is this considered bondage?

[crazychemgirl]

http://www.nuts.co.uk/images/gallery/2012/07/undies_sunday__nuts.co_.uk_29.jpg

 

[KinkedKitty]

That is indeed bondage.

 

[Stella_Omega]

That is a rope body harness which can be used as a basis for a more practical form of bondage. It can be a lot of fun to wear in of itself, but bondage is usually about being held in one place-- or sometimes, having something held in one place on you.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

It's definitely hot, whatever it is.

Bondage doesn't necessarily require sturdy restraints, or even physical ones.

 

[Stella_Omega]

It's definitely hot, whatever it is.

Bondage doesn't necessarily require sturdy restraints, or even physical ones.

Does bondage include unconstrained freedom of movement?

 

[cfuhrer]

Does bondage include unconstrained freedom of movement?

I would say no.

But DGE is right, it is smokin' hot, whatever it is.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I would say no.

But DGE is right, it is smokin' hot, whatever it is.

It's macrame lingery -- lingery is always hot

 

[6PERV]

That's basically a Shibari bondage harness or bondage corset. It's a form of ornamental rope bondage. You see this a lot in erotic Japanese bondage scenes.

 

[desertslave]

Does bondage include unconstrained freedom of movement?

It does when he puts you in a certain position and tells you "don't move!"

 

[crazychemgirl]

It does when he puts you in a certain position and tells you "don't move!"

but what if you move anyway?

 

[Stella_Omega]

but what if you move anyway?

Then the game stops, you get dressed and go home.

Look, if you're looking for roughhousing, you have to say so. If you don't want to play self control bondage, you say so before you get into naked fun. That way, I get to decide if that's the way I want to play.

That's the thing about BDSM. You have to be totally honest about what you want.

 

[crazychemgirl]

Then the game stops, you get dressed and go home.

Look, if you're looking for roughhousing, you have to say so. If you don't want to play self control bondage, you say so before you get into naked fun. That way, I get to decide if that's the way I want to play.

That's the thing about BDSM. You have to be totally honest about what you want.

good to know.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

Does bondage include unconstrained freedom of movement?

Yes! Witness addiction and PTSD.

 

[KoPilot]

Then the game stops, you get dressed and go home.

Look, if you're looking for roughhousing, you have to say so. If you don't want to play self control bondage, you say so before you get into naked fun. That way, I get to decide if that's the way I want to play.

That's the thing about BDSM. You have to be totally honest about what you want.

OR, you move anyway and the freedom for your partner to choose what to do with that is part of your dynamic. :B

/does this, loves it even when she gets the least favorable response

 

[Beck31]

Is This considered Bondage

So handcuffs, leather straps, and a dog harness are or are not bondage?
Sorry but I am a little confused. So if my Mistress straps me down to a sturdy
work bench or the bed its bondage? What about if/when she snaps a harness or leash on me and lets me amble around the room?

 

[Stella_Omega]

Sounds bondage-y to me, Beck.

 

[desertslave]

It does when he puts you in a certain position and tells you "don't move!"

If he tells me not to move, and I do, I'm very likely going to be punished in some devious way. Generally it could be some sort of denial, or some sort of pain I don't like (short list, but it exists). One way or another, his disapproval will be abundantly clear.

You'd have to ask him, but I think the general point is for me to be in control of myself which is really him in control by proxy. Depending on the circumstances, it can be damned difficult to obey. I think the conundrum amuses him.

 

[Netzach]

Sure it's bondage. It's decorative bondage. Slap a reverse prayer tie on her, and voila, non decorative bondage.

 

[Beck31]

Sure it's bondage. It's decorative bondage. Slap a reverse prayer tie on her, and voila, non decorative bondage.

Okay. Thanks.

 

[missgiter]

It's rope decoration... kinda bondage.. kinda not. It's up to you what you consider what - BDSM is all about what you want it to be.

Regardless of what it's considered, rope is fucking hot - rope marks? Hotter still...

I personally consider bondage to be a little bit more restricting. That looks more decorative to me ^_^

 

[Stella_Omega]

This is a reverse prayer tie;

 

[Shankara20]

It's macrame lingery -- lingery is always hot

WONDERFUL post!

 

[Shankara20]

It does when he puts you in a certain position and tells you "don't move!"

Sit! Stay!

but what if you move anyway?

Bad Puppy! (sounds of Shank reaching for rolled up newspaper)

 

[geekmaster24]

Yes I would consider that bondage. Especially if she had been out and about with that harness on under some clothes.

 

[mediocre]

This is a reverse prayer tie;

Hot.


And it looks a little uncomfortable. Also, kinda hot.