given moment. I, personally, simply do not care about who is the flavor of the hour.

These days, we are held more by the people we work for. At first, I didn't understand that concept but I do now. I don't always care for it, but there it is. When I worked for a well known non-profit organization, in a place of leadership, I couldn't be off partying and having fun because of that job. People relate the job to the behavior. It's human nature. Instilled moreso in some people than others. But in Thyri's case, and this is my guess, it has more to do with old injuries than anything else.

Then again, I simply do not feel the need to share what I look like with the masses. Especially here. This place is a fantasy land. That's how I choose to let it remain, with the exception of a very few I have gotten to know much better.

*hugs you back smiling*

Lets agree to disagree with regards to the term, sheep, its a school yard mentality which wont change any time soon...human nature I guess and that is fine.

I do agree about the fantasy land part Cait... I do not care really what people look like , I see beyond that ...but I found that hearing can really destroy it *giggles* I remember hearing one voice where its owner was portrayed as a dominant here... barely sounding legal...such a let down.

Now my picture would probably scare away the few friends I do have

( Joking most have already seen it and are still here hehhehe)

 

[fr33ks33k]

Let me work up a bit more courage.....and figure out how to pixelate in Photoshop.

I was afraid that the sadness from this depression would show. Probably what you see as intensity. My sister says it shows in my face; that's how she can always tell.

As for seeing more, you, Sir, already have. Granted those images were much less current than this. Well, as I replied to Cait above, let me work up a bit more courage. Being depressed has one advantage: You get to feel more like you just don't care about consequences. So maybe soon, before I get back to my senses and talk myself out of it.

Now, Milady. Not to be nagging on the subject. You must do what you are comfortable with but consequences? What kind of consequences? You are amongst friends here. We pretty much all know what happened to you and the fallout of that accident. We care about you because you're you. Nothing is going to change that, pretty elf.

If you need photoshop help, I'm decently versed in it. Ah, yes I have, but as with all things enjoyed I am always pleased to have more (or see more in this situation).

Cait is quite correct here. Whatever you're comfortable with, whenever you're comfortable with it. Those who see the beauty inside simply like to see the vessel that contains it.

 

[yeishia]

Those who see the beauty inside simply like to see the vessel that contains it.

This was not directed at me but i just have to say that I loved that sentiment ... pure perfection.

 

[Niriate]

Cait, there are things that hit too close to home for people to comfortably share with others over a still, somewhat impersonal and distant medium as Lit. Yes, ofcourse many of us have friends on these boards, but there's a big difference in how people percieve their friendships between real life and online.

As you can see from my sig, I've had a crazy last 6 months, but there is only 1 person here that I've shared it with. And not because I don't trust anyone else with it, but because I trust that person the most.
I don't know the reason of Elfling's depression, nor do I want to know. I just know that she deserves whatever friendly support she needs.

 

[palemoon2035]

You have such a beautiful soul, such a beautiful spirit. Thank you for showing it to me through your words, and now through your eyes.

 

[DarkWarrioress]

*hugs you back smiling*

Lets agree to disagree with regards to the term, sheep, its a school yard mentality which wont change any time soon...human nature I guess and that is fine.

I do agree about the fantasy land part Cait... I do not care really what people look like , I see beyond that ...but I found that hearing can really destroy it *giggles* I remember hearing one voice where its owner was portrayed as a dominant here... barely sounding legal...such a let down.

Now my picture would probably scare away the few friends I do have

( Joking most have already seen it and are still here hehhehe)

I know what you mean, yeishia. One wonders how a young sounding voice can be a dominant. Yet, it can, I'm sure.

Cait, there are things that hit too close to home for people to comfortably share with others over a still, somewhat impersonal and distant medium as Lit. Yes, ofcourse many of us have friends on these boards, but there's a big difference in how people percieve their friendships between real life and online.

As you can see from my sig, I've had a crazy last 6 months, but there is only 1 person here that I've shared it with. And not because I don't trust anyone else with it, but because I trust that person the most.
I don't know the reason of Elfling's depression, nor do I want to know. I just know that she deserves whatever friendly support she needs.

Agreed, Niri. Here, however, I wasn't addressing Milady Thyri's depression so much as her need to only show her eyes. She made mention of consequences for revealing so much more, so I could only guess as to the reason why she felt that way. Again, her comfort is of the importance here, not our curiosity. I simply do not want her to think that I would look upon her any differently because of what scars she may bear and I imagine that is true of those who consider her a friend.

 

[Dracona]

Speechless....just speechless

 

[Firmhanded_Daddy]

Thank you for the window into your soul lovely elf. Just in case you do not know where I stand on the subject I think you are beautiful and photo shop one way or the other won't change that.

We all wear scars on the inside and out, it is the imperfections that display just how wonderful people are.

-Gives her a big warm hug-

I can understand not wanting to post more than just your eyes, I have my own reason for not sharing my face on here as always with me tis all low pressure. Share what you will, when you will, if you will. I will enjoy what I get and be thankful.

 

[Annisthyrienne]

*notices the pretty elfling's eyes and hugs her*

You look great, my dear. No question.

Thank you, Niri.

Now, Milady. Not to be nagging on the subject. You must do what you are comfortable with but consequences? What kind of consequences? You are amongst friends here. We pretty much all know what happened to you and the fallout of that accident. We care about you because you're you. Nothing is going to change that, pretty elf.

You know, Cait, you're right. Its not like anyone is going to come to my house and hurt me I suppose. I guess it's just the shy fear of being judged, even silently, by people I care about, and having them find me wanting in some way. We all have that fear I suppose.

I saw the sadness reflected in your beautiful eyes my friend but refrained from commenting upon it.

It adds to your beauty because it is an integral part of whom you are...

I adore you just the way you are

One has to worry a little in case real world people recognize our photos, which is why I left mine up only for a short time.

*Hugs my friend.* Thank you, Yeishia.

You are right, of course, in the possibility of those kinds of consequences. I hadn't thought of that. I was referring more to the possibility that people might just see something that completely turned them off, I guess. With my job, I don't think it would matter one way or the other what I do. My boss already knows I write here, and she doesn't care. She sex texts and flirts with people, even though she's married, so she figures everyone has their own outlet for their desires.

 

[Annisthyrienne]

If you need photoshop help, I'm decently versed in it. Ah, yes I have, but as with all things enjoyed I am always pleased to have more (or see more in this situation).

Cait is quite correct here. Whatever you're comfortable with, whenever you're comfortable with it. Those who see the beauty inside simply like to see the vessel that contains it.

That is a beautiful sentiment, Fr33k. Thank you.

Cait, there are things that hit too close to home for people to comfortably share with others over a still, somewhat impersonal and distant medium as Lit. Yes, of course many of us have friends on these boards, but there's a big difference in how people perceive their friendships between real life and online.

I don't know the reason of Elfling's depression, nor do I want to know. I just know that she deserves whatever friendly support she needs.

Niri, you and Cait are both right in a sense. Cait was speaking about the physical scars from my 4 wheeler accident that cost my voice and left me with so much back and neck trouble. I talked about that in the 'Let's Hear It' thread when I posted there. But of course, living with that kind of thing is a stressor that contributes to the struggle with depression that I am prone to. Recently I'd have to say that on top of all that I normally deal with, (usually successfully), the added stress of my job since about June is just getting to be a bit overwhelming. It has me down right now, but I'm not out. Not yet.

You have such a beautiful soul, such a beautiful spirit. Thank you for showing it to me through your words, and now through your eyes.

Thank you, Moon. I've enjoyed becoming friends with you very much.

Speechless....just speechless

Thank you, Dracona.

Thank you for the window into your soul lovely elf. Just in case you do not know where I stand on the subject I think you are beautiful and photo shop one way or the other won't change that.

We all wear scars on the inside and out, it is the imperfections that display just how wonderful people are.

-Gives her a big warm hug-

I can understand not wanting to post more than just your eyes, I have my own reason for not sharing my face on here as always with me tis all low pressure. Share what you will, when you will, if you will. I will enjoy what I get and be thankful.

Thank you for that perspective. It helps.

In fact you have all been amazingly supportive. I really didn't expect this kind of response. It encourages me more than I can say. And it was pointed out to me today in conversation with someone that I go out in public every day, and strangers see what I look like. I survive it. I admit that I don't enjoy the second looks and the expressions I get along with them, both when people notice the scars and when they hear what passes for my voice now.

But I've learned to deal with those. It's easy to ignore when it's from strangers who I'm not likely to see or interact with other than those few moments of the encounter. It's a little different with people who know me and whose opinion of me I care about. It's just a little more at stake to think that people will be looking carefully at the picture and making judgments. And it's just human nature that they would. In this thread and venue especially, since the internet is a medium where people can get to know the person before they ever see them.

So now that I've driven away most of those who won't read something so long.....*Taking a deep breath before taking the plunge.*

This won't be up forever, so please don't quote it.

 

[Vail_Indigo]

That is a beautiful sentiment, Fr33k. Thank you.



Niri, you and Cait are both right in a sense. Cait was speaking about the physical scars from my 4 wheeler accident that cost my voice and left me with so much back and neck trouble. I talked about that in the 'Let's Hear It' thread when I posted there. But of course, living with that kind of thing is a stressor that contributes to the struggle with depression that I am prone to. Recently I'd have to say that on top of all that I normally deal with, (usually successfully), the added stress of my job since about June is just getting to be a bit overwhelming. It has me down right now, but I'm not out. Not yet.



Thank you, Moon. I've enjoyed becoming friends with you very much.



Thank you, Dracona.



Thank you for that perspective. It helps.

In fact you have all been amazingly supportive. I really didn't expect this kind of response. It encourages me more than I can say. And it was pointed out to me today in conversation with someone that I go out in public every day, and strangers see what I look like. I survive it. I admit that I don't enjoy the second looks and the expressions I get along with them, both when people notice the scars and when they hear what passes for my voice now.

But I've learned to deal with those. It's easy to ignore when it's from strangers who I'm not likely to see or interact with other than those few moments of the encounter. It's a little different with people who know me and whose opinion of me I care about. It's just a little more at stake to think that people will be looking carefully at the picture and making judgments. And it's just human nature that they would. In this thread and venue especially, since the internet is a medium where people can get to know the person before they ever see them.

So now that I've driven away most of those who won't read something so long.....*Taking a deep breath before taking the plunge.*

This won't be up forever, so please don't quote it.

NOMS!!!!

 

[Nina327]

.................. I have no words for just how much I appreciate... what were the words previously stated... the vessel the elf lives in. I have a feeling some of those second looks have not a damned thing to do with faults.

 

[fr33ks33k]

NOMS!!!!

I share this sentiment wholeheartedly. Thank you for sharing, Thyri.

Oh, and those lips of yours we're definitely made for kissin'. Just sayin.

 

[marauder13]

That is a beautiful sentiment, Fr33k. Thank you.



Niri, you and Cait are both right in a sense. Cait was speaking about the physical scars from my 4 wheeler accident that cost my voice and left me with so much back and neck trouble. I talked about that in the 'Let's Hear It' thread when I posted there. But of course, living with that kind of thing is a stressor that contributes to the struggle with depression that I am prone to. Recently I'd have to say that on top of all that I normally deal with, (usually successfully), the added stress of my job since about June is just getting to be a bit overwhelming. It has me down right now, but I'm not out. Not yet.



Thank you, Moon. I've enjoyed becoming friends with you very much.



Thank you, Dracona.



Thank you for that perspective. It helps.

In fact you have all been amazingly supportive. I really didn't expect this kind of response. It encourages me more than I can say. And it was pointed out to me today in conversation with someone that I go out in public every day, and strangers see what I look like. I survive it. I admit that I don't enjoy the second looks and the expressions I get along with them, both when people notice the scars and when they hear what passes for my voice now.

But I've learned to deal with those. It's easy to ignore when it's from strangers who I'm not likely to see or interact with other than those few moments of the encounter. It's a little different with people who know me and whose opinion of me I care about. It's just a little more at stake to think that people will be looking carefully at the picture and making judgments. And it's just human nature that they would. In this thread and venue especially, since the internet is a medium where people can get to know the person before they ever see them.

So now that I've driven away most of those who won't read something so long.....*Taking a deep breath before taking the plunge.*

This won't be up forever, so please don't quote it.

Thyri, thank you very much for sharing the picture of yourself. You look great. But then, as far as I am concerned, your physical looks are secondary to the person contained within.

Like you, I suffer from depression too, and I know how much of a toll it can take. With that in mind, I must congratulate you on your courage showing us what you look like. I think Vail summed it up most eloquently, and I agree with her totally.

One last thing. I have the strongest belief that you will come out of this time of darkness and be a far better person from what you have learned of yourself during that time.

 

[marauder13]

.................. I have no words for just how much I appreciate... what were the words previously stated... the vessel the elf lives in. I have a feeling some of those second looks have not a damned thing to do with faults.

A little flaw makes the merits stand out all the more. Yeah, Nina, the 2nd, 3rd and subsequent looks would be to take in all the good points missed by the previous looks.

 

[Annisthyrienne]

.................. I have no words for just how much I appreciate... what were the words previously stated... the vessel the elf lives in. I have a feeling some of those second looks have not a damned thing to do with faults.

I absolutely love you, woman!

NOMS!!!!

Thank you, Vail.

I share this sentiment wholeheartedly. Thank you for sharing, Thyri.

Oh, and those lips of yours we're definitely made for kissin'. Just sayin.

That isn't the only pair.....

A little flaw makes the merits stand out all the more. Yeah, Nina, the 2nd, 3rd and subsequent looks would be to take in all the good points missed by the previous looks.

You all are making me blush so deeply right now. And I feel really good inside.