Musings on what makes the best sex ever

[CatBrown]

I am starting this thread because I just can't NOT do it. I need to write about what I've experienced the last couple of months, and I thought others might feel the same way.

So, whether it is gushing on the merits of your current lover, reminiscing on one long past, or fantasizing about one not yet discovered, this is the place to write about YOUR best sex ever.

Whether just a few lines, or a novella, feel free to say it here.

Love to all, and I wish you, of course, the best sex ever!

brown

 

[CatBrown]

My best sex ever

So, I have been thinking a lot about sex lately. Well, I kind of always do that, but lately it's been specifically about what makes really good sex really good. After 26 years with a man who never really thought much about making sex good for me, I am with a man who is ALL about making sex great for me. Thus, I’m musing on the best sex ever.

I have come to a few conclusions, and would like to hear what others think. My husband, and honestly, most of my lovers before I was married, seemed to be all about their equipment. They were all pretty well endowed in one manner or another, and since I am one of the lucky ones who orgasms during intercourse pretty easily, they never seemed to think I needed much else. They figured they had what it took to satisfy a woman (and themselves) so no effort was required. I never really complained, because I did get off most of the time, but I would have liked a bit more attention, some more foreplay, maybe an attempt to give me multiples, but I got enough to get by. I didn't know what I was missing.

Now we cum to 5 days in June, and another 5 in July (oops, that would be "come.") I had high expectations around finally getting to touch the man I'd fallen in love with via electronic devices, but tried to put reasonable limits on my hopes of how it might turn out. All that was blown out of the water! This man knows how to tease, how to build, how to listen to every sound and notice every movement of my body and give me the most incredible experiences!

So some of you are thinking, "Big deal." That's where the musings come into play. You see, my lover is not any of the things our culture portrays as sexually exceptional. He breaks the stereotypes and makes me think differently about sex and satisfaction. At 64 (and 18 years my senior) he has had a prostatectomy and is unable to achieve an erection.(Sorry, Babe, TMI ) I worried that would be a problem. It's not! He listened to the things I said before we met, read the stories I've written, and learned new techniques just for me! He is, far-and-away, the best lover I have ever encountered! I have experienced more firsts with him in the 10 days we've been together than I experienced in the rest of my sexual life, from my first orally stimulated orgasm, to G-gasms (over and over,) to multiple clitoral orgasms that get stronger each time!

Back to musing. What is it that makes me tingle just thinking about my lover? Why does his touch immediately turn me on? How has my entire body become an erogenous zone? I think it has everything to do with our largest sex organ, our minds. He put his mind to pleasing me, to learning about me, and to loving me. I opened my mind to him completely, holding nothing back, and he did the same with me. We become one being in a way I’ve never experienced before.

So what are my personal conclusions on what makes for the best sex ever? I’ll boil it down. 1) Love: without love it is really just a bodily function tapping into only a small part of the brain. 2) Openness: if you can’t be completely open and honest, you’ll never get to that place of complete surrender to what your body can feel. 3) Total commitment to the other: If he didn’t want that for me, and work toward that, it would never happen.

That’s my take on the best sex ever. You may have a different one. Feel free to say whatever you like.

And Babe, I love you, and everything you do to me!

brown

 

[piccicatopolka]

Lucky you.

I'm not going to write that much but in my past I've had really fun, cosmic connected, joyous sex. Lots of booming orgasms and no play that created pain. Haven't had that in a while and miss it.

 

[HAL_9000]

Orgone energy?

Animal magnetism?

The Universal Sex Energy Field?

 

[blobfish]

I would say coconut body oil. It smells nice on girls when I'm doing them.

 

[clutch1]

I haven't had any musings or mused in a long while.
So fuck all of you that have!

 

[sweepthefloor]

You need a muse.

 

[killallhippies]

a couple percocets.

 

[sweepthefloor]

A fight.

 

[killallhippies]

small doses of amphetamines.

 

[sweepthefloor]

When he lies to my face as he slips his pencil dick inside me, saying: You are so tight.

 

[blobfish]

When he lies to my face as he slips his pencil dick inside me, saying: You are so tight.

I asked you not to post that here!

 

[sweepthefloor]

I don't believe you.

 

[blobfish]

I don't believe you.

I asked you to refer to my dicky as "Little Bear".

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

So, I have been thinking a lot about sex lately. Well, I kind of always do that, but lately it's been specifically about what makes really good sex really good. After 26 years with a man who never really thought much about making sex good for me, I am with a man who is ALL about making sex great for me. Thus, I’m musing on the best sex ever.

I have come to a few conclusions, and would like to hear what others think. My husband, and honestly, most of my lovers before I was married, seemed to be all about their equipment. They were all pretty well endowed in one manner or another, and since I am one of the lucky ones who orgasms during intercourse pretty easily, they never seemed to think I needed much else. They figured they had what it took to satisfy a woman (and themselves) so no effort was required. I never really complained, because I did get off most of the time, but I would have liked a bit more attention, some more foreplay, maybe an attempt to give me multiples, but I got enough to get by. I didn't know what I was missing.

Now we cum to 5 days in June, and another 5 in July (oops, that would be "come.") I had high expectations around finally getting to touch the man I'd fallen in love with via electronic devices, but tried to put reasonable limits on my hopes of how it might turn out. All that was blown out of the water! This man knows how to tease, how to build, how to listen to every sound and notice every movement of my body and give me the most incredible experiences!

So some of you are thinking, "Big deal." That's where the musings come into play. You see, my lover is not any of the things our culture portrays as sexually exceptional. He breaks the stereotypes and makes me think differently about sex and satisfaction. At 64 (and 18 years my senior) he has had a prostatectomy and is unable to achieve an erection.(Sorry, Babe, TMI ) I worried that would be a problem. It's not! He listened to the things I said before we met, read the stories I've written, and learned new techniques just for me! He is, far-and-away, the best lover I have ever encountered! I have experienced more firsts with him in the 10 days we've been together than I experienced in the rest of my sexual life, from my first orally stimulated orgasm, to G-gasms (over and over,) to multiple clitoral orgasms that get stronger each time!

Back to musing. What is it that makes me tingle just thinking about my lover? Why does his touch immediately turn me on? How has my entire body become an erogenous zone? I think it has everything to do with our largest sex organ, our minds. He put his mind to pleasing me, to learning about me, and to loving me. I opened my mind to him completely, holding nothing back, and he did the same with me. We become one being in a way I’ve never experienced before.

So what are my personal conclusions on what makes for the best sex ever? I’ll boil it down. 1) Love: without love it is really just a bodily function tapping into only a small part of the brain. 2) Openness: if you can’t be completely open and honest, you’ll never get to that place of complete surrender to what your body can feel. 3) Total commitment to the other: If he didn’t want that for me, and work toward that, it would never happen.

That’s my take on the best sex ever. You may have a different one. Feel free to say whatever you like.

And Babe, I love you, and everything you do to me!

brown

As soon as I read #2 I knew your post is total bullshit. Total openness is the kiss of death.

The secret to great sex is so-so sex not too often. Gotta give the genitals time to work up an appetite, and if theyre hungry enough beany-weenies are terrific.

 

[CatBrown]

As soon as I read #2 I knew your post is total bullshit. Total openness is the kiss of death.

The secret to great sex is so-so sex not too often. Gotta give the genitals time to work up an appetite, and if theyre hungry enough beany-weenies are terrific.

I'm so very sorry for you!

 

[blobfish]

I'm so very sorry for you!

If you really felt sorry for him, you'd post some nudie pics to brighten his day.

 

[piccicatopolka]

Orgone energy?

Animal magnetism?

The Universal Sex Energy Field?

Moi? Animal magnetism combined with the universal sex energy field is most delicious yes. I'm not into that Wilhelm Reich/Sigmund Freud orgone stuff.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

If you really felt sorry for him, you'd post some nudie pics to brighten his day.

I get the sexual obsession thing, I was once young and nutty, too. But I'm no longer young, and have a different appreciation of sex these days. Its no longer an obsession, and my penis no longer does all my thinking for me.

Most women look better with clothes on.

 

[blobfish]

I get the sexual obsession thing, I was once young and nutty, too. But I'm no longer young, and have a different appreciation of sex these days. Its no longer an obsession, and my penis no longer does all my thinking for me.

Most women look better with clothes on.

So you're saying you turned gay?

 

[stickwork]

.....

I would say coconut body oil. It smells nice on girls when I'm doing them.

...ha

 

[Wings]

Chloroform

 

[stickwork]

Chloroform

Better than ether?

 

[Bert Notorius]

tequila

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

So you're saying you turned gay?

Youre young, you cant yet understand. Its like being 11 and clueless about what possible use girls are.