A Poll... Ladies, What Do You Like?

What do you like ladies??

  • a) a guy who is the "bad boy", tattoos, Harley, or thug, hard core dude?

    Votes: 1 4.8%
  • b) a guy who is the "good boy" who will settle down and have a family?

    Votes: 1 4.8%
  • c) a quiet guy and introverted guy?

    Votes: 4 19.0%
  • d) a loud boisterous outspoken guy?

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • e) all of the above or some combination of the above?

    Votes: 15 71.4%

  • Total voters
    21

blackstallion21

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LADIES... WHAT DO YOU LIKE?



PLEASE EXPLAIN YOUR ANSWER!

I want to know because I can't figure why I've been single for over two years, and I would like some answers so maybe I can change my ways of thinking and maybe land something here soon!

I don't think I'm forward enough or something... I can't figure this shit out!
 
LADIES... WHAT DO YOU LIKE?



PLEASE EXPLAIN YOUR ANSWER!

I want to know because I can't figure why I've been single for over two years, and I would like some answers so maybe I can change my ways of thinking and maybe land something here soon!

I don't think I'm forward enough or something... I can't figure this shit out!
Honesty plain and simple doesn't really need much explaining!
 
Honesty plain and simple doesn't really need much explaining!

I guess I'm dumb to your answer... there's no plain and simple to ANY GUY baby! I've been a guy for 26yrs of life and just like there's NO CATEGORY for plain and simple for a girl, there's none for a guy either!

Explain a little more plz...
 
Keeping things simple and and honest. No drama. If you're looking for a fuck buddy don't say you're looking for someone to spend the rest of your life with. Humor, courtesy and intelligence are nice too.
 
I guess I'm dumb to your answer... there's no plain and simple to ANY GUY baby! I've been a guy for 26yrs of life and just like there's NO CATEGORY for plain and simple for a girl, there's none for a guy either!

Explain a little more plz...
There's your explanation above :)
 
Over the course of my previous marriage I had to be the strong one. I was expected to give up my dreams to suit his desires, I was the one who had to make the difficult decisions, I had to deal w/ him telling me "that's not true" anytime I voiced my thoughts on how he impacted me.
I had to deal w/ his political rantings where he would bully me for not having the same narrow mind that he had. There were many instances where my former spouse was SO passive/cowardly that it disgusted me, and I lost all respect for him that I might have had.

Ultimately as a woman I want a man who's confident, strong, respectful, one who can challenge me, one who can form his own opinion, one who stands up for his beliefs w/o belittling mine, etc., I want a man to value my input, ideas, and value me as a woman.
 
Thank you all for your responses, it is very helpful information and I am going to use it in my search!
 
Versatility is so damn sexy. I love a Type A male with an attentive personality, passionate ways and is just absolutely funny. A guy with tattoos is just a bonus.
 
Into intelligent, thoughtful, observational, dorky, nerdy, bookish, on the introverted side. NOT into the outgoing types of men who feel the drive to run in packs, watch football endessly, drink beer, belch loudly and bitch about women to the guys.
 
Just be yourself no matter who that may be. Don't try to be anyone else or act any different than you normally would.......

Personally I like Good Guys that have bad boy skills.......:):):)
 
SOAKING ALL OF THIS UP LIKE A SPONGE...

And Hey Neak... Quit stealing my spotlight! lol
 
Bringing this back to life!!!

STILL NEED YOUR HELP!

I've seen in the past month what I'm lacking!

I'm TOO FUCKING NICE! I met this chick and decided to take her out with my 2 friends, we all got drunk and when this bitch started throwing up all over herself, I held her hair, held her hand after she puked, she laid on me... JUST TOTALLY FUCKING TOOK CARE OF HER, and then the next day, went back to see her, smoked some ganga with her, giving her shot guns mouth to mouth, and just being the all around sweet guy.
I didn't want to move too fast b/c she said she had gotten hurt in the past, and guess who's stuck in the fucking dirt now?

----->THIS GUY<------

I'll be DAMNED If I care anymore about the "I've Been Hurt" in the past! I'm going to start being a fucking asshole from now on, and hopefully it takes my "Non-existent Sex Life" to new levels!

Fuck being the nice guy!


Questions/ Comments/ Advice ALWAYS APPRECIATED!
 
a little of everything...the bad boy cause that obviously sounds yummy, but a guy that wants a family, but someone who is loud and fun so that he keeps me laughing
 
As a random stranger I offer this observation, perhaps its not your personality, but simply that you are attracted to bitches? Perhaps you pick out girls that will treat you badly or live a lifestyle in which that is the only type of girl that might be attracted to you?

Though based on the story you offered I'm more inclined to think you are just attracted to bitchy/asshole women.
 
no it's my personality. I'm naturally soft and kind hearted and it fucks me in the end because as I'm hitting on someone, I don't secure it and "piss on it's leg" and call it mine and I let other people walk all over me while fighting for the same thing that I'm trying to fuck and hit on!

I think I just need to grow a set of balls and do something other than pout about things!

(this is not someone who phished my acct, this is coming directly from the horses mouth! BS21)
 
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