Can a Man have sex with a Woman he isn't attracted to?

[AnjinsGal]

This may seem like a leading question, I know, but hear me out. I am not a man, so I do not understand how things work physiologically with regard to arousal. I heard a story on the radio that seemed to defy any logic I had on the issue. Any comments anyone who could shed some light on this will be greatly appreciated.

The man called in and described this situation: he is married but is having sex with a woman he met on a website. The woman is a BBW, and he is not very attracted to her. Yet, he thinks about her when she is not there and spends hours after having sex talking to her. He says he can't get passed her weight, but still continues to be intimate with her.

So, here is my question: how can a man who doesn't find someone physically attractive have sex with that person? To be more specific, how can a man even get an erection to do so?

Before you mention hookers and people who shoot porn, I have thought about that. Still, I don't understand the male motivation for doing something like this. In my experience, men usually don't have sex with women they aren't attracted to, especially BBW.

 

[Wok]

Yep, it is a dude.

 

[killallhippies]

some can, some can't. i can't. no idea why, but it don't work. other dudes aint got that problem. the end.

now fuck off.

 

[naughtycakes]

This may seem like a leading question, I know, but hear me out. I am not a man, so I do not understand how things work physiologically with regard to arousal. I heard a story on the radio that seemed to defy any logic I had on the issue. Any comments anyone who could shed some light on this will be greatly appreciated.

The man called in and described this situation: he is married but is having sex with a woman he met on a website. The woman is a BBW, and he is not very attracted to her. Yet, he thinks about her when she is not there and spends hours after having sex talking to her. He says he can't get passed her weight, but still continues to be intimate with her.

So, here is my question: how can a man who doesn't find someone physically attractive have sex with that person? To be more specific, how can a man even get an erection to do so?

Before you mention hookers and people who shoot porn, I have thought about that. Still, I don't understand the male motivation for doing something like this. In my experience, men usually don't have sex with women they aren't attracted to, especially BBW.

So Anjin's fucking a bbw?

 

[JohnnySavage]

This may seem like a leading question, I know, but hear me out. I am not a man, so I do not understand how things work physiologically with regard to arousal. I heard a story on the radio that seemed to defy any logic I had on the issue. Any comments anyone who could shed some light on this will be greatly appreciated.

The man called in and described this situation: he is married but is having sex with a woman he met on a website. The woman is a BBW, and he is not very attracted to her. Yet, he thinks about her when she is not there and spends hours after having sex talking to her. He says he can't get passed her weight, but still continues to be intimate with her.

So, here is my question: how can a man who doesn't find someone physically attractive have sex with that person? To be more specific, how can a man even get an erection to do so?

Before you mention hookers and people who shoot porn, I have thought about that. Still, I don't understand the male motivation for doing something like this. In my experience, men usually don't have sex with women they aren't attracted to, especially BBW.

What a stupid question.

 

[Wok]

So Anjin's fucking a bbw?

Not there is anything wrong with that.

 

[KRCummings]

Johnny has sex with Indie almost every day and he's not the least bit attracted to him. It's just what he has to do. Very sad but such is life.

 

[MonaLittle]

Johnny has sex with Indie almost every day and he's not the least bit attracted to him. It's just what he has to do. Very sad but such is life.

Does he use a paper bag?

 

[run_silent]

Does he get drunk first?

 

[naughtycakes]

Not there is anything wrong with that.

No, as long as he's not that attracted to her, it's ok.

 

[Wok]

Does he get drunk first?

http://andrewjrivers.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/beer-goggles.jpg

 

[Wok]

No, as long as he's not that attracted to her, it's ok.

I am fat and ugly. Let's test the theory.

 

[KRCummings]

Does he use a paper bag?

I don't think they face each other too often if you get my meaning.

 

[livin1971]

depends on how horny he is. I have done it when I was in a bad dry spell a few times.

 

[loquere]

It's called Viagra!

 

[MonaLittle]

I don't think they face each other too often if you get my meaning.

I meant for himself. No reason he has to look at Indie while doing him.

 

[naughtycakes]

I am fat and ugly. Let's test the theory.

Well, maybe for science...

 

[KRCummings]

I meant for himself. No reason he has to look at Indie while doing him.

Probably tough to get past the smell.

 

[Bert Notorius]

Makes the whole masturbation thing a huge puzzle.

 

[Johnny_Ray_Wilson]

This may seem like a leading question, I know, but hear me out. I am not a man, so I do not understand how things work physiologically with regard to arousal. I heard a story on the radio that seemed to defy any logic I had on the issue. Any comments anyone who could shed some light on this will be greatly appreciated.

The man called in and described this situation: he is married but is having sex with a woman he met on a website. The woman is a BBW, and he is not very attracted to her. Yet, he thinks about her when she is not there and spends hours after having sex talking to her. He says he can't get passed her weight, but still continues to be intimate with her.

So, here is my question: how can a man who doesn't find someone physically attractive have sex with that person? To be more specific, how can a man even get an erection to do so?

Before you mention hookers and people who shoot porn, I have thought about that. Still, I don't understand the male motivation for doing something like this. In my experience, men usually don't have sex with women they aren't attracted to, especially BBW.

Okay, I'll bite.

How can a woman not already know the answer to that? If the man is not physically attracted to the woman, how do you expect him to get a hard-on.? If the chemistry is not there for both of them, I do not see how they could click with each other physically.

This BBW could be intimate with him on other levels that do not involve physical contact, yet the physical thing just is not there for him.

 

[Johnny_Ray_Wilson]

Makes the whole masturbation thing a huge puzzle.

*Spews soda!*

 

[HB1965]

Okay, I'll bite.

How can a woman not already know the answer to that? If the man is not physically attracted to the woman, how do you expect him to get a hard-on.? If the chemistry is not there for both of them, I do not see how they could click with each other physically.

This BBW could be intimate with him on other levels that do not involve physical contact, yet the physical thing just is not there for him.

Or the idea that he's attracted to a Big woman bothers him in some superficial, my-friends-will-dump-me-if-they-knew-it-sorta way and he doesn't want to admit that he really is.

Trust me. If the physical thing wasn't there for him he wouldn't be still doing her.

 

[Johnny_Ray_Wilson]

Or the idea that he's attracted to a Big woman bothers him in some superficial, my-friends-will-dump-me-if-they-knew-it-sorta way and he doesn't want to admit that he really is.

Trust me. If the physical thing wasn't there for him he wouldn't be still doing her.

Alright. There is that too. When I were a younger man, the friend thing kind of effected me too.

And right again. We men do not move forward with a woman if the physical attraction is not there.

That being said, I have been attracted to women other men would not consider. I have also been turned off by some women considered 'hawt'.

 

[JohnnySavage]

Okay, I'll bite.

How can a woman not already know the answer to that? If the man is not physically attracted to the woman, how do you expect him to get a hard-on.? If the chemistry is not there for both of them, I do not see how they could click with each other physically.

This BBW could be intimate with him on other levels that do not involve physical contact, yet the physical thing just is not there for him.

Yea, because a rapist is always turned on by those hot young co-eds

Idiots don't understand basic physiology.

 

[IndieSnob]

Johnny has sex with Indie almost every day and he's not the least bit attracted to him. It's just what he has to do. Very sad but such is life.

Quoted for truth.

I can't stand to look at his ponytail either.