Please talk me out of killing my ex-wife

[I_AM_FUBAR]

Same old story. Ugly divorce. She one day just up and said she did not love me anymore. I did nothing wrong. These things happen I guess. We been divorced for over ten years and have a child who is 14 years old. I only get her every other weekend and certain holidays. The ex constantly fucks with my custody. Her parents are mega rich and if I say anything they drown me in legal bills.

I have not seen my daughter in 2 months due to whatever reason they concocted. The 28th was her birthday. I am supposed to have her on Memorial Day and have a party ready for her. They left a message that she at to much candy and has a belly ache so I can't pick her up. Fucking assholes are throwing a lame excuse my way like our daughter is a toddler.

Right now I am stewing. I am getting angrier and angrier. Almost beyond my ability to reason. I called and left a message that I will be up to her grandmother house, where we do the exchange, to pick her up. If she is not there I will call the police to make a report and contact the court house Tuesday.

I am afraid if I go up there and she is not there I will have a melt down. I am a physically strong man and very capable of extreme violence thanks to good old Uncle Sam. I am afraid of what I may do. I am taking family members with me as witnesses so they cannot wrongfully accuse me of anything and hopefully keep me sane.

I am at my wits end. I know the GB will beat me up but I have nowhere else to turn. I am honestly afraid I may kill somebody. I have been pushed around to far for to long.

 

[Saint Peter]

Post some naked pictures of her!


I know that always makes me feel better.

 

[KingOrfeo]

If you kill her, what happens then? To you? To your child? Think before you act.

 

[bra_man69]

Same old story. Ugly divorce. She one day just up and said she did not love me anymore. I did nothing wrong. These things happen I guess. We been divorced for over ten years and have a child who is 14 years old. I only get her every other weekend and certain holidays. The ex constantly fucks with my custody. Her parents are mega rich and if I say anything they drown me in legal bills.

I have not seen my daughter in 2 months due to whatever reason they concocted. The 28th was her birthday. I am supposed to have her on Memorial Day and have a party ready for her. They left a message that she at to much candy and has a belly ache so I can't pick her up. Fucking assholes are throwing a lame excuse my way like our daughter is a toddler.

Right now I am stewing. I am getting angrier and angrier. Almost beyond my ability to reason. I called and left a message that I will be up to her grandmother house, where we do the exchange, to pick her up. If she is not there I will call the police to make a report and contact the court house Tuesday.

I am afraid if I go up there and she is not there I will have a melt down. I am a physically strong man and very capable of extreme violence thanks to good old Uncle Sam. I am afraid of what I may do. I am taking family members with me as witnesses so they cannot wrongfully accuse me of anything and hopefully keep me sane.

I am at my wits end. I know the GB will beat me up but I have nowhere else to turn. I am honestly afraid I may kill somebody. I have been pushed around to far for to long.

Do you feel like a victim of a failed life

 

[Sinny]

Same old story. Ugly divorce. She one day just up and said she did not love me anymore. I did nothing wrong. These things happen I guess. We been divorced for over ten years and have a child who is 14 years old. I only get her every other weekend and certain holidays. The ex constantly fucks with my custody. Her parents are mega rich and if I say anything they drown me in legal bills.

I have not seen my daughter in 2 months due to whatever reason they concocted. The 28th was her birthday. I am supposed to have her on Memorial Day and have a party ready for her. They left a message that she at to much candy and has a belly ache so I can't pick her up. Fucking assholes are throwing a lame excuse my way like our daughter is a toddler.

Right now I am stewing. I am getting angrier and angrier. Almost beyond my ability to reason. I called and left a message that I will be up to her grandmother house, where we do the exchange, to pick her up. If she is not there I will call the police to make a report and contact the court house Tuesday.

I am afraid if I go up there and she is not there I will have a melt down. I am a physically strong man and very capable of extreme violence thanks to good old Uncle Sam. I am afraid of what I may do. I am taking family members with me as witnesses so they cannot wrongfully accuse me of anything and hopefully keep me sane.

I am at my wits end. I know the GB will beat me up but I have nowhere else to turn. I am honestly afraid I may kill somebody. I have been pushed around to far for to long.

Does your daughter have a cell phone? Can you go around the mother?

 

[Noor]

I have a friend who deals with this, call the police every time she doesn't give you your child. Carry a copy of the custody agreement with you. You are capable of taking care of a sick child so it doesn't matter if she has a tummy ache. Make sure you have a bucket in the car just in case.

Usually the threat to call the police is enough.

 

[RoryN]

If you kill her, people will think she was right. About everything.

 

[Noor]

If you kill her, people will think she was right. About everything.

and you really won't see your child.

 

[Ishmael]

Same old story. Ugly divorce. She one day just up and said she did not love me anymore. I did nothing wrong. These things happen I guess. We been divorced for over ten years and have a child who is 14 years old. I only get her every other weekend and certain holidays. The ex constantly fucks with my custody. Her parents are mega rich and if I say anything they drown me in legal bills.

I have not seen my daughter in 2 months due to whatever reason they concocted. The 28th was her birthday. I am supposed to have her on Memorial Day and have a party ready for her. They left a message that she at to much candy and has a belly ache so I can't pick her up. Fucking assholes are throwing a lame excuse my way like our daughter is a toddler.

Right now I am stewing. I am getting angrier and angrier. Almost beyond my ability to reason. I called and left a message that I will be up to her grandmother house, where we do the exchange, to pick her up. If she is not there I will call the police to make a report and contact the court house Tuesday.

I am afraid if I go up there and she is not there I will have a melt down. I am a physically strong man and very capable of extreme violence thanks to good old Uncle Sam. I am afraid of what I may do. I am taking family members with me as witnesses so they cannot wrongfully accuse me of anything and hopefully keep me sane.

I am at my wits end. I know the GB will beat me up but I have nowhere else to turn. I am honestly afraid I may kill somebody. I have been pushed around to far for to long.

Kill the bitch, plea insanity.

Ishmael

 

[warrior queen]

I have a bastardex who plays mind games constantly.
He's been doing it for many years.
I have been tempted to just drive my car into his living room.... many times.
In the end though, I have taken the better road, and ended up with all our kids living with me, and the kids have come to see him for exactly what he is.
Sad, but kids always end up knowing the truth.

Hang in there. Use the system to reinforce your rights where you can, and make sure you document everything and have witnesses to her behaviour.
Your kids are the ones who will get hurt if you do anything else.

 

[1fromawoodpile]

I know the GB will beat me up but I have nowhere else to turn. I am honestly afraid I may kill somebody. I have been pushed around to far for to long.

This is your first post and you know the GB will beat you up.

Mike's getting creative.

 

[December]

I'd like to know what GB regular you really are, but whatever.

Isn't it age 12 or 14 when the child can legally choose which parent to live with if they have 50/50 custody? I would seriously look in to that. Would she want to live with you? You ought to ask her, cause I am pretty sure she is already at the right age to legally decide for herself.

 

[bra_man69]

The sorry fuck trying to be a victim it has a life of one failure after another

 

[ldlarry52]

Don't

If you love your daughter you will not harm her mother. Killing your ex-wife will destroy your daughter emotionally. No matter your pain and frustration if you love your daughter don't do anything that will bring pain to her.

 

[ChinaBandit]

The best revenge is to live well!

 

[fair_warning]

If you think it will make you happy and you don't give a shit about the affect it will have on anyone else then go for it.

But if you have any feelings for your daughter or her future life then maybe go get some professional help.

 

[sereneone4u]

I have a friend who deals with this, call the police every time she doesn't give you your child. Carry a copy of the custody agreement with you. You are capable of taking care of a sick child so it doesn't matter if she has a tummy ache. Make sure you have a bucket in the car just in case.

Usually the threat to call the police is enough.

This.

Document, document, document.

Keep trying, never give up in attempting to have a relationship with your daughter.

One day she will be grown and will hate them for what they did.

Looking at what you can't do is only going to infuriate you more. Look at what you can do and do it.

It is a fucking sucky ass situation, no doubt about it. I hate it when an ex-spouse hates you more than they love their child.

And same goes for you, love your child more than you hate your ex. Think of what killing your ex would do to your child and you being in prison for it?

Focus on your child and your love for her and act accordingly.

Best of luck to you.

 

[JuanVato]

oh so true

The best revenge is to live well!

No kidding.
Sane, well adjusted people piss off the miserable psychos.

Carry the order with you though since that is what the police will follow.

 

[Cheyenne]

Same old story. Ugly divorce. She one day just up and said she did not love me anymore. I did nothing wrong. These things happen I guess. We been divorced for over ten years and have a child who is 14 years old. I only get her every other weekend and certain holidays. The ex constantly fucks with my custody. Her parents are mega rich and if I say anything they drown me in legal bills.

I have not seen my daughter in 2 months due to whatever reason they concocted. The 28th was her birthday. I am supposed to have her on Memorial Day and have a party ready for her. They left a message that she at to much candy and has a belly ache so I can't pick her up. Fucking assholes are throwing a lame excuse my way like our daughter is a toddler.

Right now I am stewing. I am getting angrier and angrier. Almost beyond my ability to reason. I called and left a message that I will be up to her grandmother house, where we do the exchange, to pick her up. If she is not there I will call the police to make a report and contact the court house Tuesday.

I am afraid if I go up there and she is not there I will have a melt down. I am a physically strong man and very capable of extreme violence thanks to good old Uncle Sam. I am afraid of what I may do. I am taking family members with me as witnesses so they cannot wrongfully accuse me of anything and hopefully keep me sane.

I am at my wits end. I know the GB will beat me up but I have nowhere else to turn. I am honestly afraid I may kill somebody. I have been pushed around to far for to long.

Any chance your daughter doesn't WANT to see you and is having her mom give excuses for her to avoid having to spend time with you?

 

[Saint Peter]

Any chance your daughter doesn't WANT to see you and is having her mom give excuses for her to avoid having to spend time with you?

Visitation is visitation, if the child wants to go or not.

 

[HoHoBomb]

Have a kid with someone else.

 

[Saint Peter]

10k!

Woot!!

 

[Cheyenne]

Visitation is visitation, if the child wants to go or not.

But he could be blaming the ex when it is his own fault that his kid wants nothing to do with him.

 

[Saint Peter]

But he could be blaming the ex when it is his own fault that his kid wants nothing to do with him.

I understand what you said.

The court may or may not care how the child feels about the visitation.

 

[BoyNextDoor]

Any chance your daughter doesn't WANT to see you and is having her mom give excuses for her to avoid having to spend time with you?

What a douchebag thing to say