Ever have that moment when you thought "Wow, my Significant Other is cool with that"

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Ever have that moment when you thought "Wow, my Significant Other is cool with that"

Ever have that moment when you realized that your significant other was cool with a particular sex act, or fantasy, etc? So much so that you were taken aback?

In my case, it happened several years after we were married. We talked about gay stuff while we had sex... fantasized that there were was a guy giving me attention. So one day my wife came home with a 2 Gay pornos. I was shocked since I thought that was a big step to go into a video store and rent them... and it was great surprise.

I really did think I had a great wife that was so open.
 
My wife has known about my crossdressing for years now, and we enjoy regular sex with a strap on. The other day I was reading this thread and looked at her and said "would it turn you on to watch me suck a real cock?" At first she said she didnt know, but it wasn't just a little bit later she looked at me and said "yeah, I think it would turn me on a lot." Now shes on a quest to find me a cock to suck :D

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My female room mate caught be masturbating. We started to masturbate together both in our own beds. Few days later, first lesbian experience. :eek:
 
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details for this would sound very hot I am thinking!
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)My female room mate caught be masturbating. We started to masturbate together both in our own beds. Few days later, first lesbian experience
 
While talking about bi-sexuality once, I told my wife I had stroked with other guys at secluded nude beaches before we met.
 
Ever have that moment when you realized that your significant other was cool with a particular sex act, or fantasy, etc? So much so that you were taken aback?

In my case, it happened several years after we were married. We talked about gay stuff while we had sex... fantasized that there were was a guy giving me attention. So one day my wife came home with a 2 Gay pornos. I was shocked since I thought that was a big step to go into a video store and rent them... and it was great surprise.

I really did think I had a great wife that was so open.
The moment my fiancee held my ass cheeks apart for a guy to have easy access to insert his cock in my lubed asshole. I thought to myself, "I can't believe she's so cool with this!"
 
I have a "friend with benefits" who has been more than cool with anything and everything I came up with. She had never gotten into anal sex before, but I got her to try it, and she loved it. She says that while she'll mess around with another guy if she gets the chance, I'm the only one she's letting in her ass.

She had never been with a woman before, but was "curious." I ended up having my first MFF 3-way with her, and she loved it. I couldn't help but feel a little inadequate though. At the time, I had trouble getting her off at all, and this other girl gave her one orgasm after another, so many that we lost count. But I got over it. ;) We later experienced two other women together, and have our sights set on a few others who might be interested.

I eventually told her my other fantasy, which I've told very few people about -- being taken by a women with a strap-on. She was not only cool with it, but very interested. It's definitely on our to-do list. :)
 
Sorta my female best friend. We had a good summer of sex after years of just being friends. I was amazed with what she was cool with. Anal, Creampies and anal cream, loved cum baths from me. There isnt a day that goes by i dont thi k about fucking her again. Were now both in serious relationships so memories is all thats left. Mind new my gf can gush so i have no complaints.

An Exgf of mine i was eating her out and licked her ass she loved it, nothing crazy till she was licking my balls and asked me to spread a little more and gave me my first rim job which led to anal dildo fun. Been lucky i have.
 
Ever have that moment when you realized that your significant other was cool with a particular sex act, or fantasy, etc? So much so that you were taken aback?

In my case, it happened several years after we were married. We talked about gay stuff while we had sex... fantasized that there were was a guy giving me attention. So one day my wife came home with a 2 Gay pornos. I was shocked since I thought that was a big step to go into a video store and rent them... and it was great surprise.

I really did think I had a great wife that was so open.


I had two of those moments. The first was when I told my wife that not only did I like anal stimulation but that I wanted her to fuck my ass with a Strap-on... and she was happy to do so..

The second was when I admitted to my wife that I not only wanted to eat my own cum but that I wanted her feed to me/ask me to eat it out of her off of her after I would cum. When I told her that, she told me that she loved that I was willing to share my fantasy with her, and she was more than happy to have me bring her to another orgasm with my mouth after I have cum inside her...

I really am a very lucky man.
 
I guess the first would be when she let me cum on her face. She asked me to shoot it there and I was more than happy to do it. She didn't mind as she fingered herself to a big orgasm but I don't think she likes it all that much. I've done it a few times after that as well but only when she's asked for it.

Second would have to be introducing anal play. She said I could do her ass only if she could fuck mine too. She didn't really like it...dick to big, for her anyway. But she still likes to play with my hole and uses dildos and plugs on me regularly...love it when she's pumping me when I sit on her jerking off. Never fails to coax a big load out of my cock.
 
While talking about bi-sexuality once, I told my wife I had stroked with other guys at secluded nude beaches before we met.

Florida, you naughty boy you. Have you considered going back to one of those beaches, with her this time, and let her get a group of guys off? There's a video of a gal at one of the other sites doing this. Hot!
 
Ever have that moment when you realized that your significant other was cool with a particular sex act, or fantasy, etc? So much so that you were taken aback?.

It sounds insignificant now, but many years ago when I was still a very young naive man, I was a bit surprised the first time a girl ever told me that she wanted me to cum in her mouth.....that she liked it. At that point in my life, I thought only whores and porn stars actually let guys do that. Yes, my parents did a job on me growing up. Some years after that, I was just about as surprised when a woman came right out and told me she wanted me to fuck her in the ass. I've learned a lot about the world in the past 45-50 years or so since I first experienced the wonderful world hidden between a woman's legs.
 
I just wanted to give a bump to this thread. There were some really hot responses and I was hoping to read more.
 
I guess for me it was when my "friend" wanted me to be with someone else and then wanted to hear all about it.
 
I come off as a lot more prudish than I really am around my wife a lot of times. I'm sure if she knew everything i was really into, she'd leave.

Then again, I still can't believe she lets me choke her - lemme rephrase that - encourages me to choke her.
 
I come off as a lot more prudish than I really am around my wife a lot of times. I'm sure if she knew everything i was really into, she'd leave.

Then again, I still can't believe she lets me choke her - lemme rephrase that - encourages me to choke her.

Wow, so it sounds like maybe she's probably got a little bit of the "Wow, my Significant Other is cool with that" too in regards to you! :)

As for her not knowing everything, I guess she'll only know what you're willing to share.
 
Yes, and it was wonderful on a lot of different levels about a lot of different things.

Until of course, she changed her mind, didn't say anything and then used that to justify some pretty awful behavior on her own part.

Kind of a funny side note on the situation; new guy works really really hard at trying to look like a badass. the guy gets out of breath just talking. From the limited conversations I've had with him where he thought that he would have a giggle and somehow shame me about things that I have absolutely no reason to be ashamed of, it's pretty clear that he's completely vanilla and not all going to be cool with anything but 1 position sex.
 
The first time my wife let me put my finger in her ass, the first time she let me pull her hair, or choke her...:D
 
I surprised my husband

I am the one that surprised my husband. On his birthday this year we were having sex and he told me he wanted to see another man have sex with me. He was very surprised to learn that this turned me on immediately and I of course agreed. Soon after we found a couple of guys to come over on a regular basis and we have been enjoying mmf 3somes since.
 
I am the one that surprised my husband. On his birthday this year we were having sex and he told me he wanted to see another man have sex with me. He was very surprised to learn that this turned me on immediately and I of course agreed. Soon after we found a couple of guys to come over on a regular basis and we have been enjoying mmf 3somes since.
How did you pick the [very lucky] guys?
 
I would have to say that a WOW moment for me was when I told my wife that I would like both of us to wear pantyhose. She didnt even bat an eye hearing that I wanted to wear some. She said she even like feeling my legs in them. I think she is starting to like it even more & asks me when Im going to put them on again. We even bought me several pairs of hose & tights together. That was pretty amazing. We have also been talking about adding more toys for both of us to use on eachother.
 
Ever have that moment when you realized that your significant other was cool with a particular sex act, or fantasy, etc? So much so that you were taken aback?

In my case, it happened several years after we were married. We talked about gay stuff while we had sex... fantasized that there were was a guy giving me attention. So one day my wife came home with a 2 Gay pornos. I was shocked since I thought that was a big step to go into a video store and rent them... and it was great surprise.

I really did think I had a great wife that was so open.

That is awesome of her.
Mine is ok with my new GF. Very very happy about this, and I love her so much more for it.
 
When she told me I could do her ass I thought, "Well, she's just doing this to humor me but I'll take it." After her second or third orgasm I thought, "Holy Shit she REALLY LIKES IT!"

That was an awesome moment. I think of it often and it still makes me smile.
 
I guess our philosophy is "If you don't ask, you'll never have the possibility of getting"... my SO and I are pretty open-minded, neither of us is easily shocked. There are things that are off the table, that I absolutely wouldn't do, other things I might not be all that in to but would do for the sake of his pleasure. And there are things I didn't think I was in to a few years ago, but now have me thinking, Hmmmm, that might be hot! I think I startled him when I brought up the idea of going to a swinger's club a few years back- shoe was on the other foot!
 
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