Parawhore23
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Hi Im Demi. I am very curious and interested in this type of lifestyle. I have no experience or anything but I do believe I'm a submissive girl.
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CutieMouse
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Why do you believe you ID as submissive?
Sir_Winston54
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Have you recently read "Fifty Shades of Grey?"
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LOL, I was going to ask the same thing.
Of course, there's nothing wrong with reading that story, if it stirs a little interest in BDSM in people.
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When you think of submission-- what do you imagine yourself doing? What is your Dominant doing?
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If i buy these books will they be like a comedy trilogy to me?
Sir_Winston54
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Oh, yeah.
Kajira Callista
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bla everyone at work was talking about them... i was hopeful *sigh*
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Why not a switch or even a Domme? What about BDSM gets you excited?
Parawhore23
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Sorry sorry I'm so slow hahha 
I just like the lifestyle. I like having a dom that can care for me and love me but also be stern and demanding.
I just like the lifestyle. I like having a dom that can care for me and love me but also be stern and demanding.Parawhore23
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The whole I have a master he is in control do whatever he says gets me excited
Parawhore23
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No I hvent read the books yet but soon I hope too
Sorry sorry I'm so slow hahha
-I arch my eyebrow and purse my lips together.- Hmm... Any luck having your curiosity peak/questions answered? When you say the lifestyle, what do you mean? What do you include in that? -I stroke my chin.- These... Thoughts, they hopefully do not offend you?
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They actually work really well as comedy. Read them aloud to some like-minded fellows, and go all Mystery Science Theater on them. Or play the drinking game!
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They actually work really well as comedy. Read them aloud to some like-minded fellows, and go all Mystery Science Theater on them. Or play the drinking game!
This!
Is the best idea yet for these infernal books.
paisleyavenger
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Okay, so I've heard of the books, but didn't know much about them.
Google turned up a video of Gilbert Gottfreid reading selected passages. Thats all I needto know!
And, good luck OP!
Google turned up a video of Gilbert Gottfreid reading selected passages. Thats all I needto know!
And, good luck OP!
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My suggestion for anyone interested in the lifestyle is look for your local community. Go to a Munch hang out with the people. Then try out your first party when ready. The online life and many books are different than what is out there. It also seems to be different depending on where you live. If you would like to try and find your local community I would suggest. "Fet life". Put the word together that is in the quotes and add a .com on the end.
Good luck and I hope you find what you are looking for.
Why is it that so many people instead of being helpful try to be judgmental these days. I am just a wee bit disappointing in what I am seeing lately.
Good luck and I hope you find what you are looking for.
Why is it that so many people instead of being helpful try to be judgmental these days. I am just a wee bit disappointing in what I am seeing lately.
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Stella_Omega
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Okay, you have two different desires there-- one desire for a loving caring man, and one for a certain sexual style-- and it might take a while to find one man that can do both things.Sorry sorry I'm so slow hahha
Please, take care of yourself as you begin to explore this with other people. Remember that for many people, BDSM is about sex. You will have to learn to be very clear in what you want, even as a sub-- to yourself as well as to other people while you are searching. Someone who says that they are a Dom might not actually be one, or might have a style that is completely wrong for you. A lot of women have spent a lot of time recovering from the abuse they've suffered-- and not always by an abusive man-- because they couldn't make the distinction between "Dom" and "Dom that is right for me."
Would this be in the bedroom? What about in the rest of your daily life?
If he wanted to whip you, would that be okay with you?
How about if he wanted you to hand your car keys over to him? Or sign your car away to him? (admittedly, I've rarely heard of this kind of thing, but it can happen)
The answers to questions like these define your boundaries. Even though you want to be submissive, you must know where your submission starts and stops. I repeat: YOU need to know.
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