ironically she is the boss at her work place

[richdaw76]

my other half is the boss in her corporate job, she manages a large team and often has this bitchy bossy undertone. i know this because i often am graced with her conversations on her blackberry!

i find it ironic that she craves and has this secret life with me controlling and using her as an object. It makes me wonder why?

she recently asked me if i could be more 'heavy handed' with her? i didn't comment much and she knows now that my silence is acknowledgement.

so what to do next? i want to go to work with her ass, it needs a good spanking!

 

[Sir_Winston54]

my other half is the boss in her corporate job, she manages a large team and often has this bitchy bossy undertone. i know this because i often am graced with her conversations on her blackberry!

i find it ironic that she craves and has this secret life with me controlling and using her as an object. It makes me wonder why?

she recently asked me if i could be more 'heavy handed' with her? i didn't comment much and she knows now that my silence is acknowledgement.

so what to do next? i want to go to work with her ass, it needs a good spanking!

So get her ass bare, either by doing it yourself or telling her to do it, put her over your knee, lift hand(s) and bring it(them) down sharply. Rinse and repeat. Without the rinse.

ETA: Oh, yeah. There's a key either side of the bottom row of letters marked "Shift." Please press that for the first letter of each sentence, proper nouns, and the pronoun "I." K?Thx.Gbye.

 

[Dianthus]

So get her ass bare, either by doing it yourself or telling her to do it, put her over your knee, lift hand(s) and bring it(them) down sharply. Rinse and repeat. Without the rinse.

ETA: Oh, yeah. There's a key either side of the bottom row of letters marked "Shift." Please press that for the first letter of each sentence, proper nouns, and the pronoun "I." K?Thx.Gbye.

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[Ksols7]

I'm a chef/kitchen supervisor and have to yell at servers and dishwashers all day long so being a sub is such a different pace and change from work. I get tired from bossing people around all day so I would never want to do it in the bedroom

 

[njlauren]

That is quote common, a lot of subs are people with high power/stress jobs, one theory about submission is it is a release for type A people and so forth (not sure I buy that entirely, but shows how prevalent it is). A lot of the clients of pro dommes, who go there to be humiliated, dressed like sissies, etc, are often high end executives, lawyers and so forth (and some have seen an increase in women clients, from what I hear).

She probably is looking to let go and not be the top banana, and wants you to take away control and make her your object, pet, whatever...what to do? Use your imagination and take her as deep as you (and she) feel comfortable.

 

[richdaw76]

Thanks for your comments and replies..

Lets just say that she was crying out after the spanking i gave her last night which last for quite a while. She even tried to physically get away and i had to pin her down pulling her hair. I found using one of my belts worked great!

Had to stuff her mouth with some socks and then wrap a neck tie to hold it in place, like a gag to shut her up. Ended up playing loud music to stop the neighbours thinking anyway. It ended with tearful anal fuck, lots of slapping across her tits and spitting on her face . She came soooo much as well, squirted always!

we both had an amazing night!

 

[suckmytitties]

We're called submissive women with dominant personalities...
I too, am boss lady at work and have been called "crispy" on occasion. But when I am with my Dom, I submit to Him...giving up all control. It allows me to destress, let go, and have fun.

 

[richdaw76]

We're called submissive women with dominant personalities...
I too, am boss lady at work and have been called "crispy" on occasion. But when I am with my Dom, I submit to Him...giving up all control. It allows me to destress, let go, and have fun.

Yeahh... recently we've gone back to vanilla sex. And said we'll leave BDSM for a while, maybe only "do it" once every few weeks.

Last night was one of those rare occasions, her mouth was ball gagged, and her lacy thong was displaying her ass cheeks. I belted her till she cried, then slapped her continuously in the face till she stopped crying! then i fucked her pussy with a wide butt plug in her ass. She started to orgasm then violently started shaking with her pussy squirting few 1-2 second burstsssss she did this for about 20seconds at least.. it was amazing!

 

[Miles Long]

To answer your original questions:

Why? Balance. In general people need balance in their lives. The more control, power, responsibility, stress people have in one area of their lives, the more they need some kind of counter-balance somewhere else. For some people with high powered jobs that translates to extremely submissive desires in their sex lives.

As for what to do next? If you're both having crazy hot orgasms in the playtimes you just described, I'd say you're already doing what you should do next. It sounds like you've established a dynamic that works for you both. Keep talking about it with her and remain open to each other's thoughts and I'm guessing things will be good.

 

[DaddysBabyslut]

i myself am a submissive and i also have a job where i am the boss i find it hard to be the boss over others but i love my job besides that one thing. It may be that i am still taking care of someone why i love it i don't know. All i know is when i am home and able to be the real me and serve my Owner i am the happiest i am

 

[missgiter]

I find myself in a similar mindset. My mindset at work is nearly completely opposite of that in the bedroom.

Very typical -- it allows me personally to 'give up' submit, have fun! It's a great head space to find after having to be in command all the time.

 

[KlaytonFrost]

Sometimes I think that people who have very demanding lives with lots of pressure and lots of heavy decisions can relish the chance to relinquish control, to give in to somebody else for once. It's their way of relaxing and letting go.

 

[kinkycinderella]

the boss needs some time off

being the boss is what brought me to bdsm. i don't get paid to make decisions after 5. i'd rather have a trusted man or woman do that for me. there's nothing more freeing that being bound.

 

[KoPilot]

Being my own person on my time is cathartic. Being his on his time is also cathartic.

I get to have my cake and eat it too, really.

 

[jomar]

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[Miss_Jenni]

I'm a high school teacher was is incredibly stressful job and I'm allowed to be a teacher, my master is one of my students and likes to control me in school time without being too demanding over my body but as soon as the bell goes i have to respect his wishes as I'm his sub

 

[benton81]

I'm a high school teacher was is incredibly stressful job and I'm allowed to be a teacher, my master is one of my students and likes to control me in school time without being too demanding over my body but as soon as the bell goes i have to respect his wishes as I'm his sub

Miss_Jenni I'd love to chat to you be you have no contact information!! Get in touch

 

[Sir_Winston54]

I'm a high school teacher was is incredibly stressful job and I'm allowed to be a teacher, my master is one of my students and likes to control me in school time without being too demanding over my body but as soon as the bell goes i have to respect his wishes as I'm his sub

If "Miss Jenni" is a high school teacher, then I have no doubts why the UK is sinking to the bottom of Oceania. "She" much more likely is a high school boy, from looking at "her" other posts. I call shenanigans.

Miss_Jenni I'd love to chat to you be you have no contact information!! Get in touch

Benton, you appear to be one of "Miss Jenni's" former students.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I'm a high school teacher was is incredibly stressful job and I'm allowed to be a teacher, my master is one of my students and likes to control me in school time without being too demanding over my body but as soon as the bell goes i have to respect his wishes as I'm his sub

No. Fucking. Way.

You're either lying or a fool.

 

[lothwen]

If "Miss Jenni" is a high school teacher, then I have no doubts why the UK is sinking to the bottom of Oceania. "She" much more likely is a high school boy, from looking at "her" other posts. I call shenanigans.

Benton, you appear to be one of "Miss Jenni's" former students.

No. Fucking. Way.

You're either lying or a fool.

I was going to say something last night, but wasn't sure how to approach it, so I'm glad that the two of you said exactly the same thing I was thinking.

 

[seela]

If you take a look on Jen's post in the New Faces thread to see how "it all started", I don't think you need to wonder very long whether it's a case of fool or fake.

 

[Stella_Omega]

If you take a look on Jen's post in the New Faces thread to see how "it all started", I don't think you need to wonder very long whether it's a case of fool or fake.

Mighty damn fictional, huh. I wouldn't make it to the second chapter.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

If you take a look on Jen's post in the New Faces thread to see how "it all started", I don't think you need to wonder very long whether it's a case of fool or fake.

This post?

hi there
I'm miss jenni and 26 year school teacher who enjoys rough sex and i have a young student who is my Master, i become submissive to him when he caught me masturbating, i quickly grow addicted to his cock and his cum. now i serve his sexual needs above my own

:: shakes head :: How in the name of all the gods/goddesses that ever were or ever will be can some of these people seemingly convince certain credulous people that they are real?

 

[Stella_Omega]

This post?
:: shakes head :: How in the name of all the gods/goddesses that ever were or ever will be can some of these people seemingly convince certain credulous people that they are real?

"credulous" is your clue.

 

[RKK]

I'm a high school teacher was is incredibly stressful job and I'm allowed to be a teacher, my master is one of my students and likes to control me in school time without being too demanding over my body but as soon as the bell goes i have to respect his wishes as I'm his sub

Great storyline for some hot erotic RP enjoyment. Too bad you don't have any contact information or PMs turned on Miss Jen. Please contact me if interested.

Richard