Swinging.

[doll_parts85]

For some reason, the idea of swinging with couples makes me extremely nervous. I'm fine having threesomes and foursomes with other girls and my man but the idea of having another man touch me scares me so much and I'm not sure why. Has anyone else had this problem? I don't know if it's my PTSD or what...I thought that once I got over my fear of sex that I would stop being afraid of men...but it seems that is not the case yet.

 

[blobfish]

So this is the "Groupon" thing that everybody is talking about.

 

[oddity83]

Swinging just isn't for everyone.

 

[Very_Bad_Man]

your preaching to the choir sista

i feel the same way about men touching me.

 

[doll_parts85]

Swinging just isn't for everyone.

But I want to be okay with it b/c I know my guys wants me to...and I feel bad saying no. It's the only thing I've ever said no to....

 

[livin1971]

For some reason, the idea of swinging with couples makes me extremely nervous. I'm fine having threesomes and foursomes with other girls and my man but the idea of having another man touch me scares me so much and I'm not sure why. Has anyone else had this problem? I don't know if it's my PTSD or what...I thought that once I got over my fear of sex that I would stop being afraid of men...but it seems that is not the case yet.

Have you talked to him about it openly. Yes it might be your PTSD. I don't know why you have it but, it can manifest itself in strange ways I know I have PTSD too.

 

[doll_parts85]

Have you talked to him about it openly. Yes it might be your PTSD. I don't know why you have it but, it can manifest itself in strange ways I know I have PTSD too.

Yeah, I've talked to him about it...and he says he's fine with it...but I know he misses this one girl we used to play with and she won't play with us now unless we include her boyfriend...

 

[blobfish]

Have you talked to him about it openly. Yes it might be your PTSD. I don't know why you have it but, it can manifest itself in strange ways I know I have PTSD too.

Her boyfriend's IED went off early.

 

[Very_Bad_Man]

Have you talked to him about it openly. Yes it might be your PTSD. I don't know why you have it but, it can manifest itself in strange ways I know I have PTSD too.

Me too.

After I saw my grandma naked I have never been the same

 

[livin1971]

Yeah, I've talked to him about it...and he says he's fine with it...but I know he misses this one girl we used to play with and she won't play with us now unless we include her boyfriend...

Thats a rough thing have you tried counseling?

 

[doll_parts85]

Thats a rough thing have you tried counseling?

yeah...doesn't help, really.

 

[renard_ruse]

For some reason, the idea of swinging with couples makes me extremely nervous. I'm fine having threesomes and foursomes with other girls and my man but the idea of having another man touch me scares me so much and I'm not sure why. Has anyone else had this problem? I don't know if it's my PTSD or what...I thought that once I got over my fear of sex that I would stop being afraid of men...but it seems that is not the case yet.

You have a "master" who does God only knows what to you and you engage in homosexual acts with other women, but you are afraid of ordinary men touching you? Interesting.

 

[doll_parts85]

You have a "master" who does God only knows what to you and you engage in homosexual acts with other women, but you are afraid of ordinary men touching you? Interesting.

It would be another Dom, most likely.

 

[badbabysitter]

It would be another Dom, most likely.

Don't mind renard.. he thinks sex with the lights on is kinky

it might have less to do with with him being and more with the new guy being dominant.. you're used to your subspace with your guy, having another men enter into it might feel threatening to you


if you do this, you should set up firm guidelines on how you want to play.. for example, if you're bi, have only the gals play with each other and the men with their respective gals

 

[blobfish]

Don't mind renard.. he thinks sex with the lights on is kinky

it might have less to do with with him being and more with the new guy being dominant.. you're used to your subspace with your guy, having another men enter into it might feel threatening to you


if you do this, you should set up firm guidelines on how you want to play.. for example, if you're bi, have only the gals play with each other and the men with their respective gals

I'd listen to her. She's dating a black guy.

 

[badbabysitter]

I'd listen to her. She's dating a black guy.

do you ever say anything that isn't patently stupid?

 

[blobfish]

do you ever say anything that isn't patently stupid?

Aren't you dating a black guy?

 

[badbabysitter]

Aren't you dating a black guy?

do you ever say anything that isnt patently stupid?

 

[blobfish]

do you ever say anything that isnt patently stupid?

I knew you were lying. There aren't any black people in Canada. They all came back here after the Civil War.

 

[badbabysitter]

I knew you were lying. There aren't any black people in Canada. They all came back here after the Civil War.

do you ever say anything that isnt patently stupid?

 

[livin1971]

Don't mind renard.. he thinks sex with the lights on is kinky

it might have less to do with with him being and more with the new guy being dominant.. you're used to your subspace with your guy, having another men enter into it might feel threatening to you


if you do this, you should set up firm guidelines on how you want to play.. for example, if you're bi, have only the gals play with each other and the men with their respective gals

thank you bad baby sitter that was what i was thinking too.

 

[blobfish]

do you ever say anything that isnt patently stupid?

So, be straight with me. He's a dark Eskimo, right?

 

[badbabysitter]

So, be straight with me. He's a dark Eskimo, right?

do you ever say anything that isnt patently stupid?

 

[blobfish]

do you ever say anything that isnt patently stupid?

How much narwhal blubber is he apportioned annually?

 

[badbabysitter]

How much narwhal blubber is he apportioned annually?

when it comes to saying stupid things, is there a time when you dont?