Experimentation?

[katherineotica]

I'm in university right now and I've experimented with women while I've been here. But I want to know if it's strange that I don't have any emotional desires for another woman. It's usually just sexual.
Does this mean something negative or am I just into girl on girl sex?
And has anyone else ever experimented like this in university?

 

[baby_girl13]

I am totally with you!

I love sexually pleasing a woman, but I don't want to deal with their emotions- I already have to deal with my own!

I had a couple of times that I "experimented" with other girls while at school

 

[katherineotica]

I am totally with you!

I love sexually pleasing a woman, but I don't want to deal with their emotions- I already have to deal with my own!

I had a couple of times that I "experimented" with other girls while at school

Thank goodness! I was afraid something was wrong with me lol.
I feel like the whole sexual aspect is perfect
Just I'm afraid that if I start being with one girl regularly feelings will develop

 

[haurni]

Why would you be afraid of that?

Certainly sexual relationships are easier to deal with in many respects, and I believe that some people who are 'slightly bi' are open enough with their sexuality to enjoy physical fun with a person of the same gender but are not interested an emotional relationship (whereas saying that you are 'afraid' of one implies, to me, that you might not want to acknowledge the possibility of you might have deeper feelings for someone of your own gender).

I consider myself 'heteroflexible', meaning that I prefer women but can also enjoy sex with men. I don't look at random men on the street the way I do at women. However, I acknowledge that I could have a close emotional relationship with a man (ie. a lover) in the right circumstances. I assume that the 'men who aren't bi/gay but love cock' (and probably the corresponding female equivalent) are just 'open enough' to appreciate variety without being interested in an emotional connection.

Which are you?

 

[ssshylady]

I feel exactly the same. Love the idea of sex with a woman but not a relationship.